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"Wouldent you just love to openly speak your mind on here just one time, i know its not allowed....but wouldent you ? I do at times and then get myself banned lol.. so I now remember to hold my tongue Cali " me too lol | |||
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"Wouldent you just love to openly speak your mind on here just one time, i know its not allowed....but wouldent you ?" No thats what PM is for. Everyone has like minded private online mates that they further expand debates with. People would only look at the negative and/or derogatory remarks and remember those forever so it could never go back to normal after the amnesty of 'just once' I believe. Some might fancy the idea I don't see what purpose it would serve. | |||
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"I do speak my mind on here and it is allowed as speaking your mind doesn't have to break the rules " yeah but i have the subltey of a housebrick | |||
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"I do speak my mind on here and it is allowed as speaking your mind doesn't have to break the rules " then you are very fortunate.. | |||
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"I do speak my mind on here and it is allowed as speaking your mind doesn't have to break the rules then you are very fortunate.." Not fortunate, I just don't see why you would have to be nasty to someone else to get your point across | |||
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"I do speak my mind on here and it is allowed as speaking your mind doesn't have to break the rules " No you don't, but I get the essence of what Suzy is saying. Most people who contribute to forums have done so for many years and know what its like if a forum is anything goes. People curb their language and passion sometimes on this forum when they would have liked to have let off steam I'm sure but I think this usually does them an injustice in the end. So I guess we are protected from ourselves with certain rules. Now a question and answer session with admin would be brilliant... | |||
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"Would like to tell some people exactly what I think of them" me too by god lol .. | |||
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"I do speak my mind on here and it is allowed as speaking your mind doesn't have to break the rules No you don't, but I get the essence of what Suzy is saying. Most people who contribute to forums have done so for many years and know what its like if a forum is anything goes. People curb their language and passion sometimes on this forum when they would have liked to have let off steam I'm sure but I think this usually does them an injustice in the end. So I guess we are protected from ourselves with certain rules. Now a question and answer session with admin would be brilliant..." +1 | |||
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"Would like to tell some people exactly what I think of them me too by god lol .." Then why don't you? Within the rules of course. If someone chewed me up to the point that I wanted to give them a piece of my mind I would leave the site - you can't control other people. | |||
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"Would like to tell some people exactly what I think of them me too by god lol .. Then why don't you? Within the rules of course. If someone chewed me up to the point that I wanted to give them a piece of my mind I would leave the site - you can't control other people. " Chewing in another way | |||
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"Would like to tell some people exactly what I think of them me too by god lol .. Then why don't you? Within the rules of course. If someone chewed me up to the point that I wanted to give them a piece of my mind I would leave the site - you can't control other people. " i love the site and use it for my benefits..so wouldent want to get banned just wish it was a little more liberal in the forums...thats all.. | |||
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"Would like to tell some people exactly what I think of them me too by god lol .. Then why don't you? Within the rules of course. If someone chewed me up to the point that I wanted to give them a piece of my mind I would leave the site - you can't control other people. i love the site and use it for my benefits..so wouldent want to get banned just wish it was a little more liberal in the forums...thats all.." Well there you go you don't really want to tell people what you think of them as you realise it would be hurtful. You would just like to be more challenging of their opinions? Am I right? | |||
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"Would like to tell some people exactly what I think of them me too by god lol .. Then why don't you? Within the rules of course. If someone chewed me up to the point that I wanted to give them a piece of my mind I would leave the site - you can't control other peop i love the site and use it for my benefits..so wouldent want to get banned just wish it was a little more liberal in the forums...thats all.. Well there you go you don't really want to tell people what you think of them as you realise it would be hurtful. You would just like to be more challenging of their opinions? Am I right?" not hurtful no...but freedom of speech and what you would really like to say.. | |||
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"Would like to tell some people exactly what I think of them me too by god lol .. Then why don't you? Within the rules of course. If someone chewed me up to the point that I wanted to give them a piece of my mind I would leave the site - you can't control other peop i love the site and use it for my benefits..so wouldent want to get banned just wish it was a little more liberal in the forums...thats all.. Well there you go you don't really want to tell people what you think of them as you realise it would be hurtful. You would just like to be more challenging of their opinions? Am I right? not hurtful no...but freedom of speech and what you would really like to say.." Then you've lost me Suzy because I think you can say anything within the rules, without getting personal and theres a list of censored subjects. I know it gets up a lot of peoples noses but my fave saying is argue the point not the person. You put very good points over. | |||
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"Would like to tell some people exactly what I think of them me too by god lol .. Then why don't you? Within the rules of course. If someone chewed me up to the point that I wanted to give them a piece of my mind I would leave the site - you can't control other peop i love the site and use it for my benefits..so wouldent want to get banned just wish it was a little more liberal in the forums...thats all.. Well there you go you don't really want to tell people what you think of them as you realise it would be hurtful. You would just like to be more challenging of their opinions? Am I right? not hurtful no...but freedom of speech and what you would really like to say.. Then you've lost me Suzy because I think you can say anything within the rules, without getting personal and theres a list of censored subjects. I know it gets up a lot of peoples noses but my fave saying is argue the point not the person. You put very good points over." im really trying to..thankyou .. | |||
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"I feel I do speak my mind on here and I feel happy with the opinions Ive given. Thats all I really want to do. I have no wish to want to insult someone. What purpose would telling people on here what you think of them serve? Those people wouldnt care what you said or what you thought of them. They are strangers, they dont affect your life or have any impact on it. So it doesnt really matter. " not talking about insulting people...just being able to give your true opinion without offence...and without being banned...thats all.. | |||
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"without getting banned for your opinion..and not in an offensive way ...just diplomacy .." Then offer your opinions Suzy. If its not in an offensive way, no-one can ban you. Speak your mind and offer your thoughts, not everyone will agree with you, they will challenge you, but then you offer your explanation back. | |||
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"Telling keyboard warriors what I think of them in the forums, in chat or any other electronic medium... a tad gutless. Face to Face however... a little less primary school." why is it gutless ive had to take abuse on here...and then for replying back to defend myself and i may add not rudely...have been banned? | |||
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"Telling keyboard warriors what I think of them in the forums, in chat or any other electronic medium... a tad gutless. Face to Face however... a little less primary school. why is it gutless ive had to take abuse on here...and then for replying back to defend myself and i may add not rudely...have been banned?" so you have only ever reacted to someone.... | |||
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"Telling keyboard warriors what I think of them in the forums, in chat or any other electronic medium... a tad gutless. Face to Face however... a little less primary school. why is it gutless ive had to take abuse on here...and then for replying back to defend myself and i may add not rudely...have been banned? so you have only ever reacted to someone.... " of course....i have a right to defend myself...dont i ? | |||
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"Telling keyboard warriors what I think of them in the forums, in chat or any other electronic medium... a tad gutless. Face to Face however... a little less primary school. why is it gutless ive had to take abuse on here...and then for replying back to defend myself and i may add not rudely...have been banned? so you have only ever reacted to someone.... of course....i have a right to defend myself...dont i ?" are you saying it is always down to others and you have only ever defended yourself, a right of course ..you have. | |||
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"Telling keyboard warriors what I think of them in the forums, in chat or any other electronic medium... a tad gutless. Face to Face however... a little less primary school. why is it gutless ive had to take abuse on here...and then for replying back to defend myself and i may add not rudely...have been banned? so you have only ever reacted to someone.... of course....i have a right to defend myself...dont i ? are you saying it is always down to others and you have only ever defended yourself, a right of course ..you have. " no im not... | |||
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"Telling keyboard warriors what I think of them in the forums, in chat or any other electronic medium... a tad gutless. Face to Face however... a little less primary school. why is it gutless ive had to take abuse on here...and then for replying back to defend myself and i may add not rudely...have been banned? so you have only ever reacted to someone.... of course....i have a right to defend myself...dont i ? are you saying it is always down to others and you have only ever defended yourself, a right of course ..you have. you chose to block me for whatever reason you had...i had not contacted you have never chatted with you..i accept yr decision...so why reply to me in the forums ???? " | |||
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"Telling keyboard warriors what I think of them in the forums, in chat or any other electronic medium... a tad gutless. Face to Face however... a little less primary school. why is it gutless ive had to take abuse on here...and then for replying back to defend myself and i may add not rudely...have been banned? so you have only ever reacted to someone.... of course....i have a right to defend myself...dont i ? are you saying it is always down to others and you have only ever defended yourself, a right of course ..you have. you chose to block me for whatever reason you had...i had not contacted you have never chatted with you..i accept yr decision...so why reply to me in the forums ???? " Because he can? Anyone is entitled to express theri opinion within the rules, As for being banned ,i just try to remember now not everyone is as sarcastic as Geordies | |||
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"suzy you've blocked all females.. i guess that was your choice just like _iew has expressed his " yes i did sassy ..simply because im not bi.and never will be,as states on my profile .. | |||
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" As for being banned ,i just try to remember now not everyone is as sarcastic as Geordies " Howwah man Jem stop giving the game away Im sure you meant canny. | |||
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"Would like to tell some people exactly what I think of them me too by god lol .. Then why don't you? Within the rules of course. If someone chewed me up to the point that I wanted to give them a piece of my mind I would leave the site - you can't control other people. i love the site and use it for my benefits..so wouldent want to get banned just wish it was a little more liberal in the forums...thats all.." Why not just tell them objectively then? | |||
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"Wouldent you just love to openly speak your mind on here just one time, i know its not allowed...?" It is, as long as it is within rules. | |||
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"ok once again ...hold the white flag up..why not..if it gives you all what you want.." Now I could be wrong... but this is probably a fairly good example of why you get some of the reactions you have had in the past. Just an observation, but quite often when a subject doesn't go your way, you appear to ignore the fact some people might have agreed with you and start to reply only focusing on the people who disagree with you. Some comments give the impression you are sulking rather than debating. Of course this is just my perspective of what I read. | |||
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"ok once again ...hold the white flag up..why not..if it gives you all what you want.." Leave me out of it Suzy I don't want that. She said speaking her mind. | |||
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"Nope not really cause I just use em ta relax And piss about I try to avoid the serious but it's not always possible But fa the main part it's just fun xx" me as well, its very rarely i post on a serious thread and try not to come on to forums when d*unk (its not a nice sight) | |||
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"PS just to clarify. If someone has you blocked by mail or vice versa, you can still answer their threads or posts.You can ignore obviously if you wish. The rule about getting round blocks is more if someone starts a thread saying " bigfluffywitch ( not a real name hopefully ) please mail me" or asking someone to unblock you while chatting on the forums." Oi why you picking on my mate bigfluffy ?? | |||
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"PS just to clarify. If someone has you blocked by mail or vice versa, you can still answer their threads or posts.You can ignore obviously if you wish. The rule about getting round blocks is more if someone starts a thread saying " bigfluffywitch ( not a real name hopefully ) please mail me" or asking someone to unblock you while chatting on the forums." Phew, that was close, I nearly asked for someone to message me as I was blocked by them, along with all other single males They had posted a thread I wanted to comment on, bur decided not to do so openly. anyway, begger em, they'll never know my secret now, muhahaha | |||
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" Phew, that was close, I nearly asked for someone to message me as I was blocked by them, along with all other single males They had posted a thread I wanted to comment on, bur decided not to do so openly. anyway, begger em, they'll never know my secret now, muhahaha" What your third nipple? Everyone knows about that.... | |||
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"PS just to clarify. If someone has you blocked by mail or vice versa, you can still answer their threads or posts.You can ignore obviously if you wish. The rule about getting round blocks is more if someone starts a thread saying " bigfluffywitch ( not a real name hopefully ) please mail me" or asking someone to unblock you while chatting on the forums. Phew, that was close, I nearly asked for someone to message me as I was blocked by them, along with all other single males They had posted a thread I wanted to comment on, bur decided not to do so openly. anyway, begger em, they'll never know my secret now, muhahaha" We all already know about the itchy bits Shag, I am sure the cream will work | |||
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"Wouldent you just love to openly speak your mind on here just one time, i know its not allowed....but wouldent you ?" | |||
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" As for being banned ,i just try to remember now not everyone is as sarcastic as Geordies Howwah man Jem stop giving the game away Im sure you meant canny." Oh, bugger i forgot we seem to have conned the rest of the nation into believing we are lovable rogues (dont worry Jerch, this message will self destruct in 6 seconds) | |||
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"bigfluffywitch ( not a real name hopefully )" That's what I used to call me 'bits' before I used a bic or two on it | |||
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"Nope not really cause I just use em ta relax And piss about I try to avoid the serious but it's not always possible But fa the main part it's just fun xx me as well, its very rarely i post on a serious thread and try not to come on to forums when d*unk (its not a nice sight) " I hope your not implying im intoxicated,because i can assure you im not .. | |||
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"Nope not really cause I just use em ta relax And piss about I try to avoid the serious but it's not always possible But fa the main part it's just fun xx me as well, its very rarely i post on a serious thread and try not to come on to forums when d*unk (its not a nice sight) I hope your not implying im intoxicated,because i can assure you im not .." People who write on the forums, are far to sensible to get d*unk. | |||
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"Nope not really cause I just use em ta relax And piss about I try to avoid the serious but it's not always possible But fa the main part it's just fun xx me as well, its very rarely i post on a serious thread and try not to come on to forums when d*unk (its not a nice sight) I hope your not implying im intoxicated,because i can assure you im not .." Just oversensitive- she was saying what She does, not a reflection on you. | |||
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"Nope not really cause I just use em ta relax And piss about I try to avoid the serious but it's not always possible But fa the main part it's just fun xx me as well, its very rarely i post on a serious thread and try not to come on to forums when d*unk (its not a nice sight) I hope your not implying im intoxicated,because i can assure you im not .. Just oversensitive- she was saying what She does, not a reflection on you." Yes, I took it as referring to herself and NOT the OP. | |||
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"Nope not really cause I just use em ta relax And piss about I try to avoid the serious but it's not always possible But fa the main part it's just fun xx me as well, its very rarely i post on a serious thread and try not to come on to forums when d*unk (its not a nice sight) I hope your not implying im intoxicated,because i can assure you im not .. Just oversensitive- she was saying what She does, not a reflection on you. Yes, I took it as referring to herself and NOT the OP." That's exactly how Mrs A meant it... absolutely no reference to the OP. When a relaxed approach/_iew is cast on these here forums, they are a nice read. If your going to log in with a _iew that everyone else is logging in to ruin someones day, then you'll take too much to heart and feel quite shitty. With that said.... there are keyboard warriors on here... if someone is prepared to sit there and agree with their, shall I say, 'troll-like' posts and then go on the defensive because they feel they are getting a hard time then they have quite a lot to learn regarding respect.... it's hard to respect anyone that scratches the back of people deliberately trying to cause trouble | |||
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"I do speak my mind on here and it is allowed as speaking your mind doesn't have to break the rules yeah but i have the subltey of a housebrick " just the one brick? i have a full extension. | |||
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"If answering back results in a ban and the person who has insulted you gets away with it that doesn't seem fair. " Maybe not fair, but that's how it can be. | |||
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