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By *oblovesyou OP   Man
over a year ago

poole

So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite possibly but we may never know,think it’s an option for all

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Some do

Some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of your business if we do or don't!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

The option is available for men too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?! "

yes, its an option open to anyone..the reason i use it, and i imagine a lot of women do, is that if you look at a profile,for whatever reason, they are likely to message you because they interpret just looking at a profile as an overpowering lust that needs sating within the hour!

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?!

yes, its an option open to anyone..the reason i use it, and i imagine a lot of women do, is that if you look at a profile,for whatever reason, they are likely to message you because they interpret just looking at a profile as an overpowering lust that needs sating within the hour!"
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Spot on!

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Op, did you not read the Fab small print when you joined?

It says that your number of views may go up as well as down...

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?! "

Yes of course it's true xxx

Women actually like to look at profiles as much as men however the difference is

Men don't run stealth mode as they hope , lady will see she has been viewed and send a message

Women of course run stealth mode as they know if a man saw his profile has been viewed he will assume the woman is desperate to meet him , not messaged because she is shy and will be pestered by said male who won't understand a lady can browse a man's profile yet not want to converse

Generalisations made , however !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not just women, some couples and guys do too

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Say it like it is; STALKER mode

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I operate in stealth mode because I can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some do

Some don't "

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?! "

Yea it is. It's wear the 1.000.000 ninger looks comes from

And sum men use it to so to not get blocked by the ladies for looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" yes, its an option open to anyone..the reason i use it, and i imagine a lot of women do, is that if you look at a profile,for whatever reason, they are likely to message you because they interpret just looking at a profile as an overpowering lust that needs sating within the hour!"

Also works for politiely replying to an email.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a site supporter perk isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a site supporter perk isn't it?"

no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show on who's looked at me. People would see how often I look at their profiles!

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By *oblovesyou OP   Man
over a year ago

poole

Stalker mode... like it

Yes, I realise it's an option open to all. & I can understand the reason for the ladies not wanting to show themselves. My point was my friend said 'most women'.... I was just curious to the possibly percentage that do go undercover against those that don't... ?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


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Women of course run stealth mode as they know if a man saw his profile has been viewed he will assume the woman is desperate to meet him , not messaged because she is shy and will be pestered by said male who won't understand a lady can browse a man's profile yet not want to converse

Generalisations made , however !! "

Recently scrolling down local updates on my phone, I pressed longer than need, and opened someone's profile.

I didn't even look, just clicked back.

I then did this twice more on 2 other profiles. Yes I have fat fingers!

Within a few minutes all 3 had messaged me.

Maybe I should activate the stealth button?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use stealth mode x

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Stalker mode... like it

Yes, I realise it's an option open to all. & I can understand the reason for the ladies not wanting to show themselves. My point was my friend said 'most women'.... I was just curious to the possibly percentage that do go undercover against those that don't... ?"

My gess wood be 90% to 10%

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By *oblovesyou OP   Man
over a year ago

poole


"

Women of course run stealth mode as they know if a man saw his profile has been viewed he will assume the woman is desperate to meet him , not messaged because she is shy and will be pestered by said male who won't understand a lady can browse a man's profile yet not want to converse

Generalisations made , however !!

Recently scrolling down local updates on my phone, I pressed longer than need, and opened someone's profile.

I didn't even look, just clicked back.

I then did this twice more on 2 other profiles. Yes I have fat fingers!

Within a few minutes all 3 had messaged me.

Maybe I should activate the stealth button?! "

me thinks it wouldn't be a bad move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Women of course run stealth mode as they know if a man saw his profile has been viewed he will assume the woman is desperate to meet him , not messaged because she is shy and will be pestered by said male who won't understand a lady can browse a man's profile yet not want to converse

Generalisations made , however !!

Recently scrolling down local updates on my phone, I pressed longer than need, and opened someone's profile.

I didn't even look, just clicked back.

I then did this twice more on 2 other profiles. Yes I have fat fingers!

Within a few minutes all 3 had messaged me.

Maybe I should activate the stealth button?! "

Probably

Easier to go ninja and perv to your hearts content!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it is correct yes. Along with many men

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District

As the meaning of 'stealth' could be: 'cautious and surreptitious action', I would think most of us would wish to be cautious.

And in that 'surreptitious' can mean: 'in a way that attempts to avoid notice or attention', this is sensible action and advisable for most . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?!

Yes of course it's true xxx

Women actually like to look at profiles as much as men however the difference is

Men don't run stealth mode as they hope , lady will see she has been viewed and send a message

Women of course run stealth mode as they know if a man saw his profile has been viewed he will assume the woman is desperate to meet him , not messaged because she is shy and will be pestered by said male who won't understand a lady can browse a man's profile yet not want to converse

Generalisations made , however !! "

I'd agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creeps stealthily out of thread smiling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Did you know that stealth mode drains your computer/phone batteries quicker and makes your computer/device slower? Well, that’s what Apple told me at least

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By *ature studentsCouple
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth Dorset.


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?! "

I use this on my profile as well as this one and I believe hubby does the same on his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?! "

Yes because otherwise you get unwanted mail from guys saying " thanks for viewing my profile ". At the end of the day if we look and we're interested we'd message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why tho?"

So they can pick and choose without getting their inbox bombed with idiots....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?! "

YEP they do

Bit like when they fart, they don't want anybody to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of fab folk in general go stealth ninja eventualy. If you've had a look at a profile and want to initiate a chat to see if you might get on, then you send a message. However... if you had a look and thought it wasnt your cuppa... Well, it saves recieving a "did you like what you saw" message

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?! "

Yes absolutely and I am never turning it off.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I am ninja because...

I don't want ugly folk to know I looked

I don't want a restraining order

I want to wank over photos in secret

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By *oblovesyou OP   Man
over a year ago

poole

Based on majority of responses so far, it would seem my friend was right....

Thanks for the replies guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s only so many times you can perve a profile before you get classed as a stalker!

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By *oblovesyou OP   Man
over a year ago

poole


"There’s only so many times you can perve a profile before you get classed as a stalker! "

only if you're visible!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. I got too many "thanks for looking at my profile" mails.

Like, yes I looked, had Iwanted to mail then I would have?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can all do that if we like..girls..guys couples..we all have the option..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s only so many times you can perve a profile before you get classed as a stalker!

only if you're visible!? "

Exactly why I’m in stealth

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By *oblovesyou OP   Man
over a year ago

poole


"There’s only so many times you can perve a profile before you get classed as a stalker!

only if you're visible!?

Exactly why I’m in stealth "

Perv!!... Sorry, I mean, Stalker!!

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

naughty ninjas you ladies are

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Always in stealth. Saves getting blocked

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By *oblovesyou OP   Man
over a year ago

poole


"Always in stealth. Saves getting blocked "

I wouldn't block you if you viewed me

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't know about most women but I always . I don't just look at people I might fancy; I look at those I find funny or am just nosey.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?! "

Oh yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I check everyone out in Ninja Mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want some women, at least one of whom has posted in this very thread, knowing just how often I perv over them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines always on

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Considering I get likes on my pics but no new views I'm sure there are a lot operating under the radar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?! "

That's a relief, I was beginning to worry that no one was viewing my profile!. Now I can at least pretend that I've had 100's of views, they've just all been cloaked or in stealth mode!!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I'm a nosey woman and do so in stealth mode

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"So a little birdie tells me most women on here have that little 'do not show me' option ticked & can therefore view profiles without being seen....

Is this true?!

yes, its an option open to anyone..the reason i use it, and i imagine a lot of women do, is that if you look at a profile,for whatever reason, they are likely to message you because they interpret just looking at a profile as an overpowering lust that needs sating within the hour!"

Same goes for couples i think. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be the only woman that doesn't bother with stealth mode. I like people knowing that I looked at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you know that stealth mode drains your computer/phone batteries quicker and makes your computer/device slower? Well, that’s what Apple told me at least "

That's incognito browser for when you want to watch porn while your wife is our

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By *oblovesyou OP   Man
over a year ago

poole

So it would seem stealth / ninga / stalker mode is very popular amongst you nosey / pervy / stalker types... (Easy tigers, I'm joking).

To be honest, I never knew it was such a popular way to go. So my curiosity has been well & truly answered today

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By *oblovesyou OP   Man
over a year ago

poole


"I must be the only woman that doesn't bother with stealth mode. I like people knowing that I looked at them. "

this

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Stealth mode all the way here, too many crap messages as it is, I don't want to get the 'I see you looked at my profile' types as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why tho?"

So if you view them and not interested, saves them wasting time viewing or messaging you.

If we had to click on 2 or 3 times, we don't want them to jump to conclusions that we're stalking them or being pervy.

We often view in stealth mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always in stealth mode. 90% of my male friends are in stealth mode so they can perve over hot women's profiles and keep up with fab activity. I imagine even more women than men are stealthy for the reasons listed above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called 'dodgy' and 'cagey' when I explained stealth mode to a guy who moaned I hadn't looked at his profile...

Needless to say he got the call to prayer in the block bin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth mode all the way. Just because I look, doesn't mean I want to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Women of course run stealth mode as they know if a man saw his profile has been viewed he will assume the woman is desperate to meet him , not messaged because she is shy and will be pestered by said male who won't understand a lady can browse a man's profile yet not want to converse

Generalisations made , however !!

Recently scrolling down local updates on my phone, I pressed longer than need, and opened someone's profile.

I didn't even look, just clicked back.

I then did this twice more on 2 other profiles. Yes I have fat fingers!

Within a few minutes all 3 had messaged me.

Maybe I should activate the stealth button?! "

I do that all the time ... one of the reasons we are in stealth mode!!

M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be the only woman that doesn't bother with stealth mode. I like people knowing that I looked at them. "

Your profile pic is a sky remote but there is no penis next to it ... is that legal on Fab??!!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Stealth mode all the way. Just because I look, doesn't mean I want to chat. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering most women post that they've had 100+ views per day on those threads I don't bother going into stealth mode, lost among the crowd anyway!

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