FabSwingers.com forum: How hard can it be....

By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

to meet nice single men?

In the spirit of New Year = new excitement what novel ways are there to meet men? Or women for that matter?

For example, in the olden days we were told to go to night school for a car mechanics class. Then the classes just filled up with women.

I did a jewellery night class instead and there was a gorgeous guy. But he was gay.

More recently I joined a couple of Meet Up groups. Only to meet some very bitter women and a guy who became a proper stalker

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

You're just in the wrong part of the country come up north that's where most the nice guys are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to meet nice single men?

In the spirit of New Year = new excitement what novel ways are there to meet men? Or women for that matter?

For example, in the olden days we were told to go to night school for a car mechanics class. Then the classes just filled up with women.

I did a jewellery night class instead and there was a gorgeous guy. But he was gay.

More recently I joined a couple of Meet Up groups. Only to meet some very bitter women and a guy who became a proper stalker

I have no idea how anyone meets anyone in the real world these days, I guess if you live in a place that has a good social scene that helps, when I met Ads I lived in a few small village and everyone knew one another and I was always that no one was interested in (unless they were very pissed). If I lived where I do now and I was single (and I actually went out) it might be different lol.

Geeky x

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"You're just in the wrong part of the country come up north that's where most the nice guys are x"

I heard they were in the Midlands

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I have no idea how anyone meets anyone in the real world these days, I guess if you live in a place that has a good social scene that helps, when I met Ads I lived in a few small village and everyone knew one another and I was always that no one was interested in (unless they were very pissed). If I lived where I do now and I was single (and I actually went out) it might be different lol.

Geeky x"

Sad but a happy ending

I don't have any single girl friends to hang out with in bars.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Depends wear you look

You mite find 1 in London next month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly where your coming from op it's so hard to meet single guys these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're just in the wrong part of the country come up north that's where most the nice guys are x

I heard they were in the Midlands

In hiding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to walk around London with a placard.

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Depends wear you look

You mite find 1 in London next month

I hope so, will be great to see you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geeky x

Sad but a happy ending

I don't have any single girl friends to hang out with in bars."

I used to go out with my friend. She was a size 6 so you can guess who the blokes chatted too lol.

I liked the internet dating thing but also I didn’t because you can’t always come across as yourself online. No one at your work that takes your fancy? Ooo speed dating?

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I know exactly where your coming from op it's so hard to meet single guys these days"

I truly don't know where they hang out.

And when I go back to the gym I'll be going in quiet times

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm going to walk around London with a placard. "

A small, cute dog would work better

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I can't meet a single woman.

It's probably because I am sat on my arse on the sofa.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Depends wear you look

You mite find 1 in London next month

I hope so, will be great to see you again

It will be good to see you agen to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I was scared to see how daring had changed so much when I started. I was lucky that I had a few dates that didn’t work out and then met mr on Pof. I’m not sure where single people go now x

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I used to go out with my friend. She was a size 6 so you can guess who the blokes chatted too lol.

I liked the internet dating thing but also I didn’t because you can’t always come across as yourself online. No one at your work that takes your fancy? Ooo speed dating?"

I always go chatted up, I thought it was because I had big boobs. Turns out I wasn't as fat as I'd been led to believe

I'm self employed, though I do still fancy one of my contractors. But we've been there, done that.

Online dating seems to be full of freaks. Fab at least has people not trying to trick you into bed

I should Google speed dating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know exactly where your coming from op it's so hard to meet single guys these days

I truly don't know where they hang out.

And when I go back to the gym I'll be going in quiet times

Well if you find where they hang out give me a shout

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I can't meet a single woman.

It's probably because I am sat on my arse on the sofa.

You mean effort is required?

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Depends wear you look

You mite find 1 in London next month

I hope so, will be great to see you again

It will be good to see you agen to

Ladies this man gives the most excellent hugs

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I must admit I was scared to see how daring had changed so much when I started. I was lucky that I had a few dates that didn’t work out and then met mr on Pof. I’m not sure where single people go now x "

It's complete change. A friend at the time put me on Match, PoF and then here. The whole lot scared me.

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Well if you find where they hang out give me a shout

Will post it here

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I know exactly where your coming from op it's so hard to meet single guys these days

I truly don't know where they hang out.

And when I go back to the gym I'll be going in quiet times

Well if you find where they hang out give me a shout

1 hangs out in Margate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if you find where they hang out give me a shout

Will post it here

Cheers

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

When I want to meet women I just put an add in the paper for free cake and sit and wait.

Maybe you could start a Pasty Van?

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"When I want to meet women I just put an add in the paper for free cake and sit and wait.

Maybe you could start a Pasty Van?"

I used to have a whole restaurant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's complete change. A friend at the time put me on Match, PoF and then here. The whole lot scared me."

Yes, some men were very predatory and I wasn’t ready at first. X

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Did I just hear free food being mentioned???

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"I can't meet a single woman.

It's probably because I am sat on my arse on the sofa.

You mean effort is required?

That's what I am told.

Pulls blanket back over lap and pushes feet deeper into fur-lined slippers.

Whaddyamean that's not attractive?

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Yes, some men were very predatory and I wasn’t ready at first. X "

I was still dazed and confused from my break up. First guy I met turned out to be bi polar. And then he dumped me

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Did I just hear free food being mentioned???

Kinky-Minx is offering her Pasty to nice single men

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Did I just hear free food being mentioned???

Kinky-Minx is offering her Pasty to nice single men

Nooooooo

. I don't do gluten and the way to a man's heart isn't food

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Did I just hear free food being mentioned???

Kinky-Minx is offering her Pasty to nice single men

Nooooooo

. I don't do gluten and the way to a man's heart isn't food

A full belly and empty balls keeps me happy

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Nooooooo

. I don't do gluten and the way to a man's heart isn't food

A full belly and empty balls keeps me happy

I want a man who wants to keep me happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.... I heard something about cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they are not, I repeat not, on the south coast.

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

".... I heard something about cake? "

That's Red & moriarty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't meet a single woman.

It's probably because I am sat on my arse on the sofa.

You mean effort is required?

That's what I am told.

Pulls blanket back over lap and pushes feet deeper into fur-lined slippers.

Whaddyamean that's not attractive?

Have a wank, darling.

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Well they are not, I repeat not, on the south coast. "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you looked down the back of the sofa?

I found a biro down the back of mine earlier, so you never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard. Especially when you’re a depraved filthbag, like me.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"I can't meet a single woman.

It's probably because I am sat on my arse on the sofa.

You mean effort is required?

That's what I am told.

Pulls blanket back over lap and pushes feet deeper into fur-lined slippers.

Whaddyamean that's not attractive?

Have a wank, darling.

Having to go right handed today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't meet a single woman.

It's probably because I am sat on my arse on the sofa.

You mean effort is required?

That's what I am told.

Pulls blanket back over lap and pushes feet deeper into fur-lined slippers.

Whaddyamean that's not attractive?

Have a wank, darling.

Having to go right handed today.

You know I only like lefties.

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Have you looked down the back of the sofa?

I found a biro down the back of mine earlier, so you never know. "

I did look once, but you'd gone

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It’s hard. Especially when you’re a depraved filthbag, like me.

I'm not even talking about sex, where so they hang out these days? Pubs, gyms, spas?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Depends wear you look

You mite find 1 in London next month

I hope so, will be great to see you again

It will be good to see you agen to

Ladies this man gives the most excellent hugs

You mite get 1 or 2 mor next month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to meet nice single men?

In the spirit of New Year = new excitement what novel ways are there to meet men? Or women for that matter?

For example, in the olden days we were told to go to night school for a car mechanics class. Then the classes just filled up with women.

I did a jewellery night class instead and there was a gorgeous guy. But he was gay.

More recently I joined a couple of Meet Up groups. Only to meet some very bitter women and a guy who became a proper stalker

From a slightly different angle I empathise with you but you've made it sound bloody funny.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

".... I heard something about cake? "

We have plenty, Red can rustle up whatever takes your fancy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard. Especially when you’re a depraved filthbag, like me.

I'm not even talking about sex, where so they hang out these days? Pubs, gyms, spas?"

I genuinely don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well they are not, I repeat not, on the south coast.

I know

Oi, I didn’t mean it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard. Especially when you’re a depraved filthbag, like me.

I'm not even talking about sex, where so they hang out these days? Pubs, gyms, spas?

I genuinely don’t know. "

I actually don't either, all my friends are in relationships and I try not to go outside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard. Especially when you’re a depraved filthbag, like me.

I'm not even talking about sex, where so they hang out these days? Pubs, gyms, spas?

I genuinely don’t know.

I actually don't either, all my friends are in relationships and I try not to go outside. "

Can all these single men in their rooms come out and congregate please?

I want to rumble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’ve lost the art of flirting, and even recognising flirting in the real world. I’ve been trawling the internet for victims for so long, that I don’t know where to start if I’m face to face. I just see it as friendly banter and conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard. Especially when you’re a depraved filthbag, like me.

I'm not even talking about sex, where so they hang out these days? Pubs, gyms, spas?

I genuinely don’t know.

I actually don't either, all my friends are in relationships and I try not to go outside.

Can all these single men in their rooms come out and congregate please?

I want to rumble."

Someone say rumble. Peers out of the man cave at the encircling darkness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard. Especially when you’re a depraved filthbag, like me.

I'm not even talking about sex, where so they hang out these days? Pubs, gyms, spas?

I genuinely don’t know.

I actually don't either, all my friends are in relationships and I try not to go outside.

Can all these single men in their rooms come out and congregate please?

I want to rumble."

Surely it would be easier if you just come to my room

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Ladies this man gives the most excellent hugs

You mite get 1 or 2 mor next month

Yes please

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"to meet nice single men?

In the spirit of New Year = new excitement what novel ways are there to meet men? Or women for that matter?

For example, in the olden days we were told to go to night school for a car mechanics class. Then the classes just filled up with women.

I did a jewellery night class instead and there was a gorgeous guy. But he was gay.

More recently I joined a couple of Meet Up groups. Only to meet some very bitter women and a guy who became a proper stalker

From a slightly different angle I empathise with you but you've made it sound bloody funny.

Ohhh

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"I can't meet a single woman.

It's probably because I am sat on my arse on the sofa.

You mean effort is required?

That's what I am told.

Pulls blanket back over lap and pushes feet deeper into fur-lined slippers.

Whaddyamean that's not attractive?

Have a wank, darling.

Having to go right handed today.

You know I only like lefties."

Sucks to be me

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It’s hard. Especially when you’re a depraved filthbag, like me.

I'm not even talking about sex, where so they hang out these days? Pubs, gyms, spas?

I genuinely don’t know.

I actually don't either, all my friends are in relationships and I try not to go outside.

Can all these single men in their rooms come out and congregate please?

I want to rumble."

Rumble in the congregation of single men. Doesn't have the same ring as jungle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard. Especially when you’re a depraved filthbag, like me.

I'm not even talking about sex, where so they hang out these days? Pubs, gyms, spas?

I genuinely don’t know.

I actually don't either, all my friends are in relationships and I try not to go outside.

Can all these single men in their rooms come out and congregate please?

I want to rumble.

Surely it would be easier if you just come to my room"

.....that's why I'm single huh? They don't just come to your room.

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Well they are not, I repeat not, on the south coast.

I know

Oi, I didn’t mean it

Now you tell me

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I think I’ve lost the art of flirting, and even recognising flirting in the real world. I’ve been trawling the internet for victims for so long, that I don’t know where to start if I’m face to face. I just see it as friendly banter and conversation "

I flirt everywhere, perhaps that's the problem

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think you should wander around a college at night and see which rooms have the best blokes in. Maybe chat with some on break time or just go in and join them the following week.

I like slow classes where you have your hands on something but can chat - like an art class.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirt everywhere, perhaps that's the problem

I think I do too, but unknowingly, and unintentionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're just in the wrong part of the country come up north that's where most the nice guys are x"

I disagree

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

" I think you should wander around a college at night and see which rooms have the best blokes in. Maybe chat with some on break time or just go in and join them the following week.

I like slow classes where you have your hands on something but can chat - like an art class. "

Won't I get questioned?

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I flirt everywhere, perhaps that's the problem

I think I do too, but unknowingly, and unintentionally. "

Yes, I'm not on a specific mission to chat up everyone I meet

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Well they are not, I repeat not, on the south coast. "

Thars at lest 1 on the south east coast thow

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I have no idea OP. Most are already taken. Dating sites are full of people who look like they need a wash and have nothing to say.

Work is a no go zone.

All my friends are already paired up.

I have very little time for a social life (and it's no fun alone)

So that leaves the supermarket!

Anyone want to meet me in the bread isle at Tesco?

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I have no idea OP. Most are already taken. Dating sites are full of people who look like they need a wash and have nothing to say.

Work is a no go zone.

All my friends are already paired up.

I have very little time for a social life (and it's no fun alone)

So that leaves the supermarket!

Anyone want to meet me in the bread isle at Tesco?"

There's only crusty batons left

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

I'm not so sure that it is that hard.. but i think when people want it to much it becomes harder..

From the forums there seem to be plenty of nice men on here and nice ladies but either want different things of for whatever reason they don't meet.

I think moddern day dating has moved on massively and therefore allows you to have more contact with undesirable people which leaves a sour taste in the mouth.. .

But have fiat and it will happen

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I have no idea OP. Most are already taken. Dating sites are full of people who look like they need a wash and have nothing to say.

Work is a no go zone.

All my friends are already paired up.

I have very little time for a social life (and it's no fun alone)

So that leaves the supermarket!

Anyone want to meet me in the bread isle at Tesco?

There's only crusty batons left

Aint that the truth! Warm me up though and add some butter I still taste good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're just in the wrong part of the country come up north that's where most the nice guys are x"

He speaks truee

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I'm not so sure that it is that hard.. but i think when people want it to much it becomes harder..

From the forums there seem to be plenty of nice men on here and nice ladies but either want different things of for whatever reason they don't meet.

I think moddern day dating has moved on massively and therefore allows you to have more contact with undesirable people which leaves a sour taste in the mouth.. .

But have fiat and it will happen

Fiat 500 or fiat panda?!

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"I'm not so sure that it is that hard.. but i think when people want it to much it becomes harder..

From the forums there seem to be plenty of nice men on here and nice ladies but either want different things of for whatever reason they don't meet.

I think moddern day dating has moved on massively and therefore allows you to have more contact with undesirable people which leaves a sour taste in the mouth.. .

But have fiat and it will happen

Fiat 500 or fiat panda?!

Says the queen of typos.....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I'm not so sure that it is that hard.. but i think when people want it to much it becomes harder..

From the forums there seem to be plenty of nice men on here and nice ladies but either want different things of for whatever reason they don't meet.

I think moddern day dating has moved on massively and therefore allows you to have more contact with undesirable people which leaves a sour taste in the mouth.. .

But have fiat and it will happen

Fiat 500 or fiat panda?!

Says the queen of typos.....

At least I'm the queen of something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally speaking (well typing)

I work in a male dominated industry and i dont date co workers but we have a good social life outside where you could meet people in the sector

Looking to meet people, you will never meet what you are looking for why, as you are looking for it

Go have fun and stop looking, if it happens so be it

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"I'm not so sure that it is that hard.. but i think when people want it to much it becomes harder..

From the forums there seem to be plenty of nice men on here and nice ladies but either want different things of for whatever reason they don't meet.

I think moddern day dating has moved on massively and therefore allows you to have more contact with undesirable people which leaves a sour taste in the mouth.. .

But have fiat and it will happen

Fiat 500 or fiat panda?!

Says the queen of typos.....

At least I'm the queen of something

I.dont want to be a queen.. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble with meeting guys in the real world, you don't know if they're single or if it's ok to approach them.

Trouble with this place is that most men will only see you as fuck purely because you're on this site.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Trouble with meeting guys in the real world, you don't know if they're single or if it's ok to approach them.

Trouble with this place is that most men will only see you as fuck purely because you're on this site.

Plus you still don't know if they're single or not haha

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I’m gonna try speed dating sometime but not holding out much hope! Maybe I need to start dolling myself up for trips to Aldi

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"to meet nice single men?

In the spirit of New Year = new excitement what novel ways are there to meet men? Or women for that matter?

For example, in the olden days we were told to go to night school for a car mechanics class. Then the classes just filled up with women.

I did a jewellery night class instead and there was a gorgeous guy. But he was gay.

More recently I joined a couple of Meet Up groups. Only to meet some very bitter women and a guy who became a proper stalker

I'm on some single groups on Facebook and the amount of cycicism and bitchiness that floes around on the posts is ridiculous!

People put up some massive walls in real life that sometimes it's hard to peep over the top and let them know not everyone is a twat!

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over a year ago

"to meet nice single men?

In the spirit of New Year = new excitement what novel ways are there to meet men? Or women for that matter?

For example, in the olden days we were told to go to night school for a car mechanics class. Then the classes just filled up with women.

I did a jewellery night class instead and there was a gorgeous guy. But he was gay.

More recently I joined a couple of Meet Up groups. Only to meet some very bitter women and a guy who became a proper stalker

They're out there... but you either ignore em or block em... just sayin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's something rather depressing about this thread, although probably very accurate....the world is full of less than straight forward people...and much cynicism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty out there "

Where’s there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty out there

Where’s there?

Cornwall lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....that's why I'm single huh? They don't just come to your room."

then I'm fucked

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"I have no idea OP. Most are already taken. Dating sites are full of people who look like they need a wash and have nothing to say.

This is so true, I decided to try again after New Year and I’m ready to hide my profile again

Oh and you forgot the “I always wanted to try an older woman” brigade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty out there

Where’s there?

North East haha throughout the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....that's why I'm single huh? They don't just come to your room.

then I'm fucked"

Or not, as the case may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty out there

Where’s there?

North East haha throughout the country "

Definitely not in the north east

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went on dating sites and searched for women in my area to see what the 'competition' was like. I deleted my profile the same day.

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over a year ago

.....that's why I'm single huh? They don't just come to your room.

then I'm fucked

Or not, as the case may be."

Exactly!

And I work with nearly all women and I rarely go on a night out ...

I'm doooooomed

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I have no idea OP. Most are already taken. Dating sites are full of people who look like they need a wash and have nothing to say.

Work is a no go zone.

All my friends are already paired up.

I have very little time for a social life (and it's no fun alone)

So that leaves the supermarket!

Anyone want to meet me in the bread isle at Tesco?"

I think you're right

I've been asked out at the supermarket. That sits with 'they must be nuts' for me

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm not so sure that it is that hard.. but i think when people want it to much it becomes harder."

Who said I want it too much? All I asked was where are the nice single men in real life.

That means I'm desperate?

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"But have fiat and it will happen

Fiat 500 or fiat panda?!

Does it matter? they're all crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to walk around London with a placard.

A small, cute dog would work better

I have two small, cute dogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always found if u saw sombody u liked go talk to them see how it goes what worst can happen

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over a year ago

"I went on dating sites and searched for women in my area to see what the 'competition' was like. I deleted my profile the same day."

They were probably all fakes

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

The things I mentioned in the opening post that I have done have been over a period of decades.

How that translates to looking too hard and needing to stop looking I really don't know

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over a year ago

"The things I mentioned in the opening post that I have done have been over a period of decades.

How that translates to looking too hard and needing to stop looking I really don't know

I've tried not looking too.... still nothing

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over a year ago

"You're just in the wrong part of the country come up north that's where most the nice guys are x"

Pfft thats not true!

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"The things I mentioned in the opening post that I have done have been over a period of decades.

How that translates to looking too hard and needing to stop looking I really don't know

I've tried not looking too.... still nothing

I haven't looked for years. I just like being sociable and meeting people

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"You're just in the wrong part of the country come up north that's where most the nice guys are x

I heard they were in the Midlands

Yes we are in the Midlands.

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over a year ago

When I was single I would just fall for whoever I was working with at the time

admittedly it didn't work out very well

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"But have fiat and it will happen

Fiat 500 or fiat panda?!

Does it matter? they're all crap

Don't say that. I'm thinking of getting a Fiat 500.

Where I am working there is an entire floor of just men (doing techy things). They don't appear to make eye contact with anyone, ever.

There is a social club but I'm not there that long so it's probably not worth joining.

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Does it matter? they're all crap

Don't say that. I'm thinking of getting a Fiat 500.

Stop thinking then

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm going to walk around London with a placard.

A small, cute dog would work better

I have two small, cute dogs

I do get more attention when I walk the little dog - mainly because people know the dog.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"When I was single I would just fall for whoever I was working with at the time

admittedly it didn't work out very well "

Yikes

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"When I was single I would just fall for whoever I was working with at the time

admittedly it didn't work out very well "

Any jobs going at your place?

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By *inky-Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm going to walk around London with a placard.

A small, cute dog would work better

I have two small, cute dogs

I do get more attention when I walk the little dog - mainly because people know the dog.

Little dogs are awesome

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over a year ago

"When I was single I would just fall for whoever I was working with at the time

admittedly it didn't work out very well

Any jobs going at your place?

Plenty, all the men keep leaving

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