FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

She will never know

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Woman on here I wish I could talk to but I can't because I'm like 2 years out her age preferences. I keep fabbing her pics and she keeps viewing me profile but that's it lol. So frustrating. Maybe someone would pass her a message from me to see if I have a shot

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

4 years out sorry

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"4 years out sorry"

You need to respect others choices. If she wants to message you, she will. In the mean time, concentrate on those whose preferences you match.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Maybe join in a conversation with her in the forums? Take it from there...

Good luck!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never seen her on forums but okay I'll just leave it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Respect her preferences.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone put 'contact me Sophee' in their status update once. So when I looked at them, after looking at me, I did contact them as they were very close to my age preferences.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never seen her on forums but okay I'll just leave it "

Message me fella

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Isn't it against site rules to try and get round blocks and filters?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it against site rules to try and get round blocks and filters?"

Yes you're right, and using others to pass on messages is frowned upon.

If she's been looking and hasn't messaged you it's for a reason.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would any woman respond positively to a message saying "hi, can you contact Oreo100 as he can;t message you himself so I;m getting round your preferences for him"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Would any woman respond positively to a message saying "hi, can you contact Oreo100 as he can;t message you himself so I;m getting round your preferences for him""

It would be a block for the messenger and the person trying to contact me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Would any woman respond positively to a message saying "hi, can you contact Oreo100 as he can;t message you himself so I;m getting round your preferences for him"

It would be a block for the messenger and the person trying to contact me.

"

This has happened to me and that's exactly what I did. Bit creepy I thought.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell yourself it's a flabby, old man, with no teeth and a beer-stained vest on, hiding behind a hit woman's profile.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Cest la vie...

Although I don't find it odd, age is very subjective, especially when its only a few years and those age filters can be really annoying when you can't message someone for the sake of a month or two...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

forbidden fruit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hassle harassment stalking comes to mind

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it stalking? This term is getting bandied about far too easily on here and thrown at folk who are just being a bit overly keen in expressing they like the look of someone - lets keep a bit of perspective.

OP - respect her filters and move on. Plenty more fish in the sea.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just say respect their preferences and maybe hope to cross paths in person, at a social or something.

People like to complain about others set age preferences but there's nowt you can do bar suck it up.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the Negative Nancy’s You should go for it. A message isn’t harming anyone.

After all, I’m sure a lot of women have gone outside of there age preferences. It’s not set in stone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would any woman respond positively to a message saying "hi, can you contact Oreo100 as he can;t message you himself so I;m getting round your preferences for him""

I'd have a look at the profile and maybe mail them. It wouldn't really bother me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I feel your pain.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ignore the Negative Nancy’s You should go for it. A message isn’t harming anyone.

After all, I’m sure a lot of women have gone outside of there age preferences. It’s not set in stone"

Thanks bro

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman on here I wish I could talk to but I can't because I'm like 2 years out her age preferences. I keep fabbing her pics and she keeps viewing me profile but that's it lol. So frustrating. Maybe someone would pass her a message from me to see if I have a shot "

If she's viewed your profile and not mailed you she's not interested. Chin up.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Would any woman respond positively to a message saying "hi, can you contact Oreo100 as he can;t message you himself so I;m getting round your preferences for him"

I'd have a look at the profile and maybe mail them. It wouldn't really bother me."

I would too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"forbidden fruit"

Want the ones you can't have.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go the whole 9yards. Put a status up asking her to get in touch. Then start a lamppost thread declaring your admiration.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boundaries can be pushed; limits can't.

Age tends to be a boundary, as long as it's legal, which is a limit, but you have to make a very good case for somebody to allow their boundary to be pushed. If all you do is fab her pics, you're not making a case at all.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's inappropriate to try to get around other users' filters and against site rules op.

If she has looked at you, then she at least has made an active decision to review you but not make contact.

Move your attention to the thousands of other people where you do fit their needs.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op move on if she changes her mind she will make contact but if she doesn't then why get all her up there's plenty of ladies who will meet u

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ignore the Negative Nancy’s You should go for it. A message isn’t harming anyone.

After all, I’m sure a lot of women have gone outside of there age preferences. It’s not set in stone

Thanks bro "

Finally! You got the answer you wanted

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

4 years is pretty much out of her age range

I think like others said,if shes viewed you a few times and not messaged,you're not what shes looking for op.

Miss

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Ignore the Negative Nancy’s You should go for it. A message isn’t harming anyone.

After all, I’m sure a lot of women have gone outside of there age preferences. It’s not set in stone

Thanks bro

Finally! You got the answer you wanted "

Women love it when men don't take no for an answer.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Boundaries can be pushed; limits can't.

Age tends to be a boundary, as long as it's legal, which is a limit, but you have to make a very good case for somebody to allow their boundary to be pushed. If all you do is fab her pics, you're not making a case at all."

I read the OP to suggest he can't message because he wants someone to message her for him, which suggests that filters are on. That, to me, is a limit.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So op if she then blocks you what u going to do go unlos and open a new profile with a different dob

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 06/01/18 20:18:31]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't know people would get so angry about this lol chill out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say from the fact that you’ve fab’d, she’s viewed and not messaged, you don’t have a shot.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't know people would get so angry about this lol chill out "

Have posts been deleted? I can;t see that anyone is angry

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"It's inappropriate to try to get around other users' filters and against site rules op.

)

"

iIt isn't against site rules

If he was trying to contact someone using the forum then that is against rules

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP I would say if she was interested she would have mailed by now

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top