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"Treat me right and I'm an angel, see "I'll even let you leave your socks on!! | |||
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"Treat me right and I'm an angel, see
I'll even let you leave your socks on!! "I don’t wear socks. Do I have to put some on especially for you? | |||
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I don’t wear socks. Do I have to put some on especially for you?"Hmm, I could be really mean there.....  | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? " I think that quite a few people enter a fwb relationship with no intention of it remaining that way. They think they can change the other person's mind. | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? " I do think it is a flawed concept and very liable to be extremely damaging, and I have had some great fb and fwb. | |||
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As a couple...of unhinged sarcastic sexual deviants, we don't keep a FWB. They keep escaping!
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? I do think it is a flawed concept and very liable to be extremely damaging, and I have had some great fb and fwb." All the things that seem to be wanted in a fwb are relationship type things. I don't see how they can be given, ie the cuddles the hand holding walks etc without it leading to love (if you get on obvs) . Laying yourself bare like that without any commitment of it going further must be hard, esp if you like them enough to do it in the first place I've never had one so I don't know | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? I do think it is a flawed concept and very liable to be extremely damaging, and I have had some great fb and fwb. All the things that seem to be wanted in a fwb are relationship type things. I don't see how they can be given, ie the cuddles the hand holding walks etc without it leading to love (if you get on obvs) . Laying yourself bare like that without any commitment of it going further must be hard, esp if you like them enough to do it in the first place I've never had one so I don't know " Oh I had a different concept of it and if it's what you are saying then I can see how emotions would develop. I was a single female on fab and now part of a couple, I only ever had one person I repeated meets with. I class him as a Friend. We go for coffee, chat about fab etc...never held hands, cuddled or anything remotely relationship like but really enjoy being with him sexually. I don't do solo meets since meeting Fooey so it's threesomes and foursomes with him now Madame B | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? I do think it is a flawed concept and very liable to be extremely damaging, and I have had some great fb and fwb. All the things that seem to be wanted in a fwb are relationship type things. I don't see how they can be given, ie the cuddles the hand holding walks etc without it leading to love (if you get on obvs) . Laying yourself bare like that without any commitment of it going further must be hard, esp if you like them enough to do it in the first place I've never had one so I don't know " Yes, sometimes it is very hard to limit, and sometimes it does indeed go much further. Other times it is so easy and you both know there is never any danger of complications, so you are simply free to express your affectionate and tactile nature as friends. I had one fb who used to rip my clothes off the moment I went through the door, and we had great passionate sex, but then both really looked forward to cuddling up with intertwined bodies like lovers to play agony aunt for each other on our respective love lives with other people! In my opinion there has to be free communication, openness and honesty. I consider that the baseline for all forms of friendship anyway. | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? I do think it is a flawed concept and very liable to be extremely damaging, and I have had some great fb and fwb. All the things that seem to be wanted in a fwb are relationship type things. I don't see how they can be given, ie the cuddles the hand holding walks etc without it leading to love (if you get on obvs) . Laying yourself bare like that without any commitment of it going further must be hard, esp if you like them enough to do it in the first place I've never had one so I don't know Yes, sometimes it is very hard to limit, and sometimes it does indeed go much further. Other times it is so easy and you both know there is never any danger of complications, so you are simply free to express your affectionate and tactile nature as friends. I had one fb who used to rip my clothes off the moment I went through the door, and we had great passionate sex, but then both really looked forward to cuddling up with intertwined bodies like lovers to play agony aunt for each other on our respective love lives with other people! In my opinion there has to be free communication, openness and honesty. I consider that the baseline for all forms of friendship anyway." Sounds good to me. It almost perfectly describes how for me a fwb might work in the real world. Maybe I'm just not fwb material as it seems so hard to find... | |||
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"Is that not the point of one, they don't have to put up with you, its just regular meets for sex ?" No it's friendship primarily the sex is a bonus | |||
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"I’d wrote a great answer then sent it to someone by mistake "Your future FWB perhaps
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? I do think it is a flawed concept and very liable to be extremely damaging, and I have had some great fb and fwb. All the things that seem to be wanted in a fwb are relationship type things. I don't see how they can be given, ie the cuddles the hand holding walks etc without it leading to love (if you get on obvs) . Laying yourself bare like that without any commitment of it going further must be hard, esp if you like them enough to do it in the first place I've never had one so I don't know " Its rare but possible  | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? I do think it is a flawed concept and very liable to be extremely damaging, and I have had some great fb and fwb. All the things that seem to be wanted in a fwb are relationship type things. I don't see how they can be given, ie the cuddles the hand holding walks etc without it leading to love (if you get on obvs) . Laying yourself bare like that without any commitment of it going further must be hard, esp if you like them enough to do it in the first place I've never had one so I don't know Its rare but possible "Haha yes I guess I had one once but (as good as) married him | |||
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"I’d wrote a great answer then sent it to someone by mistake "Haha thats so like me. Sent a text to my ex. "In Ann Summers il send u pics when I try on what I buy. Got a text back from my son. " that's the single worse text message if had in my life please don't " | |||
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"We all want a friend with benefits but who in their right mind would put up with most of us? "I've never claimed to be in my right mind | |||
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"I'm starting to realise how lucky I am
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"I'm starting to realise how lucky I am
You really are. "Just have to hope he doesn't get bored of me | |||
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"Treat me right and I'm an angel, see
I'll even let you leave your socks on!! "Sorry no socks ever! Lol so un sexy! Lol | |||
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"I'm starting to realise how lucky I am
You really are.
Just have to hope he doesn't get bored of me "That vibrating butt plug should see you good for another six months I reckon. | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? " Difficult to find for who? | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? Difficult to find for who?" Nearly everyone on the forum for a start? Going by what I read | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? Difficult to find for who? Nearly everyone on the forum for a start? Going by what I read " I do ok. But then, I don't start threads about it.... | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? Difficult to find for who? Nearly everyone on the forum for a start? Going by what I read I do ok. But then, I don't start threads about it.... "You must be one of the hidden gems then | |||
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"Always liked the idea of a FWB, something really sexy about a mutual agreement for pleasure...although from what I see on Fab, a lot of women tend to be out off by it! " I think a lot are put off when a guy says it but they have about 10 others on the go as well. | |||
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"Always liked the idea of a FWB, something really sexy about a mutual agreement for pleasure...although from what I see on Fab, a lot of women tend to be out off by it! I think a lot are put off when a guy says it but they have about 10 others on the go as well. " Yea I think even from a male perspective, a lot of guys just want to meet someone for a quick fuck and go...they just aren’t interested in building any sort of connection or friendship from it, which is a shame because then us other guys get tarnished with the same brush because women think we will all want to do that, which isn’t always the case - certainly not in mine anyways! | |||
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"Always liked the idea of a FWB, something really sexy about a mutual agreement for pleasure...although from what I see on Fab, a lot of women tend to be out off by it! I think a lot are put off when a guy says it but they have about 10 others on the go as well. " Again, mutual understanding. That might work for all parties but highly unusual/unlikely. I'm strictly one only..my preference. | |||
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"Always liked the idea of a FWB, something really sexy about a mutual agreement for pleasure...although from what I see on Fab, a lot of women tend to be out off by it! I think a lot are put off when a guy says it but they have about 10 others on the go as well. Yea I think even from a male perspective, a lot of guys just want to meet someone for a quick fuck and go...they just aren’t interested in building any sort of connection or friendship from it, which is a shame because then us other guys get tarnished with the same brush because women think we will all want to do that, which isn’t always the case - certainly not in mine anyways!" Yeah it does tend to become the norm and then it leaves people jaded very much so. | |||
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"Always liked the idea of a FWB, something really sexy about a mutual agreement for pleasure...although from what I see on Fab, a lot of women tend to be out off by it! I think a lot are put off when a guy says it but they have about 10 others on the go as well. Again, mutual understanding. That might work for all parties but highly unusual/unlikely. I'm strictly one only..my preference." We all want to feel special not just a number.... I'm the first to say I want to be special and come before someone else..why wouldn't I? And for those that say you can't be a swinger then I find that nonsense. Swinging isn't about fucking everyone in the room and looking for that one thing that makes them appealing enough to fuck and go. Hence why fwbs are in such short supply. Most men think swinging even with fwb means do what ever I feel like and justify it by saying "I'm a swinger" | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? Difficult to find for who? Nearly everyone on the forum for a start? Going by what I read I do ok. But then, I don't start threads about it....
You must be one of the hidden gems then "I'm not. I'm odd. But in contrast to the tone of the thread, I feel that this is why I tend to attract FWBs as opposed to an actual girlfriend. | |||
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"Always liked the idea of a FWB, something really sexy about a mutual agreement for pleasure...although from what I see on Fab, a lot of women tend to be out off by it! I think a lot are put off when a guy says it but they have about 10 others on the go as well. Again, mutual understanding. That might work for all parties but highly unusual/unlikely. I'm strictly one only..my preference. We all want to feel special not just a number.... I'm the first to say I want to be special and come before someone else..why wouldn't I? And for those that say you can't be a swinger then I find that nonsense. Swinging isn't about fucking everyone in the room and looking for that one thing that makes them appealing enough to fuck and go. Hence why fwbs are in such short supply. Most men think swinging even with fwb means do what ever I feel like and justify it by saying "I'm a swinger" " As a slight aside - I don't consider myself a swinger. Maybe that's the difference. | |||
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"We all want a friend with benefits but who in their right mind would put up with most of us? "Most of the forumites think I’m a twonk, so that’s me out of the running | |||
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"Always liked the idea of a FWB, something really sexy about a mutual agreement for pleasure...although from what I see on Fab, a lot of women tend to be out off by it! I think a lot are put off when a guy says it but they have about 10 others on the go as well. Again, mutual understanding. That might work for all parties but highly unusual/unlikely. I'm strictly one only..my preference. We all want to feel special not just a number.... I'm the first to say I want to be special and come before someone else..why wouldn't I? And for those that say you can't be a swinger then I find that nonsense. Swinging isn't about fucking everyone in the room and looking for that one thing that makes them appealing enough to fuck and go. Hence why fwbs are in such short supply. Most men think swinging even with fwb means do what ever I feel like and justify it by saying "I'm a swinger" " I had a status to this effect a few wks ago. I don't want to be 436th in line for even getting a hello | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? Difficult to find for who? Nearly everyone on the forum for a start? Going by what I read I do ok. But then, I don't start threads about it....
You must be one of the hidden gems then
I'm not. I'm odd.
But in contrast to the tone of the thread, I feel that this is why I tend to attract FWBs as opposed to an actual girlfriend. "And do you do all the girlfriendy stuff with them and neither of you ever want more | |||
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"Always liked the idea of a FWB, something really sexy about a mutual agreement for pleasure...although from what I see on Fab, a lot of women tend to be out off by it! I think a lot are put off when a guy says it but they have about 10 others on the go as well. Again, mutual understanding. That might work for all parties but highly unusual/unlikely. I'm strictly one only..my preference. We all want to feel special not just a number.... I'm the first to say I want to be special and come before someone else..why wouldn't I? And for those that say you can't be a swinger then I find that nonsense. Swinging isn't about fucking everyone in the room and looking for that one thing that makes them appealing enough to fuck and go. Hence why fwbs are in such short supply. Most men think swinging even with fwb means do what ever I feel like and justify it by saying "I'm a swinger" " I ask all my friends to tell me what going on, and talk. I hate finding out things afterwards what they got upto, pushed me to the side, put me as second choice or a warm up to a their main dish. The fwb scenario I always imagine, is talking and finding common ground to enjoy, and when swinging enjoying other things but not in a 'secret keep it from each other' type of way. It's those secrets that fuck with me most, when I find out later. If i care about my friends feelings, It would be even better if they could care about mine. | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? Difficult to find for who? Nearly everyone on the forum for a start? Going by what I read I do ok. But then, I don't start threads about it....
You must be one of the hidden gems then
I'm not. I'm odd.
But in contrast to the tone of the thread, I feel that this is why I tend to attract FWBs as opposed to an actual girlfriend.
And do you do all the girlfriendy stuff with them and neither of you ever want more "Hell no, we are just there to have fun then go back to our normal lives. That’s what makes it exciting | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? Difficult to find for who? Nearly everyone on the forum for a start? Going by what I read I do ok. But then, I don't start threads about it....
You must be one of the hidden gems then
I'm not. I'm odd.
But in contrast to the tone of the thread, I feel that this is why I tend to attract FWBs as opposed to an actual girlfriend.
And do you do all the girlfriendy stuff with them and neither of you ever want more
Hell no, we are just there to have fun then go back to our normal lives.
That’s what makes it exciting"That's true, but too few actually see it that way, which is fine of course. Fab has an underpinning path most start on but many take different routes. | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? Difficult to find for who? Nearly everyone on the forum for a start? Going by what I read I do ok. But then, I don't start threads about it....
You must be one of the hidden gems then
I'm not. I'm odd.
But in contrast to the tone of the thread, I feel that this is why I tend to attract FWBs as opposed to an actual girlfriend.
And do you do all the girlfriendy stuff with them and neither of you ever want more
Hell no, we are just there to have fun then go back to our normal lives.
That’s what makes it exciting
That's true, but too few actually see it that way, which is fine of course. Fab has an underpinning path most start on but many take different routes."I am married and have been for 33 years. My FWB’s know this and that will never change. I don’t need or want anything from them other than the spark that we get when we get together. | |||
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"The fact that they are such a difficult thing to find must mean that somehow the whole concept of them doesn't work in reality? Difficult to find for who? Nearly everyone on the forum for a start? Going by what I read I do ok. But then, I don't start threads about it....
You must be one of the hidden gems then
I'm not. I'm odd.
But in contrast to the tone of the thread, I feel that this is why I tend to attract FWBs as opposed to an actual girlfriend.
And do you do all the girlfriendy stuff with them and neither of you ever want more
Hell no, we are just there to have fun then go back to our normal lives.
That’s what makes it exciting
That's true, but too few actually see it that way, which is fine of course. Fab has an underpinning path most start on but many take different routes.
I am married and have been for 33 years.
My FWB’s know this and that will never change.
I don’t need or want anything from them other than the spark that we get when we get together."Sounds like you have found a very good path | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. " Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways. | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways. "I think that's very true, something I didn't understand before joining here. | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways. "I complete agree. | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways.
I think that's very true, something I didn't understand before joining here. "You learn a lot on Fab very quickly | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways.
I think that's very true, something I didn't understand before joining here.
You learn a lot on Fab very quickly "I'm still at "Fab for dummies" stage | |||
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"Always liked the idea of a FWB, something really sexy about a mutual agreement for pleasure...although from what I see on Fab, a lot of women tend to be out off by it! I think a lot are put off when a guy says it but they have about 10 others on the go as well. Again, mutual understanding. That might work for all parties but highly unusual/unlikely. I'm strictly one only..my preference. We all want to feel special not just a number.... I'm the first to say I want to be special and come before someone else..why wouldn't I? And for those that say you can't be a swinger then I find that nonsense. Swinging isn't about fucking everyone in the room and looking for that one thing that makes them appealing enough to fuck and go. Hence why fwbs are in such short supply. Most men think swinging even with fwb means do what ever I feel like and justify it by saying "I'm a swinger" I ask all my friends to tell me what going on, and talk. I hate finding out things afterwards what they got upto, pushed me to the side, put me as second choice or a warm up to a their main dish. The fwb scenario I always imagine, is talking and finding common ground to enjoy, and when swinging enjoying other things but not in a 'secret keep it from each other' type of way. It's those secrets that fuck with me most, when I find out later. If i care about my friends feelings, It would be even better if they could care about mine. " Yes, I feel that way, all friendships are based on openness and honesty, and I give loyalty and respect and expect it in return. | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways.
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways.
I think there are a lot of women and it’s on here who aren’t real swingers "I would say a lot of “people” not just women. But then define what “Swinging” is as everyone will have their own views. Mr | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways.
I think there are a lot of women and it’s on here who aren’t real swingers
I would say a lot of “people” not just women.
But then define what “Swinging” is as everyone will have their own views.
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways.
I think there are a lot of women and it’s on here who aren’t real swingers
I would say a lot of “people” not just women.
But then define what “Swinging” is as everyone will have their own views.
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"People just want me for sex, the other stuff that might be quite nice goes out the window" Then don't meet people just for sex. Discuss your mutual needs, and if they are not compatible, they are not for you.. | |||
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"People just want me for sex, the other stuff that might be quite nice goes out the window Then don't meet people just for sex. Discuss your mutual needs, and if they are not compatible, they are not for you.." The trouble is people will deceive others, deliberately target and 'befriend' those looking for relationships with intent to manipulate them. It's been suggested to me I should remove it from my profile for that reason. | |||
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"People just want me for sex, the other stuff that might be quite nice goes out the window Then don't meet people just for sex. Discuss your mutual needs, and if they are not compatible, they are not for you.. The trouble is people will deceive others, deliberately target and 'befriend' those looking for relationships with intent to manipulate them. It's been suggested to me I should remove it from my profile for that reason." That's one reason I spend quite a while chatting. If you click, chatting will come easily. If either of you bore of the other quickly, you are not for each other even as fwb. If one is deceiving the other it will invariably show in conversation or they will get bored and move on. I have made a few friends on here I really like just for themselves, and accept we will never meet for a number of reasons, but that's fine too. Every now and then if you chat long enough it will become apparent that you actually stand a chance of getting on even better if you meet. I always suggest a social first with no expectations or obligations. One went with that for starters. The other pretty much dragged me through her front door when I turned up... . | |||
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"People just want me for sex, the other stuff that might be quite nice goes out the window Then don't meet people just for sex. Discuss your mutual needs, and if they are not compatible, they are not for you.. The trouble is people will deceive others, deliberately target and 'befriend' those looking for relationships with intent to manipulate them. It's been suggested to me I should remove it from my profile for that reason." Agree that people will say anything for a fuck. However, it's funny that since I said on my profile that I'm just looking for fwb, I've had no new mail at all. | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways.
I think there are a lot of women and it’s on here who aren’t real swingers "I'm not a Swinger! No fucking way I'd be one of those!!  | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways.
I think there are a lot of women and it’s on here who aren’t real swingers
I'm not a Swinger! No fucking way I'd be one of those!! "not even for cake? | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways.
I think there are a lot of women and it’s on here who aren’t real swingers
I'm not a Swinger! No fucking way I'd be one of those!!
not even for cake?"Especially not for cake  | |||
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"Couples and singles are going to always find contrast when discussing what swinging is i think. It's just my opinion. Having a FWB and swinging aren’t the same thing though. Not in our book anyways.
I think there are a lot of women and it’s on here who aren’t real swingers
I'm not a Swinger! No fucking way I'd be one of those!!
not even for cake?
Especially not for cake "Fancy a shag anyway for old times sake | |||
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"Treat me right and I'm an angel, see
I'll even let you leave your socks on!! "Why do I have joe cocker in my head now? "You can leave your socks on"  | |||
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"No one could put up with me, that’s one of the reasons why I don’t have one." I thought that until I found my fwb lol | |||
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"No one could put up with me, that’s one of the reasons why I don’t have one." I can't put up with anyone else, that why I don't have one. | |||
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"No one could put up with me, that’s one of the reasons why I don’t have one. I can't put up with anyone else, that why I don't have one. "I’m somewhere between the two | |||
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