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"You dont like a meaningless fuck with strangers. There’s something missing... You’re looking for a connection that will develop to something nice. See what you have reflecting to the other couple. And when you find that couple you want to enjoy the full pleasure of natural skin to skin intimacy, like you make love to each other. Are we the only ones on this site?" You're not the only ones SunnyLovers there's plenty of us in the South West. We often have weekend full swap meets. Interested let me know. xxx  | |||
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"You're not the only ones. There's many here, the trick is finding them. " Too true. I organised a party at my house in October for a full swap. This has now developed into a regular meet between 4 of us. | |||
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"Plenty about no doubt. They lay low on the forum " Because people are judgmental on here. | |||
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"Plenty about no doubt. They lay low on the forum Because people are judgmental on here. " They probably just don't need the drama that seems the norm on here about anything different.... | |||
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"Plenty about no doubt. They lay low on the forum Because people are judgmental on here. They probably just don't need the drama that seems the norm on here about anything different...." Quite | |||
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"Plenty about no doubt. They lay low on the forum Because people are judgmental on here. " Totally agree | |||
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"Plenty about no doubt. They lay low on the forum Because people are judgmental on here. They probably just don't need the drama that seems the norm on here about anything different...." Wet true! | |||
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"Fascists Is that where you sit on my face bareback?  "Would love to  | |||
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"Fascists Is that where you sit on my face bareback? "Sure My balls are a bit sweaty though | |||
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My balls are a bit sweaty though "Mmmm, just what I always wanted  | |||
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"No your not, sadly this site caters for the meaningless rushed one night meet which i hate! " Our group are like you Kitty - very much social and full fun. Dinner parties and frolics with non-pushy fun correspondence in between. Something this site should be all about.  | |||
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"Plenty about no doubt. They lay low on the forum Because people are judgmental on here. " You're quite right too many on here are judgemental. Like SunnyLovers I am open with my natural preference and at the same time choose my 'friends'. Nothing like squelchy fun with friends!  | |||
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"How you make a logical connection between a meaningless fuck and safe sex is beyond me. If you want to do it, that's the choice of you and your meets. Trying to imply it has a higher level of meaning is as valid as your point the other day about yours being the educated choice and the alternative paranoia." Stop doing this will you? I’m not implying anything, it’s all in your head, you’re reading and understanding different things to the objective reality and the real meaning... | |||
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"How you make a logical connection between a meaningless fuck and safe sex is beyond me. If you want to do it, that's the choice of you and your meets. Trying to imply it has a higher level of meaning is as valid as your point the other day about yours being the educated choice and the alternative paranoia. Stop doing this will you? I’m not implying anything, it’s all in your head, you’re reading and understanding different things to the objective reality and the real meaning..." Just read your OP, and see what it implies. Why bother mentioning meaningless sex, if it isn't relevant to your point? | |||
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"You dont like a meaningless fuck with strangers. There’s something missing... You’re looking for a connection that will develop to something nice. See what you have reflecting to the other couple. And when you find that couple you want to enjoy the full pleasure of natural skin to skin intimacy, like you make love to each other. Are we the only ones on this site?" We don’t think there is anything missing with a meaningless fuck , because however you dress it up , fucking anyone else ( other than each other ) is 100% meaningless in our opinion . We love the build up and the first connection with a meet . The eyes meeting , the smile , and the heart flip that goes when you know it’s going to get erotic later . The first kiss and the adrenaline rush etc..... but no matter how hot and horny the meet is , it’s still meaningless in the grand scheme of things . I’m sure you aren’t the only ones who want meaning and so much more , good luck in your search | |||
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"How you make a logical connection between a meaningless fuck and safe sex is beyond me. If you want to do it, that's the choice of you and your meets. Trying to imply it has a higher level of meaning is as valid as your point the other day about yours being the educated choice and the alternative paranoia. Stop doing this will you? I’m not implying anything, it’s all in your head, you’re reading and understanding different things to the objective reality and the real meaning..." What's the objective reality and real meaning then? | |||
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"How you make a logical connection between a meaningless fuck and safe sex is beyond me. If you want to do it, that's the choice of you and your meets. Trying to imply it has a higher level of meaning is as valid as your point the other day about yours being the educated choice and the alternative paranoia. Stop doing this will you? I’m not implying anything, it’s all in your head, you’re reading and understanding different things to the objective reality and the real meaning... Just read your OP, and see what it implies. Why bother mentioning meaningless sex, if it isn't relevant to your point?" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. | |||
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"How you make a logical connection between a meaningless fuck and safe sex is beyond me. If you want to do it, that's the choice of you and your meets. Trying to imply it has a higher level of meaning is as valid as your point the other day about yours being the educated choice and the alternative paranoia. Stop doing this will you? I’m not implying anything, it’s all in your head, you’re reading and understanding different things to the objective reality and the real meaning... Just read your OP, and see what it implies. Why bother mentioning meaningless sex, if it isn't relevant to your point? What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. " Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... | |||
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"How you make a logical connection between a meaningless fuck and safe sex is beyond me. If you want to do it, that's the choice of you and your meets. Trying to imply it has a higher level of meaning is as valid as your point the other day about yours being the educated choice and the alternative paranoia. Stop doing this will you? I’m not implying anything, it’s all in your head, you’re reading and understanding different things to the objective reality and the real meaning... What's the objective reality and real meaning then?" The reality and meaning as the post tries to indicate, is that swinging for us is not meat market style parties and gangbangs but a deeper connection that leads to sharing intence intimacy with people who have actually chosen each other and not just a man who happened to be behind a woman in an orgy and slided his cock inside her... | |||
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"How you make a logical connection between a meaningless fuck and safe sex is beyond me. If you want to do it, that's the choice of you and your meets. Trying to imply it has a higher level of meaning is as valid as your point the other day about yours being the educated choice and the alternative paranoia. Stop doing this will you? I’m not implying anything, it’s all in your head, you’re reading and understanding different things to the objective reality and the real meaning... Just read your OP, and see what it implies. Why bother mentioning meaningless sex, if it isn't relevant to your point? What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap...." And how does it make you feel? | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel?" It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. " Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously. | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. " And what is ugly about bareback sex that im trying to wrap up nicely? | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously." I'm curious why you list safe sex as an interest if you'd rather not have sex than use a condom? Genuine question. | |||
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"We dont want meaningless sex either.... but still play safe always. " As i said meaningless and meaningless is subjective. I’m glad that you enjoy meaningful safe sex.. | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously." I think we understand you just fine now. Every time you manage to find a way of a passive aggresive point. Play how you want, but stop having digs at people who do it different and safer. | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. And what is ugly about bareback sex that im trying to wrap up nicely?" I never used the word ugly. The other day your implication was that yours was the educated choice. Today you are not having safe meaningless fucks. Then just now, as a nation of one nighters we are ok with condoms??? All very passive agressive, wrapping up a choice which is more risky to you and your partners as something better than what other people are doing. | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously." So it's just more of a cultural difference then in the thinking behind contraception. How well behaved are Mediterranean youngsters/singles then and what do they do | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously. I think we understand you just fine now. Every time you manage to find a way of a passive aggresive point. Play how you want, but stop having digs at people who do it different and safer." I am a very calm and polite person. Our verifications say a lot about who we are. I would never push anyone to practice bareback sex but Im against crusades against it. We had safe sex meets too and enjoyed them but what’s wrong in seeking the ultimate experience? Life is too short and bareback sex with married couples (to quote the thread) is definitely not threatening anyone’s life.. | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously. I think we understand you just fine now. Every time you manage to find a way of a passive aggresive point. Play how you want, but stop having digs at people who do it different and safer. I am a very calm and polite person. Our verifications say a lot about who we are. I would never push anyone to practice bareback sex but Im against crusades against it. We had safe sex meets too and enjoyed them but what’s wrong in seeking the ultimate experience? Life is too short and bareback sex with married couples (to quote the thread) is definitely not threatening anyone’s life.. " Unfortunately you cannot say for definite that unprotected sex with married couples would not threaten anyone's life. Unless both sets of couples underwent a full sexual health screening before participating in sexual activity there will be an element of risk. Some people choose to accept an element of risk and play without protection, some don't. It's about choice in life and as mature adults we should accept others choices and move on if they don't agree with us. | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously. I think we understand you just fine now. Every time you manage to find a way of a passive aggresive point. Play how you want, but stop having digs at people who do it different and safer. I am a very calm and polite person. Our verifications say a lot about who we are. I would never push anyone to practice bareback sex but Im against crusades against it. We had safe sex meets too and enjoyed them but what’s wrong in seeking the ultimate experience? Life is too short and bareback sex with married couples (to quote the thread) is definitely not threatening anyone’s life.. Unfortunately you cannot say for definite that unprotected sex with married couples would not threaten anyone's life. Unless both sets of couples underwent a full sexual health screening before participating in sexual activity there will be an element of risk. Some people choose to accept an element of risk and play without protection, some don't. It's about choice in life and as mature adults we should accept others choices and move on if they don't agree with us. " I respect everyone’s choice that gors without saying. However, there’s no life threatening std today if diagnosed and treated, this is a scientific fact.. | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously. I'm curious why you list safe sex as an interest if you'd rather not have sex than use a condom? Genuine question." We’re equally happy to have safe sex if we click in all other levels with a nice pair of people.. | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously. I'm curious why you list safe sex as an interest if you'd rather not have sex than use a condom? Genuine question. We’re equally happy to have safe sex if we click in all other levels with a nice pair of people.." But you said, "we'd rather not have sex than use a condom" | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously. I think we understand you just fine now. Every time you manage to find a way of a passive aggresive point. Play how you want, but stop having digs at people who do it different and safer. I am a very calm and polite person. Our verifications say a lot about who we are. I would never push anyone to practice bareback sex but Im against crusades against it. We had safe sex meets too and enjoyed them but what’s wrong in seeking the ultimate experience? Life is too short and bareback sex with married couples (to quote the thread) is definitely not threatening anyone’s life.. Unfortunately you cannot say for definite that unprotected sex with married couples would not threaten anyone's life. Unless both sets of couples underwent a full sexual health screening before participating in sexual activity there will be an element of risk. Some people choose to accept an element of risk and play without protection, some don't. It's about choice in life and as mature adults we should accept others choices and move on if they don't agree with us. I respect everyone’s choice that gors without saying. However, there’s no life threatening std today if diagnosed and treated, this is a scientific fact.. "chlamydia can cause an increased risk of contracting HIV, urethritis and/or infertility in men, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID), and infertility, miscarriage, and/or pre-term labor in women. Additionally, premature delivery, conjunctivitis, lung infections, pneumonia, and ear infections may occur in newborns born to mothers with chlamydia. gonorrhea can cause an increased risk of contracting HIV in men and women. Scarring of the Fallopian tubes, ectopic pregnancies or miscarriage, and infertility in women. Inflammation of the prostate, scarring of the urethra, and infertility in men. Blindness, serious joint infections and potentially deadly blood infections in infants. Some herpes viruses, including HSV-1 and HSV-2, can cause meningitis and encephalitis. Meningitis is the inflammation of the meninges, which are the membranes surrounding the brain and spinal cord, and encephalitis is inflammation of the brain itself, which is far more serious condition. HSV encephalitis is mainly caused by HSV-1, whereas meningitis is more often caused by HSV-2. Hepatitis B can cause jaundice, mild to severe liver infection, fibrosis and cirrhosis of the liver, liver failure, hepatocellular carcinoma (cancer), and even death. Hepatitis C can cause jaundice, cirrhosis, cancer, and end-stage disease of the liver. Hepatitis C can also cause confusion, sleepiness, and disorientation due to toxin buildup in the brain caused by liver cirrhosis, as well as stroke or heart attack, kidney failure, type-2 diabetes, gallstones, thyroid diseases, hypertension, and even death. If left untreated, syphilis can cause soft, spongy balls of inflammation all over the body and bones, large sores on the skin and inside the body, internal bleeding, enlargement of the liver and/or spleen, deformations, loss of motor functions, seizures, dementia, aneurysm, and even death. If left untreated, HIV can cause or lead to severe weight loss, increased risk of stroke, heart disease, cancer, liver or kidney disease, accelerated aging, osteoporosis, pneumonia, and death from AIDS. While I agree with you that many STD's are not life threatening if diagnosed and treated promptly but many can go undiagnosed for long periods of time, can cause debilitating and life changing effects and are not always curable only manageable. My point was that unless every person you intend to have sexual contact with has a full sexual health check up prior you cannot guarantee the safety of unprotected sex whether it is with couples or singles you know well and trust or have just met. However people have the choice in whether they take a risk. Just as people who travel in cars, smoke, take drugs, scuba dive etc all take calculated risks. Nothing is risk free! | |||
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"You dont like a meaningless fuck with strangers. There’s something missing... You’re looking for a connection that will develop to something nice. See what you have reflecting to the other couple. And when you find that couple you want to enjoy the full pleasure of natural skin to skin intimacy, like you make love to each other. Are we the only ones on this site?" Yum , us too ! After we get to know people ! Trust is important!! | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously. I'm curious why you list safe sex as an interest if you'd rather not have sex than use a condom? Genuine question. We’re equally happy to have safe sex if we click in all other levels with a nice pair of people.. But you said, "we'd rather not have sex than use a condom" " “We” as per Greek people. We as “me and my wife” would certainly consider safe sex with a couple even though we prefer natural. | |||
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" What makes you think the point is bareback sex? The point is meaningful sex, the kind that is a fulfilling experience. Oh, just the thread title being Married Couples Bareback Swap.... And how does it make you feel? It makes me feel as though you are implying other people are meaningless fucking, but your bareback antics have some kind of higher purpose. I feel as though you just prefer barebacking, but like to wrap it up nicely, and have a passive dig at other people at the same time. Meaningful and meaningless is entirely subjective. My opinion is that natural sex feels a lot nicer and means a lot more for both participants. It has a lot to do with our (mine and my wife’s) mentality as Mediterranean people. Condoms for carry the “i dont trust you” element and its kind of disrespectful. We’d rather not have sex than use a condom. I dont expect you to understand because you come from a country where the one night stand is fine so condoms are fine too obviously. I think we understand you just fine now. Every time you manage to find a way of a passive aggresive point. Play how you want, but stop having digs at people who do it different and safer. I am a very calm and polite person. Our verifications say a lot about who we are. I would never push anyone to practice bareback sex but Im against crusades against it. We had safe sex meets too and enjoyed them but what’s wrong in seeking the ultimate experience? Life is too short and bareback sex with married couples (to quote the thread) is definitely not threatening anyone’s life.. Unfortunately you cannot say for definite that unprotected sex with married couples would not threaten anyone's life. Unless both sets of couples underwent a full sexual health screening before participating in sexual activity there will be an element of risk. Some people choose to accept an element of risk and play without protection, some don't. It's about choice in life and as mature adults we should accept others choices and move on if they don't agree with us. I respect everyone’s choice that gors without saying. However, there’s no life threatening std today if diagnosed and treated, this is a scientific fact..
chlamydia can cause an increased risk of contracting HIV, urethritis and/or infertility in men, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID), and infertility, miscarriage, and/or pre-term labor in women. Additionally, premature delivery, conjunctivitis, lung infections, pneumonia, and ear infections may occur in newborns born to mothers with chlamydia.
gonorrhea can cause an increased risk of contracting HIV in men and women. Scarring of the Fallopian tubes, ectopic pregnancies or miscarriage, and infertility in women. Inflammation of the prostate, scarring of the urethra, and infertility in men. Blindness, serious joint infections and potentially deadly blood infections in infants.
Some herpes viruses, including HSV-1 and HSV-2, can cause meningitis and encephalitis. Meningitis is the inflammation of the meninges, which are the membranes surrounding the brain and spinal cord, and encephalitis is inflammation of the brain itself, which is far more serious condition. HSV encephalitis is mainly caused by HSV-1, whereas meningitis is more often caused by HSV-2.
Hepatitis B can cause jaundice, mild to severe liver infection, fibrosis and cirrhosis of the liver, liver failure, hepatocellular carcinoma (cancer), and even death.
Hepatitis C can cause jaundice, cirrhosis, cancer, and end-stage disease of the liver. Hepatitis C can also cause confusion, sleepiness, and disorientation due to toxin buildup in the brain caused by liver cirrhosis, as well as stroke or heart attack, kidney failure, type-2 diabetes, gallstones, thyroid diseases, hypertension, and even death.
If left untreated, syphilis can cause soft, spongy balls of inflammation all over the body and bones, large sores on the skin and inside the body, internal bleeding, enlargement of the liver and/or spleen, deformations, loss of motor functions, seizures, dementia, aneurysm, and even death.
If left untreated, HIV can cause or lead to severe weight loss, increased risk of stroke, heart disease, cancer, liver or kidney disease, accelerated aging, osteoporosis, pneumonia, and death from AIDS.
While I agree with you that many STD's are not life threatening if diagnosed and treated promptly but many can go undiagnosed for long periods of time, can cause debilitating and life changing effects and are not always curable only manageable.
My point was that unless every person you intend to have sexual contact with has a full sexual health check up prior you cannot guarantee the safety of unprotected sex whether it is with couples or singles you know well and trust or have just met.
However people have the choice in whether they take a risk. Just as people who travel in cars, smoke, take drugs, scuba dive etc all take calculated risks.
Nothing is risk free!"I agree with your closure. | |||
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"I don't see the problem with the op. It's a solid fact that if you have bareback sex with random people it would put you at a higher risk of catching something and I would certainly construe that kind of behaviour as meaningless versus meeting and getting to know socially and intimately people over a period of time would lessen the risks of passing on sti's and depending on all parties feelings about each other it could be a meaningful relationship. I don't think it was a 'dig' at people, just letting couples know that if they are of the same mind, please get in touch "This is exactly our intention, thank you..! | |||
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"You dont like a meaningless fuck with strangers. There’s something missing... You’re looking for a connection that will develop to something nice. See what you have reflecting to the other couple. And when you find that couple you want to enjoy the full pleasure of natural skin to skin intimacy, like you make love to each other. Are we the only ones on this site?" | |||
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"You dont like a meaningless fuck with strangers. There’s something missing... You’re looking for a connection that will develop to something nice. See what you have reflecting to the other couple. And when you find that couple you want to enjoy the full pleasure of natural skin to skin intimacy, like you make love to each other. Are we the only ones on this site?" | |||
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"How you make a logical connection between a meaningless fuck and safe sex is beyond me. If you want to do it, that's the choice of you and your meets. Trying to imply it has a higher level of meaning is as valid as your point the other day about yours being the educated choice and the alternative paranoia." Well said | |||
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