FabSwingers.com forum: Cancel and then want to meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

guys what would you do here? I made arrangements to meet a guy who had a cancelation.gave him details and time of meet.it was agreed we would meet.however he then told me that the original meet had changed their minds and he was going to meet them instead.letting me down and my friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd block him and move on. Very disrespectful behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd block him and move on. Very disrespectful behaviour. "

Agree

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit out of order....think they'd be added to the block list.

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By *xperience huntingMan
over a year ago

where

Personally I’d meet me instead lol.

Bit rude of him really despite knowing this site is all about choice etc he’s been a bit of a dick!

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name & shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd block him and move on. Very disrespectful behaviour. "

Ditto

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England

"guys what would you do here? I made arrangements to meet a guy who had a cancelation.gave him details and time of meet.it was agreed we would meet.however he then told me that the original meet had changed their minds and he was going to meet them instead.letting me down and my friends."

It seems fairly straightforward to me. I simply would tell the original meet that I'd made other plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah block him and forget, he sounds like a bit of a tit and obviously doesn't have a problem mucking people about. He really should have said to his original meet that he'd sorted something else after they cancelled. That's a bit out of order of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aargh. You were already choice 2

It's upto you, do you feel let down?

Me, (if I were the guy) I would keep the meet with who I'm meeting, that would have been you, my first plan had cancelled, I'm now meeting you.

If I was the one let down, I was already choice two, I don't know, depends how much I get in with them, are they good friends. I'm mixed with that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let you down and your friends? Wow what had this crazy fool missed out on?

Personally if I was in his situation and a Couple messed me around and I had then made arrangements with someone else I would honour the new arrangements. Simple as that.

Whether you choose to block him now is up to you.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never be second choice to anyone! That in itself is not good.

He is rude and disrespectful. Block him!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Charming!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never be second choice to anyone! That in itself is not good.

He is rude and disrespectful. Block him! "

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Thanks but no thanks simples...squeak!!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No second chance op

Its not respectful to you

He should have told the original meet ,he had made other plans.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never become someone's second best.

Let him know he's blown his chances and you will never give him the chance to meet again x

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Just the fact that he told you he was going with the original meet instead of you makes me think he’s not very respectful. No one wants to be told their plan b. I hope you block him and find someone else. I kinda hope his original meet cancelled him again too.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

block the git and move on

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Once I've made plans, they are pretty much set in concrete. Shifting the goalposts isn't my bag. He seems like a kid in a candy store

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"I'd block him and move on. Very disrespectful behaviour.

Ditto "

Definitely x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow... he had the choice of Two ladies

I wouldn't let anyone down... but wait a minute you have to get a reply first... that doesn't seem to happen to me lol.

Block him and choose another gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems fairly straightforward to me. I simply would tell the original meet that I'd made other plans. "

This would have been the most polite thing to do

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Better offer" syndrome..... tell them to jog on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See you later mate"

Block.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

He at least let you know. That's more than some would have done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Denise... his loss girl.. move on and block the fool...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u looking fab..this is so pathetic..u must block him not only physically but also in ur mind ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a right knob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wait i think u love him or have feelings for him at some corner of ur heart which is dangerous !! on fab

.. r u in love with him or wat? and you looking for some advise here to avoid him?? listen to ur heart .. no one can decide what you need to do ..

happy fabbing

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Above poster ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Above poster ha ha ha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would pass him by and block. I had someone recently tell me the night before a meet they couldn't meet, changed their mind in the morning, then got the hump as I,d made other plans. XXX

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Yeah block him and forget, he sounds like a bit of a tit and obviously doesn't have a problem mucking people about. He really should have said to his original meet that he'd sorted something else after they cancelled. That's a bit out of order of him. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fool me once, shame on you.

Fool me twice ain't gonna happen, twat features.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"Fool me once, shame on you.

Fool me twice ain't gonna happen, twat features."

My rule to live by these days

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Fool me once, shame on you.

Fool me twice ain't gonna happen, twat features."

This is one of my New Years resolutions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never become someone's second best.

Let him know he's blown his chances and you will never give him the chance to meet again x"

This

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