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"Pass the hobnobs "Chocolate ones? You don't want a husband do you? | |||
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"Pass the hobnobs "Chocolate or plain? | |||
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"Pass the hobnobs
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You don't want a husband do you?
Who me "Well, I bloody don't. | |||
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"It's nobody else's business." this.. being judgemental when you don't know the why's and wherefores isn't a good trait either.. just get on with your thing and concentrate on meeting those of a similar mindset maybe.. | |||
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"Pass the hobnobs
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You don't want a husband do you?
Who me "Yeah,I'm trying to get rid of mine. Think this is a good place? Maybe he will come swing with me.  | |||
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"I'm with you on this OP. We may be the only 2 though I'm afraid....keep the faith! Don't trust anyone. I have never been cheated on and will never cheat on anyone but it's the way of the world. If you rely on people being honest on here then you're a little naïve my friend as people tell you anything to get a fuck. It's a toughie but you will learn in good time." How do you know you've never been cheated on, just out of interest? | |||
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"It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners. Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication. Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people. What's everyone else's opinion on this. " I'd say mind your own business. | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. " I agree with this statement. | |||
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"I'm with you on this OP. We may be the only 2 though I'm afraid....keep the faith! Don't trust anyone. I have never been cheated on and will never cheat on anyone but it's the way of the world. If you rely on people being honest on here then you're a little naïve my friend as people tell you anything to get a fuck. It's a toughie but you will learn in good time. How do you know you've never been cheated on, just out of interest?" Good call. | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. " Good. Fancy a shag? | |||
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"That makes me feel awful, I'm here to have fun and not destroy a family. " Interesting How are you destroying a family? | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. Good. Fancy a shag?" I'll have to check my calender. | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. Good. Fancy a shag? I'll have to check my calender. " Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. Good. Fancy a shag? I'll have to check my calender. Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then "I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point. | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. Good. Fancy a shag? I'll have to check my calender. Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point. "How about church on Sunday? | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. Good. Fancy a shag? I'll have to check my calender. Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday? "Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter . | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. Good. Fancy a shag? I'll have to check my calender. Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday?
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter . "Perfect. I'll wear a dress. I'll tell my husband to stay at home with our children this week. | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. Good. Fancy a shag? I'll have to check my calender. Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday?
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter .
Perfect. I'll wear a dress. I'll tell my husband to stay at home with our children this week."It's a deal, make sure it's atlwast a white one. | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. Good. Fancy a shag? I'll have to check my calender. Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday?
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter .
Perfect. I'll wear a dress. I'll tell my husband to stay at home with our children this week.
It's a deal, make sure it's atlwast a white one. "My husband gave it the thumbs up, technically I asked about laying a new carpet but that's just a minor detail. He said yes. | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. Good. Fancy a shag? I'll have to check my calender. Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday?
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter .
Perfect. I'll wear a dress. I'll tell my husband to stay at home with our children this week.
It's a deal, make sure it's atlwast a white one.
My husband gave it the thumbs up, technically I asked about laying a new carpet but that's just a minor detail. He said yes. "Well you didn't state who's carpet was getting laid so I guess that's fair enough. | |||
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"You don't know why they are cheating, they may be doing it so they can stay sane and keep their family together, they may have kids, they may have other reasons. Don't be so quick to judge, everything seems black and white from outside " I like this . | |||
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"Who knows why people cheat. It doesn't just come down to fucking someone. Anything you have to hide from your partner is cheating. If you are doing something you shouldn't be doing then you need to perhaps question your loyalty to that person. We all have excuses for behaving the way we do. We also have the right to privacy. I agree with this statement. Good. Fancy a shag? I'll have to check my calender. Good lad. My husband is working away next month so I'll be free then
I've got exams coming up so I'm sure I can squeeze you in at some point.
How about church on Sunday?
Only if it's over the alter. Just so I can say at some point in my life I had a beautiful her on her knees at the alter .
Perfect. I'll wear a dress. I'll tell my husband to stay at home with our children this week.
It's a deal, make sure it's atlwast a white one.
My husband gave it the thumbs up, technically I asked about laying a new carpet but that's just a minor detail. He said yes.
Well you didn't state who's carpet was getting laid so I guess that's fair enough. "Yes dear | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status "Banter. . | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. . " . Ah yes, I didn't mean it I was just having banter  | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status "You bad, bad, bad woman!!!! | |||
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"It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners. Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication. Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people. What's everyone else's opinion on this. " I quite agree with you. Just be honest with each other and have some respect | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
You bad, bad, bad woman!!!! "So bad. Spank me | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. . "If it 'infuriates' you so much surely when Miss H asked you if you wanted a shag you would of wanted to double check she wasn't doing the c word? No? | |||
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"Ah the weekly white knight look at me thread "Don't listen to him OP, it may not have been your intention but you're shown the Forum to be a completely different place! Not that long ago you'd have being applauded and showered with agreement on your thread. Right then, who'd like a meet in a lovely five* all expenses paid hotel? | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
If it 'infuriates' you so much surely when Miss H asked you if you wanted a shag you would of wanted to double check she wasn't doing the c word? No?"Who said I didn't? Just because it's not in the forum it doesn't mean I didn't  . | |||
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"That makes me feel awful, I'm here to have fun and not destroy a family. Interesting How are you destroying a family?" I don't blame anyone but my husband for destroying our family, and him cheating was the least of my worries. | |||
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"It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners. Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication. Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people. What's everyone else's opinion on this. " What about if your partner did still love you ? | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
You bad, bad, bad woman!!!!
So bad. Spank me "Hi | |||
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"It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners. Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication. Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people. What's everyone else's opinion on this. " Mine is you don't know what foes on behind closed doors. | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
If it 'infuriates' you so much surely when Miss H asked you if you wanted a shag you would of wanted to double check she wasn't doing the c word? No?
Who said I didn't? Just because it's not in the forum it doesn't mean I didn't. "True dat | |||
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"What about if you could do it without getting caught? " No, still not for me. I kinda like the idea that I'm screwing someone's wife with them having full knowledge of it happening. | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
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"Wanders in reads thread... It's de ja vu .... All over again... Did someone mention hob nobs "Yep me. Lets go sit in the corner | |||
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"Pass the hobnobs
Chocolate ones?
You don't want a husband do you?
Who me
Well, I bloody don't."Hah hah not with the hobnob couldnt eat a whole husband | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
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To be fair, it didn't look real"Rugby you break my heart. You know I rarely suggest church. That's what gave me away right? | |||
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"Pass the hobnobs
Chocolate ones?
You don't want a husband do you?
Who me
Well, I bloody don't.
Hah hah not with the hobnob couldnt eat a whole husband "Eat some, freeze the rest | |||
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"Wanders in reads thread... It's de ja vu .... All over again... Did someone mention hob nobs
Yep me. Lets go sit in the corner "Your not planning on eating me...are you | |||
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"Pass the hobnobs
Chocolate ones?
You don't want a husband do you?
Who me
Well, I bloody don't.
Hah hah not with the hobnob couldnt eat a whole husband
Eat some, freeze the rest "No. I prefer fresh meat | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
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To be fair, it didn't look real
Rugby you break my heart. You know I rarely suggest church. That's what gave me away right? "No it was the carpet, everyone knows wood flooring is the way to go now | |||
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"There you go see. Just goes to show that with a little persuasion no one really cares about your marital status
Banter. .
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To be fair, it didn't look real
Rugby you break my heart. You know I rarely suggest church. That's what gave me away right?
No it was the carpet, everyone knows wood flooring is the way to go now"Flooring faux pas. My bad | |||
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"It's seriously infuriating that many of the women and men that I talk to on here that are cheating on their partners. Like grow some balls and speak to your husband or wife if the relationship is that bad that you have considered sleeping with other people. A relationship works on communication. Yeah I get that it's their life and able to do what they please. Personal opinion that if you have to cheat, then the relationship is already over. Instead of hurting the other person just end it. Would save so much heart brake. If rather here a someone tell me they don't love me anymore rather than finding out they have slept with different people. What's everyone else's opinion on this. " Yawn.
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"Why is nobody ever infuriated with those in a relationship who don’t have sex with their partner? Why is there always an excuse made for their behaviour?" I often wonder that. Of course there are loads of reasons ranging from illness to their partner is so rubbish that they just can't face it and a lot of the reasons are valid and deserving of sympathy. I also wonder if its entirely true a lot of the time. No sex at home is only one reason behind infidelity though. I often wonder too why the cheated on partner is described as "the innnocent victim" when we actually have no idea if that's true or not. | |||
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" I often wonder too why the cheated on partner is described as "the innnocent victim" when we actually have no idea if that's true or not. " This. Which brings me to my first post, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors. Don't get me wrong I don't think sex is compulsory and people don't obviously have to do it if they don't want to but if you have a partner that really doesn't want sex and no amount of communication between you will make any difference then to keep getting told " go speak to your wife" must be like a smack in the face. Marriage isn't just about sex so some people won't leave because they actually love the person, so to be told leave your wife must also be annoying. | |||
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"Why is nobody ever infuriated with those in a relationship who don’t have sex with their partner? Why is there always an excuse made for their behaviour?" Because a lot of people only see cheating as one dimensional the stereotypical version that gets mentioned all the time on here. | |||
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Couldn't care if you want to cheat, just don't lie to us pretending to be single and getting us tangled up in your fucked up relationship. | |||
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"Why is nobody ever infuriated with those in a relationship who don’t have sex with their partner? Why is there always an excuse made for their behaviour? I often wonder that. Of course there are loads of reasons ranging from illness to their partner is so rubbish that they just can't face it and a lot of the reasons are valid and deserving of sympathy. I also wonder if its entirely true a lot of the time. No sex at home is only one reason behind infidelity though. I often wonder too why the cheated on partner is described as "the innnocent victim" when we actually have no idea if that's true or not. " Cheating is the ultimate sin, nothing the ‘innocent party’ might have done comes even close. These are only assumptions on how I think it maybe viewed. | |||
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