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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So who should be the first to initiate contact...either in forums or real life...is it a blokes job to make the first move or are attitudes changing.. .do you women feel it's the bloke who should make the first move....thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, I thought the aliens had landed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimey, I thought the aliens had landed! "

Haha...hello to another fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, either, but neither will get nowhere fast!

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

That's where we've been going wrong!

Duh de duh dur duhhhhh

(Close Encounters of the Third Kind tones meaning "Busty bi girls, come get us" Aliens equally welcome! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never mail anyone first

Lucky I am patient eh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you see someone you like then message them. At best you get to meet them. At worst you get ignored. Either way youre not left wondering.

It doesn't matter if youre male female or anything else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think if you see someone you like then message them. At best you get to meet them. At worst you get ignored. Either way youre not left wondering.

It doesn't matter if youre male female or anything else. "

So would you approach a group of guys just to say hi to one of them....i think most blokes find this a terrifying prospect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pffft thought it was a star trek thread.

Are well live longer and prosper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't message anyone first anymore. The one time i did, i was accused of doing so out of pity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't message anyone first anymore. The one time i did, i was accused of doing so out of pity.

"

So harsh....did they not know how to take a compliment.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

In real life I wouldn’t make the first move in case I frightened the poor bugger off. On here I have messaged guys first but not very often. I’m not as brave as I should be but I’m certainly learning fast

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In real life I wouldn’t make the first move in case I frightened the poor bugger off. On here I have messaged guys first but not very often. I’m not as brave as I should be but I’m certainly learning fast "

Scared them off how...do tell haha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you see someone you like then message them. At best you get to meet them. At worst you get ignored. Either way youre not left wondering.

It doesn't matter if youre male female or anything else.

So would you approach a group of guys just to say hi to one of them....i think most blokes find this a terrifying prospect"

No. In real life i tend to be too shy to be looking around to spot anyone i fancy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think if you see someone you like then message them. At best you get to meet them. At worst you get ignored. Either way youre not left wondering.

It doesn't matter if youre male female or anything else.

So would you approach a group of guys just to say hi to one of them....i think most blokes find this a terrifying prospect

No. In real life i tend to be too shy to be looking around to spot anyone i fancy. "

Eyes open Mrs.... you never know who you might see looking your way

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

On here I'd be okay with going first. In real life never

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On here I'd be okay with going first. In real life never "

So tell... why not in real life

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

Nothing ventured nothing gained - a short, polite message might get you into a conversation, whether you are M, couple, straight F or Unicorn.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

If I see someone hot M or F I tell em. Ms

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Her approached me first (on here). Now look where we are!

Hmm x

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