FabSwingers.com forum: scars

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

if you were going to meet someone would it put u off if they had scars??

I have scars on my inner thighs they not to bad now but were a while ago and was just wondering everyones honest opinion i am thick skinned so wont take offence is anyone says it would put them off just want honest feedback

cheers much mrs spicy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have 2 heads, 3 arms and 2 fannies and you still wouldn't put most blokes off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars wouldnt put me off, they dont make the person, anyone who would be put off is pretty shallo I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well read ur profile so its no surprise...it wouldnt put me off even if i wasnt told... but Id always hope to be told of something like that just so there isnt that odd look..last thing Id want to do is make u feel embarrassed about it by my possible instant reaction

hope that makes sense...now back to perving the lovely pics hehehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a few scares on my belly, ive had 3 sections so my cesarean scare is quite thick and dark as they do not cut old scare tissue so each one is slightly above the last making it look like one thick line, i also have other scares on my bely from other ops, i have a couple on my face too from where ive had stitches, one on the top of my nose and another under my bottom lip, thank god for make up lol

Ive never had anyone tell me they dont want to play with me because of either but then you enver know some could just be polite and make another excuse to not play

If it does put people off so what? theres plenty more fish in the sea, and for every guy who does not want to meet/play me, for whatever reason theres 50 that will

As for would it put me off, no it wouldnt, so long as i was attracted to the person and they had a good personality a few scares wouldnt matter at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, the m half has scars on legs and f has a few on her torso, hers are very small, but it doesnt bother us and weve never had a play mate say no because of them, we used to be worried about it but swinging has made us more happy in our skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars, stretch marks its what makes us individuals and beautiful and unique. I have stretch marks a baggy belly and c section scars and I am a mum if people cant accept them then they can jog on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have a few scares on my belly, ive had 3 sections so my cesarean scare is quite thick and dark as they do not cut old scare tissue so each one is slightly above the last making it look like one thick line, i also have other scares on my bely from other ops, i have a couple on my face too from where ive had stitches, one on the top of my nose and another under my bottom lip, thank god for make up lol

Ive never had anyone tell me they dont want to play with me because of either but then you enver know some could just be polite and make another excuse to not play

If it does put people off so what? theres plenty more fish in the sea, and for every guy who does not want to meet/play me, for whatever reason theres 50 that will

As for would it put me off, no it wouldnt, so long as i was attracted to the person and they had a good personality a few scares wouldnt matter at all "

Don't mean to be rude so Don't answer if its personal, but how did you manage those scars on your face? sounds like an interesting story!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"if you were going to meet someone would it put u off if they had scars??

cheers much mrs spicy xx"

No problem here, a playmate has scars from her mastectomy, doesn't stop her from being one sexy woman!

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I have skin grafts on both arms after an accident at work. As far as I am aware it's never put anyone off that we have asked to play. The odd one or two of our friends have actually laughed when I asked them!

If someone is that shallow that they don't want to play because of a few scares then you are probably better off anyway!

Forget them people will barely notice. Mind you if we were to meet you can check mine out if I can check yours?

taste test maybe required.... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us have scars from some kind of op etc, I myself have had 2 sections and have a scar, but this is very neat and therefore not really that visible unless you studied it up close and only visible at all because I am shaven.

In the OPs case, like Raise has said, people will be wondering to what extent this scarring is, so maybe a pic sent to those who wish to meet so that their reaction doesn't make you feel uncomfortable on the night. As you've mentioned it on your profile then people will form an opinion before they meet you.

But I don't believe that noone would be put off by scarring. I would think twice about meeting a heavily scarred burns victim. Not because I'm a shallow cow and only play with good looking people, but because as they are strangers to me, I won't have formed enough of a bond to see past the scarring. If I played my mind would be focusing on seeing scarring like that, up close, for the first time and my mind wouldn't switch off to enjoy the play session.

I wouldn't want to think that my memory of them would mainly be about the scars and not the fab person and time we had. If I had met them in real life, formed a bond and fallen in love over time, then scarring wouldn't matter a jot to me. But meeting a playmate for 3 hrs then I'd be thinking of the scars and ultimately that is not fair on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had stitches in a finger and there's no scar so I'm still 100% unscathed by life. Siren has a c-section scar on her tum but the surgeon did quite a neat job of it and it's fading well. Those kinds of 'life' scars wouldn't put me off meeting someone but a hideous disfigurement would. I know it's not their fault but that's as honest an answer as I can give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have 2 on my tummy c section scar going across and from that scar to my belly button emergency op. i was conscious of them with my ex but not anymore.

i hv met guys with scars and a guy with a deformed arm and it didnt bother me. none of us are perfect after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often find that what I am body conscious about is rarely an issue to meets.

Unless the subject is brought up, most meets don't even notice or if they do, few will mention it.

The 'problem' is probably a bigger issue in your head than it is in their eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well thank you all who answered it made my mind more at ease and will take pics of inner thighs and show prior to a meet to save any awkwarness my hubby always says im bein silly but hey i get parra bout meets and thats wat kinda stops me from meeting more lol

they are like small blister type scars some have faded some can be quiey prominent but i suppose its kike someone said prob ,ore in my head but really thanks all

linzi xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well thank you all who answered it made my mind more at ease and will take pics of inner thighs and show prior to a meet to save any awkwarness my hubby always says im bein silly but hey i get parra bout meets and thats wat kinda stops me from meeting more lol

they are like small blister type scars some have faded some can be quiey prominent but i suppose its kike someone said prob ,ore in my head but really thanks all

linzi xxx"

Hey linzi,

I wouldn't even worry about taking the pics. I have marks from carrying a baby that are impossible to hide from meets... unless I wear a crotchless Spiderman or Bat-man outfit lol!

I've never had any complaints from meets... I've even had a guy stroking my stretchmarks

I used to worry myself but not anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment I've currently got a external fixator in me leg (big metal frame with pins going through my leg) as I broke it several months ago. I have put meets on hold till it is fixed as i dont feel comfortable meeting with it on. When talking to people I've always told them about it and I'm surprised that no one cares and would still be happy to meet. People want to meet for who you are not for the scars you've got

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Psoriasis for me & had it for 22 yrs, although not technically a scar, it's not one of the prettiest of conditions. I could do without it but as with any blemish of the skin I suppose we learn to live with it. Hopefully people see beyond the outer shell.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I went out with a guy for two years that had terrible scarring on his face. He had 52 stitches and they where the old type and didnt look pretty but i soon forgot about them.

Good luckxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

c section scars wouldnt put me off, not a big deal and anyway without wanting to sound to crude, may mean a tighter pussy. oh wait that was really crude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they are like small blister type scars some have faded some can be quiey prominent but i suppose its kike someone said prob ,ore in my head but really thanks all

linzi xxx"

From what you've described it doesn't sound like extreme scarring and I bet noone would notice. It will always seem a bigger issue to you because you are self conscious - just like my tummy is to me.

Don't take pics unless you want to. Its your body and noone elses right.

My post was hypothetical in relation to extreme scarring. I've never seen anyone on this site like that but if there was, then maybe they would mention it before a meet as it would be apparent. It would be unlikely as not many meet without seeing a pic first anyway.

From the OPs description it doesn't sound like anything people would worry over in the slightest so just carry on enjoying your meets and don't worry.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

It's part of the roadmap of your life. Part of what makes you, YOU! I don't think it would put me off, but that is yet to be tested. Never met anyone with scars other than the norm! (C-section and the like) It is a decision I would make if we were contacted by someone in that situation.

I have no qualms about meeting people with disability and that includes missing limbs, but I think that is obvious when looking at profiles. Not everyone mentions scarring, so as another poster typed, it would be good to know so there is no instant negative reaction when they are revealed.

Actually, there is one aspect of this (greater) picture I am not sure about. Wheelchair users. Irrational and I have no idea why, but sitting here right now it’s a no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"c section scars wouldnt put me off, not a big deal and anyway without wanting to sound to crude, may mean a tighter pussy. oh wait that was really crude "

it was crude but made me laugh how you though that way!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

may i refer you to the scene in lethal weapon 3 when they compare their scars and get it on.. all be it the actress isnt for me but the idea is hott. scars can be sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish my c section scar was like others....loads of women had them across...mine is straight up and me tum looks like me bum but not as big. lmao

I hate showing it and those that know me in the biblical sense know this and no pressure at all. once i get going

i do tend to forget it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"c section scars wouldnt put me off, not a big deal and anyway without wanting to sound to crude, may mean a tighter pussy. oh wait that was really crude

it was crude but made me laugh how you though that way!!

With Siren being pregnant at the moment I've joked with her that if she delivers naturally and suffers a tear I've paid the surgeon to leave a few stitches out (she's quite tight you see and slipping in unannounced is an impossibility).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"c section scars wouldnt put me off, not a big deal and anyway without wanting to sound to crude, may mean a tighter pussy. oh wait that was really crude

it was crude but made me laugh how you though that way!!

Lmao @ wishy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some scars where the crowman botched my head transplant, there is some straw sticking out of them but I don't think anyone has noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have some scars where the crowman botched my head transplant, there is some straw sticking out of them but I don't think anyone has noticed

We have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"c section scars wouldnt put me off, not a big deal and anyway without wanting to sound to crude, may mean a tighter pussy. oh wait that was really crude

it was crude but made me laugh how you though that way!!

made me laugh too lol and apparently its true, ive nevere given birth naturally only had sections and ive had a few comments about how neet and tight my bits are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have some scars where the crowman botched my head transplant, there is some straw sticking out of them but I don't think anyone has noticed

We have

Damn I better trim them with the Flymo then, wondered why I had not had any love bites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"c section scars wouldnt put me off, not a big deal and anyway without wanting to sound to crude, may mean a tighter pussy. oh wait that was really crude

it was crude but made me laugh how you though that way!!

Lmao @ wishy

I may joke about it but she's terrified of a natural birth as she's never done that before. She's been reading all sorts of stuff about childbirth and what happens if etc, how to prevent etc, and one of the things she's read says that the woman's partner should massage the bit between the anus and vagina with his fingers - I'm fookin up for that!! Yee Haa!!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"and one of the things she's read says that the woman's partner should massage the bit between the anus and vagina with his fingers - I'm fookin up for that!! Yee Haa!!

But it has to be done 24 hours a day

(Runs off to join the end of the queue of willing helpers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A scar wouldnt put me off at all, i have some faded ones from a bust reduction in '93 they are life marks, like stretch marks, they are part of us x

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By *ricky_DickyMan
over a year ago

Mirfield

Scars don't bother me I've quite a few of my own, but I am curious as to how people get their scars.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Beauty is more than skin deep, its the person that matters not the packaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

scars dont bother me as a fem i have a few of my own due to operations in the past when i was a kid sigh such a long time ago aw but most people have them xxxxxx be differrent if it was open wounds tho oooooo xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be differrent if it was open wounds tho oooooo xxxxx

You owe me a new keyboard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way you look on your profile, and with that sexy ass, i got to say, theres no way in hell a few scares would put me of you. You look fab xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a scar on my face, quite a big one where i had 28 stitches. I had plastic surgery on it and its a lot less noticeable now but ive never thought to pre warn any meets about it as its part of me. I think im more conscious of it because i see it every day and know how i got it but to be honest no one has ever remarked on it. I also have a c-section scar.

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

scars wouldnt put me off anyone! its the person i fancy first. and some scars could be sexy to me. i have 3 scars on my ribs to the right and never had a problem with them. even tho i know some people may have scars in a more visible place that may worry them. but for me, scars wouldnt put me off in the slightest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars wouldn't bother us at all, and wouldn't expect you to tell us before we met either, I have a massive one on my arm and soph has stretch marks ect we expect them they are just part of life, it's quite nice to discover them on people makes it feel special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have what I considered to be a mahoosive and unsightly scar across my waistline from an op when I was in my twenties but since swinging have realised that it is not as noticeable as I thought it was. Had my belly pierced to give peep summat else to look at and wear a bikini again these day.

Think we often see ourselves worse then others will.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Scars wouldnt worry us, i have a cpl myself along with stretch marks and cellulite. The one that annoyed me the most was the one on my neck, but now its not that visible. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm self conscious of my scars and stretch marks. Nothing anyone says takes away the fact they're in front of my eyes. I hate them and always will. I can't be philosophical or brave about them and would never tell anyone not to be silly as its something that defies logical thinking and perspective.

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

I have several scars, one of which is quite big, but before this thread I have never thought to mention them as I have had most of them nearly all my life. I'm alive because of the life-saving operations I've had and so they are so much part of me. No-one has ever commented except an occasional query as to what caused them.

Vixen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't know if you remember but i contacted you a while back as i suffer with HS too although luckily i seem to be having a remission patch at the mo its been a good 4 months without an outbreak which is the longest i have gone in 25 years so everything crossed its stays away for a while longer

i've never even really thought about my scars to be honest and never had anyone shy away from me once they see them but then after seeing pictures of other sufferers mine is incredibly mild compared to theirs thankfully

i do not know what degree yours is to but i'm certain you are more aware of them than any other person would ever be, just like someone that has a big nose get so incredibly paranoid over it whereas everyone around them thinks it looks just fine and they really don't need to get that second mortgage to get it reduced

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