FabSwingers.com forum: Chance I could be pregnant? Anyone know or can advise please?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So yesterday I made him cum and then we had unprotected sex but he didn’t cum inside me! I don’t ovulate for around 8ish days and on day 6 of my cycle so anyone know about the chances of pregnancy ? I’m contemplating taking the morning after pill as I really don’t want a baby!! (Yes I know this was a bit silly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dont want to get another forum ban so I'll just wish you well and hope your not pregnant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell pregnant with youngest whilst on the contraceptive injection, we had unprotected sex and he never came inside me but she still happened. His pre cum swimmers were enough so I guess there's always a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you know what decision to make regarding morning after pill. We all make silly mistakes just need to deal with it unfortunately best way for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can I just state this is with a long term partner! Not unprotected sex with a random! Not sure if that changes anything though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just state this is with a long term partner! Not unprotected sex with a random! Not sure if that changes anything though!"

Mine was my long term partner as well. 8yrs together with 2 kids. Still didn't stop him walking out in the end and I wouldn't change having the kids now but totally understand where your coming from. Last thing I wanted at the time was another kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just state this is with a long term partner! Not unprotected sex with a random! Not sure if that changes anything though!"

Aww you'll definetly not be pregnant then x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I just state this is with a long term partner! Not unprotected sex with a random! Not sure if that changes anything though!

Aww you'll definetly not be pregnant then x"

What’s with the sarcasm?? I’m asking a question as I know the chances of pregnancy are “usually” 5 days before ovulation and I’m not ovulating! Was mostly hoping someone with knowledge could advise, not after Critisism!! It was unprotected because the condom split, not that that changes anything either!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the pill, puts a line under any doubt and puts the mind at ease. Simple solution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So yesterday I made him cum and then we had unprotected sex but he didn’t cum inside me! I don’t ovulate for around 8ish days and on day 6 of my cycle so anyone know about the chances of pregnancy ? I’m contemplating taking the morning after pill as I really don’t want a baby!! (Yes I know this was a bit silly) "

If you really don't want a child then you should do the morning after pill... But I also think you should consider the repercussions... Good Luck however you decide to go forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a pregnancy test 6 days before your next period is the earliest you can check from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just state this is with a long term partner! Not unprotected sex with a random! Not sure if that changes anything though!

Aww you'll definetly not be pregnant then x

You mentioned unprotected sex. I rolled my eyes n thought fuck sake stupid bitch. Canny help myself sorry. Its an ifliction ah tell ye x

I completely understand but didn’t give all the details! I’m stupid because I’m due to have the coil fitted in 3 weeks and just feel stupid for this to happen at my age but believe me it wasn’t intentional, we stopped when we realised hence how he didn’t cum inside me but obviously know there’s a small risk especially as he’d already cum prior to this!! Sorry for any confusion, just didn’t think to give all the details!!"

Go to your doctors and tell them whats happened and theres a good chance they will fit it there n then. Think getting the coil fitted covers you for up to a week or so of unprotected sex. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I just state this is with a long term partner! Not unprotected sex with a random! Not sure if that changes anything though!

Aww you'll definetly not be pregnant then x

You mentioned unprotected sex. I rolled my eyes n thought fuck sake stupid bitch. Canny help myself sorry. Its an ifliction ah tell ye x

Go to your doctors and tell them whats happened and theres a good chance they will fit it there n then. Think getting the coil fitted covers you for up to a week or so of unprotected sex. Good luck x"

Thanks, there’s a long waiting list for it to be fitted but I’m having a gyno operation in 3 weeks so was having the coil fitted during that, I will try and get a doc appt tomorrow, just don’t want to waste a doctors time if the chances of pregnancy are very very slim but altho it wouldn’t be the end of the world having a baby, we haven’t planned for it yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just state this is with a long term partner! Not unprotected sex with a random! Not sure if that changes anything though!

Aww you'll definetly not be pregnant then x

You mentioned unprotected sex. I rolled my eyes n thought fuck sake stupid bitch. Canny help myself sorry. Its an ifliction ah tell ye x

Go to your doctors and tell them whats happened and theres a good chance they will fit it there n then. Think getting the coil fitted covers you for up to a week or so of unprotected sex. Good luck x

Youll waste more of their time if you are pregnant lol phone the doctor....get the morning after pill and stop bloody stressing lol

Youll be fine doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you have a child but would get rid of this one if you were pregnant

Some people don't realise how blessed they are to have, or to be able to have children

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So you have a child but would get rid of this one if you were pregnant

Some people don't realise how blessed they are to have, or to be able to have children "

I don’t have a child? And this one isn’t even conceived yet so please don’t judge me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was after some advice, wish I’d not even asked now!! Thanks to those who sent me some lovely PMs, I really appreciate it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you have a child but would get rid of this one if you were pregnant

Some people don't realise how blessed they are to have, or to be able to have children

I don’t have a child? And this one isn’t even conceived yet so please don’t judge me! "

I misread... I thought you had written having another baby isn't the end of the world.

Apologies

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Make an appointment at your GP or go and have a chat with the pharmasist. Fingers crossed for you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get the pill, puts a line under any doubt and puts the mind at ease. Simple solution

This. This is all the advice that's needed. No drama. Easily done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a phone consultation with your gp and request the morning after pill.

If you are having a the coil fitted during an op then you clearly hadn't planned on having kids.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

The last place I would come for advice would be on fab

There are so many people waiting to be nasty about any subject

You would have been better off not mentioning it on here

Just go and get the morning after pill....sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely this thread was done after one line.

'Go and get the morning after pill' is all that's needed. We don't need the story or details.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Sperm can live inside you for Period of 5-7 days so there’s always a chance that you could conceive a week after you actually fucked him. With my fraternal twins my dating scan revealed I conceived twin one on the Friday the day after me and my ex slept together and twin two 5 days later

You don’t want a baby then it should be quite clear what you should do without even asking the question, just go and get the morning after pill! Better to be safe than sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you don't want to be pregnant and had unprotected sex go take the morning after pill. If you really don't eant to be pregnant, don't play the odds gambling on chances and ovulation. You have 48 hours to take the pill, the earlier you do it, the better the chance of it working or 5 days if you go to your GP for an IUD.

If you really don't want to be pregnant, don't have unprotected sex

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By *ayHamboMan
over a year ago

Enfield

For piece of mind if you don't want a child, take the pill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you have a child but would get rid of this one if you were pregnant

Some people don't realise how blessed they are to have, or to be able to have children

I don’t have a child? And this one isn’t even conceived yet so please don’t judge me!

I misread... I thought you had written having another baby isn't the end of the world.

Apologies "

Please never try to make someone feel bad for terminating a pregnancy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the pill just incase but they don't fit the coil if there's a chance you can be pregnant. They usually like to do it after you've had you're period so check with the docs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want a baby, take the morning after pill.

Better to be safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So take the morning after pill, really don't see why you need the advice of strangers here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're worried about getting the morning after pill then don't. You're given a brief chat from the Pharmacist, they check your medical details to ensure no medical issues preventing you from taking it, make you take it in front of them with a drop of water and off you go.

They do it confidentially, and will (should) take you somewhere private to chat about it.

Accidents happen. They realise this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t there a short time frame for the morning after pill so you’re best to sort it out today

If you don’t want to go to the GP you can obtain the MA pill at the GUM clinic.

Re the coil they do ask if there’s a chance you could be pregnant before fitting as it will most likely trigger a miscarriage.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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OP I like you, I feel like you have made an error by asking this question. You know folk will eye roll hell I did too.

If you don't want to get pregnant you need to be taking precaution,your coil is in 3 weeks so use an alternative....You are old enough to know this.

Go to the chemist and get the map. Be mindful in future though hey. You know folk are unable to have children and dream of saying those words you have.

Do what works for you. We shouldn't judge but we do, quite frankly because you should know better.

Kisses

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Oh she's bloody gone anyway.

See ya lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who was it?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Who was it?

Luscious lady

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"OP I like you, I feel like you have made an error by asking this question. You know folk will eye roll hell I did too.

If you don't want to get pregnant you need to be taking precaution,your coil is in 3 weeks so use an alternative....You are old enough to know this.

Go to the chemist and get the map. Be mindful in future though hey. You know folk are unable to have children and dream of saying those words you have.

Do what works for you. We shouldn't judge but we do, quite frankly because you should know better.

Kisses "

She's gone anyway but I'll defend her just to play devil's advocate lol

She did say it was unprotected due to the condom splitting so they were using alternative protection but noticing in 100% safe.

Having said that I'm sure I was told not to have sex between appointments to get my implant fitted although not sure I stuck to that lol

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"OP I like you, I feel like you have made an error by asking this question. You know folk will eye roll hell I did too.

If you don't want to get pregnant you need to be taking precaution,your coil is in 3 weeks so use an alternative....You are old enough to know this.

Go to the chemist and get the map. Be mindful in future though hey. You know folk are unable to have children and dream of saying those words you have.

Do what works for you. We shouldn't judge but we do, quite frankly because you should know better.

Kisses

She's gone anyway but I'll defend her just to play devil's advocate lol

She did say it was unprotected due to the condom splitting so they were using alternative protection but noticing in 100% safe.

Having said that I'm sure I was told not to have sex between appointments to get my implant fitted although not sure I stuck to that lol "

If the condom was split and she was waiting for a coil...what was the alternative protection?

Not sticking to Drs advice, naughty Evie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I like you, I feel like you have made an error by asking this question. You know folk will eye roll hell I did too.

If you don't want to get pregnant you need to be taking precaution,your coil is in 3 weeks so use an alternative....You are old enough to know this.

Go to the chemist and get the map. Be mindful in future though hey. You know folk are unable to have children and dream of saying those words you have.

Do what works for you. We shouldn't judge but we do, quite frankly because you should know better.

Kisses

She's gone anyway but I'll defend her just to play devil's advocate lol

She did say it was unprotected due to the condom splitting so they were using alternative protection but noticing in 100% safe.

Having said that I'm sure I was told not to have sex between appointments to get my implant fitted although not sure I stuck to that lol "

I’m guessing she thought this was a good place to ask for advice.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"OP I like you, I feel like you have made an error by asking this question. You know folk will eye roll hell I did too.

If you don't want to get pregnant you need to be taking precaution,your coil is in 3 weeks so use an alternative....You are old enough to know this.

Go to the chemist and get the map. Be mindful in future though hey. You know folk are unable to have children and dream of saying those words you have.

Do what works for you. We shouldn't judge but we do, quite frankly because you should know better.

Kisses

She's gone anyway but I'll defend her just to play devil's advocate lol

She did say it was unprotected due to the condom splitting so they were using alternative protection but noticing in 100% safe.

Having said that I'm sure I was told not to have sex between appointments to get my implant fitted although not sure I stuck to that lol

I’m guessing she thought this was a good place to ask for advice.

Ah yes because we are all medically trained.

I wonder if the guy who wasn't sure about going to a&e is well.

I hope he made it, remember him?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So take the morning after pill, really don't see why you need the advice of strangers here

Makes you wonder how some people manage to get up and dressed at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has other people not being able to have kids got to do with the OP? Why should she be made to feel responsible or guilty for someone else being unable to conceive? Because that's the only reason to mention it, to guilt her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I like you, I feel like you have made an error by asking this question. You know folk will eye roll hell I did too.

If you don't want to get pregnant you need to be taking precaution,your coil is in 3 weeks so use an alternative....You are old enough to know this.

Go to the chemist and get the map. Be mindful in future though hey. You know folk are unable to have children and dream of saying those words you have.

Do what works for you. We shouldn't judge but we do, quite frankly because you should know better.

Kisses

She's gone anyway but I'll defend her just to play devil's advocate lol

She did say it was unprotected due to the condom splitting so they were using alternative protection but noticing in 100% safe.

Having said that I'm sure I was told not to have sex between appointments to get my implant fitted although not sure I stuck to that lol

I’m guessing she thought this was a good place to ask for advice.

Ah yes because we are all medically trained.

I wonder if the guy who wasn't sure about going to a&e is well.

I hope he made it, remember him?"
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Whilst I agree if you have a serious medical issue don’t ask randoms off the internet ~ you don’t have to be medically trained to answer a general question about the MA pill.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"OP I like you, I feel like you have made an error by asking this question. You know folk will eye roll hell I did too.

If you don't want to get pregnant you need to be taking precaution,your coil is in 3 weeks so use an alternative....You are old enough to know this.

Go to the chemist and get the map. Be mindful in future though hey. You know folk are unable to have children and dream of saying those words you have.

Do what works for you. We shouldn't judge but we do, quite frankly because you should know better.

Kisses

She's gone anyway but I'll defend her just to play devil's advocate lol

She did say it was unprotected due to the condom splitting so they were using alternative protection but noticing in 100% safe.

Having said that I'm sure I was told not to have sex between appointments to get my implant fitted although not sure I stuck to that lol

I’m guessing she thought this was a good place to ask for advice.

Yes. I think Fab would be my first option in an emergency medical situation not my GP or nhs direct...oh wait...I wouldn't!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"What has other people not being able to have kids got to do with the OP? Why should she be made to feel responsible or guilty for someone else being unable to conceive? Because that's the only reason to mention it, to guilt her.

I shouldn't think that is the way it was meant.

You know there are things which will always be mentioned on this topic. Not to 'guilt' folk

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I agree with this!

Totally uncalled for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I like you, I feel like you have made an error by asking this question. You know folk will eye roll hell I did too.

If you don't want to get pregnant you need to be taking precaution,your coil is in 3 weeks so use an alternative....You are old enough to know this.

Go to the chemist and get the map. Be mindful in future though hey. You know folk are unable to have children and dream of saying those words you have.

Do what works for you. We shouldn't judge but we do, quite frankly because you should know better.

Kisses

She's gone anyway but I'll defend her just to play devil's advocate lol

She did say it was unprotected due to the condom splitting so they were using alternative protection but noticing in 100% safe.

Having said that I'm sure I was told not to have sex between appointments to get my implant fitted although not sure I stuck to that lol

I’m guessing she thought this was a good place to ask for advice.

Yes. I think Fab would be my first option in an emergency medical situation not my GP or nhs direct...oh wait...I wouldn't! "

See reply above ^^

I wouldn’t necessarily ask either but some people people run their whole lives via a social media outlet.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Anyway. She isn't here anymore. Let's hope whatever she decides to do she is happy in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this!

Totally uncalled for."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk just want reassurance, hoping that someone will post who may have been through the same thing.

I'm sure she had support in private, from those not showboating their indignation on the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some folk just want reassurance, hoping that someone will post who may have been through the same thing.

I'm sure she had support in private, from those not showboating their indignation on the thread."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had best not mention any form of contraception as this prevents us from getting pregnant too. Some people will take offence at almost anything.

I had trouble conceiving both my children. It took seven years to conceive my second and we didn't use contraception at all. I had no issue when a close friend and my sister in law both had terminations. I was there for both despite my own issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t necessarily ask either but some people people run their whole lives via a social media outlet."

Yes they do

People on social media aren't your friends.

Having 500 friends on Facebook means nothing.

I hope the OP is OK and has someone else to talk to other than a load of strangers on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i would suggest that you make a appointment to see your doctor as soon as possible,Good luck

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Some folk just want reassurance, hoping that someone will post who may have been through the same thing.

I'm sure she had support in private, from those not showboating their indignation on the thread."

Which she got

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn’t there a short time frame for the morning after pill so you’re best to sort it out today

It's known as the 72 hr pill too.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Sometimes it is nasty on here , we all need advice / confirmation of something sometimes and if people want to ask what sauce they have on their bacon butty then they can ask this

Next time please remember we are not all the same and if you want to be nasty / bitchy then stay off the thread

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