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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm relatively new here as I createdthe profile ages ago but hardly used it. As a single guy its hard to arrange meets when you're not verified and sometimes women just ignore you for various reasons. I have since been verified HOWEVER I get the feeling my profile isn't that appealing so I wanted some GENIUNE advise from WOMEN about my profile and how to improve it. I think it's a decent profile but the lack of replies I'm getting is clearly indicating something is not quite right.

I'm being absolutely geniune so please keep the advise possitive as there is no need for negativity and insults as I know how these forums can decend.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Why not TRY doing a FORUM search for OTHER threads on the SAME subject

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not TRY doing a FORUM search for OTHER threads on the SAME subject "

But that wouldn't be personal to me. I want advice on my profile from women not on other people's profiles. But I do get where you arw coming from so thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do talk about the dom side of you quite a lot, maybe trim in down a little. Also your profile pic looks good but the other two that I can see don’t really show any of ‘you’ (I’m not talking cock here), try putting pics up that show the fun side that you talk of.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You do talk about the dom side of you quite a lot, maybe trim in down a little. Also your profile pic looks good but the other two that I can see don’t really show any of ‘you’ (I’m not talking cock here), try putting pics up that show the fun side that you talk of.

Geeky x"

Interesting. I'll do that. I just need to be discreet due to work so I'll upload fun pics. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do talk about the dom side of you quite a lot, maybe trim in down a little. Also your profile pic looks good but the other two that I can see don’t really show any of ‘you’ (I’m not talking cock here), try putting pics up that show the fun side that you talk of.

Geeky x

Interesting. I'll do that. I just need to be discreet due to work so I'll upload fun pics. Thank you"

Your welcome. As nice as seeing your array of coats I prefer your profile pic x

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"You do talk about the dom side of you quite a lot, maybe trim in down a little. Also your profile pic looks good but the other two that I can see don’t really show any of ‘you’ (I’m not talking cock here), try putting pics up that show the fun side that you talk of.

Geeky x

Interesting. I'll do that. I just need to be discreet due to work so I'll upload fun pics. Thank you"

Follow the advice already given.

Get a face pic or two if you can.

If possible, get into Clubs or Socials.

Your profile is a bit lengthy but best to break it down into paragraphs; it's much easier to read that way.

Good Luck!

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

Pics the only flesh I see are hands. Profile text starts off negative. Maybe check the quality of the messages you send if people aren’t replying.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Why not TRY doing a FORUM search for OTHER threads on the SAME subject

But that wouldn't be personal to me. I want advice on my profile from women not on other people's profiles. But I do get where you arw coming from so thank you"

Then surely if you are asking for advice from other people, it wouldn't be personal to yourself anyway. I haven't even read yours, but all I would say is to make it coherent, let people know what you can provide, what you are looking for, and inject a little humour.

A few good body pics, torso & bum always seem to go down well with the ladies. Keep any cock pics in private or friends only, and good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not TRY doing a FORUM search for OTHER threads on the SAME subject

But that wouldn't be personal to me. I want advice on my profile from women not on other people's profiles. But I do get where you arw coming from so thank you

Then surely if you are asking for advice from other people, it wouldn't be personal to yourself anyway. I haven't even read yours, but all I would say is to make it coherent, let people know what you can provide, what you are looking for, and inject a little humour.

A few good body pics, torso & bum always seem to go down well with the ladies. Keep any cock pics in private or friends only, and good luck OP "

Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You do talk about the dom side of you quite a lot, maybe trim in down a little. Also your profile pic looks good but the other two that I can see don’t really show any of ‘you’ (I’m not talking cock here), try putting pics up that show the fun side that you talk of.

Geeky x

Interesting. I'll do that. I just need to be discreet due to work so I'll upload fun pics. Thank you

Your welcome. As nice as seeing your array of coats I prefer your profile pic x"

You habe discovered my coat fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do talk about the dom side of you quite a lot, maybe trim in down a little. Also your profile pic looks good but the other two that I can see don’t really show any of ‘you’ (I’m not talking cock here), try putting pics up that show the fun side that you talk of.

Geeky x"

OMG there's more than one of them, quick I'll hold the door for you while we all make a run for it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics (if you could see them) and profile are more akin to a dating site.

You don't need to show your face but some body pics work well. The ones you have with stickers on show nothing.

The info on your profile about your hobbies isn't really relevant to what you want or can offer in a swinging sense and the negative start to your profile is a turn off, why should i read it if you dont expect i will anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your pics (if you could see them) and profile are more akin to a dating site.

You don't need to show your face but some body pics work well. The ones you have with stickers on show nothing.

The info on your profile about your hobbies isn't really relevant to what you want or can offer in a swinging sense and the negative start to your profile is a turn off, why should i read it if you dont expect i will anyway?

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I get the personlity bit but i had nude pics and was told its not classy and you're saying at body shots so i guess that's a contradiction and based on what the individual likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pics (if you could see them) and profile are more akin to a dating site.

You don't need to show your face but some body pics work well. The ones you have with stickers on show nothing.

The info on your profile about your hobbies isn't really relevant to what you want or can offer in a swinging sense and the negative start to your profile is a turn off, why should i read it if you dont expect i will anyway?

I get the personlity bit but i had nude pics and was told its not classy and you're saying at body shots so i guess that's a contradiction and based on what the individual likes. "

full body shot's don't need to be naked, a crisp fresh and bright white pair of jockey shorts can be seen as sexy by some women, infact less is often to much, it's nice to keep something back so they have something to look forward too lol and one dick really does look pretty much like any other dick lol, so some carefully worked pictures semi naked could be the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks peeps

Already made the changes recommended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks peeps

Already made the changes recommended "

Brilliant although one slight thing about the pics...instead of marking your face out, why don’t you crop it out altogether because it looks slightly scary if you don’t mind me saying so, plus also ads some intrigue lol.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks peeps

Already made the changes recommended

Brilliant although one slight thing about the pics...instead of marking your face out, why don’t you crop it out altogether because it looks slightly scary if you don’t mind me saying so, plus also ads some intrigue lol.

Geeky x "

I find it gives people an idea of what i look like when they see an outline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yer kit off!

Well some of it anyway, leave a bit of mystery. The holiday shots and dollar signs seem a bit incongruous - take some pics specifically for the site. Get some fun props out..

No cocks necessary . Load one up to send in private if you want to.

And a bit more about what you, out of the hundreds of sexy men in your area, can offer a woman on fab..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get yer kit off!

Well some of it anyway, leave a bit of mystery. The holiday shots and dollar signs seem a bit incongruous - take some pics specifically for the site. Get some fun props out..

No cocks necessary . Load one up to send in private if you want to.

And a bit more about what you, out of the hundreds of sexy men in your area, can offer a woman on fab.."

Well if you want a sexy pic you're just going to have to PM me aren't you. Booooom

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

Personally I can't abide reading someone is handsome, good looking etc, I prefer to judge for myself. As someone said the advice given is suitable for most profiles.

There has always been many more sub men then sub women, a lot of women on her may no be Domme but they certainly aren't submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When advice threads go well nice one.

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