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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone been stood up for a social or meet before? Let’s hear your stories.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes, but what is there to say other than they didn't turn up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He didn't turn up.

The end.

Nothing to tell really, it's the bad side of Fab. Luckily there's a helluva lot of awesome people who do show up and make fab worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is true... I was referring to how long have you waited before you left etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a no-show on fab, yet!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Nope.

We've not had a single no show.

Though to be fair we normally do clubs so it's not a high percentage to go on...

Nita

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I could not attend for a social ! Needed to cover at work! Also had a no show . Hurray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I was stood up once in 2016 when a guy I'd been speaking to for a while was supposed to come over (he's no longer here) I'd cooked nibbles and tidied my whole house and arranged a sitter and got ready. Time came and he didn't turn up, didn't answer texts or calls, it was Wales' first game in the World Cup and he had gone out to watch the football.

I left messages and messages calling him a cunt and saying I'd find him and kick his head in. He apologised the next day and I met him a few days later, he turned up and I didn't even fancy him in the flesh anyway so sent him away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one where I'd got ready and gone to meet him.

I knew he wasn't coming so I didn't bother getting out of my jamas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I was stood up once in 2016 when a guy I'd been speaking to for a while was supposed to come over (he's no longer here) I'd cooked nibbles and tidied my whole house and arranged a sitter and got ready. Time came and he didn't turn up, didn't answer texts or calls, it was Wales' first game in the World Cup and he had gone out to watch the football.

I left messages and messages calling him a cunt and saying I'd find him and kick his head in. He apologised the next day and I met him a few days later, he turned up and I didn't even fancy him in the flesh anyway so sent him away. "

Hello

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Never had one yet. A few all talk no action mind you

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Yeah I was stood up once in 2016 when a guy I'd been speaking to for a while was supposed to come over (he's no longer here) I'd cooked nibbles and tidied my whole house and arranged a sitter and got ready. Time came and he didn't turn up, didn't answer texts or calls, it was Wales' first game in the World Cup and he had gone out to watch the football.

I left messages and messages calling him a cunt and saying I'd find him and kick his head in. He apologised the next day and I met him a few days later, he turned up and I didn't even fancy him in the flesh anyway so sent him away. "

I know that story. Hello again. I hope you had a good Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I was stood up once in 2016 when a guy I'd been speaking to for a while was supposed to come over (he's no longer here) I'd cooked nibbles and tidied my whole house and arranged a sitter and got ready. Time came and he didn't turn up, didn't answer texts or calls, it was Wales' first game in the World Cup and he had gone out to watch the football.

I left messages and messages calling him a cunt and saying I'd find him and kick his head in. He apologised the next day and I met him a few days later, he turned up and I didn't even fancy him in the flesh anyway so sent him away.

Hello "

Back again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I was stood up once in 2016 when a guy I'd been speaking to for a while was supposed to come over (he's no longer here) I'd cooked nibbles and tidied my whole house and arranged a sitter and got ready. Time came and he didn't turn up, didn't answer texts or calls, it was Wales' first game in the World Cup and he had gone out to watch the football.

I left messages and messages calling him a cunt and saying I'd find him and kick his head in. He apologised the next day and I met him a few days later, he turned up and I didn't even fancy him in the flesh anyway so sent him away.

I know that story. Hello again. I hope you had a good Christmas.

"

Ditto, but sure the ending was different last time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I was stood up once in 2016 when a guy I'd been speaking to for a while was supposed to come over (he's no longer here) I'd cooked nibbles and tidied my whole house and arranged a sitter and got ready. Time came and he didn't turn up, didn't answer texts or calls, it was Wales' first game in the World Cup and he had gone out to watch the football.

I left messages and messages calling him a cunt and saying I'd find him and kick his head in. He apologised the next day and I met him a few days later, he turned up and I didn't even fancy him in the flesh anyway so sent him away.

I know that story. Hello again. I hope you had a good Christmas.

Ditto, but sure the ending was different last time? "

I met him and didn't find him attractive in the flesh so that was the end of it.

Don't know how else that could have ended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple of no shows, rather than get angry I enjoyed my latte and muffin and relaxed while reading my book in peace. This is Fab, no matter how much you prepare, talk, exchange calls etc there will always be people who let you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I haven't, I'm 1 for 1, whoo-hoo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice

One that I drove 40 miles to meet after arranging it for weeks.only to be left say there like a fool waiting for her and she blocked my number and blocked me on here and apparently she's done it to other people.

The other one was quite recently and she wanted to meet me and my bf so we both booked the day off work and she sent us a message 2 hours after the arranged time saying SUCKERS and she blocked me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was a no show but technically so was i . I was waiting for him to announce his arrival at venue before i turned up. I was 5 mins away doing errands in town.

I've still never been stood up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t have any no shows when I was single. At least I don’t think I did? Lol.

Haven’t had one yet as a couple because, well we haven’t had any meets yet lol.

Geeky x

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago, arranged a meet, all excited and ready, got a message about an hour before and it literally was "got a better offer, sorry"

Does wonders for your confidence

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Never been stood up because I don't even get in the shower if they aren't messaging me, but I've had 'Lets meet on the 8th then.....' and never heard another dicky bird, 'Failure to confirm' I call it!

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"Twice

One that I drove 40 miles to meet after arranging it for weeks.only to be left say there like a fool waiting for her and she blocked my number and blocked me on here and apparently she's done it to other people.

The other one was quite recently and she wanted to meet me and my bf so we both booked the day off work and she sent us a message 2 hours after the arranged time saying SUCKERS and she blocked me x "

"She". I'd wager it was actually a bloke - and still living with mummy too, I'll wager. Did you speak on the phone with the individual concerned prior to arranging your meeting?

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By *ohnlewis1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I’ve had a couple of no shows. Being very very very old and experienced; a little voice regularly whispers to me ,” there’s no fool like an old fool”. I always have this in the back of mind as the feeling of being had or stood up is horrible.

The first time was after a long period of exchanging messages and telephone calls. The agreement was for me to book a hotel and she would meet me in the bar.

I dutifully waited and waited and it dawned on me after an hour that she wasn’t coming. I didn’t receive an apology. Instead I got a highly abusive email followed by a bizarre voicemail laughing at me.

The second occasion involved a couple. Plan was to meet at a club which I don’t normally attend. It was complicated to get there. Embarrassing when they didn’t turn up as I was known by the locals as “that guy who got stood up”. I wasn’t in the mood for a sympathy fuck.

Again I didn’t receive an apology or an explanation.

My experience informs all my contacts in FAB. you’ll see I have many excellent verifications but this week alone I’ve been contacted by two members who exchanged encouraging messages then blocked me for no apparent reason.

Ho hum.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Once.

But I made sure it was at a local pub to me, so I could still stay and drink and have a good time anyway.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yup last Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few.

The weirdest one was we were having a mmmf and had invited 6 guys (knowing that most of them wouldn't turn up -only one guy turned up) and one guy who was supposed to be coming came in a mini bus saw him come out and he had several other guys with him (Not sure why as this hadn't been agreed.)

But they didn't come to the door just left again.

~Mia

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Had a few.

The weirdest one was we were having a mmmf and had invited 6 guys (knowing that most of them wouldn't turn up -only one guy turned up) and one guy who was supposed to be coming came in a mini bus saw him come out and he had several other guys with him (Not sure why as this hadn't been agreed.)

But they didn't come to the door just left again.

~Mia"
beggars belief that one guy turned up with several other guys that takes the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few.

The weirdest one was we were having a mmmf and had invited 6 guys (knowing that most of them wouldn't turn up -only one guy turned up) and one guy who was supposed to be coming came in a mini bus saw him come out and he had several other guys with him (Not sure why as this hadn't been agreed.)

But they didn't come to the door just left again.

~Miabeggars belief that one guy turned up with several other guys that takes the piss. "

Yeah. Was strange. Hadn't arranged it with him and he didn't message to say he was taking other guys. Just saw him in the car park and he several male friends with him. They looked around the car park then left.

We messaged him asking about it and he tried to deny it so we blocked him.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had 3 no show in 6 years a few bomb outs at the last minute they suddenly can't get out of work due to some reason or family crisis or emergency job. Also had, "oh can you come on your own I don't really want to meet a couple actually"

Can spot the pattern pretty much most of the time now that keyboard warriors use and verify if possible by cam meeting someone I've not met before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have been stood up, the last one messaged me 7 hours after our meeting time claiming that his car wouldn't start I just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i’ve never had a no show on my single account, the wife has had a fair few on her profile and as a couple, we’ve had quite a few no shows.

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