FabSwingers.com forum: Is this normal??

By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

So three of my best Frends are females one being ex girlfriend. They are now calling themselves wife number 1 2 and 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares what 'normal' is ?

If they are genuine friends then why change the status quo ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 'hubby three' for a while with one of my fem mates

it's just a giggle i guess

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

"Who cares what 'normal' is ?

If they are genuine friends then why change the status quo ?"

That’s the way I feel just not sure the wife bit as new. And how to take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are on a swing site... that’s not ‘normal’ but then what is and if everyone was the same who would we fuck?!

Crack on fella!

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.

I got why’s she asking you your not her husband

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds harmless to me

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yeah, one of my dance partners (with whom I used to go out a lot) calls me his 'other wife' now he has a girlfriend, and when he was making a hell of a racket while dancing one day another guy said 'Is that your husband making all that noise?' knowing full well we were not even an item lol! It's just a giggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.

I got why’s she asking you your not her husband

????"

I was gonna ask earlier how do they feel about other women being in your life

If it is a healthy group, great

If it is turning towards a coven, free yourself

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

"Yeah, one of my dance partners (with whom I used to go out a lot) calls me his 'other wife' now he has a girlfriend, and when he was making a hell of a racket while dancing one day another guy said 'Is that your husband making all that noise?' knowing full well we were not even an item lol! It's just a giggle!

Right well just thought I’d find out every ones take on it especially lady’s views

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

I’m not involved with any of them ones just got married

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

Plus as I said one ex girlfriend

And the last one I fancy the pants off but never showed it plus her son is starting an appearance with me in a year know her for years

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.

I got why’s she asking you your not her husband

????

I was gonna ask earlier how do they feel about other women being in your life

If it is a healthy group, great

If it is turning towards a coven, free yourself "

I was thinking The Witches of Eastwick maself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's quite funny! How much alimony are you going to end up paying?

Seriously though who cares what normal is, it's nobody's beeswax except your own. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an 'other wife' it's harmless and fun. My actual wife fancies the pants off of my other wife.

Used to have a day wife and a night wife.

If it's harmless fun all good.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Doesn't matter if it's normal or not but it does matter if you don't like it.

Alarm bells rang for me when one of them criticised another for asking you to do something.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

It's not normal, you should stop being their friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you get all the good wifey bits or all the bad x3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like one of them has gotten territorial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol well we just spent Christmas with my ex and daughter lol... But a cpl week ago me and Mrs gave the ex a blinding orgasm with a magic wand..... I never saw that coming lol... They like best mates now.... Still not sure what that says about me though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds harmless to me"

Did you read his comment before writing this?

Psychos!

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

"Sounds harmless to me

Did you read his comment before writing this?

Psychos!"

So your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.

I got why’s she asking you your not her husband

????"

"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.

I got why’s she asking you your not her husband

????"

That's usually what they call friends with benefits. Unfortunately guys only mean sex benefits, not actual friend benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.

I got why’s she asking you your not her husband

????"

What did you say to her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.

I got why’s she asking you your not her husband

????

Well today one got the hump as one of her friends asked me to do a job round hers.

I got why’s she asking you your not her husband

????

That's usually what they call friends with benefits. Unfortunately guys only mean sex benefits, not actual friend benefits."

So true!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus as I said one ex girlfriend

And the last one I fancy the pants off but never showed it plus her son is starting an appearance with me in a year know her for years

Ahhh you better just come and fuck me then... I'm not looking for a husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are the women all friends with each other as well or are you the link between them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how come they all know each other , very strange

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

"how come they all know each other , very strange"

Yes all know each other one just married doesn’t know other two well

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

"Plus as I said one ex girlfriend

And the last one I fancy the pants off but never showed it plus her son is starting an appearance with me in a year know her for years

Ahhh you better just come and fuck me then... I'm not looking for a husband

Lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"So three of my best Frends are females one being ex girlfriend. They are now calling themselves wife number 1 2 and 3 "

There are a group of ladies from work I go out for regular curries with refer to themselves as "my three sluts"... in reality our relationships are just platonic and none of us would have it any different.

Cal

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

So we think it’s normal and go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we think it’s normal and go with it "

It’s ‘normal’ if you’re okay with it, what we think is irrelevant.

However I’m not sure Wifey 1,2 or 3’s behaviour was ‘normal’ when she was questioning your helping the other one......

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"So we think it’s normal and go with it "

Question or statement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll be a fanny blocker if you don't manage the situation carefully.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"So three of my best Frends are females one being ex girlfriend. They are now calling themselves wife number 1 2 and 3 "

Do you live in the Middle East?

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

"It'll be a fanny blocker if you don't manage the situation carefully."

Lol what fanny !!!

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Sounds like too much trouble!

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

No not been as just friends well best friends that just get me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you clarify

When you did the job

Which one was it for?

Which one got the hump

The newlywed

The ex

The one you fancy

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

"Could you clarify

When you did the job

Which one was it for?

Which one got the hump

The newlywed

The ex

The one you fancy "

Right ex girlfriends Frend asked me to do Job and she’s got the right hump about it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Could you clarify

When you did the job

Which one was it for?

Which one got the hump

The newlywed

The ex

The one you fancy

Right ex girlfriends Frend asked me to do Job and she’s got the right hump about it "

None of these women have the right to get "the hump" if you do something for one of the others. Unless you like women bitching between themselves over you I'd walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could you clarify

When you did the job

Which one was it for?

Which one got the hump

The newlywed

The ex

The one you fancy

Right ex girlfriends Frend asked me to do Job and she’s got the right hump about it "

So the woman you did the job for was not one of the 3 wives?

This is really an inane situation creating a drama from nothing. If a friend of a friend wants me to do work for them, they would get at least a pretence of mates rates, but I would get something out of the deal. If my good nature was being abused my friends and family would point that out to me and the abuser.

If it bothers you tell them, if not happy days. Unbelievable I know but women are people too, and quite capable of being good friends even with clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.

It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

"Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.

It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.

I get on really well with them it’s just the New wifeys thing I’m worried about.

And the ex getting the right hump about her Frend asking me to do some small jobs for her..

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.

It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.

I get on really well with them it’s just the New wifeys thing I’m worried about.

And the ex getting the right hump about her Frend asking me to do some small jobs for her..

Speaking as a woman, I reckon ‘the ex’ got the ‘hump’ cos you did her friend the jobs! Maybe share your good nature out and do jobs for all three, that way there is no jealousy! I think you are enjoying the attention of the three women but a word of warning if you meet a new woman the Witches of Eastwick might cramp your style then you will be Billy No Mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The newly wed should be concentrating on her husband not you.

The ex should be looking to the future, not the past so I don’t know why you’re so involved in each other’s lives. You are ex’s for a reason.

The one you fancy, does she fancy you?

If she doesn’t, then stay friends but get out there and look elsewhere too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The newly wed should be concentrating on her husband not you.

The ex should be looking to the future, not the past so I don’t know why you’re so involved in each other’s lives. You are ex’s for a reason.

The one you fancy, does she fancy you?

If she doesn’t, then stay friends but get out there and look elsewhere too."

exactly!

And OP all these women on the scene causing a drama will put off any potential interest from other women who may enter your life whilst these three are behaving like this (hence my pussy blocker comment earlier).

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

"Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.

It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.

I get on really well with them it’s just the New wifeys thing I’m worried about.

And the ex getting the right hump about her Frend asking me to do some small jobs for her..

Been Frend like 15 years and do help them all just moved ex to Newhouse on my own

Rewired house last month for married one as wedding present free of charge

And the one I fancy lol rents a house off me half the market price. As her husband done the dirty on her and lost her house

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.

It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.

I get on really well with them it’s just the New wifeys thing I’m worried about.

And the ex getting the right hump about her Frend asking me to do some small jobs for her..

Been Frend like 15 years and do help them all just moved ex to Newhouse on my own

Rewired house last month for married one as wedding present free of charge

And the one I fancy lol rents a house off me half the market price. As her husband done the dirty on her and lost her house

Gosh you sound like the ‘perfect man’! So obliging, so helpful, so good natured too. Do all three talk amongst themselves? Maybe they discuss you and some jealousy has crept in! Be careful because when a new woman enters your life then you may have problems

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By *layful Harlequin OP Man
over a year ago

iver heath

"Personally OP, I think you’re loving the attention and the thought of all these women allegedly fighting over you.

It sounds pretty immature to me anyway.

I get on really well with them it’s just the New wifeys thing I’m worried about.

And the ex getting the right hump about her Frend asking me to do some small jobs for her..

Been Frend like 15 years and do help them all just moved ex to Newhouse on my own

Rewired house last month for married one as wedding present free of charge

And the one I fancy lol rents a house off me half the market price. As her husband done the dirty on her and lost her house

Lol do help other friends just like to help

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