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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??"

A range of good pics and never a cock avatar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??

A range of good pics and never a cock avatar. "

Is that a massive hint to remove the avatar lol

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??

A range of good pics and never a cock avatar.

Is that a massive hint to remove the avatar lol"

I'd say just a small hint.

For me, a message that makes me laugh gets a response. And something that is obviously not sent out in the general direction of everyone in sight.

Then again, I'm moody at times, and when I'm bored I respond to even the mundane. Though I might lose interest within seconds and move on.

I'm not selling myself very well here, am I? Oh well.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??

A range of good pics and never a cock avatar.

Is that a massive hint to remove the avatar lol"

You do as you see fit hun - but if all I see is a cock I tend to think 'What a cock' and go on to the next message!

I'm looking for a man, not a cock....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??

A range of good pics and never a cock avatar.

Is that a massive hint to remove the avatar lol

I'd say just a small hint.

For me, a message that makes me laugh gets a response. And something that is obviously not sent out in the general direction of everyone in sight.

Then again, I'm moody at times, and when I'm bored I respond to even the mundane. Though I might lose interest within seconds and move on.

I'm not selling myself very well here, am I? Oh well."

Haha didn’t realise you where trying to sell yourself, however your not doing too bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??

A range of good pics and never a cock avatar.

Is that a massive hint to remove the avatar lol

You do as you see fit hun - but if all I see is a cock I tend to think 'What a cock' and go on to the next message!

I'm looking for a man, not a cock...."

Given it a change would that be any better ??

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??

A range of good pics and never a cock avatar.

Is that a massive hint to remove the avatar lol

I'd say just a small hint.

For me, a message that makes me laugh gets a response. And something that is obviously not sent out in the general direction of everyone in sight.

Then again, I'm moody at times, and when I'm bored I respond to even the mundane. Though I might lose interest within seconds and move on.

I'm not selling myself very well here, am I? Oh well.

Haha didn’t realise you where trying to sell yourself, however your not doing too bad"

Selling may not have been the best choice of words...... !

I like to come across as friendly though. Usually. Other times I don't care

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??

A range of good pics and never a cock avatar.

Is that a massive hint to remove the avatar lol

You do as you see fit hun - but if all I see is a cock I tend to think 'What a cock' and go on to the next message!

I'm looking for a man, not a cock....

Given it a change would that be any better ??"

Not a lot to be honest because it is too dark to see what it is and when I go to your profile all I see is one cock pic. I even put it on my profile that I will respond to neither - most women get heartily sick of an inbox full of strangers dismembered cocks!

As i say, what I need to see is a range of good body pics, and preferably one or two good body pics that ALSO show a cock in it's full glory.

Most women will look at profile pics before deciding whether or not to even open a message! You might have the most glorious erection in the world, but you are still a stranger, and I just don't want to see a stranger's erection before I have my coffee on a monday morning!!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does that not count that a face pic is always sent with a first message ??

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Does that not count that a face pic is always sent with a first message ??"

No, because I don't open the message if I don't like the profile pics, and I never send out face pics until I have an inkling I want to meet someone, so do not require that from anyone.

It actually annoys me if people send pics attached to a first message that I cannot see on the profile - the profile is what I want to decide on.

Because sadly, as a woman on here, once you open a message you become liable to abuse - people feel rejected if you have read what they have to say, looked at their face, and decided against speaking to them. Only deleting them unread means that most people will take is as a no thanks and leave you alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does that not count that a face pic is always sent with a first message ??"

Now I'm not bothered about a face pic on first message . I won't be sending one back so feel a bit mean having seen you . I'll more than likely not open the message.

But I'm not actively meeting so probably don't listen to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??

A range of good pics and never a cock avatar. "

This !!

and a simple first message, more than one word but not an entire story. Often hard to find the balance I’m sure. I’m one who tries to reply to all first messages, a face picture isn’t essential in the first message but definitely no cock pic, can see more than enough and if I want to see more I will happily ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought it was about first impressions lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"Thought it was about first impressions lol"

It is - first impressions garnered from a range of good pics. A cock is not enough to make a good first impression for most of us.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I know that you sexy ladies must be inundated with messeges but what is it that makes you think “hmm I wanna reply to you” ??

A range of good pics and never a cock avatar.

Is that a massive hint to remove the avatar lol

You do as you see fit hun - but if all I see is a cock I tend to think 'What a cock' and go on to the next message!

I'm looking for a man, not a cock...."

That last line pretty much sums it up.

The missus needs to fancy the bloke before we even consider a dialogue. Just cock pics gives no idea of what a man is like.

It would be like a woman's profile that only featured close-up fanny shots.

Surprising how many men don't get this.

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