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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am guessing this subject been mentioned before but what are other couples take on opposite partners kissing, most ok with Fem on Fem, we are ok with both, mf of course, we think it adds to the horniess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love watching my wife kiss another man while hes fondling her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally couldnt have sex without kissing ... its like having chips with no chippy sauce xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

exactly, cant have bacon bun with no ketchup x

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By *uiceyfruitCouple
over a year ago

whitehaven

we always kiss it just seem strange not doing it

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

love it, all adds to the build up of the main event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally speaking I adore running my mouth over every inch of a woman's skin, this of course includes her mouth, which I explore with pleasure...can tolerate some folks having a no kissing rule, but given the choice I'd take the meets where I have carte blanche to kiss a lady's face off every time....

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

For me, kissing is a MAJOR turn on.. especially if your great at it lol. I could not have a meet without it.

Pucker up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, kissing is a MAJOR turn on.. especially if your great at it lol. I could not have a meet without it.

Pucker up "

At once Madam! To hear is to obey...

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"For me, kissing is a MAJOR turn on.. especially if your great at it lol. I could not have a meet without it.

Pucker up

At once Madam! To hear is to obey... "

Where do ya want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, kissing is a MAJOR turn on.. especially if your great at it lol. I could not have a meet without it.

Pucker up

At once Madam! To hear is to obey...

Where do ya want it "

To start with upon my mouth, softly followed by increasingly firmly and lustful. Then in a nice wet trail down the side of my neck to my bare chest. Then carry right on going sinful lady....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely kiss... prefer to get my hands and mouth straight around a nice hard cock... Kissing with others does very little for me..

I prefer no foreplay too.. I expect my men ready and willing and in the mood straight away.. rarely fails..

I do make the odd exception...but its not something that is needed for sex for me at least. In 10 meets I maybe kiss one person..

Always kiss my Master though mmmmm but his kisses make my whole body awaken..

Cali

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never used to kiss anyone, but i do now but im funny about who i kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love being kissed by another guy infront of hubby even better if its in public mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never used to kiss anyone, but i do now but im funny about who i kiss"

Kiss me quick xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I never used to kiss anyone, but i do now but im funny about who i kiss

Kiss me quick xx "

It would be bloody quick with you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never used to kiss anyone, but i do now but im funny about who i kiss

Kiss me quick xx

It would be bloody quick with you lol"

Xx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Love being kissed while hubby kisses my neck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dare I say that I think some people who say "no kissing on the mouth with strangers", got a bit wrapped up after hearing Julia Roberts say it in Pretty Woman and when she did eventually kiss Richard Gere it was deemed so romantic that it signalled the kiss meant something if she broke her rule? There was a rash of it in my office at the time amongst some of the girls and I just smiled and listened.

Kissing is special but I can't see why it would be seen as a no no when taking cock in every available hole? Im more partic about wqhat I have near my biff than my mouth.

For me kissing isn't an exclusively emotional thing reserved for a true love - its all about passion.

Unless they have a mouth full of rotten teeth.... then I don't even wanna talk to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true, do find strange when kissing to personal but will suck cock x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very true, do find strange when kissing to personal but will suck cock x"

it's the perceived intimacy of kissing that some struggle with

i am old fashioned kinda soul tho - no kiss, no hard on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss, its a big turn on especially if the guy is good at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing as i am really good at it,to be honest i couldn't have sex without it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just couldn't have the same fun without kissing......And theres so many lovely places to kiss on a woman mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very true, do find strange when kissing to personal but will suck cock x"

I find kissing way more intimate than sucking a cock.. I share no intimacy with meets... sensual play yes.. but there is no emotional connection.. no intimacy as such..

I do kiss sometimes.. but it does little if nothing for me.. Kissing is more intimate than most other things because of the eye to eye contact...

If a couple do not want to kiss then they should make it clear.. I will on the odd meet... but Master normally allows me a free reign on this.. ie.. tells the guy that I will take the lead.. If I can get away without doing so I always will..

Its not because I see it as special between master and I as everything we do is on a totally different level to what I do with anyone else but... I dont kiss often because I simply dont find it that great... it doesnt feel natural... but then till my Master I had not kissed as part of sex at all..

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive thought about this a few times and ive always come to the same question

If you dont kiss how do you start things off? because to me the kissing is the start of the build up, you know start off kissing for a while then move things alone, slowly get underssed etc i could spend a good hour or so just kissing and touching before i even thought about moving on

If you dont kiss do you just get you kit off and dive straigh in without the build up?

I dont thing it would feel right just grabbing a cock and sucking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never meet any one that doesnt do kissing 2 robotic with out it and i love kissing yum xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive thought about this a few times and ive always come to the same question

If you dont kiss how do you start things off? because to me the kissing is the start of the build up, you know start off kissing for a while then move things alone, slowly get underssed etc i could spend a good hour or so just kissing and touching before i even thought about moving on

If you dont kiss do you just get you kit off and dive straigh in without the build up?

I dont thing it would feel right just grabbing a cock and sucking it"

I just sit them down.. strip them off.. and push them back and start to suck their cock.. I love it..

But then I wouldnt spend an hour on a meet let alone just on kissing..

Its in.. play, bit of a chat while getting dressed and then bye..

so yes.. if we dont kiss thats what we do.. but even if I do kiss we are talking two or three quick kisses.. not lingering ones... sometimes I will let them kiss my neck,and work down.. or I will do the same..

I normally have meets clothes off within 5 mins of getting in the door.. I rarely take mine off..and never all off..

It works for us..and obviously for the guys we meet but they know what they are getting before they arrive.

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"exactly, cant have bacon bun with no ketchup x"

we are defo on the same wavelength xx

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"

Its not because I see it as special between master and I as everything we do is on a totally different level to what I do with anyone else but... I dont kiss often because I simply dont find it that great... it doesnt feel natural... but then till my Master I had not kissed as part of sex at all..

cali "

I like your reasoning, we do kiss but fully understand the whole "different level" thing. But that is why we do kiss, we like it and it is just about the passion. What we don't get is the whole "keep something special" thing.

Having said that, we had the no kissing rule when we first started swinging and that went out of the window after a night at Xtasia! Saying goodnight to a mess of sexy swingers is sooo difficult if you don't snog!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but as I have said I dont see it as keeping it special.. it just has little place in pure sex for me.. it doesnt get me all wet.. but then I am never not in the mood.. So perhaps that is why..

Cali

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"exactly, cant have bacon bun with no ketchup x

we are defo on the same wavelength xx"

There's bacon??? No one told me there was bacon!!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"but as I have said I dont see it as keeping it special.. it just has little place in pure sex for me.. it doesnt get me all wet.. but then I am never not in the mood.. So perhaps that is why..

Cali "

Sorry Cali, I worded it wrong! I did mean to say that I knew you didn't see it as special, just wanted to agree, with differences! xx (not snogs, just little pecks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without kissing...not for me I'm afraid. It feels far too good to miss out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive thought about this a few times and ive always come to the same question

If you dont kiss how do you start things off? because to me the kissing is the start of the build up, you know start off kissing for a while then move things alone, slowly get underssed etc i could spend a good hour or so just kissing and touching before i even thought about moving on

If you dont kiss do you just get you kit off and dive straigh in without the build up?

I dont thing it would feel right just grabbing a cock and sucking it"

Yep leaning in for a hand on your left boob doesn't endear you to anyone does it? Especially if you're meeting in a public place and get the urge to show someone you like them and encourage them.

I see places full of people kissing but I am yet to see lots of groping and leering - it might be quite amusing to watch and see others reactions - but I have a warped sense of humour.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I see places full of people kissing but I am yet to see lots of groping and leering - it might be quite amusing to watch and see others reactions - but I have a warped sense of humour."

You should come and see Mrs R and meself on the driveway in the morning as she departs for work! Passionate snogs and very touchy feely.. I know we are married, but the reaction it gets can be quite funny at times..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never kissed anyone up until a couple of years ago, i found it far to intimate, then i met an amazing snogger a couple of years ago and changed my mind. But still only kiss some people. I never used to cuddle either, but now i cuddle a little although it still doesnt feel natural.

Im talking about meets not relationships.

I could suck anyones cock but kissing noway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see places full of people kissing but I am yet to see lots of groping and leering - it might be quite amusing to watch and see others reactions - but I have a warped sense of humour.

You should come and see Mrs R and meself on the driveway in the morning as she departs for work! Passionate snogs and very touchy feely.. I know we are married, but the reaction it gets can be quite funny at times.. "

Ah but your affection still includes snogging I was thinking more along the lines of someone signalling their interest by grabbing someones crotch! Would probs get you arrested

As the poster pointed out - is there any other acceptable way to signal first interest other than kissing?

Mind you all these damned iphones people use whilst sitting next to each other god knows what theyre typing.

"I dont kiss strangers, but I would like to get into you. Meet me in the carpark and lets go back to my place" type of thing

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I was thinking more along the lines of someone signalling their interest by grabbing someones crotch! Would probs get you arrested

"

Well, if I am not online tomorrow, you will have your answer..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive thought about this a few times and ive always come to the same question

If you dont kiss how do you start things off? because to me the kissing is the start of the build up, you know start off kissing for a while then move things alone, slowly get underssed etc i could spend a good hour or so just kissing and touching before i even thought about moving on

If you dont kiss do you just get you kit off and dive straigh in without the build up?

I dont thing it would feel right just grabbing a cock and sucking it

I just sit them down.. strip them off.. and push them back and start to suck their cock.. I love it..

But then I wouldnt spend an hour on a meet let alone just on kissing..

Its in.. play, bit of a chat while getting dressed and then bye..

so yes.. if we dont kiss thats what we do.. but even if I do kiss we are talking two or three quick kisses.. not lingering ones... sometimes I will let them kiss my neck,and work down.. or I will do the same..

I normally have meets clothes off within 5 mins of getting in the door.. I rarely take mine off..and never all off..

It works for us..and obviously for the guys we meet but they know what they are getting before they arrive.

Cali x"

I personally would find this kind of meet cold and not all enjoyable.

Very clinical in fact and not for me.

So thank god we are nat all the same,.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i am all for kissing, lip pulling with teeth and using tongue and lips for stimulation. I do understand why some couples avoid it with people other than their partners though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are all for kissing as its deffo all part of the fun for us xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there have to be lots of kissing and snoging if your having sex with me ...... i like kisses all over , lol jo xxx

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Just can't do it without a good old snog

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

Love a good snog,

before the main course starts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I personally would find this kind of meet cold and not all enjoyable.

Very clinical in fact and not for me.

So thank god we are nat all the same,. "

yet most of my meets state its some of the most erotic dirty fun they have had.. I cant see how rampant sex is cold.... its all about the sex part for me.. getting the cum.. one way or another.. Its all very heated... rampant and kissing isnt required becasue everyone is already so horny its forgotten.

I never need to get my meet ready.. I have already done that prior to them getting there... as sex is 99% in the mind.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had to get my meet ready either as he always stands to attention at my door , only difference is.....we likes the kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand couples that don't wish to kiss any one else except their partner, but on a 1-1 meet, its a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But then I wouldnt spend an hour on a meet let alone just on kissing..

"

oh i dont do quickies, with my sex drive theres no way id be satisfied with a meet that only lasted a hour, id be sat wanking after and thats no good, no point having a dog and barking yourself lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

cant meet someone who thinks i'm good enough to stick a cock in, but not good enough to kiss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand couples that don't wish to kiss any one else except their partner, but on a 1-1 meet, its a must for me "

Now to me kissing is kissing so long as i have someone to kiss, if i was a couple and we met another couple and they didnt want to kiss i think i could go along with that as i still would have my own partner to kiss, if i met a couple as a single female and the couple didnt kiss i wouldnt meet them, as i couldnt have a session without kissing anyone, to be honest ive never met a single guy that hasnt wanted to kiss me, its only ever been couples that have had these rules

But being single if i didnt kiss on meets that would mean id never get a kiss and that just goes against human nature lol

imagine never have a good snog ever again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see kissing gets me going more and im gona be kissing one pair of lips so why not the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant meet someone who thinks i'm good enough to stick a cock in, but not good enough to kiss...

"

I actually find it quite insultive when im playing with someone and when i try to kiss them they turn their head away, wether they mean it or not it makes me feel really cheap and ugly, to think ive just sucked their cock and now they're turning their nose up at me, thats now it feels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing isnt something we do alot, its just not that important to us, but do sometimes, and would never stop a playmate doing the same, and if they want more kissing then thats cool also

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"cant meet someone who thinks i'm good enough to stick a cock in, but not good enough to kiss...

I actually find it quite insultive when im playing with someone and when i try to kiss them they turn their head away, wether they mean it or not it makes me feel really cheap and ugly, to think ive just sucked their cock and now they're turning their nose up at me, thats now it feels "

Yup, i think sex is about going with the flow, (no gushing gag intended ) The idea someone thought i was just a hole is not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant meet someone who thinks i'm good enough to stick a cock in, but not good enough to kiss...

"
your right xx

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