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By *ndymorecambe OP   Man
over a year ago

morecambe

im intrigued by sexuality and what turns people on, especially the little details of what might be a common turn on.my major turn on is knickers a common turn id of thought but for me its specifically ordinary everyday knickers im not turned on by fancy lingerie or lacy things,its a weird one and does mean im easily turned on loldo other people have really specific turn ons ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think any turn on is weird.

I only need to hear my friend's voice and I get ridiculously horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think many people have very specific turn ons or fetishes and others not so much. For me it’s more the actual individual I’m sparking with that unleashes my creativity. Then it becomes certain things that really turn me on as it’s the dynamic created with them in particular. When someone turns me on I get a rush of ideas and it just builds from there. Some might say I have an involved imagination for plotting fun. I get turned on by turning someone else on, that’s my fetish, if e’er I had one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man with his hand in his pants or trousers. Gives just a suggestion of what he could be thinking. Makes me quite flustered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think many people have very specific turn ons or fetishes and others not so much. For me it’s more the actual individual I’m sparking with that unleashes my creativity. Then it becomes certain things that really turn me on as it’s the dynamic created with them in particular. When someone turns me on I get a rush of ideas and it just builds from there. Some might say I have an involved imagination for plotting fun. I get turned on by turning someone else on, that’s my fetish, if e’er I had one. "

Yeah this for me too. I need to put a lid on it next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think many people have very specific turn ons or fetishes and others not so much. For me it’s more the actual individual I’m sparking with that unleashes my creativity. Then it becomes certain things that really turn me on as it’s the dynamic created with them in particular. When someone turns me on I get a rush of ideas and it just builds from there. Some might say I have an involved imagination for plotting fun. I get turned on by turning someone else on, that’s my fetish, if e’er I had one.

Yeah this for me too. I need to put a lid on it next year. "

Noooooo! Unleash unleash!

I want ALL THE SEX next year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, if a women is wearing stilletos it's an instant turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man with his hand in his pants or trousers. Gives just a suggestion of what he could be thinking. Makes me quite flustered "

Me too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think many people have very specific turn ons or fetishes and others not so much. For me it’s more the actual individual I’m sparking with that unleashes my creativity. Then it becomes certain things that really turn me on as it’s the dynamic created with them in particular. When someone turns me on I get a rush of ideas and it just builds from there. Some might say I have an involved imagination for plotting fun. I get turned on by turning someone else on, that’s my fetish, if e’er I had one.

Yeah this for me too. I need to put a lid on it next year.

Noooooo! Unleash unleash!

I want ALL THE SEX next year!"

Leave some for the rest of us. I have some serious catching up to do. 2017 was positivity dry in comparison with recent years.

Go shaggers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fetish per se but I absolutely love the look in a man’s eyes when he means business. Instant turn on.

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By *ndymorecambe OP   Man
over a year ago

morecambe

I too get turned on by knowing im turning someone else on,if I can help a girl cum by what im doing,wether its oral sex or spanking them if I can see them get excited perk nipples or getting wet its a bigturn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think many people have very specific turn ons or fetishes and others not so much. For me it’s more the actual individual I’m sparking with that unleashes my creativity. Then it becomes certain things that really turn me on as it’s the dynamic created with them in particular. When someone turns me on I get a rush of ideas and it just builds from there. Some might say I have an involved imagination for plotting fun. I get turned on by turning someone else on, that’s my fetish, if e’er I had one.

Yeah this for me too. I need to put a lid on it next year.

Noooooo! Unleash unleash!

I want ALL THE SEX next year!

Leave some for the rest of us. I have some serious catching up to do. 2017 was positivity dry in comparison with recent years.

Go shaggers! "

You can have my share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love seeing a man in jeans, t shirt and converse. A huge turn on for me

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By *ndymorecambe OP   Man
over a year ago

morecambe

I think its the anticipation of whats being thought that helps the turn on

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

For me it's the small little touches in public that turn me on.

A glint in someone's eye over a coffee.

In private I love the feel of a hand brushing against my throat. The feel of someone's weight bearing down on me.fedling their powerful body on mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think many people have very specific turn ons or fetishes and others not so much. For me it’s more the actual individual I’m sparking with that unleashes my creativity. Then it becomes certain things that really turn me on as it’s the dynamic created with them in particular. When someone turns me on I get a rush of ideas and it just builds from there. Some might say I have an involved imagination for plotting fun. I get turned on by turning someone else on, that’s my fetish, if e’er I had one. "

Exactly this, just knowing mr is excited by what I’m doing turns me on. Though he does have certain things he says to me that he knows I just instantly get all horny over x

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Crotchles knickers and women out in town with dresses and no nickers

Also women in strapons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A look, a characteristic, a woman's voice. Alsorts.

Women with size 5 feet. They turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men in jumpers and glasses. Beards. A naughty glint in someone’s eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman in heels

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stocking tops, men undoing their belt. Faces, the guy who plays kylo ren in star wars, I wouldn't say is fit, but his face, big lips and nose I just want to sit on... I wont go into that fantasy.

Hmm they way women walk with tight clothes, bums wiggling.

Some shoes I think ooo there nice, and then think if they have had sex in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes that show emotion, scars, the ability to talk me to an orgasm would be a deal breaker

On a purely visual side beards, tattoos and a biteable bum yum!

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence and class

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Intelligence and class"

That rules me out

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

i love hearing about other peoples turn ons and sexual fantasies... always gets me turned on.

i know mine have changed as i've got older, but one thing has always been there... i love pleasuring others sexually. If they're happy, i'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being tied up with my ankles being my head so I can see my pussy then pounded by a big dick and both my holes used and I can't do a thing to stop it.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Being tied up with my ankles being my head so I can see my pussy then pounded by a big dick and both my holes used and I can't do a thing to stop it."

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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That look when you know they want to kiss you

Australian accents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Painted toenails...bare feet .... nice open toed shoes ... body stockings ... stockings and suspenders with no knickers hubbies favourites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me its plain topped stockings , maybe because im old school as in before lacy topped ones came out ..

but more to the point what gets me going is not knowing if there stockings and suspenders or tights .

so a lady dressed basically, then sitting opposite her in a bar for example and catching a glimpse of flesh above the stocking tops as she crosses and uncrosses her legs , maybe her skirt or dress hanging at the side just giving a slight glimpse of stocking top.

but my all time turn on , her bags on the floor for example , as she stands and bends over to get her phone out , her skirt or dress rides up at the back once again giving a glimpse of just the stocking top and that little bit of flesh above.

id love to see a housewife sweeping her stairs with a brush dressed like this , me standing at the bottom chatting away , her not paricularly realising what a lovely view .

i guess up skirt shots do it for me ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a fetish per se but I absolutely love the look in a man’s eyes when he means business. Instant turn on. "

I love that look. You know you aren't getting away even if you wanted to

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

A woman squatting, maybe just getting something out of a drawer. But the squat is sexy...

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By *ky19Man
over a year ago

Plymouth OYO Hotel

Towering behind someone, sliding my hand around their mouth, and my other arm around their torso, then pulling them up against my body.

Especially doing it to a lady, and especially if they just give themselves to me.

But I'm not always in such a Dom mode.

Any girls or guys who wear sexy leather/PVC gear like me is a huge turn on.

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By *ky19Man
over a year ago

Plymouth OYO Hotel

Muscular legs and ass makes me tingle all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tight whities.

Grrrr.

Girls in long socks.

Grrrr.

My foof juice dripping from their whiskers. It is filthy but oh so hot! Coupled with that 'i haven't finished with you yet' look...oh my days...

Peach x

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"My foof juice dripping from their whiskers. It is filthy but oh so hot! Coupled with that 'i haven't finished with you yet' look...oh my days...

Peach x"

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a woman flutters her eyelashes at me when she’s looking over her shoulder at me....

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Seeing a husband do husband things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman flutters her eyelashes at me when she’s looking over her shoulder at me.... "

Can't do over the shoulder until we're naked...sorry meeting socially

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a woman flutters her eyelashes at me when she’s looking over her shoulder at me....

Can't do over the shoulder until we're naked...sorry meeting socially

Peach x"

We ought to plan that

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish


"I think many people have very specific turn ons or fetishes and others not so much. For me it’s more the actual individual I’m sparking with that unleashes my creativity. Then it becomes certain things that really turn me on as it’s the dynamic created with them in particular. When someone turns me on I get a rush of ideas and it just builds from there. Some might say I have an involved imagination for plotting fun. I get turned on by turning someone else on, that’s my fetish, if e’er I had one. "

I totally misread this.. My mind substituted sparking for spanking.. So that must be what I want.

How's about it Estella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing a husband do husband things "

Ads isn’t technically my husband yet but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dirty laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men in jumpers and glasses. Beards. A naughty glint in someone’s eye. "

4 out of 4 well hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think many people have very specific turn ons or fetishes and others not so much. For me it’s more the actual individual I’m sparking with that unleashes my creativity. Then it becomes certain things that really turn me on as it’s the dynamic created with them in particular. When someone turns me on I get a rush of ideas and it just builds from there. Some might say I have an involved imagination for plotting fun. I get turned on by turning someone else on, that’s my fetish, if e’er I had one.

I totally misread this.. My mind substituted sparking for spanking.. So that must be what I want.

How's about it Estella "

I’m game. 2018 is going to be my year of YES.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Female bottoms and stockings/suspenders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's that look her eyes alive with fire, the quiver in the voice, her soft giggle sending shivers down my spine, and the need that starts in the minds of two people looking at each other and just knowing....

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish


"I think many people have very specific turn ons or fetishes and others not so much. For me it’s more the actual individual I’m sparking with that unleashes my creativity. Then it becomes certain things that really turn me on as it’s the dynamic created with them in particular. When someone turns me on I get a rush of ideas and it just builds from there. Some might say I have an involved imagination for plotting fun. I get turned on by turning someone else on, that’s my fetish, if e’er I had one.

I totally misread this.. My mind substituted sparking for spanking.. So that must be what I want.

How's about it Estella

I’m game. 2018 is going to be my year of YES."

This is good.... Today is a good news day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's that look her eyes alive with fire, the quiver in the voice, her soft giggle sending shivers down my spine, and the need that starts in the minds of two people looking at each other and just knowing....

"

Mills and boon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's that look her eyes alive with fire, the quiver in the voice, her soft giggle sending shivers down my spine, and the need that starts in the minds of two people looking at each other and just knowing....

Mills and boon? "

Are they your backing band

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's that look her eyes alive with fire, the quiver in the voice, her soft giggle sending shivers down my spine, and the need that starts in the minds of two people looking at each other and just knowing....

Mills and boon?

Are they your backing band "

Nah the shadows....for when I lay low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pencil skirts.. do it for me 99% of the time.

Blame suits..

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Guaranteed to get me horny? Watching or hearing of my other half's sexual antics with other women....

Turns me on incredibly!

LMP

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By *ndymorecambe OP   Man
over a year ago

morecambe

thanks for all the input.interesting how its the little details that get us excited a certain look in someones eyes or a particular word .il add apart from knickers that moment just before a lady is going to cum when you've hit the g spot the legs widen the breathing and moaning speeds up .love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That look when you know they want to kiss you

Australian accents "

G'Day Sheila

Fuzz

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"When a woman flutters her eyelashes at me when she’s looking over her shoulder at me.... "

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

A club friend when she strokes her strap on with lib

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

The things that turn me on is wearing leather gloves as I love feel on my hands and also a smell of leather .

I love to wear shear pantyhose and it is such a turn on.

Or wearing a little floral dress in the summer with no panties .

A turn on is to see a man that doesn’t shave his chest or his private parts .

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

So long is it's safe and legal you carry on!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"The things that turn me on is wearing leather gloves as I love feel on my hands and also a smell of leather .

I love to wear shear pantyhose and it is such a turn on.

Or wearing a little floral dress in the summer with no panties .

A turn on is to see a man that doesn’t shave his chest or his private parts . "

Oh hello

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By *nlyme1978Man
over a year ago

Somewhere Near You

Catching a glimpse of something you shouldn't does it for me although I am sure some women bend that bit further just for that reaction.x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

There's a vibe - when I can feel his lust for me and I know it's a comin'! So exciting! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence

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By *ouple4fun3139Couple
over a year ago

telford

Hey all. Theres a few things that get me going but What really gets me going is nipples poking through a womans top, makes me wanna grab them and play with them lol also i love women with feminine hands, nice nails and stuff, helps me imagine where them hands would be on me and doing what.. or catching a glimps of something i shouldnt have seen like if a woman was to bend over in front of me.. oops, theres a nip slip lol

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By *agluvrMan
over a year ago

Airdrie

This might seem odd but I get really turned on when the girl kneeling in front of me is still wearing her bra and knickers, especially if the knickers are a sexy thong.

Once she’s finished I like to pull the thong off and maintain eye contact with her as I return the favour.

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"The things that turn me on is wearing leather gloves as I love feel on my hands and also a smell of leather .

I love to wear shear pantyhose and it is such a turn on.

Or wearing a little floral dress in the summer with no panties .

A turn on is to see a man that doesn’t shave his chest or his private parts .

Oh hello "

And I know one of yours ! High heels ! As you licked mine once in Amours ( couple of years ago ) ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ads kissing my back, slowly and sometimes running his tongue along my skin. Also kissing, if we kiss on the mouth for longer than a few seconds we know one of us is gonna cum.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a turn on having a woman's red lips around my shaft..... haha

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

A woman who opens her legs to display a hairy cunt, makes my cock instantly hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never really think about specific turn ons, we tend to avoid the turn offs.

A guy might actually tick many boxes if we met but as soon as we see the, eg. Prince Albert pic on his profile, it's a def no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shopping.

Card-teasing retail goods that need a proper good buying.

*slobber*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good kisser

If it’s done well then there is no bigger turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being tied up with my ankles being my head so I can see my pussy then pounded by a big dick and both my holes used and I can't do a thing to stop it."

This is sticking in my mind for the rest of the day ....

Was just in supermarket and the sound of a pair of high heels on the floor done it for me and she was amazing too

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"A woman who opens her legs to display a hairy cunt, makes my cock instantly hard. "

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"The things that turn me on is wearing leather gloves as I love feel on my hands and also a smell of leather .

I love to wear shear pantyhose and it is such a turn on.

Or wearing a little floral dress in the summer with no panties .

A turn on is to see a man that doesn’t shave his chest or his private parts .

Oh hello

And I know one of yours ! High heels ! As you licked mine once in Amours ( couple of years ago ) ha ha "

Ummmmm lol I hope I was a gentleman about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get massively horny (both of us) if we watch others having sex before we play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dark hair

Dark eyes

Tall

Hairy Chest

Fair sized cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dark hair

Dark eyes

Tall

Hairy Chest

Fair sized cock

"

Ads

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