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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm getting so pissed off and have to state some of my pet hates, agree or disagree?

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them.

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it.

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it.

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush.

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications.

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol.

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc.

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before".

Rant over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone is grumpy this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good start to New Year's Eve. I am sure there will be lot of fireworks here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good start to New Year's Eve. I am sure there will be lot of fireworks here "

Aaaaaahhhhhh, ooooooooooooooo.....

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Sending you a hug OP ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sending you a hug OP .. "

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences."

Preferences is one thing, being blatantly ignorant or rude as a lot of people do, is another.

And I have no grandeur issues. But I've honestly never known any other site where people are so dismissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences.

Preferences is one thing, being blatantly ignorant or rude as a lot of people do, is another.

And I have no grandeur issues. But I've honestly never known any other site where people are so dismissive."

there is nothing on your little list that is in any way saying anyone has been rude to you.

They are all just you complaining that peoples profiles don't suit you age wise, or even gender wise!!...and you're annoyed when someone goes offline when you've sent a message?? really?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences.

Preferences is one thing, being blatantly ignorant or rude as a lot of people do, is another.

And I have no grandeur issues. But I've honestly never known any other site where people are so dismissive.

there is nothing on your little list that is in any way saying anyone has been rude to you.

They are all just you complaining that peoples profiles don't suit you age wise, or even gender wise!!...and you're annoyed when someone goes offline when you've sent a message?? really? "

Well I did add, agree or disagree. Those who are ignorant and rude are the people who just instantly delete without at least reading your message, etc.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I delete yes without reading a message . If the person is not in the location I am looking for . I don't see no reason to go offline because someone sent me a message ! Each person should be focus on their own profile ! I made my profile and I do what floats my boat! In here too many people feel because they want to fuck ,they should fuck,regardless !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences.

Preferences is one thing, being blatantly ignorant or rude as a lot of people do, is another.

And I have no grandeur issues. But I've honestly never known any other site where people are so dismissive.

there is nothing on your little list that is in any way saying anyone has been rude to you.

They are all just you complaining that peoples profiles don't suit you age wise, or even gender wise!!...and you're annoyed when someone goes offline when you've sent a message?? really?

Well I did add, agree or disagree. Those who are ignorant and rude are the people who just instantly delete without at least reading your message, etc."

most women will check a profile before the message. If they are not interested by the profile, then yes, that is probably what they will do. It is not rude or ignorant. this is explained clearly in the site rules. A polite rejection can just get a mouthful of abuse in return, or endless 'why not?'.

Given the sheer volume of messages some women get , there is no other practical way to deal with them.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Re point 4.

I block all single guys due to previous abuse. It's not tarring all guys with the same brush it just means I don't get any abuse.

You will find a lot of females and couples block single guys and look for themselves as it is easier to manage.

Regarding all the points. Fab life bud. Get used to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Re point 4.

I block all single guys due to previous abuse. It's not tarring all guys with the same brush it just means I don't get any abuse.

You will find a lot of females and couples block single guys and look for themselves as it is easier to manage.

Regarding all the points. Fab life bud. Get used to it."

I'm trying dude, but it's bloody frustrating as hell. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting so pissed off and have to state some of my pet hates, agree or disagree?

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them.

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it.

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it.

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush.

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications.

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol.

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc.

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before".

Rant over!

"

well said

Its good to be honest even if you don't end up with any pussy at all.Good news is scientist have starting to prefect pretty good realistic sex robots and in the near future you will be able to fuck an amazing amount of sexy clean smelling robotic women who will look like what ever you want the to look like yuppie! On the other hand women will always need that emotional support from men which robots can never provide so men will be back in favour once again like in the past it was big wars that desimated the male population leaving plenty of women.

The truth is women have it easy in life by de-fault. Theres many resons for that and am not saying all women do b4 i end up getting slated by the womens rights police.

Women need to understand that we're not the enemy and never book a judge by its cover.!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences.

Preferences is one thing, being blatantly ignorant or rude as a lot of people do, is another.

And I have no grandeur issues. But I've honestly never known any other site where people are so dismissive.

there is nothing on your little list that is in any way saying anyone has been rude to you.

They are all just you complaining that peoples profiles don't suit you age wise, or even gender wise!!...and you're annoyed when someone goes offline when you've sent a message?? really?

Well I did add, agree or disagree. Those who are ignorant and rude are the people who just instantly delete without at least reading your message, etc.

most women will check a profile before the message. If they are not interested by the profile, then yes, that is probably what they will do. It is not rude or ignorant. this is explained clearly in the site rules. A polite rejection can just get a mouthful of abuse in return, or endless 'why not?'.

Given the sheer volume of messages some women get , there is no other practical way to deal with them."

I can understand all that. But if I sit and compose a carefully thought out, eloquent, intelligent message, with no crudeness and no dick pics etc, only to have it deleted without being read, then it can be extremely disheartening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting so pissed off and have to state some of my pet hates, agree or disagree?

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them.

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it.

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it.

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush.

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications.

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol.

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc.

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before".

Rant over!

well said

Its good to be honest even if you don't end up with any pussy at all.Good news is scientist have starting to prefect pretty good realistic sex robots and in the near future you will be able to fuck an amazing amount of sexy clean smelling robotic women who will look like what ever you want the to look like yuppie! On the other hand women will always need that emotional support from men which robots can never provide so men will be back in favour once again like in the past it was big wars that desimated the male population leaving plenty of women.

The truth is women have it easy in life by de-fault. Theres many resons for that and am not saying all women do b4 i end up getting slated by the womens rights police.

Women need to understand that we're not the enemy and never book a judge by its cover.!"

what does any of that have to do with the OP? what drivel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences.

Preferences is one thing, being blatantly ignorant or rude as a lot of people do, is another.

And I have no grandeur issues. But I've honestly never known any other site where people are so dismissive.

there is nothing on your little list that is in any way saying anyone has been rude to you.

They are all just you complaining that peoples profiles don't suit you age wise, or even gender wise!!...and you're annoyed when someone goes offline when you've sent a message?? really?

Well I did add, agree or disagree. Those who are ignorant and rude are the people who just instantly delete without at least reading your message, etc.

most women will check a profile before the message. If they are not interested by the profile, then yes, that is probably what they will do. It is not rude or ignorant. this is explained clearly in the site rules. A polite rejection can just get a mouthful of abuse in return, or endless 'why not?'.

Given the sheer volume of messages some women get , there is no other practical way to deal with them.

I can understand all that. But if I sit and compose a carefully thought out, eloquent, intelligent message, with no crudeness and no dick pics etc, only to have it deleted without being read, then it can be extremely disheartening. "

i can understand that, but now you are aware of the reasons,it shouldnt bother you so much.

this is from the site FAQS.

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences.

Preferences is one thing, being blatantly ignorant or rude as a lot of people do, is another.

And I have no grandeur issues. But I've honestly never known any other site where people are so dismissive.

there is nothing on your little list that is in any way saying anyone has been rude to you.

They are all just you complaining that peoples profiles don't suit you age wise, or even gender wise!!...and you're annoyed when someone goes offline when you've sent a message?? really?

Well I did add, agree or disagree. Those who are ignorant and rude are the people who just instantly delete without at least reading your message, etc.

most women will check a profile before the message. If they are not interested by the profile, then yes, that is probably what they will do. It is not rude or ignorant. this is explained clearly in the site rules. A polite rejection can just get a mouthful of abuse in return, or endless 'why not?'.

Given the sheer volume of messages some women get , there is no other practical way to deal with them.

I can understand all that. But if I sit and compose a carefully thought out, eloquent, intelligent message, with no crudeness and no dick pics etc, only to have it deleted without being read, then it can be extremely disheartening.

i can understand that, but now you are aware of the reasons,it shouldnt bother you so much.

this is from the site FAQS.

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?."

I always try to stand out with messages that relate to a woman's profile or their update etc. Sometimes it's worse when someone has read your message but doesn't reply, because then I'm sitting thinking, maybe they like me and are just taking their time, as they didn't delete the message so maybe there's a chance, etc.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Once you have sent a message it no longer belongs to you. You either get a reply or you don’t, it’s as simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once you have sent a message it no longer belongs to you. You either get a reply or you don’t, it’s as simple as that. "

That's a different perspective.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

No 1: the offline status usually lags about 3-5 minutes OP. The person might already be offline by the time you send the message.

No.6: go to clubs/social and get verified. Might be easier henceforth.

You can't control the action of others, but your own action is totally within your control.

Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The truth is women have it easy in life by de-fault. Theres many resons for that and am not saying all women do b4 i end up getting slated by the womens rights police.

Women need to understand that we're not the enemy and never book a judge by its cover.!"

Please tell me this bit is a joke?!

A x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Once you have sent a message it no longer belongs to you. You either get a reply or you don’t, it’s as simple as that.

That's a different perspective. "

It really isn’t. You’re getting yourself in a tizzy over something you can’t control.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"The truth is women have it easy in life by de-fault. Theres many resons for that and am not saying all women do b4 i end up getting slated by the womens rights police.

Women need to understand that we're not the enemy and never book a judge by its cover.!

Please tell me this bit is a joke?!

A x"

He probably believes it.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Re point 4.

I block all single guys due to previous abuse. It's not tarring all guys with the same brush it just means I don't get any abuse.

You will find a lot of females and couples block single guys and look for themselves as it is easier to manage.

Regarding all the points. Fab life bud. Get used to it.

I'm trying dude, but it's bloody frustrating as hell. Lol."

I can't say what will work for you but I'll throw in some tips all the same.

I am on my third fab adventure. My very first visit i chose the name Tonguemaster. I thought I was a right funny bugger. I was wrong. Names like that don't seem to go down well. Your user name could be an issue in a similar vain.

Using the forum will get you noticed. It's a small subset of the site that use the forums regularly but there are also a lot of lurkers. Interact wisely. Not that I get it right all the time but still .

Same consideration should be given to your status updates. These will be seen and you should be aware of that. Better to have no status than a crap or negative one.

Your profile and your messaging style I leave to you. Present yourself well and be positive in both.

I am aware you haven't specifically asked for tips. I hope you don't mind.

Good luck.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Re point 4.

I block all single guys due to previous abuse. It's not tarring all guys with the same brush it just means I don't get any abuse.

You will find a lot of females and couples block single guys and look for themselves as it is easier to manage.

Regarding all the points. Fab life bud. Get used to it.

I'm trying dude, but it's bloody frustrating as hell. Lol.

I can't say what will work for you but I'll throw in some tips all the same.

I am on my third fab adventure. My very first visit i chose the name Tonguemaster. I thought I was a right funny bugger. I was wrong. Names like that don't seem to go down well. Your user name could be an issue in a similar vain.

Using the forum will get you noticed. It's a small subset of the site that use the forums regularly but there are also a lot of lurkers. Interact wisely. Not that I get it right all the time but still .

Same consideration should be given to your status updates. These will be seen and you should be aware of that. Better to have no status than a crap or negative one.

Your profile and your messaging style I leave to you. Present yourself well and be positive in both.

I am aware you haven't specifically asked for tips. I hope you don't mind.

Good luck."

You didn’t mention the green arrow. He should know about the green arrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No 1: the offline status usually lags about 3-5 minutes OP. The person might already be offline by the time you send the message.

No.6: go to clubs/social and get verified. Might be easier henceforth.

You can't control the action of others, but your own action is totally within your control.

Good luck OP."

He cant do that

He has a partner

One that he publicly slated on here recently

I shouldn't imagine that has had a positive effect on his chances

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences."

My pet hate.....people who moan all the time.....I can’t be doing with keep replacing the teddies in the pram....

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Re point 4.

I block all single guys due to previous abuse. It's not tarring all guys with the same brush it just means I don't get any abuse.

You will find a lot of females and couples block single guys and look for themselves as it is easier to manage.

Regarding all the points. Fab life bud. Get used to it.

I'm trying dude, but it's bloody frustrating as hell. Lol.

I can't say what will work for you but I'll throw in some tips all the same.

I am on my third fab adventure. My very first visit i chose the name Tonguemaster. I thought I was a right funny bugger. I was wrong. Names like that don't seem to go down well. Your user name could be an issue in a similar vain.

Using the forum will get you noticed. It's a small subset of the site that use the forums regularly but there are also a lot of lurkers. Interact wisely. Not that I get it right all the time but still .

Same consideration should be given to your status updates. These will be seen and you should be aware of that. Better to have no status than a crap or negative one.

Your profile and your messaging style I leave to you. Present yourself well and be positive in both.

I am aware you haven't specifically asked for tips. I hope you don't mind.

Good luck.

You didn’t mention the green arrow. He should know about the green arrow."

O dear. Have I wasted my time . I didn't check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Re point 4.

I block all single guys due to previous abuse. It's not tarring all guys with the same brush it just means I don't get any abuse.

You will find a lot of females and couples block single guys and look for themselves as it is easier to manage.

Regarding all the points. Fab life bud. Get used to it.

I'm trying dude, but it's bloody frustrating as hell. Lol.

I can't say what will work for you but I'll throw in some tips all the same.

I am on my third fab adventure. My very first visit i chose the name Tonguemaster. I thought I was a right funny bugger. I was wrong. Names like that don't seem to go down well. Your user name could be an issue in a similar vain.

Using the forum will get you noticed. It's a small subset of the site that use the forums regularly but there are also a lot of lurkers. Interact wisely. Not that I get it right all the time but still .

Same consideration should be given to your status updates. These will be seen and you should be aware of that. Better to have no status than a crap or negative one.

Your profile and your messaging style I leave to you. Present yourself well and be positive in both.

I am aware you haven't specifically asked for tips. I hope you don't mind.

Good luck.

You didn’t mention the green arrow. He should know about the green arrow.

O dear. Have I wasted my time . I didn't check."

I didnt need to check

I remembered

It was the username that stuck

How ironic

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Re point 4.

I block all single guys due to previous abuse. It's not tarring all guys with the same brush it just means I don't get any abuse.

You will find a lot of females and couples block single guys and look for themselves as it is easier to manage.

Regarding all the points. Fab life bud. Get used to it.

I'm trying dude, but it's bloody frustrating as hell. Lol.

I can't say what will work for you but I'll throw in some tips all the same.

I am on my third fab adventure. My very first visit i chose the name Tonguemaster. I thought I was a right funny bugger. I was wrong. Names like that don't seem to go down well. Your user name could be an issue in a similar vain.

Using the forum will get you noticed. It's a small subset of the site that use the forums regularly but there are also a lot of lurkers. Interact wisely. Not that I get it right all the time but still .

Same consideration should be given to your status updates. These will be seen and you should be aware of that. Better to have no status than a crap or negative one.

Your profile and your messaging style I leave to you. Present yourself well and be positive in both.

I am aware you haven't specifically asked for tips. I hope you don't mind.

Good luck.

You didn’t mention the green arrow. He should know about the green arrow.

O dear. Have I wasted my time . I didn't check.

I didnt need to check

I remembered

It was the username that stuck

How ironic"

Smart woman Miss Morissette.

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By *wizzlenipsMan
over a year ago

Newport


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2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it.

"

How do you know they didn't read your message then delete it?

I thought fab simply showed the current message state, so you see "Deleted" but you can't tell if it was read it or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hates...when I stop him humping my trainer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like a right slapped arse

Your tone screams entitlement and over expectation

There is nothing in either your post or your responses that suggests 'dominant' or 'warrior'

What they do suggest is someone who reacts badly to perceived rejection

That's never a good start for a bloke on here

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's just easier for some in different contexts - if meeting people is easier for someone in, for example, bars or the wider world, then play to your strengths there or improve them in alternatives.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I often read a message then mark it unread.

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By *ssex Playfull CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Grays

It’s hard getting meets as a couple, especially when you have rules and standards and don’t want to just fuck anyone. We’ve been on and off this site for 3 years and only ever met 4 couples. Not everyone wants to just jump into bed because they are on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, OP, you really do have a chip on your shoulder don't you?

You have made gourself sound awful with your forum posts which isnt going to help.

May I suggest that fabs isn't going to meet your needs and expectations and you may find what you're looking for elsewhere instead (or you need to really re-adjust your expectations).

Good luck with your journey x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Everyone has different ways of using the site OP. Simply because you state what you think is rude, it doesn’t make it so.

Each to their own I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been on 2 months.

Go to a club and meet people to get verified.

Chill out Mr grumpy pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences.

Preferences is one thing, being blatantly ignorant or rude as a lot of people do, is another.

And I have no grandeur issues. But I've honestly never known any other site where people are so dismissive."

Do you want to meet such rude, ignorant, dismissive people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s hard getting meets as a couple, especially when you have rules and standards and don’t want to just fuck anyone. We’ve been on and off this site for 3 years and only ever met 4 couples. Not everyone wants to just jump into bed because they are on a swinging site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say tarred with the same brush....

I'd like to quickly disassociate my self with the op from this point forward.

Op. Worry about what you do, not what others do, you might feel better

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wow, OP, you really do have a chip on your shoulder don't you?

You have made gourself sound awful with your forum posts which isnt going to help.

May I suggest that fabs isn't going to meet your needs and expectations and you may find what you're looking for elsewhere instead (or you need to really re-adjust your expectations).

Good luck with your journey x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s hard getting meets as a couple, especially when you have rules and standards and don’t want to just fuck anyone. We’ve been on and off this site for 3 years and only ever met 4 couples. Not everyone wants to just jump into bed because they are on a swinging site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ironic you mention delusions of grandeur...and maybe consider the notion of preferences.

Preferences is one thing, being blatantly ignorant or rude as a lot of people do, is another.

And I have no grandeur issues. But I've honestly never known any other site where people are so dismissive.

there is nothing on your little list that is in any way saying anyone has been rude to you.

They are all just you complaining that peoples profiles don't suit you age wise, or even gender wise!!...and you're annoyed when someone goes offline when you've sent a message?? really?

Well I did add, agree or disagree. Those who are ignorant and rude are the people who just instantly delete without at least reading your message, etc.

most women will check a profile before the message. If they are not interested by the profile, then yes, that is probably what they will do. It is not rude or ignorant. this is explained clearly in the site rules. A polite rejection can just get a mouthful of abuse in return, or endless 'why not?'.

Given the sheer volume of messages some women get , there is no other practical way to deal with them.

I can understand all that. But if I sit and compose a carefully thought out, eloquent, intelligent message, with no crudeness and no dick pics etc, only to have it deleted without being read, then it can be extremely disheartening. "

They will probably have read your profile first and decided they aren't interested so there's no point in reading the messege so it's deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

send your message then delete . That way you never know if it's been Read .deleted .or ignored . if you get a reply .bonus .

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What's wrong with women hanging 100 verifications?!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not happy are ya!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"My pet hates...when I stop him humping my trainer"

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Breath in hold breath out ....and relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's odd, as I read the list of 'observations' I found myself answering 'tough shit' to pretty much all of them.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

My pet hate is newbies. Been here around 2 months and start ranting telling us hardned swingers how it's done.

Example to your " start chatting and they go offline" maybe they were on a bus and reached their stop so went off line. Maybe the doorbell rang, maybe they had an incoming phone call. Or a million other reasons. Swinging is a hobby. No one is paid to do it. We don't have to sit on line endlassly. I come on to poke around forums. But can gaurentee to get messages " you looking to play ect". We all use Fab in our own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you have sent a message it no longer belongs to you. You either get a reply or you don’t, it’s as simple as that. "

Wow, that's a bit philosophical or legal!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

And yet some guys get replies all the time and meets within a few days of arriving - so maybe there is a solution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them. THEY HAVE A LIFE AWAY FROM FAB

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it. IT WAS EITHER CRAP OR THEY DONT WANT TO MEET YOU

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it. PREFERENCES, EVERYONE HAS THEM, GET OVER IT.

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush. BOO HOO, IT SPARES MOST WOMEN A LOT IF INBOX GRIEF

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications. AT LEAST THEY HAVE SOME

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol. FIND ANOTHER WAY TO GET VERIFIED. MEET AT A CLUB OR A SOCIAL EVENT.

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc. SO WHAT?

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before". CLEARLY MORE EXPERT THAN YOU THOUGH.

Rant over!

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By *ssex Playfull CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Grays


"It's odd, as I read the list of 'observations' I found myself answering 'tough shit' to pretty much all of them.

"

Spot on

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I love the thought of all these women online for hours, waiting for a message from OP, so they can immediately go offline just to annoy him.

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By *ssex Playfull CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Grays


"I love the thought of all these women online for hours, waiting for a message from OP, so they can immediately go offline just to annoy him. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's odd, as I read the list of 'observations' I found myself answering 'tough shit' to pretty much all of them.

"

Male or female posting? Out of interest that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's odd, as I read the list of 'observations' I found myself answering 'tough shit' to pretty much all of them.

Male or female posting? Out of interest that's all. "

Since you ask, it's Mr N as always. But, we both sit and read the forums, Mrs N said exactly the same thing.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I love the “women shouldn’t judge a book by its cover” type comments

Why?

Because you men sending the messages do the bloody same! You look at a profile (often just the pictures without reading the written part) think ‘she’s a bit of alright’ and decide to message her, so you know no more about the person Other than you like the look of them, you’ve “judged” them by their “cover” (the cover being the pics/profile) and decided to message them

How the fuck do you not realise you too do it! Then make yourselves sound like hypocrites!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I'm getting so pissed off and have to state some of my pet hates, agree or disagree?

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them.

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it.

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it.

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush.

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications.

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol.

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc.

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before".

Rant over!

"

If you don't log in none of that is relevant. It's that easy not not be cheesed off.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People are allowed their own preferences op,.

Not all will match you

Why not concentrate on those who do

You will drive yourself mad on here otherwise.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting so pissed off and have to state some of my pet hates, agree or disagree?

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them.

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it.

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it.

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush.

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications.

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol.

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc.

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before".

Rant over!

"

hey you do realise people read this .....not a good advert

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I'm getting so pissed off and have to state some of my pet hates, agree or disagree? (My pet hates are as follows)

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them.

1. Men that think we don’t have lives away from fab and must be online all the time in to order to answer their previous messages because they’ve got a piss poor self entitled attitude

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it.

2. Men that don’t realise you can set a message as unread and again after you’ve read it

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it.

3. men that can’t respect my preference to not want to fuck someone old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my niece or nephew

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush.

4. Men that don’t realise blocking their gender means we man manage our inboxes efficiently instead of being bombarded by dickheads

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications.

5. Men that judge a woman be be a std riddled slag because she’s got 100+ veris without factoring in how many are social veris or how many years she may have been on the site to ecru said veris

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol.

6. Men that can’t get off their arses and go to clubs and socials to get verified and expect fab to hand them their sex life on a silver platter

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc.

7. People that don’t see the irony that rants like these make them look like the ones with delusions of grandeur

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before".

8. People that can’t respect people with more experience of the site especially when they’re be to it and still trying to find their way, these people and their advice could actually help you if you didn’t feel like you know best instead

Rant over!

Rant over!

"

Ps did anyone see what I did there

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them. THEY HAVE A LIFE AWAY FROM FAB

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it. IT WAS EITHER CRAP OR THEY DONT WANT TO MEET YOU

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it. PREFERENCES, EVERYONE HAS THEM, GET OVER IT.

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush. BOO HOO, IT SPARES MOST WOMEN A LOT IF INBOX GRIEF

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications. AT LEAST THEY HAVE SOME

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol. FIND ANOTHER WAY TO GET VERIFIED. MEET AT A CLUB OR A SOCIAL EVENT.

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc. SO WHAT?

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before". CLEARLY MORE EXPERT THAN YOU THOUGH.

Rant over!"

Aww mr N you beat me to it

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I think you need a name change OP. It certainly does not reflect the Green arrow.

The moment the site stops being fun then perhaps it’s time to step away from the keyboard for a bit.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I'm getting so pissed off and have to state some of my pet hates, agree or disagree?

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them.

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it.

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it.

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush.

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications.

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol.

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc.

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before".

Rant over!

"

I bet your rant will have them flocking. A rant about women never fails. You'll be beating then off with a shitty stick.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

My pet hate ..

Men that moan about women that have choices to meet who they want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pet hate ..

Men that moan about women that have choices to meet who they want to meet

"

women with pink hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pet hate ..

Men that moan about women that have choices to meet who they want to meet

"

who don't meet me

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

He’s decided to join another thread and ignore this one.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"He’s decided to join another thread and ignore this one. "

Oh the irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the thought of all these women online for hours, waiting for a message from OP, so they can immediately go offline just to annoy him. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the thought of all these women online for hours, waiting for a message from OP, so they can immediately go offline just to annoy him.

"

what an op ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hate is guys messaging me they havnt read or respected my preferences so i delete messages and mostly block them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go OP! Fight for your rights as a man! You are a MAN, you are entitled! These women NEED to listen! We should end women's suffrage!

Anything else YOU want to hear, or should I stop with the nonsense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You go OP! Fight for your rights as a man! You are a MAN, you are entitled! These women NEED to listen! We should end women's suffrage!

Anything else YOU want to hear, or should I stop with the nonsense?"

Its are right not too listen x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

what an op ? "

Original Poster - the person who started the thread

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I'm getting so pissed off and have to state some of my pet hates, agree or disagree?

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them.

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it.

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it.

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush.

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications.

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol.

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc.

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before".

Rant over!

"

Just thought I'd clarify a few of your points.

1, There is a time lag on here, often takes between 5-8minutes to show as offline, so chances are your recipient may have been offline long before you sent your message.

2, your message may well be thought out, but most women check profiles before reading. Leading to lots of possible reasons why then not to bother replying & just delete.

3, preferences - respect them.

4, again - preferences, people can do whatever they like with their settings.

5, 100 veris, doesn't mean 100 shags, socials, club chats, organised events.

6, see point 5, go to an organised social or club

7, so some people on here have egos, just like in the real world then.

8, if they're getting meets, then they're obviously doing something right, therefore they maybe a bit more expert than others

Clarification over!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I'm getting so pissed off and have to state some of my pet hates, agree or disagree?

1. When women immediately go offline the second you messsge them.

2. Women who delete your well thought out message without even reading it.

3. The age restrictions, just because my chronological age is 44, doesn't mean I act it or look it.

4. People who block everyone of a certain gender. Way to tar everyone with the same brush.

5. Women who think it's cool that they have 100 verifications.

6. Women who expect you to be meet verified and published. How can I do this if no one will even read my bloody messages? Lol.

7. People with delusions of grandeur, those who seem to think they're a celebrity etc.

8. Those who think they're some sort of expert just because they've "been here before".

Rant over!

Just thought I'd clarify a few of your points.

1, There is a time lag on here, often takes between 5-8minutes to show as offline, so chances are your recipient may have been offline long before you sent your message.

2, your message may well be thought out, but most women check profiles before reading. Leading to lots of possible reasons why then not to bother replying & just delete.

3, preferences - respect them.

4, again - preferences, people can do whatever they like with their settings.

5, 100 veris, doesn't mean 100 shags, socials, club chats, organised events.

6, see point 5, go to an organised social or club

7, so some people on here have egos, just like in the real world then.

8, if they're getting meets, then they're obviously doing something right, therefore they maybe a bit more expert than others

Clarification over!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another OP with a sense of entitlement. I bet it will get you far on Fab... (not!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hate is when he farts and then sulks off waiting for me to go...oooooow who's farted, you dirty dog

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