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Ice breakers that women use

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all after reading a lot of women's profiles and statuses, many have requested that men make themselves stand out from the possible hundreds of emails women receive. What I would like to know is how the women would stand from others when messaging and man.

Let's hear the ice breakers girls....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one "

The reply you get, are they FAF with 3 cock pics lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one "

Haha nice,

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By *enuine lad2Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one "
may I say how beautiful you tits and pussy is x

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

When I’ve messaged guys, it’s usually about something they have written in their profile text. Or I have complimented some on their ink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tailored to the individuals profile and comments on fave pics they see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one "

I might start doing that to couples... I'm sure the majority of messages are aimed more towards the female half, so that'll break the mould somewhat.

(Ps. Nobody steal my idea)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one

The reply you get, are they FAF with 3 cock pics lol... "

Surprisingly no, it's always really respectful messages that I get back

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Hey all after reading a lot of women's profiles and statuses, many have requested that men make themselves stand out from the possible hundreds of emails women receive. What I would like to know is how the women would stand from others when messaging and man.

Let's hear the ice breakers girls.... "

If I’m interested in a guy I simply send a few pics, ask them to check out my profile and get in touch if interested!

I make a hell of a lot of effort with my profile (via text, regular clear pics etc) so that I don’t have to spend half an hour coming up with an amazing message!

I expect the same from guys - nothing more - I’m more interested in the pics and profile than the initial message! A one line message is fine as long as he has a good profile to back it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once messaged to a couple who were looking for a unicorn with the following introduction.

Clippity clop, clippity clop, neigh! *gets tangled in my own hooves and farts a rainbow.*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one "

Dammit, everyone else says no cock pics!

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"I once messaged to a couple who were looking for a unicorn with the following introduction.

Clippity clop, clippity clop, neigh! *gets tangled in my own hooves and farts a rainbow.*"

Gentlemen we have a winner!

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"I once messaged to a couple who were looking for a unicorn with the following introduction.

Clippity clop, clippity clop, neigh! *gets tangled in my own hooves and farts a rainbow.*"

Oh we love you for that...pmsfl......lol...etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. Faf?

Works pretty much every time with guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi For Your Eyes...I can't message you directly as I am an old git and past it...but I am really interested in group social meets, mainly to get my face out there and to socialise without the added pressure of having to perform in front of others ( I should be so lucky ). I noticed you and others talk of a manchester social....how do I attend, or have the chance to be invited..? Thanks in anticipation..x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I use the wink wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say a polite hello and compliment them on what it was that attracted me to their profile. I did that to H, and here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I comment on what it was in their profile that made me want to message them. As though they were a human being. It never goes down well.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I message a guy it's because he's localish, able to accommodate.

Like Peachy I point them in the direction of my profile and tell them to make contact if they like what they see....then I attach a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I do message it's normally because something has tickled me on their profile/status or a forum post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is EXTREMELY rare for me to message any man first... They have to be pretty damn hot for me to do that.

I'd say in my 12 months here Ive probably only sent a dozen or so first messages.

I do sometimes wink at guys but they tend to get ignored and that's rejection enough for me!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once messaged to a couple who were looking for a unicorn with the following introduction.

Clippity clop, clippity clop, neigh! *gets tangled in my own hooves and farts a rainbow.*

Oh we love you for that...pmsfl......lol...etc"

You're most welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of women on here saying they wink at a guy, that’s one of the many things I have seen a lot of women writing on their profile saying they ignore and find lazy on the guys part. So it looks as though you ladies need to be a bit more original and put a bit of effort in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanna piece of me?

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"A couple of women on here saying they wink at a guy, that’s one of the many things I have seen a lot of women writing on their profile saying they ignore and find lazy on the guys part. So it looks as though you ladies need to be a bit more original and put a bit of effort in lol"

Supply and demand, supply and demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of women on here saying they wink at a guy, that’s one of the many things I have seen a lot of women writing on their profile saying they ignore and find lazy on the guys part. So it looks as though you ladies need to be a bit more original and put a bit of effort in lol"

No we don't. I do sod all except put up a few pics; write a few words and open up my filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send pictures of my vagina from 17 different angles and tell them I'm free now

No really, I just pay a compliment and say get in touch if they like my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely message a guy first. If I'm interested I fab a pic or throw a wink, which is usually enough for them to message me. The opposite of what I ask for I know, but I'm honestly not actively seeking new meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send pictures of my vagina from 17 different angles and tell them I'm free now

No really, I just pay a compliment and say get in touch if they like my profile "

Let’s say you are messaging someone who has really nice eyes for example and you compliment them and say get in touch if you like my profile. Now when this person gets say a hundred messages a day, and 20 of them compliment the eyes, it’s then an unoriginal message, and gets ignored.

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"I send pictures of my vagina from 17 different angles and tell them I'm free now

No really, I just pay a compliment and say get in touch if they like my profile

Let’s say you are messaging someone who has really nice eyes for example and you compliment them and say get in touch if you like my profile. Now when this person gets say a hundred messages a day, and 20 of them compliment the eyes, it’s then an unoriginal message, and gets ignored."

If there is any man that gets 100 messages a day, he has our total respect as a Sex God

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send pictures of my vagina from 17 different angles and tell them I'm free now

No really, I just pay a compliment and say get in touch if they like my profile

Let’s say you are messaging someone who has really nice eyes for example and you compliment them and say get in touch if you like my profile. Now when this person gets say a hundred messages a day, and 20 of them compliment the eyes, it’s then an unoriginal message, and gets ignored."

I can live with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all after reading a lot of women's profiles and statuses, many have requested that men make themselves stand out from the possible hundreds of emails women receive. What I would like to know is how the women would stand from others when messaging and man.

Let's hear the ice breakers girls.... "
women have the power you know that I'm sure but you're looking for a little slice of equality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send pictures of my vagina from 17 different angles and tell them I'm free now

No really, I just pay a compliment and say get in touch if they like my profile

Let’s say you are messaging someone who has really nice eyes for example and you compliment them and say get in touch if you like my profile. Now when this person gets say a hundred messages a day, and 20 of them compliment the eyes, it’s then an unoriginal message, and gets ignored.

If there is any man that gets 100 messages a day, he has our total respect as a Sex God"

But would your message to them stand out with your lack of effort and originality in creating the message lol

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"I send pictures of my vagina from 17 different angles and tell them I'm free now

No really, I just pay a compliment and say get in touch if they like my profile

Let’s say you are messaging someone who has really nice eyes for example and you compliment them and say get in touch if you like my profile. Now when this person gets say a hundred messages a day, and 20 of them compliment the eyes, it’s then an unoriginal message, and gets ignored.

If there is any man that gets 100 messages a day, he has our total respect as a Sex God

But would your message to them stand out with your lack of effort and originality in creating the message lol"

It would probably stand out as the only message that day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send pictures of my vagina from 17 different angles and tell them I'm free now

No really, I just pay a compliment and say get in touch if they like my profile "

This message must have missed my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one

Dammit, everyone else says no cock pics! "

Well you know, different people like different things

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

When I walk into a room I usually say ‘oo nice tits love’. Works for me on messages too. If there’s a group of ladies in a possible play situation, my most successful line has been ‘come sit on my face you sexy bitch’.

I appreciate how this would be attacked if a bloke wrote it....

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"A couple of women on here saying they wink at a guy, that’s one of the many things I have seen a lot of women writing on their profile saying they ignore and find lazy on the guys part. So it looks as though you ladies need to be a bit more original and put a bit of effort in lol"

If it works why change it?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Hi For Your Eyes...I can't message you directly as I am an old git and past it...but I am really interested in group social meets, mainly to get my face out there and to socialise without the added pressure of having to perform in front of others ( I should be so lucky ). I noticed you and others talk of a manchester social....how do I attend, or have the chance to be invited..? Thanks in anticipation..x"

Just keep an eye on meets and events in the forums hun. Socials can usually be found on there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you.

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

How about in 'real life'?

I hate 'do you fancy buying me a drink?' which was a thing once...

A held gaze and a smile is nice.. As is a simple hello

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one "

I have to say, I'd find that message mildly unsettling.

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one

I have to say, I'd find that message mildly unsettling. "

Unsettling in a rather erotic way...

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one "
......that ones sure proof ...it would work on me totally

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one

I have to say, I'd find that message mildly unsettling.

Unsettling in a rather erotic way..."

Unsettling; given that I have no photos of my cock on display, so you'd have to have either already had sex with me or been looking through my window.....

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"I often message men and tell them how beautiful their cock is

Almost always get a reply to that one

I have to say, I'd find that message mildly unsettling.

Unsettling in a rather erotic way...

Unsettling; given that I have no photos of my cock on display, so you'd have to have either already had sex with me or been looking through my window....."

Posfl!!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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My what a handsome face you have, may I sit on it?

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"My what a handsome face you have, may I sit on it? "

Yes (from both of us)

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"My what a handsome face you have, may I sit on it? "

With that line you can get any man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My what a handsome face you have, may I sit on it? "

Only if you can fart glitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once messaged to a couple who were looking for a unicorn with the following introduction.

Clippity clop, clippity clop, neigh! *gets tangled in my own hooves and farts a rainbow.*

Gentlemen we have a winner! "

Thank you kindly

Do I win a goldfish?

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