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Definition of a hookup?

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I see it a lot “no hookups or one night stands” what is the difference between a hookup and a ons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time of day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much time is spent getting to know someone before meeting them, and how long you spend together.

You can't tell if it will be a one time only though.

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"How much time is spent getting to know someone before meeting them, and how long you spend together.

You can't tell if it will be a one time only though."

Sounds like a ons with potential?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much time is spent getting to know someone before meeting them, and how long you spend together.

You can't tell if it will be a one time only though.

Sounds like a ons with potential?"

Only if they aren't only after a ons.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

I usually find it's the conversation afterwards.

Whether you have one or not

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"How much time is spent getting to know someone before meeting them, and how long you spend together.

You can't tell if it will be a one time only though.

Sounds like a ons with potential?

Only if they aren't only after a ons."

That would make me more of a hookup than a ons type I’m thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much time is spent getting to know someone before meeting them, and how long you spend together.

You can't tell if it will be a one time only though.

Sounds like a ons with potential?

Only if they aren't only after a ons.

That would make me more of a hookup than a ons type I’m thinking "

They are the same thing, to me.

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"How much time is spent getting to know someone before meeting them, and how long you spend together.

You can't tell if it will be a one time only though.

Sounds like a ons with potential?

Only if they aren't only after a ons.

That would make me more of a hookup than a ons type I’m thinking

They are the same thing, to me.

"
now I’m confused

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Isn’t the difference along the lines that you sleep over in a one night stand but leave swiftly after a hook up? Mind you, I could have just made that up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much time is spent getting to know someone before meeting them, and how long you spend together.

You can't tell if it will be a one time only though.

Sounds like a ons with potential?

Only if they aren't only after a ons.

That would make me more of a hookup than a ons type I’m thinking

They are the same thing, to me.

now I’m confused "

Hooking up is two people who want just want a fuck. Someone who wants a ons wants the same. I think that way anyway. Like meeting someone in a club. They chat you up for a few minutes, take you home and fuck you. You hooked up for sex and never saw them again. No chat over drinks getting to know each other and no desire to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn’t the difference along the lines that you sleep over in a one night stand but leave swiftly after a hook up? Mind you, I could have just made that up.... "

One night stand can mean any amount of time.

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"How much time is spent getting to know someone before meeting them, and how long you spend together.

You can't tell if it will be a one time only though.

Sounds like a ons with potential?

Only if they aren't only after a ons.

That would make me more of a hookup than a ons type I’m thinking

They are the same thing, to me.

now I’m confused

Hooking up is two people who want just want a fuck. Someone who wants a ons wants the same. I think that way anyway. Like meeting someone in a club. They chat you up for a few minutes, take you home and fuck you. You hooked up for sex and never saw them again. No chat over drinks getting to know each other and no desire to meet again. "

Maybe I’m not a hookup kind of guy after all. This swinging lark can be quite complicated sometimes.

I am too scared to mention FBs and FWBs

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"How much time is spent getting to know someone before meeting them, and how long you spend together.

You can't tell if it will be a one time only though.

Sounds like a ons with potential?

Only if they aren't only after a ons.

That would make me more of a hookup than a ons type I’m thinking

They are the same thing, to me.

now I’m confused

Hooking up is two people who want just want a fuck. Someone who wants a ons wants the same. I think that way anyway. Like meeting someone in a club. They chat you up for a few minutes, take you home and fuck you. You hooked up for sex and never saw them again. No chat over drinks getting to know each other and no desire to meet again.

Maybe I’m not a hookup kind of guy after all. This swinging lark can be quite complicated sometimes.

I am too scared to mention FBs and FWBs"

Ah....I know the difference there; With a FB you have sex with them whereas with a FWB you have sex with them and then have a conversation afterwards

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"How much time is spent getting to know someone before meeting them, and how long you spend together.

You can't tell if it will be a one time only though.

Sounds like a ons with potential?

Only if they aren't only after a ons.

That would make me more of a hookup than a ons type I’m thinking

They are the same thing, to me.

now I’m confused

Hooking up is two people who want just want a fuck. Someone who wants a ons wants the same. I think that way anyway. Like meeting someone in a club. They chat you up for a few minutes, take you home and fuck you. You hooked up for sex and never saw them again. No chat over drinks getting to know each other and no desire to meet again.

Maybe I’m not a hookup kind of guy after all. This swinging lark can be quite complicated sometimes.

I am too scared to mention FBs and FWBs

Ah....I know the difference there; With a FB you have sex with them whereas with a FWB you have sex with them and then have a conversation afterwards "
are you quite sure there is no shopping involved?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Hookup and ons are exactly the same thing. Ignoring the semantics. Of what time of day you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know op. Everyone seems tobword things differently, me,

Hook up, getting together with someone I like, hopefully we'll want to meet again.

One night stand, i'd met someone I barely know, and most likely will never repeat it for various reasons.

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

That seems closest to my understanding

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