FabSwingers.com forum: which aproach do you prefer

By *riskygaz OP Man
over a year ago

birmingham

In a first message, would you prefer general small talk with no mention of sex, or would you like to get straight to the point ? Because neither approach is having much susses for me lol.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

An honest, polite "I've read your profile and..." followed by a nice message that explains who you are, what you're into, why you've chosen to message us etc.

Also, yes, a little sexy dirty talk or describing a scenario works well for MrsNWC.

Just be honest and straightforward.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I should add how important it is to read profiles before messaging.

Nothing boils piss more than messages from guys who don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poetry is looking a good choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t forget to attach cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never expect sexual chat as a first message, personally. I like to get to know someone a little. Usually polite and witty grabs my attention.... Though I do look at the profile. If the prole doesn't appeal, then it doesn't really matter what they say in the message, in all honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Small talk. If I'm actively looking I'll write a few lines about favourite films/music/books to give a person a starting point for a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I prefer an approach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

Tartlet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Small talk. If I'm actively looking I'll write a few lines about favourite films/music/books to give a person a starting point for a conversation. "

Oh your pictures work like a charm

They are causing more levitation than wingardium leviosa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

And yet one arrives somehow,

finds himself loosening the hooks of

her dress

in a strange bedroom--

feels the autumn

dropping its silk and linen leaves

about her ankles.

The tawdry veined body emerges

twisted upon itself

like a winter wind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

Tartlet

That's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An approach

I must be on the wrong thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference would be a clear message they find me sexy, i need a heads up, or well just go round in circles talking your ear off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like my body when it is with your

body. It is so quite new a thing.

Muscles better and nerves more.

i like your body. i like what it does,

i like its hows. i like to feel the spine

of your body and its bones, and the trembling

-firm-smooth ness and which i will

again and again and again

kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,

i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz

of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes

over parting flesh … And eyes big love-crumbs,

and possibly i like the thrill

of under me you so quite new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

And yet one arrives somehow,

finds himself loosening the hooks of

her dress

in a strange bedroom--

feels the autumn

dropping its silk and linen leaves

about her ankles.

The tawdry veined body emerges

twisted upon itself

like a winter wind "

Ooh now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just sit in the corner licking my eyebrows

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have forgotten what it is like to message people asking if they would like to have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i like my body when it is with your

body. It is so quite new a thing.

Muscles better and nerves more.

i like your body. i like what it does,

i like its hows. i like to feel the spine

of your body and its bones, and the trembling

-firm-smooth ness and which i will

again and again and again

kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,

i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz

of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes

over parting flesh … And eyes big love-crumbs,

and possibly i like the thrill

of under me you so quite new."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i like my body when it is with your

body. It is so quite new a thing.

Muscles better and nerves more.

i like your body. i like what it does,

i like its hows. i like to feel the spine

of your body and its bones, and the trembling

-firm-smooth ness and which i will

again and again and again

kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,

i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz

of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes

over parting flesh … And eyes big love-crumbs,

and possibly i like the thrill

of under me you so quite new.

Fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

And yet one arrives somehow,

finds himself loosening the hooks of

her dress

in a strange bedroom--

feels the autumn

dropping its silk and linen leaves

about her ankles.

The tawdry veined body emerges

twisted upon itself

like a winter wind "

Oh such silver tongued serenading

Will have all the ladies in hope parading

In throngs to greet you as they throw

Their thongs perchance to espy

You flick your hair from tickling your eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

And yet one arrives somehow,

finds himself loosening the hooks of

her dress

in a strange bedroom--

feels the autumn

dropping its silk and linen leaves

about her ankles.

The tawdry veined body emerges

twisted upon itself

like a winter wind

Oh such silver tongued serenading

Will have all the ladies in hope parading

In throngs to greet you as they throw

Their thongs perchance to espy

You flick your hair from tickling your eye"

I think I'd prefer a FAF message now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

And yet one arrives somehow,

finds himself loosening the hooks of

her dress

in a strange bedroom--

feels the autumn

dropping its silk and linen leaves

about her ankles.

The tawdry veined body emerges

twisted upon itself

like a winter wind

Oh such silver tongued serenading

Will have all the ladies in hope parading

In throngs to greet you as they throw

Their thongs perchance to espy

You flick your hair from tickling your eye

I think I'd prefer a FAF message now

You can be first to test drive my new one then

Throw away your alarm clock

The name is Doc

You’ll be woken in the morning

By my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i like my body when it is with your

body. It is so quite new a thing.

Muscles better and nerves more.

i like your body. i like what it does,

i like its hows. i like to feel the spine

of your body and its bones, and the trembling

-firm-smooth ness and which i will

again and again and again

kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,

i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz

of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes

over parting flesh … And eyes big love-crumbs,

and possibly i like the thrill

of under me you so quite new.

Fuck?"

Yeah go on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

And yet one arrives somehow,

finds himself loosening the hooks of

her dress

in a strange bedroom--

feels the autumn

dropping its silk and linen leaves

about her ankles.

The tawdry veined body emerges

twisted upon itself

like a winter wind

Oh such silver tongued serenading

Will have all the ladies in hope parading

In throngs to greet you as they throw

Their thongs perchance to espy

You flick your hair from tickling your eye

I think I'd prefer a FAF message now

You can be first to test drive my new one then

Throw away your alarm clock

The name is Doc

You’ll be woken in the morning

By my cock"

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hate graphic 1st messages from someone i dont know,so its an instant delete from me.

Would prefer just a general message ,i always think they just wanna get their rocks off fast and thats not for me ta.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in same boat although I never go in for the kill on a first message usually just a compliment on pics or try to be witty about something in their bio ! Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it depends on the recipient. If you're responding to a meet now to a couple whom are doing a dogging gangbang, I very much doubt they want to chit chat about musical preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate graphic 1st messages from someone i dont know,so its an instant delete from me.

Would prefer just a general message ,i always think they just wanna get their rocks off fast and thats not for me ta.

Miss"

That's my take on a sexual first message too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

And yet one arrives somehow,

finds himself loosening the hooks of

her dress

in a strange bedroom--

feels the autumn

dropping its silk and linen leaves

about her ankles.

The tawdry veined body emerges

twisted upon itself

like a winter wind

Oh such silver tongued serenading

Will have all the ladies in hope parading

In throngs to greet you as they throw

Their thongs perchance to espy

You flick your hair from tickling your eye"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poetry is looking a good choice

And yet one arrives somehow,

finds himself loosening the hooks of

her dress

in a strange bedroom--

feels the autumn

dropping its silk and linen leaves

about her ankles.

The tawdry veined body emerges

twisted upon itself

like a winter wind

Oh such silver tongued serenading

Will have all the ladies in hope parading

In throngs to greet you as they throw

Their thongs perchance to espy

You flick your hair from tickling your eye

I think I'd prefer a FAF message now

FAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think that Estella and Hatter should both behave.

Or they should both get in my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a first message, would you prefer general small talk with no mention of sex, or would you like to get straight to the point ? Because neither approach is having much susses for me lol."
lol hey don't be so lazy try other approaches ,theirs four points on the compass

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It depends, as long as it's not ultra short FAF. I'd like it to show they have a grasp of me and my needs and thus confirm compatibility. Friendly tone, not demanding is ideal

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

I prefer people to be clear about what they’re looking for in the first message. I don’t have time for small talk from 20 people a day as 99% don’t go any further or have a clue what they want

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Nice eyes and a smile go a long way. Witty banter helps too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an acknowledgement of them reading the profile and keeping an eye out for a meet.

Get so many people hassling us for meets so often. Just proves they haven't bothered to read the profile.

~Mia

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By *riskygaz OP Man
over a year ago

birmingham

"I should add how important it is to read profiles before messaging.

Nothing boils piss more than messages from guys who don't."
I always read them first, unless it's going to take me 20 minutes to read it lol.

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