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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else gone off sex? Is so how long did it last?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t you think the people that have gone off sex won’t be on here???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mojo comes and goes.

I once went years without sex, I didn't even have the urge to masturbate in that time.

Think it just depends on what is going on in your life?

Hope it returns soon

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Here isnt just about sex to me, so im on here sometimes even when sex is the furthest thing from my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here isnt just about sex to me, so im on here sometimes even when sex is the furthest thing from my mind."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Libido comes and goes, it's quite normal. I sometimes don't feel like sex depending on whatever else is happening in my world at the time, but sometimes I can't get enough. I do think the more I get the more I crave, so if I am enjoying regular sex with someone I will generally be feeling horny a lot of the time, whereas if I'm between regular partners I often don't really think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Fab is a pretty unsexy place (as are many online platforms)

It is easy to be here and not be aroused / not seeking meets

My sex drive comes and goes. I don't make an issue of it mentally. It comes back in its own good time.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers "

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think Fab is a pretty unsexy place (as are many online platforms)

It is easy to be here and not be aroused / not seeking meets

My sex drive comes and goes. I don't make an issue of it mentally. It comes back in its own good time. "

I so agree with your first sentence! Nice pics by the way!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then "

Not always, mine went through the roof! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then "

No really!!??

Bollox! That's so depressing!

My libido comes and goes.

I think it's visual and mental stimulation that keeps my sex drive up.

But I have gone many months just not feeling like it!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then

Not always, mine went through the roof! ! "

That's good to hear,although I'm perimenopausal and mine has gone down

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Not gone off it but not hunting it out like I used to. If it happens it happens.

Before my last relationship I wanted it all the time. Would meet every night if I could but not now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then

Not always, mine went through the roof! ! "

Frisky I'm keeping my fingers and toes crossed I'm the same as u!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading threads and observing alot talk and don't do meets .so must be a lot whi have gone off sex .

Alot of forum users and fab users been months or years since sex going by talk,profiles and verifications.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then

Not always, mine went through the roof! !

That's good to hear,although I'm perimenopausal and mine has gone down "

Not sure it is really - men my age just can't keep up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then "

She did say it had gone a little dry down there too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone else said - it all depends on what's going on in my life at the time.

My libido went mental this year in the summer time, I had no life dramas going on and everything was a bit meh ...

Which sometimes is a good thing!

Especially as previous years held so much heartache and drama for me.

I had no desire at all in that time

I'm a little bored of NSA now so I'm not sure what the new year will bring

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Can Spanish fly help

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Can Spanish fly help "

Help with what?

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"Has anyone else gone off sex? Is so how long did it last?"

You’ll not get an accurate answer because each person is different. I would advise speaking with a GP who may transfer you to get your testosterone levels checked.

Lack of libido in men usually hits in their early 40’s but can happen earlier. Do your research then see the doc.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then

Not always, mine went through the roof! !

That's good to hear,although I'm perimenopausal and mine has gone down

Not sure it is really - men my age just can't keep up! "

Time to be looking for a bit younger then!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then

She did say it had gone a little dry down there too "

Yep!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then

Not always, mine went through the roof! !

That's good to hear,although I'm perimenopausal and mine has gone down

Not sure it is really - men my age just can't keep up!

Time to be looking for a bit younger then!"

Trouble is that doesn't work for the relationship side of things for me - maybe I need to become a swinger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Fab is a pretty unsexy place (as are many online platforms)

It is easy to be here and not be aroused / not seeking meets

My sex drive comes and goes. I don't make an issue of it mentally. It comes back in its own good time.

I so agree with your first sentence! Nice pics by the way! "

Thank You

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the moment my Mrs sex drive is very low, since she had the contraceptive implant it’s been on a downward spiral, we’ve tried kickstarting it a few times but not had much luck, her sex drive has effected me also, mine is on its way down to meet hers

Just wait till the menopause hits! Libido gets so low then "
this is me at the moment . It's not low it's non existent ...??

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

Has anyone noticed the OPs name it’s a great one for this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone noticed the OPs name it’s a great one for this thread "

It's well and truly hidden atm

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Has anyone noticed the OPs name it’s a great one for this thread

It's well and truly hidden atm "

Sorry mate I hope it made you smile anyway

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

At the moment I'm not all that bothered, but in the summer I'm usually very horny, must be something to do with it being hot and all that vitamin D! Or if I meet someone I like it goes through the roof too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gone off all the hassle of meeting. I blame experience.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Has anyone else gone off sex? Is so how long did it last?"

Very occasionally I am off my game. It never lasts long though!

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