FabSwingers.com forum: Here we go again...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So nearly every message I get always has something along with "any fantasies you want to fulfil?" It gets so tedious replying to the same questions over and over again. What Brussels your sprouts in messages???

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"So nearly every message I get always has something along with "any fantasies you want to fulfil?" It gets so tedious replying to the same questions over and over again. What Brussels your sprouts in messages??? "

Messages?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

What are you wearing? Really annoying!

I'm staying in Northampton on such and such a day....really, really annoying.

Fancy meeting now.....Bore off!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages?

A women thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What are you wearing? Really annoying!

I'm staying in Northampton on such and such a day....really, really annoying.

Fancy meeting now.....Bore off!!!

Exactly! "I'm free now if you want to meet"? At 1pm with no profile pictures at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been on fab 2 weeks and had enough of the messages from idiots that can't read so all filters on and search engine off .Best way and look for quality .some awful plonkers on here .

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Fancy a meet? No pictures attached or on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random questions which comprise the entire message

‘What’s the biggest cock you’ve had?’

‘Will you dominate me?’

‘Will you wear stockings to our meet?’

Um. Sorry random internet guy. No cigar.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

You'd get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, I've blocked everyone because of the shite messages I used to get, sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas must be over! Time to slag the guys off.

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By *lastic.Mask.ManMan
over a year ago

Grimsby

It's a good thing I hardly get any messages. The ones I do get don't bother me.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

My profile is hidden so I don’t attract messages thank goodness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile is hidden so I don’t attract messages thank goodness. "
Not even want to chat to me?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I like replying sometimes. Makes for a good giggle. The ones that don't abuse me and make me chuckle back, well, it's all good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you're not looking for single guy.....but..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'd get it

You would though....

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I hate it when people say -

Do you fancy a coffee?

I mean come on, if you knew me you’d know I’m a massive tea fan and hate coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate it when people say -

Do you fancy a coffee?

I mean come on, if you knew me you’d know I’m a massive tea fan and hate coffee

But they don't know you!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Are you a fireman

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"You'd get it

You would though....

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

‘What are you looking for?’

I took some time typing it out so, you know, feel free to read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god I am men.... Not to worry about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wuu2?

hru?

Took me months to decipher what they even meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wuu2?

hru?

Took me months to decipher what they even meant

Can u do me a favour and tell me what is wuu2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you free tonight

Why yes I am....do I want to meet a random person Ive never spoken to? No I dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wuu2?

hru?

Took me months to decipher what they even meant

Can u do me a favour and tell me what is wuu2

What you up to.... Apparently!

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Can i ask you a question? Well DOH!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wuu2?

hru?

Took me months to decipher what they even meant

Can u do me a favour and tell me what is wuu2

What you up to.... Apparently!

So wuu2 ?? FAF 2moro?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wuu2?

hru?

Took me months to decipher what they even meant

Can u do me a favour and tell me what is wuu2

What you up to.... Apparently!

So wuu2 ?? FAF 2moro?

FAF?

Fragrant and flowery?

Find any fellas?

Fart and follow (thru)?

Farting and fragrance?

Face any footballers?

I'm terribly innocent me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Receiving “Face pic?” replies to your message from unverified profiles with no pics at all

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

I’d break bones for you to nurse me or I wouldn’t mind you treating me because the nurses around where I live aren’t that good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would be the ideal message then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried numerous messages to no avail. My responses are always polite, never harassing. I often leave quite detailed messages, always with good grammar etc and always intelligent, never crude or too forward. But seems this approach doesn't work??

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"I've tried numerous messages to no avail. My responses are always polite, never harassing. I often leave quite detailed messages, always with good grammar etc and always intelligent, never crude or too forward. But seems this approach doesn't work??"

But do you read the ladies profile and mention something about it, or are all your messages standard that applies to anyone. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But do you read the ladies profile and mention something about it, or are all your messages standard that applies to anyone. ? "

Yes I always read a woman's profile. And I often tailor my messages to something they've mentioned in their profile or in their status etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only I lived closer (why would that make a difference?)

Meet now (as if)

Can I ask you question? (No you bloody can't)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send initial messages

If they are interested enough, people will find me

Nothing really bothers me in terms of content, but of the few I do receive, most go straight in the bin

It's not their lack of imagination or content, just that I can't be arsed replying cos you know it's going down the politely inane conversation route - mostly headed towards the same 'no thanks'

I think a lot of guys play the expectation game i.e. 'I am here. I must fuck. Lots' hence the carpet messaging and the frustration of non replies

Others are horny

Others are just arseholes

Others 'get it'

Others (like me) aren't arsed if they get shagged or not. They just like being here from time to time.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I like replying sometimes. Makes for a good giggle. The ones that don't abuse me and make me chuckle back, well, it's all good fun "

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

But do you read the ladies profile and mention something about it, or are all your messages standard that applies to anyone. ?

It may be to do with the fact that you are playing behind long term partners back that puts people off? ....Could be wrong though....

Yes I always read a woman's profile. And I often tailor my messages to something they've mentioned in their profile or in their status etc."

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t appreciate the ‘I’m horny’ messages ..... the number of those always increase on a Sunday morning for whatever reason.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"What would be the ideal message then?"

I'm lovely, funny, bright, good looking and tall. I've just won the lottery and I'd love to share it with you! With pics to prove all of the above!!

Tongue firmly in cheek obviously

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

What are these messages you speak of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How's you..

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"How's you.."

Ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which messages would those be then? Perhaps some people would like to send me some and I could find out...Only kidding lol.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t appreciate the ‘I’m horny’ messages ..... the number of those always increase on a Sunday morning for whatever reason. "

Ahhh the obligatory 'hangover horn' messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t appreciate the ‘I’m horny’ messages ..... the number of those always increase on a Sunday morning for whatever reason.

Ahhh the obligatory 'hangover horn' messages

Dunno Holly last thing I feel is horny when I have a rare hangover lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t appreciate the ‘I’m horny’ messages ..... the number of those always increase on a Sunday morning for whatever reason.

Ahhh the obligatory 'hangover horn' messages

Dunno Holly last thing I feel is horny when I have a rare hangover lol"

Haha. Me too to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receiving “Face pic?” replies to your message from unverified profiles with no pics at all

But you messaged them fully aware they have no photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t appreciate the ‘I’m horny’ messages ..... the number of those always increase on a Sunday morning for whatever reason.

Ahhh the obligatory 'hangover horn' messages

Dunno Holly last thing I feel is horny when I have a rare hangover lol

Haha. Me too to be honest

Now, the rest of the time is a different matter hehe... You never know one day I might succumb to sending an I'm horny message...then again...nah not my style lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a fireman

Must be the size of your hose.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Receiving “Face pic?” replies to your message from unverified profiles with no pics at all

But you messaged them fully aware they have no photos."

The point I was making was about receiving a curt, two-word reply to a message I’d probably taken some time over before sending. I usually counter-reply with ‘Yes please?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few first messages that were just "Do you have Kik?", not a great opener

Or the unverified silhouettes who message first, asking for face pictures

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"What would be the ideal message then?

I'm lovely, funny, bright, good looking and tall. I've just won the lottery and I'd love to share it with you! With pics to prove all of the above!!

Tongue firmly in cheek obviously

Your cheek or theirs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But do you read the ladies profile and mention something about it, or are all your messages standard that applies to anyone. ?

Yes I always read a woman's profile. And I often tailor my messages to something they've mentioned in their profile or in their status etc."

My advice... you read her profile and probably chose to ignore the fact you don't match what she is looking for. I have so many men who say they read my profile yet are bald, have beards ect which I clearly state I don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alternatively OP, if you only want the 'right' kind of guys messaging you why not just block all messages and look for those you want to meet?

Although I suspect it's easier and more of an ego boost to have the messages come to you......

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"What are you wearing? Really annoying!

I'm staying in Northampton on such and such a day....really, really annoying.

Fancy meeting now.....Bore off!!!

Exactly! "I'm free now if you want to meet"? At 1pm with no profile pictures at all

Whats the point in a pic? Sure you're going to see them in 5 mins

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"My advice... you read her profile and probably chose to ignore the fact you don't match what she is looking for. I have so many men who say they read my profile yet are bald, have beards ect which I clearly state I don't like. "

I've occasionally messaged ladies who have mentioned that their preferences include tattoos or beards etc., if I fit the rest of the description, as it may not be a deal-breaker.

If they are listed as requirements, I move along and continue searching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But do you read the ladies profile and mention something about it, or are all your messages standard that applies to anyone. ?

Yes I always read a woman's profile. And I often tailor my messages to something they've mentioned in their profile or in their status etc.

Thats ok...but never seen one with preferences for short fat and ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alternatively OP, if you only want the 'right' kind of guys messaging you why not just block all messages and look for those you want to meet?

Although I suspect it's easier and more of an ego boost to have the messages come to you......"

Exactly what I do. No crap messages, crude immature descriptions of what someone wants to do to me, no abuse, no unwanted cock photos etc etc. I message anyone I like the look of and has made an obvious effort in their profile. Far easier way of using this site with no stress or constant pestering. No point moaning about stuff you can do something about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ur hot lets chat"

Presumably he wants to chat to either state more of the bleeding obvious or to get some punctuation tips from me.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

But do you read the ladies profile and mention something about it, or are all your messages standard that applies to anyone. ?

Yes I always read a woman's profile. And I often tailor my messages to something they've mentioned in their profile or in their status etc.

Thats ok...but never seen one with preferences for short fat and ugly lol "

But I, like many others on here, are forever hopeful.

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