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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know how sometimes, and this is mostly from what I have heard, you get a message from a guy (not exclusive to guys i guess), and you either ignore/delete/read but don't reply... and then you get more mail harassing you asking you why, or they get abusive etc etc...

Well I was just thinking. If you get a message from someone you do actually like the look of, their message seems ok etc. Does anyone ever leave it for a few days, just to wait and see if that person exhibits similar desperate/abusive/toy out of pram behaviour? Like a test almost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how sometimes, and this is mostly from what I have heard, you get a message from a guy (not exclusive to guys i guess), and you either ignore/delete/read but don't reply... and then you get more mail harassing you asking you why, or they get abusive etc etc...

Well I was just thinking. If you get a message from someone you do actually like the look of, their message seems ok etc. Does anyone ever leave it for a few days, just to wait and see if that person exhibits similar desperate/abusive/toy out of pram behaviour? Like a test almost?"

hi dude rob ere we have both had this happen..

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

No we don't

If the message seems cool and we like the look of the people sending it we'll reply

If they're gonna get pissy or abusive they'll do that whether its 1 day down the line or 4 days down the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how sometimes, and this is mostly from what I have heard, you get a message from a guy (not exclusive to guys i guess), and you either ignore/delete/read but don't reply... and then you get more mail harassing you asking you why, or they get abusive etc etc...

Well I was just thinking. If you get a message from someone you do actually like the look of, their message seems ok etc. Does anyone ever leave it for a few days, just to wait and see if that person exhibits similar desperate/abusive/toy out of pram behaviour? Like a test almost?"

No FFS . it's Laborious enough here.... Gettin on with gettin on is time consuming enough ... if I start performing fucking tests, research n analysis ..... jeeeeez .....like em get on with it ..... dicey ? don't dwell on it.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"You know how sometimes, and this is mostly from what I have heard, you get a message from a guy (not exclusive to guys i guess), and you either ignore/delete/read but don't reply... and then you get more mail harassing you asking you why, or they get abusive etc etc...

Well I was just thinking. If you get a message from someone you do actually like the look of, their message seems ok etc. Does anyone ever leave it for a few days, just to wait and see if that person exhibits similar desperate/abusive/toy out of pram behaviour? Like a test almost?"

It's getting so bloody rare to get a decent message from someone that instantly ticks enough boxes.... I pretty much jump on them and tear their pants off!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"You know how sometimes, and this is mostly from what I have heard, you get a message from a guy (not exclusive to guys i guess), and you either ignore/delete/read but don't reply... and then you get more mail harassing you asking you why, or they get abusive etc etc...

Well I was just thinking. If you get a message from someone you do actually like the look of, their message seems ok etc. Does anyone ever leave it for a few days, just to wait and see if that person exhibits similar desperate/abusive/toy out of pram behaviour? Like a test almost?

It's getting so bloody rare to get a decent message from someone that instantly ticks enough boxes.... I pretty much jump on them and tear their pants off!"

Pmsl ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how sometimes, and this is mostly from what I have heard, you get a message from a guy (not exclusive to guys i guess), and you either ignore/delete/read but don't reply... and then you get more mail harassing you asking you why, or they get abusive etc etc...

Well I was just thinking. If you get a message from someone you do actually like the look of, their message seems ok etc. Does anyone ever leave it for a few days, just to wait and see if that person exhibits similar desperate/abusive/toy out of pram behaviour? Like a test almost?"

Predictably - I'll tell you in a week or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know how sometimes, and this is mostly from what I have heard, you get a message from a guy (not exclusive to guys i guess), and you either ignore/delete/read but don't reply... and then you get more mail harassing you asking you why, or they get abusive etc etc...

Well I was just thinking. If you get a message from someone you do actually like the look of, their message seems ok etc. Does anyone ever leave it for a few days, just to wait and see if that person exhibits similar desperate/abusive/toy out of pram behaviour? Like a test almost?"

No. If you like them contact them. I just won't reply to one liners.

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