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By *otSoNewWalesCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

...telling blokes what's wrong with their profiles and why they aren't getting responses?

Everyday some sap comes on here whingeing, and every day we give them the same feedback and advice.

Single guys getting no luck... read the previous threads on this subject and stop wasting our time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only person who can answer that is you. If doing it bothers you that much, stop.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You're under no obligation to give the advice.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"...telling blokes what's wrong with their profiles and why they aren't getting responses?

Everyday some sap comes on here whingeing, and every day we give them the same feedback and advice.

Single guys getting no luck... read the previous threads on this subject and stop wasting our time."

Know what you mean - although guess ultimately it comes down to trying to be helpful to others, at least that's why I do it. Although as 9/10 times the advice is ignored I do wonder why I bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newer users aren't always aware of the forum search function right off the bat and they haven't seen the repeated threads either..it's all new to them...

It does get repetitive but that's what happens with new folk

I work gigs and have for years and always have to stop myself thinking 'jesus! Ain't you lot worked out how to behave yet!'

Just because it's my twentieth time round the circuit, doesn't mean it's everyone else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newer users aren't always aware of the forum search function right off the bat and they haven't seen the repeated threads either..it's all new to them...

It does get repetitive but that's what happens with new folk

I work gigs and have for years and always have to stop myself thinking 'jesus! Ain't you lot worked out how to behave yet!'

Just because it's my twentieth time round the circuit, doesn't mean it's everyone else's "

I've been on here for years but I still remember how crap it was being a newbie.

I don't like profile advice threads though. I'm a boring old bag. If I did my profile up all jazzy like on the advice threads, people would be expecting to meet someone interesting. It's false advertising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...telling blokes what's wrong with their profiles and why they aren't getting responses?

Everyday some sap comes on here whingeing, and every day we give them the same feedback and advice.

Single guys getting no luck... read the previous threads on this subject and stop wasting our time."
whining says a lot about them, calling people saps says a lot about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no a couple on here whinging and whining and acting like a single male

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Just stop giving advice if it bothers you so much luv

Jus5 concentrate on yourself only

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're very rude and heartless OP. Fab members are humans. If a new person wishes to ask for advice then why shouldn't they. Yes it gets posted a lot but so do a lot of other subjects. You don't have to respond to any of them.

It's getting a bit boring now though, all these Saps posting whingeing threads complaining about other threads. So here's my forum advice to you OP. If you don't like a thread pass it by.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Only you yourself can waste your time,stop advising them and all will be well in your world.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"...telling blokes what's wrong with their profiles and why they aren't getting responses?

Everyday some sap comes on here whingeing, and every day we give them the same feedback and advice.

Single guys getting no luck... read the previous threads on this subject and stop wasting our time."

Because despite your protestations to the contrary you secretly rather enjoy it?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"You're under no obligation to give the advice."

This..

Op maybe it's your advice that's the issue?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"The only person who can answer that is you. If doing it bothers you that much, stop."

...It really is that simple!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"You're under no obligation to give the advice."

That's good advice right there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sap is a great word though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...telling blokes what's wrong with their profiles and why they aren't getting responses?

Everyday some sap comes on here whingeing, and every day we give them the same feedback and advice.

Single guys getting no luck... read the previous threads on this subject and stop wasting our time."
because you love feeling superior to others maybe because you don't have to work as hard at it ,let's face it who ever takes good advice eg its bad to smoke you should give that up ,don't eat cake you'll get fat ,wear sun cream or you'll get cancer ,don't run by side of pool you'll slip etc etc

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land

Because we are all control freaks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we are all control freaks!! "
Well aspire to be it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give out advice on profiles. Judging by the state of my own i just don't feel qualified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't give out advice on profiles. Judging by the state of my own i just don't feel qualified. "
remember this .....theirs always somebody worse off than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more years you are on forum the more you see the same old subjects repeated.

Rather than moaning, just move on and don't contribute!

It's hardly worth getting pissed off by it, is it?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"...telling blokes what's wrong with their profiles and why they aren't getting responses?

Everyday some sap comes on here whingeing, and every day we give them the same feedback and advice.

Single guys getting no luck... read the previous threads on this subject and stop wasting our time."

Well you come across as a delightfully friendly and approachable couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...telling blokes what's wrong with their profiles and why they aren't getting responses?

Everyday some sap comes on here whingeing, and every day we give them the same feedback and advice.

Single guys getting no luck... read the previous threads on this subject and stop wasting our time.

Well you come across as a delightfully friendly and approachable couple "
noted I'm in for a bit of early morning fingering

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I dont mind,as long as they take the advice and do something with it,rather than repeatedly starting threads.

Miss

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"...telling blokes what's wrong with their profiles and why they aren't getting responses?

Everyday some sap comes on here whingeing, and every day we give them the same feedback and advice.

Single guys getting no luck... read the previous threads on this subject and stop wasting our time."

Oh there there.

Hope that helps. If your happy giving advice you should have no trouble in taking it from other members.

In this case its: don't get involved in those threads or name calling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind,as long as they take the advice and do something with it,rather than repeatedly starting threads.

Miss"
do you get as frustrated as them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who pissed on your cornflakes lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I dont mind,as long as they take the advice and do something with it,rather than repeatedly starting threads.

Missdo you get as frustrated as them? "

No ,just wonder why they dont take advice given .

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