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My profile...constructive criticism

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there something wrong with my profile is it the pictures I’ve posted? Are there any pointers to help me perfect/improve my profile...thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there isn’t 597 cock pictures which is a nice change! Not one!! So nice to see a mans profile without one!!

Geeky x

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I am not sure. I think something is missing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve already been schooled on that one...a woman once told me if the lady wants to see the cock she’ll ask...good rule of thumb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am not sure. I think something is missing. "

That va va voom right...but what is it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick a bit more detail in your profile. Two lines just looks a little lazy.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Generally not too bad. Your profile could say more. However, a lot of the pictures are dangerously close to selfies-while-driving, which ain't cool because not all of us want to fancy somebody who might run down and slaughter our kids.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

For me you have too many pics of the same stuff. I’d remove the moody broody pics personally. And wrote more! Who are you looking to attract?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stick a bit more detail in your profile. Two lines just looks a little lazy. "

It’s true I had a big spiel before but shortened it kept it simple thanks fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Generally not too bad. Your profile could say more. However, a lot of the pictures are dangerously close to selfies-while-driving, which ain't cool because not all of us want to fancy somebody who might run down and slaughter our kids."

I assure you I’m stationary...noted thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me you have too many pics of the same stuff. I’d remove the moody broody pics personally. And wrote more! Who are you looking to attract? "

Unfortunately my face is moody and broody but I will attempt to change it lol thanks

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP your pics look ok, but not great. Pay attention to what's in the background - a toilet isn't sexy. You could also try smiling

Your profile text needs lots if work. A couple of sentences that say nothing about you won't help you much.

Tell people a bit about yourself, what you have to offer and what you are looking for.

You can do a forum search for profile advice, there are hundreds if threads already and lots there to help you.

I almost forgot: I've not seen you on the forums before, so welcome and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pictures are fine. I think adding some more to your profile text, would definitely be a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick a bit more detail in your profile. Two lines just looks a little lazy.

It’s true I had a big spiel before but shortened it kept it simple thanks fella"

I've had various over the years. Too short is "lazy" too long is "boring" Got to try and find the elusive sweet spot. Like the clitoris, I'm pretty sure is a myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick a bit more detail in your profile. Two lines just looks a little lazy.

It’s true I had a big spiel before but shortened it kept it simple thanks fella

I've had various over the years. Too short is "lazy" too long is "boring" Got to try and find the elusive sweet spot. Like the clitoris, I'm pretty sure is a myth "

Hahahaha

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your two and a half lines of profile text has no punctuation.

It is "seeks" like minded not "seems".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your pictures are fine. I think adding some more to your profile text, would definitely be a good thing "

I’ve been lazy I’ll expand thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP your pics look ok, but not great. Pay attention to what's in the background - a toilet isn't sexy. You could also try smiling

Your profile text needs lots if work. A couple of sentences that say nothing about you won't help you much.

Tell people a bit about yourself, what you have to offer and what you are looking for.

George Michael found them sexy lol... but I hear you I need to try and smile without looking villainous. And thanks good to be here

You can do a forum search for profile advice, there are hundreds if threads already and lots there to help you.

I almost forgot: I've not seen you on the forums before, so welcome and have fun "

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Blimey, not a plethora ok knob pics, nice surprise. Some are a bit posey, perhaps edit them down a bitl.

However, I'd suggest beefing out the text somewhat. It's dull and says nothing about you. (Most) women like information about someone to be attracted, not just a pretty face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pictures are fine. I think adding some more to your profile text, would definitely be a good thing

I’ve been lazy I’ll expand thank you "

You are a good looking guy OP. If you do expand on it, I'm sure you'll do well haha.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

You have the looks and body but those pictures dont do you justice. Make them sexier more provocative with an edge of teasing.

Great that there's no cock pictures.

More text needed.

All the best op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good pics.

Tiny bit of profile text.

Can't accommodate throws up questions with some.

It's not like there's a secret recipe anyhow so just improve whatever you can and find your own pace

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your two and a half lines of profile text has no punctuation.

It is "seeks" like minded not "seems"."

It was rushed I’ve amended it...I feel like my teachers telling me off sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimey, not a plethora ok knob pics, nice surprise. Some are a bit posey, perhaps edit them down a bitl.

However, I'd suggest beefing out the text somewhat. It's dull and says nothing about you. (Most) women like information about someone to be attracted, not just a pretty face "

Amended thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your pictures are fine. I think adding some more to your profile text, would definitely be a good thing

I’ve been lazy I’ll expand thank you

You are a good looking guy OP. If you do expand on it, I'm sure you'll do well haha. "

thank you pretty lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have the looks and body but those pictures dont do you justice. Make them sexier more provocative with an edge of teasing.

Great that there's no cock pictures.

More text needed.

All the best op "

I need to invest in more mirrors and get some classy shots like yourself thanks

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hmmm

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"able to hold his own in the bedroom"

Is this because there is no one to hold it for you?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I am not sure. I think something is missing. "

Its dick pics. One would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not necessarily here looking to meet (my profile is geared accordingly), but I do wonder how many average guys (who do want to meet) are sat reading this thread thinking 'fkin 'ell, I don't stand a chance on here'

OP has done pretty well in the looks and build lottery (imo). He seems open to comment, he seems able to string words together pretty well, he has veris to back up his time on here

Yet all that comes across is pick, pick, pick

OK he asked for constructive criticism

Yes, we all have the right to be selective

Yet I am sat here thinking 'listen to yourselves'

It just comes across that whatever you do, however you look, however you put yourself across, there is always 'something'

If there is ever a lesson in 'just be yourself' or 'just do your own thing' then this thread is headed in the right direction for showcasing just that

It seems obvious from the responses that you're never gonna please everyone and in trying to do so, a profile ends up being blandly generic and samey, just to try and please the largest amount of people.

Just be yourself

Just do your own thing

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For info, I have NOT asked for profile advice or critique.

Also for info, I am full of a cold so more ratty than normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Man above ???????? I like your comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am not sure. I think something is missing.

Its dick pics. One would be nice "

One dick pic added....enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes read profile seems fine to me looked at pics and read in profile no dick pics and guess what first pic was ha good luck you should do ok

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"I am not sure. I think something is missing.

Its dick pics. One would be nice

One dick pic added....enjoy x"

dick pic is like a million others, underwear half pulled down, messy background

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I am not sure. I think something is missing.

Its dick pics. One would be nice

One dick pic added....enjoy x"

Only my option but the dick picture could be left for private messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks good to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile looks good to me. "
you look good to me

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Hello OP. You have a lovely smile, so I think I would lose the moody pics. Just add a bit in your profile, what you have to offer a meet and what you would like from a meet. People will question why you can't accommodate and may wonder if you are attached? Good luck.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The language you use to describe yourself is very turn of the 19th century.

Your pics are VERY posey. Lot's of self love going on rather than just letting the women have a look at your goods.

Too many , tiles, showers and toilets in the background.

On the plus side. Good height, Good body.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello OP. You have a lovely smile, so I think I would lose the moody pics. Just add a bit in your profile, what you have to offer a meet and what you would like from a meet. People will question why you can't accommodate and may wonder if you are attached? Good luck. "

Amended thank you x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Hello OP. You have a lovely smile, so I think I would lose the moody pics. Just add a bit in your profile, what you have to offer a meet and what you would like from a meet. People will question why you can't accommodate and may wonder if you are attached? Good luck.

Amended thank you x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's fine and your pics are very clear. I've seen a lot worse. I wouldn't worry

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