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Hello everyone l am here about 16 week go but I don't have meet yet l don't know why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all happens week 17!

Good luck, OP — have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks sweet x

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

A cock pic profile pic will be an instantly deleted message for a lot of women, myself included

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Hey OP. First time in the forums? It’s great for advice on this kind of thing.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a joke, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks sweet l delete now ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t find your veris that I’d just read I should read if you get what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No mate l am honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Samet.

It takes time to get recognised on here.

You could help yourself more by doing the following.

You have 6 pics, 5 of which are of your dick. Ditch 5 to Private then get others including a Facial and possibly a Torso uploaded.

You say you don't accommodate but don't say why; that puts off some people.

Get into the Forums on here or into Socials & Clubs in your area; it is all about being noticed!

Patience, Perseverance and more Patience will get success.

Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mate l am honest "

Where are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And have a public pic of a fish,the ladies love fish pics.....dash

p.s. a big fish

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Thanks "

Use Reply + quote so we know who you are responding to

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"No mate l am honest "

I assume you know what veris are????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Samet.

It takes time to get recognised on here.

You could help yourself more by doing the following.

You have 6 pics, 5 of which are of your dick. Ditch 5 to Private then get others including a Facial and possibly a Torso uploaded.

Thanks very much mate ??

You say you don't accommodate but don't say why; that puts off some people.

Get into the Forums on here or into Socials & Clubs in your area; it is all about being noticed!

Patience, Perseverance and more Patience will get success.

Good Luck."

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost. "
yes I am shy Really

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost. yes I am shy Really "

Let's form a support group!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mate l am honest "

You have no green tick. Which means you have no veris lovely. But you've put that you have them. People will get confused by that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost. yes I am shy Really

Let's form a support group!?"
how?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost. "

Your pants are on fire missus

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost. "

What's that funny smell? Almost bovine in nature

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost. yes I am shy Really

Let's form a support group!?"

Are you volunteering for chair person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No mate l am honest

You have no green tick. Which means you have no veris lovely. But you've put that you have them. People will get confused by that "
Thanks sweet

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost. yes I am shy Really

Let's form a support group!? how? "

Erm I'm not the brains of this outfit.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost.

Your pants are on fire missus "

If I wore pants...

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost.

What's that funny smell? Almost bovine in nature "

Bovine? I'm from the land of Bovril.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost. yes I am shy Really

Let's form a support group!?

Are you volunteering for chair person? "

No quorate!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

There are no verifications, there is no truth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for nice Comments

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost.

What's that funny smell? Almost bovine in nature

Bovine? I'm from the land of Bovril. "

Does that have a BS postcode?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are no verifications, there is no truth."
yes I know if no body want meet how l get verifications

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost.

What's that funny smell? Almost bovine in nature

Bovine? I'm from the land of Bovril.

Does that have a BS postcode?! "

Oh they are not trying to fob us off with horse again?

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"There are no verifications, there is no truth. yes I know if no body want meet how l get verifications "

If you want any verifications, you have to follow rules on how to source them. Links are on the site.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"There are no verifications, there is no truth. yes I know if no body want meet how l get verifications

If you want any verifications, you have to follow rules on how to source them. Links are on the site."

If you were a genuinely nice guy you’d help him

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"There are no verifications, there is no truth. yes I know if no body want meet how l get verifications "

Well stop lying might be a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see these kind of posts every day, ten times a day. Men, it’s simple........ cut out the 12 cock pics from different angles, right a decent profile and actually talk to the women. Be patient. Be polite. Don’t get mad when someone doesn’t reply. Don’t get mad when someone doesn’t want to meet you. Read their profiles!

talk to them normally, don’t just assume because a woman is on a sex site she will f**k you. Engage with them. Stimulate their minds with good decent chat, polite literate conversation. I’m far from the best looking guy out there, I don’t have a body of rippling muscle and a monster cock, I don’t even have a good head of hair!! My profile probably isn’t the best written and I change it a few times to.... But Iv met probably 20 women in under a year on here, I’m quite fussy to so the quality (in my opinion) is there to. I’m not bragging ok,I’m honestly not, I just want blokes to realise how simple it is to meet ladies on here if you are just polite and normal and everything else Iv mentioned.

If you find it helps treat your approach like you would a dating site or if you were to approach them in the streets, pub etc. Engage, ask questions, listen, respond, be polite etc etc etc. Oh and handle rejection lol. Believe me Iv had plenty of it on here to.

Side note - im not saying this is law and the only way. I’m just saying it’s what has worked for me. It may not work for everyone and some women/men may not agree with or like my approach.

Rant over. Go have fun. Smiles all round.

Sorry for grammatical errors.... was walking the dog.

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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Awww we had about a year without meets. You’ll get there

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"There are no verifications, there is no truth. yes I know if no body want meet how l get verifications "

Your profile says you have veri's...and you dont, so maybe you should remove that, as its confusing. Can you go to clubs to met people?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"There are no verifications, there is no truth. yes I know if no body want meet how l get verifications

Your profile says you have veri's...and you dont, so maybe you should remove that, as its confusing. Can you go to clubs to met people?"

I presume the profile is a copy and paste job, with the last bit added to give it personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You have 6 pics, 5 of which are of your dick. Ditch 5 to Private then get others including a Facial "

Visions of new pics, including one of OP with a face full of jizz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks sweet l delete now ?? "

Don't do everything people tell you to do.

There's a paradox.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some body talk to idiot

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is there to talk about? Your profile basically says nothing. Your single pic gives very little to go on as you're so far away. Search the forum for previous, numerous threads on the subject or use the good advice above. Effort counts on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mate l am honest

You have no green tick. Which means you have no veris lovely. But you've put that you have them. People will get confused by that "
people are just confused here

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Are you borat doing research for a new documentary about swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some body talk to idiot"

I prefer people to ignore me, thanks.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"No mate l am honest

You have no green tick. Which means you have no veris lovely. But you've put that you have them. People will get confused by that people are just confused here "

I'm confused

I thought I'd logged onto amazon to get some last minute presents and I've got naked titties staring me in the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks like your trying to catch Crabs on your photo, Not very appealing on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with the cam and forum chat. Get to know people and do not pressure them into a meet. Hope you get lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No mate l am honest

You have no green tick. Which means you have no veris lovely. But you've put that you have them. People will get confused by that people are just confused here

I'm confused

I thought I'd logged onto amazon to get some last minute presents and I've got naked titties staring me in the face "
well don't look a gift tit in the mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks like your trying to catch Crabs on your photo, Not very appealing on a swingers site "
I love a crab sandwich

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"No mate l am honest

You have no green tick. Which means you have no veris lovely. But you've put that you have them. People will get confused by that people are just confused here

I'm confused

I thought I'd logged onto amazon to get some last minute presents and I've got naked titties staring me in the face well don't look a gift tit in the mouth "

Going to treat myself to a pair to unwrap on xmas morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand what people say but I need some body help me about my profile please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People aren't going to write your profile for you, I'd suggest (again) that you search profile advice on the forum, read the hints which all have a common theme, put something together taking into account the advice you have had on here, then come back and ask for feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "
I know why !

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham


"Hello

Ever so new too. Almost too shy too post. Almost.

Your pants are on fire missus

If I wore pants... "

Not even tiny g-strings?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Are you borat doing research for a new documentary about swinging ?

"
Pmsl .

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


" "

I didn't get my 1st meet till over a year

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I understand what people say but I need some body help me about my profile please "
For starters learn how to correctly construct a sentence in English . Sounds harsh mate but it will help .

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