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"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? ![]() Surely you didnt actually tell your missus this did you ?? | |||
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"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? ![]() Obviously not lol | |||
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"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? ![]() Oh I thought that was why you were at each others throats lol . I misunderstood . If you told her I'm guessing your life would not be worth living ![]() | |||
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"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? ![]() ![]() Exactly haha we aren’t getting along at the moment hence why I’m on this site ![]() | |||
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"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? ![]() ![]() ![]() Ok at least your fairly honest lol . | |||
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" Exactly haha we aren’t getting along at the moment hence why I’m on this site ![]() So out of curiosity, what are you expecting this site to be like. Most ladies won't be happy being used as a cum dump while you're going through a rough patch with the girlfriend. | |||
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" Exactly haha we aren’t getting along at the moment hence why I’m on this site ![]() Just getting to know people and have some flirty banter. But what is the purpose of this site anyway. Lol | |||
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"It's only wrong if you act on those feelings. " Very much this! | |||
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"Finding someone hot is not something you can control. Doing something about it is something you can. Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you ![]() Smooth, is this a ‘look at me’ thread ![]() | |||
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"It's only wrong if you act on those feelings. Very much this!" Yeah I won’t act on these feelings, don’t want to break the family up lol | |||
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"Finding someone hot is not something you can control. Doing something about it is something you can. Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you ![]() ![]() What thread isn’t a look at me thread | |||
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"I would try and calm things down by telling her you would love to fuck her sister." Holy shit that’s a brilliant idea, I’ll do that ![]() | |||
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"I would try and calm things down by telling her you would love to fuck her sister. Holy shit that’s a brilliant idea, I’ll do that ![]() Always happy to help | |||
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"Finding someone hot is not something you can control. Doing something about it is something you can. Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you ![]() ![]() Why don’t you; A) end it amicably with your current gf. B) try and sort your relationship. If your relationship meant anything you wouldn’t be posing such a question. | |||
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"Finding someone hot is not something you can control. Doing something about it is something you can. Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you ![]() ![]() Or be on here if you are just arguing ![]() | |||
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"Finding someone hot is not something you can control. Doing something about it is something you can. Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you ![]() ![]() ![]() I like your thinking better ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition ![]() Haha calm down haha But yeah you are probably right, if I were to break up with her it would have to be after new year ![]() | |||
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"Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition ![]() ![]() Unless she dumps you first ![]() | |||
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"Finding someone hot is not something you can control. Doing something about it is something you can. Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Maybe you should aim your flanter at her and you wouldn’t be arguing just saying ![]() | |||
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"Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeah or that lol ![]() | |||
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"Finding someone hot is not something you can control. Doing something about it is something you can. Yeah that’s true. I don’t think I could control myself around you ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Trust me I’ve tried but it doesn’t work ![]() | |||
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"Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() When you go home there may be a Dear John letter waiting for you,do let us know ![]() | |||
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"Does the sister know, possibility of a smooth transition ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha I’ll let you’s all know ![]() | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() I think you have answered your own question then Clearly you are still looking for something else and finding her sister Hot means you really don’t have interest in your gf at all Dump her and let her find someone that really wants to be with her | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() Or go on the Jeremy Kyle show ![]() | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() Wow serious!! I just want her to be happy and she doesn’t seem happy with me ![]() | |||
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"You might find the sister hot but that might not be how she feels about you and away from Jeremy Kyle the chances of a sister betraying another like that are extremely slim. Enjoy her hotness but I wouldn't make any moves toward her if I were you ![]() Yeah good advice, I wouldn’t do anything with the sister anyway ![]() | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() Wonder why? ![]() | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() It’s a mystery. | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() It’s because I’m fat isn’t it ![]() | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() Course I’m serious Reverse the role mate ... she’s on a swinging site behind your back and fancies your brother How would you feel ?? Alternatively let her join Fab and sit back and see how much cock she gets offered - that might wake you up ![]() | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() Try get treated like shit everyday and see how you cope with it. Men treat women like shit and we are the bad guys. | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() I know this lol. She is very beautiful and very sexy so she would get loads of attention. And to be fair I could catfish as a woman, not put a pic up of any sort, as long as my profile said woman, I would get loads of guys sending me dick pics lol. | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() Well if treat your woman like shit then you are a bad guy (like being a single male here and wanting to fuck her sister) ![]() | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() Then leave like the other lady said | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() It’s not that simple, you would understand if you in my position ![]() | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() Oh I have been...know what I did? I ended the relationship! Magic! | |||
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"My girlfriend and I are at each other’s throats just now so is it wrong to find her sister hot? ![]() ![]() ![]() Good move. Best way* to solve things if you aren't getting on is to join a swingers site. . *Other solutions are available. | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() How long was the relationship? Did you get along with his family? Did he cry his eyes out any time you mentioned about breaking up? | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() Looking at your other replies about being treated like shit and technically you are doing the same to her without her even knowing then do the right thing and END IT I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() If I was unhappy I wouldn’t be in your situation | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() i would think she'll be crying a lot more when she discovers what you've been trying to do behind her back! | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() It's happened several times...you're hurting her more by deceiving her! | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() What an utter statement of bullshit! | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() Like I said to other people it’s easy to sit there and be like just end it, simple. But it’s not simple. | |||
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" I’m a swinger and I’m attached and have a couple profile but I would never ever do anything behind his back And why is that ? Because I love , care and respect him and the thought wouldn’t even enter my head Well why do you both need to have sex with other people? Must be something wrong in the relationship, still cheating but you’s both know about it " You know next to nothing about relationships and even less about swinging. | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() But being on a swingers site wanting to cheat on her is | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() Guess it's easier to just betray her trust and fuck other people behind her back eh? | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() If that's what you think swinging is, you really shouldn't be on a swingers site. Go try POF instead. | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() I’m not fucking other people ![]() | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() ![]() but you're trying to... | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() I was just trying to wind her up and looks like I’ve wound up everyone hahaha good days fishing | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() ![]() But your profile says your looking for sex. So your planning on cheating on her ![]() | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh dear and I was really trying to help you here too ![]() | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() ![]() Where on this thread have I said I’m trying to fuck other people. I’m just on here for flirty banter | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() ![]() YOUR PROFILE | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() ![]() so you're lying on your profile then?, becasue you cant have it both ways.. | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha oops | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I really do appreciate your advice, saying that was wrong and I don’t actually believe what I wrote to you is correct. Everybody has different kinks and swinging with your partner is yours and that’s great. Anyway thanks ![]() | |||
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"It's only wrong if you act on those feelings. " This ^^^^^. | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Do the right thing mate for both your sakes Unhappy together or happy apart | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know. But what if she isn’t happy apart, not saying I’m the best thing since sliced bread but I just don’t want her to be unhappy | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() So work at it ! Don't just run off and come on a swinging site ? By using people to plug something wrong with what your going through at such a young age actually shows your imatuturaty Maybe by putting all your effort towards sorting things might help ? | |||
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"Haha this is fun and making my shift go by quicker so thanks guys ![]() Making yourself look stupid is fun? I'd best get started, I could use the laughs today! | |||
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"Haha this is fun and making my shift go by quicker so thanks guys ![]() Lol I was going to add that I didn’t think this was supposed to be a ‘fun’ thread but maybe I’m reading it totally the wrong way ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Does she know you are on here ? Nope ![]() ![]() ![]() No, cheating is when you are deceitful behind your partner's back.... | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() Thanks for your help. This is just kind of an escape to talk to new people. | |||
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"You're on a swingers site without her knowledge...can't imagine you give a crap about whether something is wrong.... ![]() ![]() I was just about to put something about his imaturoty but you summed it up perfectly x | |||
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"Haha this is fun and making my shift go by quicker so thanks guys ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You're doing it all wrong if the OP is anything to go by! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Haha this is fun and making my shift go by quicker so thanks guys ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It is quite serious but fun at the same time, but I genuinely taking the replies seriously, and i appreciate everyone’s take on things, especially yours so thanks very much. That’s me being serious btw ![]() | |||
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"So the big question is Are you and your girlfriend having troubles? Or was this just a childish troll post " We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. | |||
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"Y Maybe by putting all your effort towards sorting things might help ? Thanks for your help. This is just kind of an escape to talk to new people. " Trolling you mean? | |||
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"So the big question is Are you and your girlfriend having troubles? Or was this just a childish troll post We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. " Maybe she is having an affair and the guy she is fucking is playing mind games with her? Just thought I’d put that one out there ![]() | |||
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"So the big question is Are you and your girlfriend having troubles? Or was this just a childish troll post We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. " Then piss off from here and sort your shit out. End of thread!!! | |||
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"So the big question is Are you and your girlfriend having troubles? Or was this just a childish troll post We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. " if the 'good days' are rare enough that you're looking for NSA sex elsewhere, then don't string the poor woman along, it's not going to resolve itself by you fucking strangers is it? Really, how do you think that will help her? | |||
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"So the big question is Are you and your girlfriend having troubles? Or was this just a childish troll post We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. Maybe she is having an affair and the guy she is fucking is playing mind games with her? Just thought I’d put that one out there ![]() Is it bad that I want that to be the case? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So the big question is Are you and your girlfriend having troubles? Or was this just a childish troll post We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. Maybe she is having an affair and the guy she is fucking is playing mind games with her? Just thought I’d put that one out there ![]() ![]() ![]() I want her to be on fab reading this thread laughing her head off | |||
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"Well I tried to tell you the truth about my problems but I just get abuse, ah well. " I don’t think it’s abuse so much as leaving yourself open to peoples opinions Most genuine people on here have morals and understand the etiquette of swinging I’m afraid it’s only people like yourself that doesn’t really ‘get’ swinging that tend to get peoples backs up You said yourself in comments to me that you see no difference in swinging and cheating which really shows everyone on here that you don’t understand it at all (all be it you apologised) What you need to do is actually listen to what nearly everyone has told you and not turn it around as abuse | |||
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"So the big question is Are you and your girlfriend having troubles? Or was this just a childish troll post We are actually having troubles and have been for a while, the thing is she has these days where she is stressed and worried about things and takes it out on me with the things I say or do, I try to cheer her up but it doesn’t work, it’s like if I breath she is annoyed by it, she treats me like shit pretty much, but when I say I’ll leave you alone she says no I want to see you but it doesn’t feel that way. Last year she started being like this and I was really supportive and tried to help and talk about things but it eventually got to me. But we have a great laugh, we are cuddley, and everything a relationship should be but that’s like 2 or 3 times a month. I am really close with her family and friends, they love me. It would be really hard to just break up with her because I know on her good days we are great. " It's called a relationship ! It happens that you go through phases of love hate but you can't have been together that long so not that much water under the bridge ? Talk to her friends and family to see why she's like this then approach her ? Don't just run on here as a put your head in the sand and it'll pass moment ? | |||
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