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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really getting fed up and so glad I'm hibernating at the moment and not meeting because some men and couples on here assume that if you start replying messages with interest to meet that you will do it today and they will book at hotel.

Never assume that a meet is going to be anything but a coffee.

Tuesday rant over!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Somebody asked me what my idea of a social is the other day and if he should book a hotel.

Presumptuous men make my fanny close up!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Same here!

Single lady on fab must be desperate will sleep with anyone!! NOT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a lot of men do seem to think if you reply to them they are guaranteed a fk. XXX

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

And when they give you their mo no when you dont want it. Whats that all about??

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Same here - desperate women think they just have to wink and I will bang them. I'm not a piece of meat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assumptions can get some people in alsorts of hot water.

I love to assume .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes a lot of men do seem to think if you reply to them they are guaranteed a fk. XXX"

Oh that happens both ways. Apparently I am obligated to put out merely because I should be grateful for being selected to receive a ladies attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?

I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?

I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone. "

I do then they come back well if we click over coffee shall I book a travel lodge.

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By *wingcityMan
over a year ago

perth


"Somebody asked me what my idea of a social is the other day and if he should book a hotel.

Presumptuous men make my fanny close up!!! "

Lol am sorry but that made me laugh out loud in my office, now folk are looking at me funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?

I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone. "

What type of coffee? I've been know to get aroused from the aromas of something quite gorgeous.

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

I hate this too grrrrrrr one message and it’s let’s meet. I thought it was me being over protective of myself and people must meet after 1 message all the time thank god im normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody asked me what my idea of a social is the other day and if he should book a hotel.

Presumptuous men make my fanny close up!!! "

We should go for a coffee so I can see your fanny close up

Oh hang on, shut rather than near. Carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people make assumptions on here and not just about an instant meet.I've been hibernating for nearly 5 months.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

You lot are just so unreasonable. I only wanted to dip me wick ffs

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?

I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone.

I do then they come back well if we click over coffee shall I book a travel lodge. "

Hold out for a Premier Inn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant deal with it.. i clearly say i want a social first as i had a bad meet thats made me nervous.. but theyre stil trying to get me to come over to theirs where they cam "get to know [me] more intimately"

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We’re pretty old fashioned and boring. We prefer getting to know people first and building a rapport before any naughty stuff. The journey is just as important as the destination. The anticipation builds eroticism.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for some men though, just because there are less women than men doesn’t mean I’m going to fuck just anyone. Have even been told I should be grateful hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You lot are just so unreasonable. I only wanted to dip me wick ffs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?

I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone.

I do then they come back well if we click over coffee shall I book a travel lodge. "

I don't understand what the problem is.

If someone said that to me I'd just say no it's coffee only. If they hinted at anything sexual again I'd just say sorry we're not compatible.

We want different things. No point me wasting their time. If they can't respect my wishes on something so simple I certainly wouldn't trust them enough to have sex with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?

I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone.

What type of coffee? I've been know to get aroused from the aromas of something quite gorgeous. "

Aldi own brand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody asked me what my idea of a social is the other day and if he should book a hotel.

Presumptuous men make my fanny close up!!! "

Amen

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens


"Do you explain to them what you're looking for, or what a social means to you?

I explain it's coffee only and their dick goes limp and they leave me alone.

I do then they come back well if we click over coffee shall I book a travel lodge.

I love socials a nice coffee with a beautiful woman some good chat and to see if that spark is there. ..

That's if any women come out of hibernation... lol. .

I don't understand what the problem is.

If someone said that to me I'd just say no it's coffee only. If they hinted at anything sexual again I'd just say sorry we're not compatible.

We want different things. No point me wasting their time. If they can't respect my wishes on something so simple I certainly wouldn't trust them enough to have sex with them!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social to me is a splendid cake and cuppa

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

It’s the ‘let me try and convince you’ types that annoy me, when I say I’m not attracted but they pester until I block, then there are the ‘but please it’s been so long since I met anyone’ types, I gave one guy like that a chance and had a social once, he was local so we went for a bike ride, he insisted on going to the woods then kept trying to grab and complained when I wouldn’t give him a bj and moaned I’d gotten him hard, I couldn’t wait to get away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the ‘let me try and convince you’ types that annoy me, when I say I’m not attracted but they pester until I block, then there are the ‘but please it’s been so long since I met anyone’ types, I gave one guy like that a chance and had a social once, he was local so we went for a bike ride, he insisted on going to the woods then kept trying to grab and complained when I wouldn’t give him a bj and moaned I’d gotten him hard, I couldn’t wait to get away "

You went to the woods alone with someone that already ignored your wishes?

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes


"It’s the ‘let me try and convince you’ types that annoy me, when I say I’m not attracted but they pester until I block, then there are the ‘but please it’s been so long since I met anyone’ types, I gave one guy like that a chance and had a social once, he was local so we went for a bike ride, he insisted on going to the woods then kept trying to grab and complained when I wouldn’t give him a bj and moaned I’d gotten him hard, I couldn’t wait to get away

You went to the woods alone with someone that already ignored your wishes?"

I was new and stupid, I definitely learned from it the hard way, I was lucky he didnt do more, it could have been a lot worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the ‘let me try and convince you’ types that annoy me, when I say I’m not attracted but they pester until I block, then there are the ‘but please it’s been so long since I met anyone’ types, I gave one guy like that a chance and had a social once, he was local so we went for a bike ride, he insisted on going to the woods then kept trying to grab and complained when I wouldn’t give him a bj and moaned I’d gotten him hard, I couldn’t wait to get away

You went to the woods alone with someone that already ignored your wishes?

I was new and stupid, I definitely learned from it the hard way, I was lucky he didnt do more, it could have been a lot worse "

Glad you're ok. Good to learn. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message I received the other day;

"Hello just read your profile & yes it's very good to be picky as I am the same + alway safe sex if they can't provide anything then it's a no go & a good buy.

You seem very genuine & I would like to see & meet up as soon as possible and when are you free?

Fucking presumptuous women, learn some manners! (and how to construct a sentence)

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Message I received the other day;

"Hello just read your profile & yes it's very good to be picky as I am the same + alway safe sex if they can't provide anything then it's a no go & a good buy.

You seem very genuine & I would like to see & meet up as soon as possible and when are you free?

Fucking presumptuous women, learn some manners! (and how to construct a sentence) "

That was from a man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message I received the other day;

"Hello just read your profile & yes it's very good to be picky as I am the same + alway safe sex if they can't provide anything then it's a no go & a good buy.

You seem very genuine & I would like to see & meet up as soon as possible and when are you free?

Fucking presumptuous women, learn some manners! (and how to construct a sentence)

That was from a man!! "

WTF really? But I'm not gay!

It might have been but that's not the only one, I'm sure they can't all be men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really getting fed up and so glad I'm hibernating at the moment and not meeting because some men and couples on here assume that if you start replying messages with interest to meet that you will do it today and they will book at hotel.

Never assume that a meet is going to be anything but a coffee.

Tuesday rant over! "
I know two tortoises that are hibernating right now

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