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"Probably something on my profile. Didn't message myself as I couldn't stand the rejection of not replying to myself. " Couldn't you just meet you and give yourself a pity fuck ? | |||
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"Those who say "if you like what you see then please apply". Wonder what the interview procedure is like with these people if one does apply...... " The way it's worded isn't a indication that they're arrogant or anything of that nature. Yes I have messaged such profiles and some have been some of the nicest people I've met to date | |||
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"Probably something on my profile. Didn't message myself as I couldn't stand the rejection of not replying to myself. Couldn't you just meet you and give yourself a pity fuck ?" I'd probably cancel at the last minute. | |||
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"Those who say "if you like what you see then please apply". Wonder what the interview procedure is like with these people if one does apply...... The way it's worded isn't a indication that they're arrogant or anything of that nature. Yes I have messaged such profiles and some have been some of the nicest people I've met to date " It can seem that way to some though. A lot of people make their profile something that puts them in the limelight as "the target" as opposed to seeming like they're trying to actually trying to win over somebody else. It does take all sorts however, and some people are attracted to confidence and love feeling like they've done a bit of chasing. But none of this means we can't discuss this and have a bit of a laugh at some of the funnier examples. | |||
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"...I meet all your requirements.. " Who moi? | |||
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"Those who say "if you like what you see then please apply". Wonder what the interview procedure is like with these people if one does apply...... The way it's worded isn't a indication that they're arrogant or anything of that nature. Yes I have messaged such profiles and some have been some of the nicest people I've met to date It can seem that way to some though. A lot of people make their profile something that puts them in the limelight as "the target" as opposed to seeming like they're trying to actually trying to win over somebody else. It does take all sorts however, and some people are attracted to confidence and love feeling like they've done a bit of chasing. But none of this means we can't discuss this and have a bit of a laugh at some of the funnier examples. " Yeah that is very true actually. I don't mind slight chasing,long as it's equal. Otherwise they'll probably be selfish in bed too! Ha | |||
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"Those who say "if you like what you see then please apply". Wonder what the interview procedure is like with these people if one does apply...... The way it's worded isn't a indication that they're arrogant or anything of that nature. Yes I have messaged such profiles and some have been some of the nicest people I've met to date " Please apply though? That makes it sound like they are looking for a candidate that meets their requirements. Isn't swinging about all playmates being equal? | |||
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"Our first paragraph is arrogant and conceited to those that don’t get the joke and damn right offensive to those that see a little of themselves in the wording...." Excellent paragraph | |||
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"Those who say "if you like what you see then please apply". Wonder what the interview procedure is like with these people if one does apply...... The way it's worded isn't a indication that they're arrogant or anything of that nature. Yes I have messaged such profiles and some have been some of the nicest people I've met to date Please apply though? That makes it sound like they are looking for a candidate that meets their requirements. Isn't swinging about all playmates being equal? " You’d be surprised how many people it’s about me me me, even loads of advice on here is geared towards “its your play do what you want” lots don’t get swinging at all... | |||
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"What is the most entitled/arrogant thing you've ever read on a profile, and did you message that person?" Read my fucking forum thread. | |||
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"Our first paragraph is arrogant and conceited to those that don’t get the joke and damn right offensive to those that see a little of themselves in the wording...." Just looked... Made me giggle, guess that means I'm not arrogant conceited then | |||
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"Those who say "if you like what you see then please apply". Wonder what the interview procedure is like with these people if one does apply...... The way it's worded isn't a indication that they're arrogant or anything of that nature. Yes I have messaged such profiles and some have been some of the nicest people I've met to date Please apply though? That makes it sound like they are looking for a candidate that meets their requirements. Isn't swinging about all playmates being equal? " I've always been brought up that it's a lot to do with how one receives something. To me I'd just message. You'll be able to tell a lot from the message recieved if they are not for you. Every neet is an interview process to certain extent. What are you into,what clubs have you been to,what do you look like. C'mon people. I think we're getting a bit to deep into it. Me personally I'd rather be deep in some pum pum | |||
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"Our first paragraph is arrogant and conceited to those that don’t get the joke and damn right offensive to those that see a little of themselves in the wording.... Just looked... Made me giggle, guess that means I'm not arrogant conceited then " Oh no. You are for sure,but I like you as you go to the gym! . Haha | |||
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"Those who say "if you like what you see then please apply". Wonder what the interview procedure is like with these people if one does apply...... The way it's worded isn't a indication that they're arrogant or anything of that nature. Yes I have messaged such profiles and some have been some of the nicest people I've met to date Please apply though? That makes it sound like they are looking for a candidate that meets their requirements. Isn't swinging about all playmates being equal? " Some swingers are more equal than others. | |||
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"Our first paragraph is arrogant and conceited to those that don’t get the joke and damn right offensive to those that see a little of themselves in the wording.... Just looked... Made me giggle, guess that means I'm not arrogant conceited then Oh no. You are for sure,but I like you as you go to the gym! . Haha" Cheeky bugger | |||
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"Our first paragraph is arrogant and conceited to those that don’t get the joke and damn right offensive to those that see a little of themselves in the wording.... Just looked... Made me giggle, guess that means I'm not arrogant conceited then " and hot..... | |||
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"Fill in later. Bit presumptuous." And usually they have been a member for 6 months or more and still not done it | |||
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"...I meet all your requirements.. Prove it " You just want anything with a pulse, you strumpet! Xx | |||
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"My profile is amazing " Happy Birthday, Colgate | |||
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"What is the most entitled/arrogant thing you've ever read on a profile, and did you message that person?" I have read many arrogant women's profiles ,you know the ones that are so long you can even read to the end because they've cured your insomnia ,that ask for face pics with first message but have zero pics on their profile and have a list of do's and don'ts as long as your arm and I always message and ask the obvious question because it matters not I don't have any interest in meeting them but sometimes they think its hilarious and reply ,that's when I laugh ,its all in fun though | |||
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"What is the most entitled/arrogant thing you've ever read on a profile, and did you message that person?I have read many arrogant women's profiles ,you know the ones that are so long you can even read to the end because they've cured your insomnia ,that ask for face pics with first message but have zero pics on their profile and have a list of do's and don'ts as long as your arm and I always message and ask the obvious question because it matters not I don't have any interest in meeting them but sometimes they think its hilarious and reply ,that's when I laugh ,its all in fun though " can't | |||
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"Single men "WE will find YOU". Therefore us single males will drop everything to attend to your selfish needs because we adore you right? Wrong. Not every man fancies you get over yourselves. Presumptuous and arrogant" ha yes and those couples constantly look at your profile but never message damn frustrating | |||
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"Single men "WE will find YOU". Therefore us single males will drop everything to attend to your selfish needs because we adore you right? Wrong. Not every man fancies you get over yourselves. Presumptuous and arrogant" Not if I block you you won't. | |||
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"Single men "WE will find YOU". Therefore us single males will drop everything to attend to your selfish needs because we adore you right? Wrong. Not every man fancies you get over yourselves. Presumptuous and arrogant Not if I block you you won't. " Bahahahaha | |||
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"I actually saw 'if you think you are worthy of my time'. It sounds like a pisstake, but reading the text, it was ranty throughout. No signs of humour at all. I remember reading it and wondering 'who the hell does this person think they are'?" but did you message and ask ? | |||
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"I actually saw 'if you think you are worthy of my time'. It sounds like a pisstake, but reading the text, it was ranty throughout. No signs of humour at all. I remember reading it and wondering 'who the hell does this person think they are'?but did you message and ask ? " I would have, but I didn't feel I was worthy | |||
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"I actually saw 'if you think you are worthy of my time'. It sounds like a pisstake, but reading the text, it was ranty throughout. No signs of humour at all. I remember reading it and wondering 'who the hell does this person think they are'?but did you message and ask ? I would have, but I didn't feel I was worthy " Stuck up their own ass ... Some people ey... | |||
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"I actually saw 'if you think you are worthy of my time'. It sounds like a pisstake, but reading the text, it was ranty throughout. No signs of humour at all. I remember reading it and wondering 'who the hell does this person think they are'?but did you message and ask ? I would have, but I didn't feel I was worthy " hey if anyone is worthy its you | |||
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"Those who say "if you like what you see then please apply". Wonder what the interview procedure is like with these people if one does apply...... The way it's worded isn't a indication that they're arrogant or anything of that nature. Yes I have messaged such profiles and some have been some of the nicest people I've met to date Please apply though? That makes it sound like they are looking for a candidate that meets their requirements. Isn't swinging about all playmates being equal? You’d be surprised how many people it’s about me me me, even loads of advice on here is geared towards “its your play do what you want” lots don’t get swinging at all... " I don't see the problem. Since when has swinging been about altruism? | |||
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"When the profile claims they are 'sexy' this is so subjective and also when people say they are professional. We're still waiting for the first profile which claims to be thoroughly unprofessioanl" Have to disagree as they may be stating it as a feeling. | |||
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"Something I’ve noticed lately on a couple of single ladies status updates is speaking about themselves in the third person. Very weird! Anyone else seen this type of thing? " Estella has seen this, yes. She would agree, very weird | |||
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"I just read "Looking to get licked only, will let you know time and place" from a single pic profile. Sure I'm available 24/7 and I'll be there with my chastity belt on ready and willing to please you" It's the same with the blow job statuses haha... I always make sure I have my lipstick on, just in case, for those tempting messages | |||
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"I just read "Looking to get licked only, will let you know time and place" from a single pic profile. Sure I'm available 24/7 and I'll be there with my chastity belt on ready and willing to please you It's the same with the blow job statuses haha... I always make sure I have my lipstick on, just in case, for those tempting messages " Agreed. Just seen another one "Really love giving bj's / Blocks contact from all men" Maybe we can use telepathy to arrange those bj's .. | |||
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"What is the most entitled/arrogant thing you've ever read on a profile, and did you message that person?" People who say they are ‘professional’ | |||
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"Those who say "if you like what you see then please apply". Wonder what the interview procedure is like with these people if one does apply...... The way it's worded isn't a indication that they're arrogant or anything of that nature. Yes I have messaged such profiles and some have been some of the nicest people I've met to date Please apply though? That makes it sound like they are looking for a candidate that meets their requirements. Isn't swinging about all playmates being equal? You’d be surprised how many people it’s about me me me, even loads of advice on here is geared towards “its your play do what you want” lots don’t get swinging at all... I don't see the problem. Since when has swinging been about altruism?" Altruism is about putting others needs above your own. To us swinging is a shared experience where all parties come away feeling they have enjoyed it equally. If you're not concerned with others feelings then you're just using them. | |||
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"Not on a profile..... but I'm always amused when some troglodyte on the forum uses the classic "this thread is a great filter", when they're usually a good 4 or 5 pinter themselves....." And quite often said by someone who 'is only here for the forums'! | |||
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"Not on a profile..... but I'm always amused when some troglodyte on the forum uses the classic "this thread is a great filter", when they're usually a good 4 or 5 pinter themselves..... And quite often said by someone who 'is only here for the forums'!" I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that! | |||
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"The "if you message put (insert generic word or phrase here) in the subject" Why people think this shows anyone has read their profile I don't know.... IF they put the word / phrase in then generally it's more likely they've scrolled to the bottom (where it usually is) to see if anything along these lines is there. " This in and of itself shows a level of social etiquette though. When someone blatently misses something so easy to find, it's because they couldn't even be assed taking the 2 seconds to scroll to the bottom, and people who care what we've written are more likely to be shallow and/or less concerned with who they say sleep with, and more concerned how often they sleep with just SOMEONE. | |||
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"Not on a profile..... but I'm always amused when some troglodyte on the forum uses the classic "this thread is a great filter", when they're usually a good 4 or 5 pinter themselves..... And quite often said by someone who 'is only here for the forums'! I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that! " I've noticed a lot of people seem to exist on here purely to chat on the forums, they're almost always trolling too, as they're opinion differs from post to post on the same issues, depending on what the popular opinion of each post is, they just spout the opposite or an equally ludicrous statement to garner attention. | |||
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"Not on a profile..... but I'm always amused when some troglodyte on the forum uses the classic "this thread is a great filter", when they're usually a good 4 or 5 pinter themselves..... And quite often said by someone who 'is only here for the forums'! I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that! I've noticed a lot of people seem to exist on here purely to chat on the forums, they're almost always trolling too, as they're opinion differs from post to post on the same issues, depending on what the popular opinion of each post is, they just spout the opposite or an equally ludicrous statement to garner attention." If they do that how is that going to encourage people to chat with them? Personally I think the opposite is more likely to be true. | |||
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"When the profile claims they are 'sexy' this is so subjective and also when people say they are professional. We're still waiting for the first profile which claims to be thoroughly unprofessioanl Have to disagree as they may be stating it as a feeling." Professional usually just means "have actual jobs with time commitments and other things that are more important than swinging". Mostly meaning that you don't just have limitless free time to chat and meet. | |||
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"Not on a profile..... but I'm always amused when some troglodyte on the forum uses the classic "this thread is a great filter", when they're usually a good 4 or 5 pinter themselves..... And quite often said by someone who 'is only here for the forums'! I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that! I've noticed a lot of people seem to exist on here purely to chat on the forums, they're almost always trolling too, as they're opinion differs from post to post on the same issues, depending on what the popular opinion of each post is, they just spout the opposite or an equally ludicrous statement to garner attention. If they do that how is that going to encourage people to chat with them? Personally I think the opposite is more likely to be true. " You'd think wouldn't you, but I said I've seen it, not that it isn't crazy haha. I love seeing hypocrisy in different threads though, reminds me that a lot of this stuff isn't real, and that it's better to actually meet people in person and find out more about them. | |||
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"This'I'm not looking to meet or chat' ,I mean what else can you do here " Look at pics? You should know, you're good at that | |||
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"This'I'm not looking to meet or chat' ,I mean what else can you do here Look at pics? You should know, you're good at that " ha well yes yours anyway x | |||
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"Not on a profile..... but I'm always amused when some troglodyte on the forum uses the classic "this thread is a great filter", when they're usually a good 4 or 5 pinter themselves..... And quite often said by someone who 'is only here for the forums'! I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that! I've noticed a lot of people seem to exist on here purely to chat on the forums, they're almost always trolling too, as they're opinion differs from post to post on the same issues, depending on what the popular opinion of each post is, they just spout the opposite or an equally ludicrous statement to garner attention." I like people like that. Thinkers not followers. | |||
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"Not on a profile..... but I'm always amused when some troglodyte on the forum uses the classic "this thread is a great filter", when they're usually a good 4 or 5 pinter themselves..... And quite often said by someone who 'is only here for the forums'! I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that! I've noticed a lot of people seem to exist on here purely to chat on the forums, they're almost always trolling too, as they're opinion differs from post to post on the same issues, depending on what the popular opinion of each post is, they just spout the opposite or an equally ludicrous statement to garner attention." garner attention.....you have it in a nutshell | |||
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"This'I'm not looking to meet or chat' ,I mean what else can you do here " I enjoy contributing to the Forums. | |||
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"When the profile claims they are 'sexy' this is so subjective and also when people say they are professional. We're still waiting for the first profile which claims to be thoroughly unprofessioanl" The professional thing makes us laugh...as if that makes them sexy...as does “gym fit” too. But the biggest turn off is over-long and self-centred. It’s like the colleague at work who can’t précis what they want to say in a short email. But, each to their own... | |||
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"The women who are demanding a 6ft tanned muscular tattooed Adonis with model looks and a 9" cock, but are bringing very little to the table themselves." Ah, that would be supply and demand then... | |||
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"What is the most entitled/arrogant thing you've ever read on a profile, and did you message that person?" Not an entitled or particularly arrogant comment, but always found it off putting when couples described themselves as beautiful. | |||
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