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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! " You are so not alone. | |||
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"Exactly the same here. I'm not even after a 10/10 but maybe around a 6/10, but as you say, no one that you get a tingle over!" I’m probably a 3/10 on a good day so 2 meets should do it | |||
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"should be more filters so you can be more descriptive in what you’re looking for" I think so too. | |||
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"Don't worry, ladies - I'm here." Think I need you to rub my head while I lay in your chest when you say that.... Makes it more effective I think | |||
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"I don't know about anyone else.. But in my experience its a sense of dejection that leads to mojo loss. You find someone you're attracted to, invest time in building up a rapport with a view to meeting, and then the fickle magpie nature of Fab strikes and suddenly you find they've stopped texting and are pursuing someone else... You brush it off and start over... But then it happens again... And again... And again... the soul destroying repetition eats away at your confidence and finally you think why bother anymore... It'll only end up the same way. I've got my mojo back for now... But its a delicate thing that needs to be nurtured. Hopefully it'll stick around a while this time " I thought you were supposed to salute single magpies | |||
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"I don't know about anyone else.. But in my experience its a sense of dejection that leads to mojo loss. You find someone you're attracted to, invest time in building up a rapport with a view to meeting, and then the fickle magpie nature of Fab strikes and suddenly you find they've stopped texting and are pursuing someone else... You brush it off and start over... But then it happens again... And again... And again... the soul destroying repetition eats away at your confidence and finally you think why bother anymore... It'll only end up the same way. I've got my mojo back for now... But its a delicate thing that needs to be nurtured. Hopefully it'll stick around a while this time I thought you were supposed to salute single magpies " Hello mister magpie | |||
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"I'm really struggling as well! I haven't had sex since March but I can't find anyone that I want to actually invest the time and effort into. It's not for the lack of trying either " March...lucky you...2014 here..feel your pain though | |||
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"I wave in and out of wanting to fuck everyone and then feeling meh .... Depending on time of the month obvs! At the moment I'd rather eat all the cheese and crackers, mini party food thingies and all the wine than fuck Just a fuck is boring - I would rather have a wank - less effort! I think it's time to move on from Fab soon and look for a few strings " Yep! Just a shag is pointless. You need to laugh about it afterwards together. It’s not about dating someone, but having a ‘relationship’ that works. Like your girls, drink wine, eat curry and bitch together..... all about context! | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! " same for some of us men aswell...havent got excited over someone for ages | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! " its at the seaside I'll buy you an ice cream | |||
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"I think you ladies need another "Hottest men of fab" thread part 2 https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/631527" Ed, Ed, Ed! | |||
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"I really, really (really) want it at the moment, but are not actually doing anything positive about getting any " FTFY | |||
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"I really, really (really) want it at the moment, but are not actually doing anything positive about getting any FTFY " What have you changed | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! " Me either, I look on here regularly but nobody local ever excites me enough for me to want to venture out in the cold to meet them. L | |||
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"I have had some building subsidence, court cases and solicitors to deal with since July, so I am hoping that is playing a factor in things along with cervical cancer scare (again)......when I look at that lol no bloody wonder sex is low on my priorities but I want it to change x" Hope it's just a scare x | |||
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"In the 7 years on and off fab we have never lost our mojo . But then for us we create scenarios we want to try .... and if it's good we do it again .... if not try something new . I guess it must get difficult for singles though...maybe they look for more than just lust ? " It's a connection I look for. You have that with each other. It's a totally different thing to swing as a couple. You'll bounce off each other and share the experience. Even if one of you is just watching. Can't do that as a single. Could you still do it as a single? | |||
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"In the 7 years on and off fab we have never lost our mojo . But then for us we create scenarios we want to try .... and if it's good we do it again .... if not try something new . I guess it must get difficult for singles though...maybe they look for more than just lust ? It's a connection I look for. You have that with each other. It's a totally different thing to swing as a couple. You'll bounce off each other and share the experience. Even if one of you is just watching. Can't do that as a single. Could you still do it as a single?" Not a chance! Neither of us could for the reasons you've outlined . | |||
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"Probably the time of the year. Wait till spring, everyone gets randy in the spring. Ooh randy, don't think I've used that word for over 20yrs. " Bonking goes well with randy. A good, spring, randy, bonking session | |||
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"In the 7 years on and off fab we have never lost our mojo . But then for us we create scenarios we want to try .... and if it's good we do it again .... if not try something new . I guess it must get difficult for singles though...maybe they look for more than just lust ? It's a connection I look for. You have that with each other. It's a totally different thing to swing as a couple. You'll bounce off each other and share the experience. Even if one of you is just watching. Can't do that as a single. Could you still do it as a single? Not a chance! Neither of us could for the reasons you've outlined . " See it's not necessarily about singles looking for love. Or socials. | |||
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"Probably the time of the year. Wait till spring, everyone gets randy in the spring. Ooh randy, don't think I've used that word for over 20yrs. Bonking goes well with randy. A good, spring, randy, bonking session" Retro. I like it. | |||
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"Less a fab thing. But struggle to feel any spark on any dates. It always feels a bit like hard work ... " More than happy to help with the work load if it makes it easier for you | |||
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"I really, really (really) want it at the moment, but are not actually doing anything positive about getting any " well Santa if you really really really really want it you should have it | |||
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"My mojo is screaming for attention, perhaps it's too noisy and scaring people off... Peach x" It's got my attention | |||
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"My mojo is screaming for attention, perhaps it's too noisy and scaring people off... Peach x It's got my attention " That would be the airhorn I've been letting off in your face and the marching band outside your house....seems to have worked Peach x | |||
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"I got fed up with it all ages ago but it’s not the mojo thing It’s just the hassle of rushing home from work to get prepared and get the house all cosy and then the dreaded phone call The most stupid excuses that I’ve heard so many times We get a lot of guys that say I’m not like the others...I’m genuine..hahahahahaha" I'm not like the others I'm genuine | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! " Yep | |||
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"I am just having a 'meh' at the moment. " Your only down the road... want to help each other out??? | |||
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"There is such a thing as "too much of a good thing" " Never | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! " I do. | |||
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"I'm really struggling as well! I haven't had sex since March but I can't find anyone that I want to actually invest the time and effort into. It's not for the lack of trying either " Always seems loads of hot tottie up there | |||
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"It's the winter blues lack of vitamin d " Very true who wants to fly us lovely ladies to Hedonism Jamaica lol our mojo's are there waiting for us | |||
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"It's the winter blues lack of vitamin d Very true who wants to fly us lovely ladies to Hedonism Jamaica lol our mojo's are there waiting for us . B" if only I could fly | |||
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"I am just having a 'meh' at the moment. Your only down the road... want to help each other out??? " It is the season of goodwill after all | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! Yep" Ah, the ol' hibernating mojo. Hellish | |||
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"I'm really struggling as well! I haven't had sex since March but I can't find anyone that I want to actually invest the time and effort into. It's not for the lack of trying either Always seems loads of hot tottie up there " I wish | |||
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" And then my next thought is but meh he only wants to have sex with me so I move on lol. " You know this is a swinging site, right? | |||
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"I am just having a 'meh' at the moment. Your only down the road... want to help each other out??? It is the season of goodwill after all " Yes it is .. but your profile is private | |||
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" And then my next thought is but meh he only wants to have sex with me so I move on lol. You know this is a swinging site, right?" Yeah but swinging isn't just about wham bam thank you maam. It's about getting to know each other, makes friends interesting conversation, socialising. Ect | |||
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"I am just having a 'meh' at the moment. Your only down the road... want to help each other out??? It is the season of goodwill after all Yes it is .. but your profile is private " It shouldn't be. That said I just fall outside of your upper age limit at 39 so it sucks to be me! | |||
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" And then my next thought is but meh he only wants to have sex with me so I move on lol. You know this is a swinging site, right?" | |||
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"I am just having a 'meh' at the moment. Your only down the road... want to help each other out??? It is the season of goodwill after all Yes it is .. but your profile is private It shouldn't be. That said I just fall outside of your upper age limit at 39 so it sucks to be me! " I can still see you | |||
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"I am just having a 'meh' at the moment. Your only down the road... want to help each other out??? It is the season of goodwill after all Yes it is .. but your profile is private It shouldn't be. That said I just fall outside of your upper age limit at 39 so it sucks to be me! I can still see you " Now that IS good news | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! Yep Ah, the ol' hibernating mojo. Hellish " *waves* How do? | |||
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" And then my next thought is but meh he only wants to have sex with me so I move on lol. You know this is a swinging site, right?" What is swinging? | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! Yep Ah, the ol' hibernating mojo. Hellish *waves* How do? " Oi oi! I'm not too bad thank you. Hope you're well Miss Estella | |||
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"Nobody knows where my mojo has gone...." But Judy left the same time Why was he holding her hand When he's supposed to be mine? It's my mojo and I'll cry if I want to Cry if I want to Cry if I want to You would cry too, if it happened to you | |||
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"Nobody knows where my mojo has gone.... But Judy left the same time Why was he holding her hand When he's supposed to be mine? It's my mojo and I'll cry if I want to Cry if I want to Cry if I want to You would cry too, if it happened to you " I do, I cry wank,dry wank Try and revive wank | |||
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"Nobody knows where my mojo has gone.... But Judy left the same time Why was he holding her hand When he's supposed to be mine? It's my mojo and I'll cry if I want to Cry if I want to Cry if I want to You would cry too, if it happened to you I do, I cry wank,dry wank Try and revive wank " You need a hand with that | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! Yep Ah, the ol' hibernating mojo. Hellish *waves* How do? Oi oi! I'm not too bad thank you. Hope you're well Miss Estella " Well....but you know all about that. | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! " Omg I thought it was just me that was broken. My whole sex drive and desire had gone on strike! | |||
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"Starting to feel like the ice maiden. Just don’t look at anyone now days and feel the ‘pwoooaaaarrrr’ anymore! Mojo is hiding and I can’t find it! " It’s not just you, many of us are the same. It’ll come back...hopefully. In honesty I’m the Same.... | |||
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"I'm really struggling as well! I haven't had sex since March but I can't find anyone that I want to actually invest the time and effort into. It's not for the lack of trying either Always seems loads of hot tottie up there I wish " Feeling exactly the same! | |||
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"I don't know about anyone else.. But in my experience its a sense of dejection that leads to mojo loss. You find someone you're attracted to, invest time in building up a rapport with a view to meeting, and then the fickle magpie nature of Fab strikes and suddenly you find they've stopped texting and are pursuing someone else... You brush it off and start over... But then it happens again... And again... And again... the soul destroying repetition eats away at your confidence and finally you think why bother anymore... It'll only end up the same way. I've got my mojo back for now... But its a delicate thing that needs to be nurtured. Hopefully it'll stick around a while this time " Having had the displeasure of chatting to a load of fake profiles doesn't help. It makes you question why bother if most people who chat to you are fake. | |||
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