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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No comment. The last one was a complete dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself

Not who or what you think we would want you to be

Fart up by back in bed if you like

Though maybe not on the first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it will happen naturally if its going too

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.

The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.

The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise "

So if they don't want to meet again then they think you're a shit shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, if a woman is a great fuck, and likes to suck and take a cock up her arse she's a keeper. Oh, and she musn' t get all clingy or dramatic over him seeing other women.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.

The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise "

Totally disagree.

I couldn’t tell you what it is. But i know I want more when I want to do more than just fuck. When I look forward to dates more than sex.

If I knew what gets me to that stage I wouldn’t be single. Because while great sex isn’t hard to find, finding someone I want to spend time with “doing nothing” is like unicorn shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? "

A lack of other fucks

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By *litteasingManMan
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"In my experience, if a woman is a great fuck, and likes to suck and take a cock up her arse she's a keeper. Oh, and she musn' t get all clingy or dramatic over him seeing other women. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as things are casual then it is all good with me.

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land


"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.

The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise

Totally disagree.

I couldn’t tell you what it is. But i know I want more when I want to do more than just fuck. When I look forward to dates more than sex.

If I knew what gets me to that stage I wouldn’t be single. Because while great sex isn’t hard to find, finding someone I want to spend time with “doing nothing” is like unicorn shit. "

Hear! hear!

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By *litteasingManMan
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

"

If both "Can accommodate" and "Can travel"

I think it's a natural thing you can't push... Just keep doing what you enjoy and watch what happens. If nothing happens, at least you had fun while it lasted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s someone I can connect with on a sexual level, intellectual level and we ‘click’ in general - good banter and both not looking for something serious but just some fun. Then, that’s someone I’d like to meet regularly.

A good laugh and some good sex makes for fun times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too. "

Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.

For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.

Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find someone you want to meet regularly would that stop you from wanting to meet others?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.

The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise

So if they don't want to meet again then they think you're a shit shag?"

How many people want a relationship knowing that the sex is shitty from the off?

Unless they are gold diggers

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"If you find someone you want to meet regularly would that stop you from wanting to meet others?"
depends what you mean by meet regularly. If it was just a sex thing I’d still want to be dating etc. Because i am looking for more. If the meeting was more like dating then there’s likely a time I’d be happy to “become exclusive”. By which I’d mean the OH becomes my number only relationship (but depending on the nature of the relationship I guess there could be other ppl involved.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no formula. There are no things to do or not do.

There is a need that burns deep inside that make the fucking something you want more of...

But even more than that it's about the girl and how everything, the connection, the meeting of minds,dreams, and shared experience, not just the sex makes you want more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too. "
relaxed,gorgeous smile,smell nice ,laugh at my humour ,look good ,intelligent conversation and easy ozeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, if a woman is a great fuck, and likes to suck and take a cock up her arse she's a keeper. Oh, and she musn' t get all clingy or dramatic over him seeing other women. "

Oh that made us laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet a potential fwb unless I thought there was the possibility of something regular. This is why I would rather chat for a while to see if we click, then a social and see where it goes from there. I'm not interested in random, anonymous fuck and go.

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Mmm if you feel relaxed with someone then you will want to see them again just be nice and friendly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.

The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise

So if they don't want to meet again then they think you're a shit shag?

How many people want a relationship knowing that the sex is shitty from the off?

Unless they are gold diggers "

Some do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.

Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.

For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.

Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better."

I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.

Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.

For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.

Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.

I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off. "
puts boys off

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

A sense of humour and good chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a good shag us guys want you to be a regular shag.

The turning point is the difference between a relationship and just exercise

So if they don't want to meet again then they think you're a shit shag?

How many people want a relationship knowing that the sex is shitty from the off?

Unless they are gold diggers

Some do. "

They may feel the sex can get better.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.

Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.

For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.

Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.

I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off. puts boys off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.

Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.

For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.

Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.

I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off.

puts boys off

"

Im vulnerable and want more. Are you open to marriage?

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.

Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.

For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.

Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.

I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off.

puts boys off

Im vulnerable and want more. Are you open to marriage?"

You’re in the process of being taken !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.

Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.

For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.

Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.

I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off.

puts boys off

Im vulnerable and want more. Are you open to marriage?

You’re in the process of being taken ! "

Pffft I am not! Need to keep my options open you know!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too.

Well the sex has to be good to start with, the kind of sex that you just have to have more of or has the potential to be great. There needs to be some common interests for me as fwb's can't be just about sex although that's obvs the driving force.

For me it was also important they wanted to explore the same things as me and share those experiences, for example clubs and group sex.

Finally I would say opening up and being honest about what you want is important, people are pretty guarded on here generally even when they fuck someone but opening up and showing some vulnerability is an attractive thing. When someone does that I really respect it and value it and it makes me want to know them better.

I always thought that showing vulnerability put men off. puts boys off

"

Yeah baby!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

There isn't a manual. But the most important rule is not be too clingy!

However in some cases there's nothing one side can do as the other side simply doesn't want a relationship.

Just crack on and if it happens it happens.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

For me it has to be the chemistry and the enjoyment of spending time with that person.

I think over time if you meet someone regularly you get to know them more and how they tick. That then makes the experience even better and then you become closer.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"If you find someone you want to meet regularly would that stop you from wanting to meet others?"

If I found someone to meet regularly, I wouldn't have time to meet other people.

Is that the same thing?

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By *hinypants77Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Just be nice. Don’t be mental. Live your own life and don’t be too clingy.

The person needs to be attracted to you. If they see you having a great time they’ll want you be involved more. Your time is precious so don’t give it away too freely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes you want to progress from just a fuck to something regular? What kind of things should we do and not do afterwards?

It's a question for men as I'm a woman but women feel free to answer with your experiences too. "
an erection

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just be nice. Don’t be mental. Live your own life and don’t be too clingy.

The person needs to be attracted to you. If they see you having a great time they’ll want you be involved more. Your time is precious so don’t give it away too freely. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she was the best shag I've ever had...I'll want to see her again.

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