FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure I understand the first line in your profile as I think your profile picture whilst decent doesn’t really scream “come and look at my profile”.

Maybe check the pics of the woman you message and try any gauge what would turn them on? Be creative, funny etc.

Stuff like that. Good luck

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not easy fella. Ive been on this site for nearly 2 years now and its no easier now than it was 2 years ago.

You need to put a lot of effort and time in and prepared to be ignored and knocked back over and over and over until you think fuck this for a laugh.

You gotta be thick skinned and do not expect anything. Anything that does come your way is a bonus.

That's my approach now.

If you take it too personally, it will affect your self-esteem and confidence.

Good luck

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You've been here 6 weeks which is no time at all in Fab terms - so patience and realistic expectations are key

You've had a veri as recently as this week which suggests you've had other meets to, so you're obviously doing something right

Your profile blurb is actually better than a lot of single guys but couple of points:

- You mention you're discreet at least three times

- The following lines kind of contradict themselves: "I don't really have a preference for age or race. I've also currently got a thing for hot older women and bbws"

- You say you can travel in and around Hull within reason, which is going to limit you a little and may explain people not showing an interest - maybe expand on what you mean by "within reason" to some that might be a 10 mile bus trip, to others it might be 150 miles.

- You appear to have ticked every "interest" box - are you really into all those things? If so then fine, but it might just come across as a bit much to some.

Pics aren't bad and kudos for putting some face pics out there - maybe add some torso/bum/body shots partially clothed? Although avoid the cock shot route.

Good luck