FabSwingers.com forum: What is Love

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can anyone explain love and it’s meaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby don’t hurt me

Don’t hurt me

No more

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Love is involuntary. Brain science tells us it's a drive like thirst. It's a craving for a specific person. It's normal, natural to "lose control" in the early stage of romance. Love, like thirst, will make you do strange things, But knowledge is power. It's a natural addiction and treating it like an addiction can help you.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Love is the most powerful emotion a human being can experience. The strange think is, that almost nobody knows what love is. Why is it so difficult to find love? That is easy to understand, if you know that the word “love” is not the same as one’s feeling of love.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Baby don’t hurt me

Don’t hurt me

No more"

Beat me to it.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Love is a force of nature. However much we may want to, we can not command, demand, or take away love, any more than we can command the moon and the stars and the wind and the rain to come and go according to our whims. We may have some limited ability to change the weather, but we do so at the risk of upsetting an ecological balance we don't fully understand. Similarly, we can stage a seduction or mount a courtship, but the result is more likely to be infatuation, or two illusions dancing together, than love.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Baby don’t hurt me

Don’t hurt me

No more

Beat me to it."

You guys aren't helping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Baby don’t hurt me

Don’t hurt me

No more

Beat me to it."

Not sure you’d enjoy that but.... anything for you

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Love is blind, as far as the eye can see

Deep and meaningless, words to me

Easy lover, I need a friend

Road to nowhere, twist and turns but will this never end

Well my dear you'll know that he pleases me (eases me)

But short term solution ain't no resolution

There ain't no release for me

Thanks Baby spice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is a drug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Baby don’t hurt me

Don’t hurt me

No more

Beat me to it.

You guys aren't helping."

But we do love you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be the best feeling ever and the worst feeling ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is a choice and an action. That initial feeling of being in love is literally a chemical reaction, nothing more. You have to choose to love someone and you can choose not to love them as well.

Unless it's what a parent, some parents, feel for their child.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Love is a battlefield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can be the best feeling ever and the worst feeling ever!

Currently getting over the worst part

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love is blind, as far as the eye can see

Deep and meaningless, words to me

Easy lover, I need a friend

Road to nowhere, twist and turns but will this never end

Well my dear you'll know that he pleases me (eases me)

But short term solution ain't no resolution

There ain't no release for me

Thanks Baby spice."

Let me not to the marriage of true minds

Admit impediments. Love is not love

Which alters when it alteration finds,

Or bends with the remover to remove:

O no; it is an ever-fixed mark,

That looks on tempests, and is never shaken;

It is the star to every wandering bark,

Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.

Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks

Within his bending sickle's compass come;

Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,

But bears it out even to the edge of doom.

If this be error and upon me proved,

I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

Thanks Billy Shakespeare

But I am non the wiser as to what it is that causes the ....................

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

Anyway can anybody love anybody anyway thanks Howard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is lust the same as love or an imposter that hides and hijacks the intent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A rabbi said to a young man "young man, why are you eating that fish?" the young man replied "because I love fish" the rabbi looks at the young man for a moment, "hmm, you love the fish. So you take it out of the water, kill it and fry it, and this shows you love the fish?".

There are many kinds of love, but most are a love of how someone else makes US feel, like the young man with the fish felt nourished, the fish was but bones and a memory.

Love is giving and expecting nothing in return, it comes without terms and conditions, but beware of imitations, beware of fish love

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Love is noise, love is pain

Love is these blues that I'm singing again, again, again, again, again

The Verve - Love Is Noise

Thanks Ashcroft

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"A rabbi said to a young man "young man, why are you eating that fish?" the young man replied "because I love fish" the rabbi looks at the young man for a moment, "hmm, you love the fish. So you take it out of the water, kill it and fry it, and this shows you love the fish?".

There are many kinds of love, but most are a love of how someone else makes US feel, like the young man with the fish felt nourished, the fish was but bones and a memory.

Love is giving and expecting nothing in return, it comes without terms and conditions, but beware of imitations, beware of fish love"

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love is noise, love is pain

Love is these blues that I'm singing again, again, again, again, again

The Verve - Love Is Noise

Thanks Ashcroft "

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UdNKR3GaOtc

Thanks Beth !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love, love changes everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love, love changes everything.

Why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Baby don’t hurt me

Don’t hurt me

No more"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night I dreamt

That somebody loved me

No hope - but no harm

Just another false alarm

Last night I felt

Real arms around me

No hope - no harm

Just another false alarm

So, tell me how long

Before the last one?

And tell me how long

Before the right one?

This story is old - I KNOW

But it goes on

This story is old - I KNOW

But it goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love, love changes everything.

Why ?"

Because nothing in the world will ever be the same again.

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I don't know what love is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truthfully ... I don't know ... apart from the love for my family

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

There's different kinds of love.

The love for your child, your family, the natural instinctive reaction that you'd give anything for them, even your own life.

Love for friends, a softer love, you'd do just about anything for a true friend.

Then there's LOVE, the one that hits you, takes your breath away, makes your heart miss a beat.

It's a chemical reaction in the brain between the thalamus & core memory centre, neuro chemicals & endorphins are released, giving you that 'high feeling'

One thing is certain, love is strange

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I wanna know what love is....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wanna know what love is...."

If and when you find out will you tell me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love just is....

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I wanna know what love is...."

I want you to show me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wanna know what love is....

I want you to show me

Now that is lust?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Love is when the happiness of others is more important to you than your own.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Love...dies. Sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanna know what love is....

I want you to show me

Damn, this is in my head now!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love is when the happiness of others is more important to you than your own.

That’s Christmas!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Love is when the happiness of others is more important to you than your own.

That’s Christmas!"

Get lost Frank. Christmas is when your grabby little bastard traits come to the fore.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I wanna know what love is....

I want you to show me

I wanna feel what love is....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my child and im madly in love with my matt the 2 are both completely different so it really depends what kind of love?

Love for somone and being in love are different..

Im lucky to have found both!

When its found you just know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Baby don’t hurt me

Don’t hurt me

No more"
Oh you young whippersnappers I was thinking more Howard Jones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone explain love and it’s meaning."
what's love got to do with it its just a second hand emotion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanna know what love is....

I want you to show me

Now that is lust?"

Everyone knows what lust is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can anyone explain love and it’s meaning.what's love got to do with it its just a second hand emotion

But can anybodeeeeee find meeeeee someone to lurve?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wanna know what love is....

I want you to show me

Now that is lust?

Everyone knows what lust is

Lust is love from love honey

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Love is a feeling that I enjoy and hate at the same time....

It can make you do silly things and can tear you apart. But if rather have love in my life rather than hate.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I wanna know what love is....

I want you to show me

I wanna feel what love is...."

I know you can show me!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Love is involuntary. Brain science tells us it's a drive like thirst. It's a craving for a specific person. It's normal, natural to "lose control" in the early stage of romance. Love, like thirst, will make you do strange things, But knowledge is power. It's a natural addiction and treating it like an addiction can help you."

I like this x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

For me it's when I think about that person...all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me anyway: Wanting to be with that person all the time, missing them when they aren’t there, doing things you wouldn’t dream of doing with or for anyone else, the little touches, the touching of the hair that sends shivers down every inch of your body. Looking at that person and getting an overwhelming urge of a feeling you don’t get with anyone else, sometimes I look at ads and sometimes I want to cry not because I’m unhappy but because I love him so much. Just looking at the other person like an idiot and smiling to yourself. Never getting annoyed by them when they probably annoy everyone else, accepting their quirky ways.

To me that’s love, I thought I loved my ex husband but until I met Ads I didn’t know what Love meant, with Ads I want to look after him, try and make sure he has everything he needs (maybe I’m stuck in the 50’s? Lol) and I’ve seen a side of me know one else has ever seen, a look of love and content, we look at each other and stare at each other for what seems like an age and I see the love he has for me.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone explain love and it’s meaning."

Sure...

Well, for a female it's a warm, glowing feeling deep inside that makes her heart literally skip a beat every time she thinks of the one she loves. She surrenders her heart and soul to this person and commits herself to a lifetime of the most wonderful, intense and euphoric feeling of love towards the the lucky individual who has won her heart

For a male, it's the difference between whether she spits or swallows?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone explain love and it’s meaning.

Sure...

For a male, it's the difference between whether she spits or swallows?!?

Must be written by a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many kinds of love, but most are a love of how someone else makes US feel, like the young man with the fish felt nourished, the fish was but bones and a memory.

Love is giving and expecting nothing in return, it comes without terms and conditions, but beware of imitations, beware of fish love"

Oy Vey!

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Love is pooping with the door open

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love is pooping with the door open"

Ha ha ha so it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete acceptance, completely unconditional and total selfless x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking from a scholarly socialist paradigm, love is a throwback survival instinct.

We need to survive, as a species, we needed strength in numbers, finding a mate to procreate with helps determine survival.

Physiologically it manifests as chemical reactions in the brain. Release of endorphins associated with attachment and sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looking from a scholarly socialist paradigm, love is a throwback survival instinct.

We need to survive, as a species, we needed strength in numbers, finding a mate to procreate with helps determine survival.

Physiologically it manifests as chemical reactions in the brain. Release of endorphins associated with attachment and sex.

Romance is alive and kicking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I can't seem to reciprocate any more.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Love is pooping with the door open"

Oh no.... No matter how head over heels I am I cannot bear the thought of them hearing me poop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is all you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it's when I think about that person...all the time."

Well said, Sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope one day I will fall in love again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is when you can't stop thinking about that person they are in every thought you have and in every action and decision you make. Love is a calmness that comes over you when you are with that person for without them you are nothing. Love is the sacrifices you make to ensure the person you love feels confident and happy everyday that they are with you.

I could go on and on but your behaviour will tell you when you are in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I forgot to mention it is when you look at that person and you have a twinkle in your eye.

They are everything to you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've said this before. Love is when you've got their back and they've got yours even when you don't like each other very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is when you are with someone and you don't want to share them with anyone

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Love is when you are with someone and you don't want to share them with anyone "

I beg to differ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love is when you are with someone and you don't want to share them with anyone

I beg to differ. "

Each to their own. Everyone will have their own opinion of what works for them.

Live and let live

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Love is when you are with someone and you don't want to share them with anyone

I beg to differ.

Each to their own. Everyone will have their own opinion of what works for them.

Live and let live

Exactly. I was expressing my opinion and what works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love is pooping with the door open"
nope that's definitely not love that's something else entirely

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By *urlesque!Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Love is a feeling for another human, not based on logic and rational thought,and enabling the person experiencing it, to set free the person they love. In the extreme it really means putting their feelings and needs above one's own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is holding your grandchild for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love is a battlefield "
very true . It's the best feeling and also the worst feeling you can have .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re all a little weird, and life’s a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love

Dr Seuss got it pretty spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna know what love iiiiiiiiiiiiis, do do do do, I know you can show meeeeeee

It's different to me as it is yo everyone else. But it can be the most beautiful feeling I can have for someone. It almost the only feeling I want amd fear at the same time.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Love can be a very lonely place x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never having to say you're sorry

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