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Guess It Must Be Kismet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't know about you, Fabsters, but I don't normally believe in Kismet or Ying n Yang, that sort of stuff, but since the high of a meet the last couple of days its felt like there was a dark thunderous cloud forming over me, to bring me back to earth with a bang, and tonight it finally broke, and I feel s**t!

I feel a bit embarrassed about it because this hasn't happened to me for years and I'm normally so careful but suppose that's Ying n Yang for you?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You want a brew Doc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s going down Doc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like what they call sub drop...you don't have to be into bdsm or a sub to get it, it's just the drop in endorphins after an intense experience. In holistic therapy it's called a healing crisis.

It basically means be kind to yourself and take it easy while your levels settle again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the kind words, it's my first experience and must say it feels very odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like what they call sub drop...you don't have to be into bdsm or a sub to get it, it's just the drop in endorphins after an intense experience. In holistic therapy it's called a healing crisis.

It basically means be kind to yourself and take it easy while your levels settle again"

What she said

Its not just the 'sub' that experiences it.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Sounds like what they call sub drop...you don't have to be into bdsm or a sub to get it, it's just the drop in endorphins after an intense experience. In holistic therapy it's called a healing crisis.

It basically means be kind to yourself and take it easy while your levels settle again"

Ive always found that when i start feeling like this keeping myself busy and occupied is the best thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems stupid and I do feel a bit of a prat but came to a head tonight because I burnt my dinner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems stupid and I do feel a bit of a prat but came to a head tonight because I burnt my dinner! "

Don't feel bad Doc, i regularly set fire to my meals by accident. I can turn fish fingers to charcoal

Chin up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheer up old pal

Would you like me to send you some pictures of my Star Wars collection?

If you were a bit closer I’d let you press the buttons on my millennium falcon that plays actual quotes from the original films, it always lifts my spirits.

Here’s a cheery emoticon to get the balll rolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems stupid and I do feel a bit of a prat but came to a head tonight because I burnt my dinner!

Don't feel bad Doc, i regularly set fire to my meals by accident. I can turn fish fingers to charcoal

Chin up x"

Had you already buttered the bread for the fish fingers? Did it go to waste?

All joking aside, I know your pain OP but have been lucky enough to learn the sub drop principle from a very good teacher. The comments above about this are bang on.

The highs come back. A litte self care and some good food always help.... fish finger sandwich?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems stupid and I do feel a bit of a prat but came to a head tonight because I burnt my dinner!

Don't feel bad Doc, i regularly set fire to my meals by accident. I can turn fish fingers to charcoal

Chin up x

Had you already buttered the bread for the fish fingers? Did it go to waste?

All joking aside, I know your pain OP but have been lucky enough to learn the sub drop principle from a very good teacher. The comments above about this are bang on.

The highs come back. A litte self care and some good food always help.... fish finger sandwich?

"

I had to use the bread to try and put out the flames. But butter is quite flammable under the wrong conditions.

Live and learn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheer up old pal

Would you like me to send you some pictures of my Star Wars collection?

If you were a bit closer I’d let you press the buttons on my millennium falcon that plays actual quotes from the original films, it always lifts my spirits.

Here’s a cheery emoticon to get the balll rolling "

Thanks, Sam, would you let me take it home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lousy cook. I can even burn water.

But the reasons are a bit more complicated maybe. After every high comes a low. Otherwise we would not recognise the highs. That's true of all things ...

Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. It's how balence is restored.

But knowing it is never the same as living it. Give it some time and things do return to balence. Until then do what makes you happy and I hope you are OK again soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems stupid and I do feel a bit of a prat but came to a head tonight because I burnt my dinner! "

Never feel silly for emotions. I get REALLY angry when people berate you for "feeling" - however that feeling manifests itself.

Wallow in it til bedtime, sleep on it and I bet you'll feel like yourself again tomorrow x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"Sounds like what they call sub drop...you don't have to be into bdsm or a sub to get it, it's just the drop in endorphins after an intense experience. In holistic therapy it's called a healing crisis.

It basically means be kind to yourself and take it easy while your levels settle again"

You will feel better soon. Its helpful that you know what it is though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Again, than you all, going to take best advice, good nights kip.

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