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Vibrator or dildo which one is the best?

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By *ustafasingh OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

So I'm doing secret santa at work and well I got the lady beers and wine because I know she'd want that, however I'm also intending on getting one of these but my budget is only around £30-40 and I haven't the slightest idea about what good what's what etc

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Are you sure she'd appreciate a sex toy she may think it's sexual harassment.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Christmas is not a good time to get sacked...

Wine and chocolates is the way forward.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Secret santa at work £30-40?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First things first, make sure your thinking with your head and that this type of gift would be appreciated

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By *ustafasingh OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

Oh it's only a joke gift not something I'd really expect to be used but I'm not too fussed, and nah she'll see funny side I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't go wrong with a box of roses

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Oh it's only a joke gift not something I'd really expect to be used but I'm not too fussed, and nah she'll see funny side I reckon "

If it's a joke, not to be.used, you don't need to spend £30-40 or which is best? Just get a chocolate cock for a couple of quid? But be careful, what you think is innocent fun can turn bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and all because the lady likes...a 12 inch rubber dildo!

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By *ustafasingh OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"Oh it's only a joke gift not something I'd really expect to be used but I'm not too fussed, and nah she'll see funny side I reckon

If it's a joke, not to be.used, you don't need to spend £30-40 or which is best? Just get a chocolate cock for a couple of quid? But be careful, what you think is innocent fun can turn bad."

The manager are the ones who thought it up, I'm the only guy in the work place btw

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Oh it's only a joke gift not something I'd really expect to be used but I'm not too fussed, and nah she'll see funny side I reckon

If it's a joke, not to be.used, you don't need to spend £30-40 or which is best? Just get a chocolate cock for a couple of quid? But be careful, what you think is innocent fun can turn bad.

The manager are the ones who thought it up, I'm the only guy in the work place btw"

Do you mean the managers said you all had to buy sex toys for each other?

Or did they just say do a secret santa?

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By *ustafasingh OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"Oh it's only a joke gift not something I'd really expect to be used but I'm not too fussed, and nah she'll see funny side I reckon

If it's a joke, not to be.used, you don't need to spend £30-40 or which is best? Just get a chocolate cock for a couple of quid? But be careful, what you think is innocent fun can turn bad.

The manager are the ones who thought it up, I'm the only guy in the work place btw

Do you mean the managers said you all had to buy sex toys for each other?

Or did they just say do a secret santa?"

It was there idea for the dildo/vibrator for herself

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By *ustafasingh OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

Say I don't go for a best one but what's an ideal cheapie one?

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Just don't. Employment tribunals are not fun.

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By *ustafasingh OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester


"Just don't. Employment tribunals are not fun. "

Alright guys, by sound of things I should just keep to beer and wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't. Employment tribunals are not fun.

Alright guys, by sound of things I should just keep to beer and wine"

Yeah

Smart move

January is a bugger of a time to be job hunting

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

And in your next job interview when they ask why you left your last job, that could be an awkward conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm doing secret santa at work and well I got the lady beers and wine because I know she'd want that, however I'm also intending on getting one of these but my budget is only around £30-40 and I haven't the slightest idea about what good what's what etc"

You'll be able to get a reasonably good toy from Ann Summers for £30. For £40 they'll probably wrap it too.

I'd agree with all the other posters about whether that's a suitable gift in the workplace though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh it's only a joke gift not something I'd really expect to be used but I'm not too fussed, and nah she'll see funny side I reckon

If it's a joke, not to be.used, you don't need to spend £30-40 or which is best? Just get a chocolate cock for a couple of quid? But be careful, what you think is innocent fun can turn bad.

The manager are the ones who thought it up, I'm the only guy in the work place btw

Do you mean the managers said you all had to buy sex toys for each other?

Or did they just say do a secret santa?

It was there idea for the dildo/vibrator for herself"

They might not have been serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh it's only a joke gift not something I'd really expect to be used but I'm not too fussed, and nah she'll see funny side I reckon

If it's a joke, not to be.used, you don't need to spend £30-40 or which is best? Just get a chocolate cock for a couple of quid? But be careful, what you think is innocent fun can turn bad.

The manager are the ones who thought it up, I'm the only guy in the work place btw

Do you mean the managers said you all had to buy sex toys for each other?

Or did they just say do a secret santa?

It was there idea for the dildo/vibrator for herself"

Ha. You might have a case against the manager for suggesting it then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ann summers do cheesy little gifts, maybe something like a chocolate willy etc

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Are you sure she'd appreciate a sex toy she may think it's sexual harassment. "

we were thinking just the same x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

For future reference op a dildo goes inside and a vibrator is usually for use on a woman's clitoris but can be used all over...wherever it feels good basically.

In general it's never a good idea to get a gift like that if you don't know for sure that the person will find it amusing or if it's going to to be opened publicly. People will sometimes suggest it jokingly if the person would find it embarrassing not realising that you might take it seriously. Of course I don't know but don't risk it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ann summers do cheesy little gifts, maybe something like a chocolate willy etc "

They do, and 2 years ago, it may possibly have been acceptable. 10 years ago it would have been funny.

In 2017 there needs to be no possible sexual connotation to antics outside of a relationship in the work place.

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