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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? " I think grammer gives an insight into the person using it. Some people are attracted to the educated and intelligent more than looks. It's about a whole connection. Celestine x | |||
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"I have found some messages hard to read with bad grammar and spelling. One guy sent two messages and my head hurt " This is it. When it’s so bad you can’t understand what they mean then yes it’s important and yes occasionally we get messages like this. | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? " Sometimesgrammermattersalotasitshsrdtoreadamessagewithoutit (Sometimes, grammar matters a lot. As it is hard to read a message without it.) | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? I think grammer gives an insight into the person using it. Some people are attracted to the educated and intelligent more than looks. It's about a whole connection. Celestine x" I think the same about grammar. | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? I think grammer gives an insight into the person using it. Some people are attracted to the educated and intelligent more than looks. It's about a whole connection. Celestine x" this | |||
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"I hate text speak and (not that I get any! ) any messages sent lyk dis wud put me ov big tym. it's not difficult to string a half decent sentence together and a few spelling mistakes really doesn't bother me. Conversing like a chav does, however! " Totally get this....I would really question whether someone that messaged me like this would actually turn me on.... | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than an ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? I think grammar gives an insight into the person using it. Some people are attracted to the educated and intelligent more than looks. It's about a whole connection. Celestine x" I strictly go for a decent level of grammar when I contact a local man. To the point that if there is no use of capitalization of their locality I just skip them! Yes, that is Grammar Nazi for you, I admit it! It is not as much about punctuation or spelling, it is more about coherence and that they have made an effort of communicating about themselves, or what they are looking for. I suppose the Original Poster refer to 'ugly' as something exterior? Or a photo? I genuinely could not care less! It is, as Celestine says, about level of education and intelligence. That wins me over! Hence, there is another advantage for me meeting people offline, and not here: I get to let go of my own preconceptions and just meet the person for who they are, for who I have in front of me in that moment! Real Life beats everything! | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? Sometimesgrammermattersalotasitshsrdtoreadamessagewithoutit (Sometimes, grammar matters a lot. As it is hard to read a message without it.) " Surelythatspunctuationnotgrammar | |||
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"Some people won't like this comment but god grammar is important to us. Obviously it doesn't have to be perfect but some people just don't have a clue. Grammar and punctuation makes a huge difference to some sentences.... The difference between helping your Uncle Jack off a horse, and helping your Uncle jack off a horse." ** good grammar, oh the irony lol | |||
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"I hate text speak and (not that I get any! ) any messages sent lyk dis wud put me ov big tym. it's not difficult to string a half decent sentence together and a few spelling mistakes really doesn't bother me. Conversing like a chav does, however! " This! I'm dyslexic, but I always make an effort to write correctly, occasionally my phone takes over & odd words pop in without me noticing. I not a grammar Nazi, but I can't abide the constant use of text talk, and if punctuation isn't used, so something reads as one continuous sentence, then I struggle to read it, and that would put me off. | |||
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"Lazy grammar equals lazy person? " In the case of using text speak it also equals immature person. | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? " shows whether they are educated also if any thoughts gone into message ,its an advert you should care about how you come across,opportunities should not be squandered for many | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? Sometimesgrammermattersalotasitshsrdtoreadamessagewithoutit (Sometimes, grammar matters a lot. As it is hard to read a message without it.) Surelythatspunctuationnotgrammar" Yes, I was too lazy to write enough for grammar to show as badly, however the message about poor grasp of the written language and the effect on comprehension was very obvious by missing punctuation, and spacing. | |||
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" (...) When you feel that wound up by it, that you have to post about it, little chinks in your armour start to develop and we all get a glimpse of your neurosis and superiority complex." Ouch! But I can't deny it, I do think that there's something about your point here. Luckily, even us amateur Grammar Nazis are allowed our human flaws! There's always room for personal development! | |||
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"I am sure that this would not happen if the mode of communication was face to face and not via a screen." That's what I said! | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? " Depends what you're looking for. If someone has absolutely zero ability to wrote a cohesive message, then no matter how hot they are we're likely gonna struggle exchanging enough messages to ever meet the person, and will likely therefore not bother. You don't have to be a scholar, just be proficient enough to be understood without needing your message read through five times, as no grammar seriously ruins the tone of a message too and could end up looking bad anyway. | |||
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"Can't we all just get along. It seems most forum threads these days quickly descend into us and them arguments. I am sure that this would not happen if the mode of communication was face to face and not via a screen. Peace, love and respect to all." Because everyone, us included, has their own bias and agendas. No one wants to feel excluded, so people align themselves (subconsciously) with those they feel share value and qualities they either have it admire. They then defend these ideologies. | |||
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"I am sure that this would not happen if the mode of communication was face to face and not via a screen.That's what I said! " Sorry if I am guilty of plagiarism, it was unintentional. | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? Depends what you're looking for. If someone has absolutely zero ability to wrote a cohesive message, then no matter how hot they are we're likely gonna struggle exchanging enough messages to ever meet the person, and will likely therefore not bother. You don't have to be a scholar, just be proficient enough to be understood without needing your message read through five times, as no grammar seriously ruins the tone of a message too and could end up looking bad anyway." Do you mean coherent? | |||
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"Gives a clue on the type of person you might be meeting. In my experience a correctly spelt message, with good grammer and substance to the message tells me alot about a person. Text talk, poor spelling and "wana fuck me mrs" says to me "theirs a pitball in the hallway, disused sofa on the front garden, jeremy kyle is the family hero and sunday best means clean trekies !" What's a pitball? ? | |||
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" ... Text talk, poor spelling and "wana fuck me mrs" " They even call you Mrs? I never get that in my messages! | |||
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" (...) When you feel that wound up by it, that you have to post about it, little chinks in your armour start to develop and we all get a glimpse of your neurosis and superiority complex. Ouch! But I can't deny it, I do think that there's something about your point here. Luckily, even us amateur Grammar Nazis are allowed our human flaws! There's always room for personal development! " Absolutely! Grammar is important and, I think it's fine to use it as a filter. Not so cool to make a point about how useless one views others who aren't so good at something. I think some people's personal development programs should concentrate more on the self and less on others and, perhaps include a little more tolerance and a lot less criticism. I my self am a work in progress! | |||
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" ... Text talk, poor spelling and "wana fuck me mrs" They even call you Mrs? I never get that in my messages! " I do believe that was in the form the question "would you care to procreate with my good lady wife" but I do believe he intended it to say "madam, would you care to procreate in a safe manner, with oneself?" I can see where poor punctuation could cause a level of confusion... | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 13/12/17 13:43:18]" No, cohesive was correct, it should have just been followed by sentance not message. Explanation: "Coherence is based more on the logic of the ideas and how they are presented rather than on the language that is used to express these ideas. "Cohesion" refers to the degree to which sentences (or even different parts of one sentence) are connected so that the flow of ideas is easy to follow." If I get lost reading a message due to its lack of clear structure, I switch off. Admittedly I shouldn't have used the word message instead of sentance though haha. | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? I think grammer gives an insight into the person using it. Some people are attracted to the educated and intelligent more than looks. It's about a whole connection. What about spelling grammar correctly? Celestine x" | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 13/12/17 13:43:18] No, cohesive was correct, it should have just been followed by sentance not message. " No, it should have been followed by sentence. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 13/12/17 13:43:18] No, cohesive was correct, it should have just been followed by sentance not message. No, it should have been followed by sentence. " Clearly I've typed this wrong enough times that my suggestion is wrong hahaha. Silly me. Touchè. | |||
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"I hate text speak and (not that I get any! ) any messages sent lyk dis wud put me ov big tym. it's not difficult to string a half decent sentence together and a few spelling mistakes really doesn't bother me. Conversing like a chav does, however! " Totally agree with you there. Plus I feel it's a sign of immaturity *mrs | |||
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"If a woman messaged me and said "i wont ta suk yer dick dash" Should i..... A. Say"sorry but your grammar is bad,no thanks".....or B."get those luscious red shiny lips around my throbbing cock"" Never been that lucky so I cannot help you with you quandary. | |||
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"If a woman messaged me and said "i wont ta suk yer dick dash" Should i..... A. Say"sorry but your grammar is bad,no thanks".....or B."get those luscious red shiny lips around my throbbing cock"" Depends. If you were part of a couple, and a guy said "ay fela Ur girl is gawjus fancy letin her cum and suk my jucy cock?" Who's you want her anywhere near him? If you'd be bothered in those circumstances, but not in the one you mentioned, then maybe it's just that you value quantity over quality when it comes to your own pleasure. | |||
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"Gives a clue on the type of person you might be meeting. In my experience a correctly spelt message, with good grammer and substance to the message tells me alot about a person. Text talk, poor spelling and "wana fuck me mrs" says to me "theirs a pitball in the hallway, disused sofa on the front garden, jeremy kyle is the family hero and sunday best means clean trekies ! What's a pitball? ? " Its a staffy type dog that is brilliant at playing football! | |||
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"Gives a clue on the type of person you might be meeting. In my experience a correctly spelt message, with good grammer and substance to the message tells me alot about a person. Text talk, poor spelling and "wana fuck me mrs" says to me "theirs a pitball in the hallway, disused sofa on the front garden, jeremy kyle is the family hero and sunday best means clean trekies !" Does it tell you to NOT meet with them because you bat for the other side. Seriously, this message is a prime example of someone who cannot write English calling others out. Allow me. It gives a clue to the type of person you might meet. In my experience a correctly spelt message,with good grammar and substance,tells me a lot about a person. Text talk, poor spelling and 'Wana fuck me Mrs?' suggests to me, there is a pit bull in the hallway, a disused sofa in the front garden, Jeremy Kyle is the family hero and Sunday-best means clean trackies! You're so un-fuckable now. | |||
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"I really miss my grammar She made amazing roast dinners and her soda stream was the best " Are soda streams rude ? | |||
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"I really miss my grammar She made amazing roast dinners and her soda stream was the best Are soda streams rude ?" My grammars wasn’t | |||
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"I really miss my grammar She made amazing roast dinners and her soda stream was the best " Hahah that's gold! | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? " For those of us who are ugly, good grammar is all we’ve got | |||
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"How many folk would be moaning if; Tom Hardy, Idris Elba were actually Dyslexic?" Being dyslexic and using bad grammar are two completely different things. | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? For those of us who are ugly, good grammar is all we’ve got " ROLF! I like your thinking! And I can identify with it too! | |||
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"How many folk would be moaning if; Tom Hardy, Idris Elba were actually Dyslexic? Being dyslexic and using bad grammar are two completely different things." I have dyslexia and struggle massively with gramma and spellings. The amount of profiles you see moaning “dont contact if you dont no the diffrence between your you’re ect, who cares doesnt make that person any less attractive in my eyes!!! | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? For those of us who are ugly, good grammar is all we’ve got ROLF! I like your thinking! And I can identify with it too!" That's me too. Actually not quite the only thing I've got. | |||
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"If you all spoke proper like what I do it wouldn't be such a fucking problem!" Shouldn't that be speaked proper? | |||
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"How many folk would be moaning if; Tom Hardy, Idris Elba were actually Dyslexic? Being dyslexic and using bad grammar are two completely different things. I have dyslexia and struggle massively with gramma and spellings. The amount of profiles you see moaning “dont contact if you dont no the diffrence between your you’re ect, who cares doesnt make that person any less attractive in my eyes!!! " Makes for a cracking filter though | |||
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"I always enjoy visualising a grammar nazi meeting someone in a club, and having an awesome night. To then receive a misspelt, grammar crash of a message the next day " Happens to amateur Grammar Nazis too! Softens me up a bit each time. | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? " I don't think anyone expects perfect grammar, but it's nice to be able to read a sentence and not have to guess at what was meant. Grammar is just a way to try and increase comprehension through context. For example Let's eat gran. Let's eat, gran. I love her period I love her, period. Man meat tastes so good! Man, meat tastes so good! These are obviously just one type of example, but grammar fails can really fuck up the meaning of a sentence. You can seriously misrepresent yourself if you're not careful, and it's hard to come back from saying the wrong thing if someone takes offence. | |||
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"Grammar will be more important to some than it is to others. I don't care much really and my own grammar isn't up to scratch. I think though that there's a point at which it becomes difficult to understand what's been written, then its important." sometime the only conclusion you can reach is that they must be mad d*unk....spelling matters a tad | |||
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"When it takes longer for you to read than it did for them to write, that can be more than a little annoying." How would you know how long it took to write it? Unless you are referring to text speak. | |||
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"Is grammar important when messaging? I don’t see why there is fuss. Surely a hot man with bad grammar is better than a ugly man with ok grammar? I don’t get it? " Grammar can be important but people asking questions and then falling off the site is more important as to what's up with you. | |||
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"When it takes longer for you to read than it did for them to write, that can be more than a little annoying. How would you know how long it took to write it? Unless you are referring to text speak. " Txt speak was what I had in mind with that point. | |||
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