FabSwingers.com forum: Who will and who wont meet married people.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

The chances of meeting anyone on here are so slim, its not worth worrying about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" The chances of meeting anyone on here are so slim, its not worth worrying about. "

Boom, there's the reality.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Only if their other half is there too or knows about it.

Miss

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts."

Are we talking married and cheating as it seems a strange question to ask on a swingers site?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts.

Are we talking married and cheating as it seems a strange question to ask on a swingers site?"

Not if you're married and cheating!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts.

Are we talking married and cheating as it seems a strange question to ask on a swingers site?"
i can see were you are coming from. I will meet married swingers playing on there own. But not married non swingers

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Always a trick subject, OP...

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By *ornymike_2017Man
over a year ago

Tranmere

I’m in an unusual position. I’m with someone but she is not part of the scene at all but has full knowledge of what I am doing and has full blessing. She does come to social events and a club with me and has met my friends in there. I know there are quite a few who won’t meet guys who are attached but I have it on my profile so I guess it’s all up to individuals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met lots of married women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP..."
very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im seeing a married woman atm and have met them in the past i also never judge etc everyones situation is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there other half knows then yes if there cheating no. Plus we would want a social with both of them before we played to confirm everyone was happy with the arrangement

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts.

Are we talking married and cheating as it seems a strange question to ask on a swingers site?

The OP is 52 years old and can't accommodate.

We're certain he's got a perfectly good reason though."
He has a very good reason for being 52 and cant accomodate. Ask and ye shall find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts."

Why, what's so special about "only on fab"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts.

Are we talking married and cheating as it seems a strange question to ask on a swingers site?

The OP is 52 years old and can't accommodate.

We're certain he's got a perfectly good reason though. He has a very good reason for being 52 and cant accomodate. Ask and ye shall find out"

Are you in a relationship?

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts.

Are we talking married and cheating as it seems a strange question to ask on a swingers site?

The OP is 52 years old and can't accommodate.

We're certain he's got a perfectly good reason though. He has a very good reason for being 52 and cant accomodate. Ask and ye shall find out

Are you in a relationship?"

Hence wanting to find out who will sleep with married people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met married women from here, those with the consent of their partners, those without, and those who would have me believe their partners knew when infact they were lying through their teeth to everyone involved.

I really couldn't give a toss about anybody's situation, just be honest about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met loads of married men , infact most I meet are married , do I get hung up on it ? no its them whos cheating not me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've met married women from here, those with the consent of their partners, those without, and those who would have me believe their partners knew when infact they were lying through their teeth to everyone involved.

I really couldn't give a toss about anybody's situation, just be honest about it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all. "

so why not put it on your profile so people can make an informed choice , not waste their time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts.

Why, what's so special about "only on fab""
people on fab are swingers. Meet for nsa fun. People off fab want relationships.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

so why not put it on your profile so people can make an informed choice , not waste their time?"
This is my second time on fab. My old profile did. This is why im asking the subject. Do people really care. If the majority do i will add it. If majority dont i wont

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

" The chances of meeting anyone on here are so slim, its not worth worrying about. "

Ain't that the truth......??!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

so why not put it on your profile so people can make an informed choice , not waste their time? This is my second time on fab. My old profile did. This is why im asking the subject. Do people really care. If the majority do i will add it. If majority dont i wont"

i would imagine a lot put their preferences regarding attached people quite clearly on their profiles...not that most bother reading them..

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss"
I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes"

Then put it in your profile and save time for those who don't want to meet cheating husbands.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Then put it in your profile and save time for those who don't want to meet cheating husbands. Are thats why its not on my profile. Whoes cheating. People always jump to one conclution if it is. But still just asking

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?"

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I'd meet married women, period. Whether it's with or without their husbands knowledge.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married."

Theres a big difference between a wife knowing you are on here and not op.

You need to clarify which it is i'd say,then still state it on your profile.

I kniw u sya you tell people in a message,but i always look at a profile before a message.

If i saw you were playing away on your profile,it would be deleted right away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married.

Theres a big difference between a wife knowing you are on here and not op.

You need to clarify which it is i'd say,then still state it on your profile.

I kniw u sya you tell people in a message,but i always look at a profile before a message.

If i saw you were playing away on your profile,it would be deleted right away."

Thankyou. This is what im asking. But dont always asum every married man is cheating via his profile

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Then put it in your profile and save time for those who don't want to meet cheating husbands.

He ain't going to do is he,he's a cheat and a lier. Doubt he tells people in a first message why the stuff would he do that,if he can lie to the person that he holds dear in his life,he can lie to a total stranger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Then put it in your profile and save time for those who don't want to meet cheating husbands.

Thankyou for that poster. Please dont always asum we are cheaters. And liers

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People. We are moving away from the question thow. It wasnt will you meet me as a married person. It was who will and who wont meet married people

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Then put it in your profile and save time for those who don't want to meet cheating husbands.

Thankyou for that poster. Please dont always asum we are cheaters. And liers"

No,but it just saves time incase you are. There's enough men on here to choose from without debating whether someone can't accommodate because they're cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what their relationship status is. I won't meet one half of a swinging couple though as they'd be likely to discuss our meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, it's a contentious and, in my opinion, an hypocritical issue!

When what I've seen and witnessed on the Forum there's an hierarchy of being married and the tolerance that's accepted while on here cheating:-

Women: no problem whatsoever, doyennes of the Forum,must be married to an arsehole who deserves all he gets, should've paid her more attention.

Men: seeking men generally no problems, probably accepted by all other bi/gay men and okay with Fab women.

Men: seeking women, absolute bastards, should be strung up, scum of the earth, no excuse whatsoever.

As I said, just my humble opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Then put it in your profile and save time for those who don't want to meet cheating husbands.

Thankyou for that poster. Please dont always asum we are cheaters. And liers"

You asked for advice people are trying to give it. They’ve asked if your wife knows your on here it makes a big difference. You haven’t given a straight answer wether she knows or not so if you don’t want people assuming answer the question..., does your wife know your on here and meeting other people for sex?

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married."

If she knows that you're on a swingers site looking for sex then there's no reason for you not to be able to accommodate.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"People. We are moving away from the question thow. It wasnt will you meet me as a married person. It was who will and who wont meet married people"

It really does sound like you're fishing for males/females who will meet a married man.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

If she knows that you're on a swingers site looking for sex then there's no reason for you not to be able to accommodate. "

Children in the house?

Partner gives consent but not at the house?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Then put it in your profile and save time for those who don't want to meet cheating husbands.

Thankyou for that poster. Please dont always asum we are cheaters. And liers

I'll answer. No she doesn't

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Then put it in your profile and save time for those who don't want to meet cheating husbands.

Thankyou for that poster. Please dont always asum we are cheaters. And liers"

So OP your wife knows full well that you're on here, is perfectly happy with you meeting people for sex and welcomes your honesty over the matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, it's a contentious and, in my opinion, an hypocritical issue!

When what I've seen and witnessed on the Forum there's an hierarchy of being married and the tolerance that's accepted while on here cheating:-

Women: no problem whatsoever, doyennes of the Forum,must be married to an arsehole who deserves all he gets, should've paid her more attention.

Men: seeking men generally no problems, probably accepted by all other bi/gay men and okay with Fab women.

Men: seeking women, absolute bastards, should be strung up, scum of the earth, no excuse whatsoever.

As I said, just my humble opinion!

Now, pushes chair back and tucks into popcorn awaiting the tsunami of vitriol.

You have answered my question well without getting personal. Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Then put it in your profile and save time for those who don't want to meet cheating husbands.

Thankyou for that poster. Please dont always asum we are cheaters. And liers

So OP your wife knows full well that you're on here, is perfectly happy with you meeting people for sex and welcomes your honesty over the matter?"

Ok. Again. The question isnt will you meet me. I could answer to yes or no but it isnt the question. It makes no difference on my circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, it's a contentious and, in my opinion, an hypocritical issue!

When what I've seen and witnessed on the Forum there's an hierarchy of being married and the tolerance that's accepted while on here cheating:-

Women: no problem whatsoever, doyennes of the Forum,must be married to an arsehole who deserves all he gets, should've paid her more attention.

Men: seeking men generally no problems, probably accepted by all other bi/gay men and okay with Fab women.

Men: seeking women, absolute bastards, should be strung up, scum of the earth, no excuse whatsoever.

As I said, just my humble opinion!

Now, pushes chair back and tucks into popcorn awaiting the tsunami of vitriol.

You have answered my question well without getting personal. Thankyou"

No problems, my scars are still healing!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I will meet those who are on here with the full knowledge and consent of their partner but won't knowingly meet those who are cheating.

The reason for this is because I like repeat meets and not just offs. If a partner finds out about their cheating spouse it may bring a whole shit storm of grief my way and I want to avoid this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think I can judge anyone on here...everyone on for their own reasons! I haven’t been in situation to be with someone married or taken yet so can’t say what I’d do until in that position I suppose !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of the married guys say there single away so always hard to tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts."
only if both partners consent to it happening then yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I will meet those who are on here with the full knowledge and consent of their partner but won't knowingly meet those who are cheating.

The reason for this is because I like repeat meets and not just offs. If a partner finds out about their cheating spouse it may bring a whole shit storm of grief my way and I want to avoid this. "

Thankyou for a constructive answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts.

Are we talking married and cheating as it seems a strange question to ask on a swingers site? i can see were you are coming from. I will meet married swingers playing on there own. But not married non swingers"

And the difference is....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, it's a contentious and, in my opinion, an hypocritical issue!

When what I've seen and witnessed on the Forum there's an hierarchy of being married and the tolerance that's accepted while on here cheating:-

Women: no problem whatsoever, doyennes of the Forum,must be married to an arsehole who deserves all he gets, should've paid her more attention.

Men: seeking men generally no problems, probably accepted by all other bi/gay men and okay with Fab women.

Men: seeking women, absolute bastards, should be strung up, scum of the earth, no excuse whatsoever.

As I said, just my humble opinion!

Now, pushes chair back and tucks into popcorn awaiting the tsunami of vitriol.

Very well sums it up indeed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts.

And the difference is....?"

Swingers are here for non complicated fun and not a bunny boiller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married.

If she knows that you're on a swingers site looking for sex then there's no reason for you not to be able to accommodate. "

Just because a partner is aware doesn't mean they may want to know about it or even allow it in their home

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married.

If she knows that you're on a swingers site looking for sex then there's no reason for you not to be able to accommodate.

Just because a partner is aware doesn't mean they may want to know about it or even allow it in their home "

Thankyou poster. This is a good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will....and I have. Assuming we are talking about “singles” and not couples.

Some I knew about before the meet...some I found about later.

Some their hubbies knew...others they didn’t.

I’m quite sure some I didn’t know ?

It’s a swingers site...I don’t judge!

I’m single so it’s no problem for me.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts."

I've had more success meeting married women through sites other than Fab, but I've only met married couples via Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of the "single" guys on here actually have partners at home - have had many wedding pics and "happy family" photos appear on my "people you might know" on Facebook from "single" guys!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"I think most of the "single" guys on here actually have partners at home - have had many wedding pics and "happy family" photos appear on my "people you might know" on Facebook from "single" guys!"

I do wonder where all those folk appear on Facebook from. Now I have the answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of those unusual real single guys..

It's not my place to judge others or what their motivations may be.

The status of others is a matter for them not me even if sometimes it may complicate things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Then put it in your profile and save time for those who don't want to meet cheating husbands.

Thankyou for that poster. Please dont always asum we are cheaters. And liers

So OP your wife knows full well that you're on here, is perfectly happy with you meeting people for sex and welcomes your honesty over the matter?

Ok. Again. The question isnt will you meet me. I could answer to yes or no but it isnt the question. It makes no difference on my circumstances"

of course anyone's circumstances make a difference! As many have already said, if the partner is aware and happy with it, then there's no problem.But if someone does not want, for whatever reason, to meet attached people going behind a partners back, then failing to say you are doing that is lying by default. If you expect people to have any respect for you, then respect their right to chose a meet, as far as is possible, that fits with their criteria, and have the decency to put it on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts.

Why, what's so special about "only on fab" people on fab are swingers. Meet for nsa fun. People off fab want relationships. "

What utter bs. People who cheat on their partners are not swingers. Not everyone in nonfabland want relationships.

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over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married."

Yes it is as the responses show, ie do you swing with wife's knowledge or cheat?

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over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married.

If she knows that you're on a swingers site looking for sex then there's no reason for you not to be able to accommodate.

Just because a partner is aware doesn't mean they may want to know about it or even allow it in their home

Thankyou poster. This is a good reason. "

I bet you wish you had thought of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married.

If she knows that you're on a swingers site looking for sex then there's no reason for you not to be able to accommodate.

Just because a partner is aware doesn't mean they may want to know about it or even allow it in their home

Thankyou poster. This is a good reason.

I bet you wish you had thought of it."

Yes i do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married.

Yes it is as the responses show, ie do you swing with wife's knowledge or cheat?"

Excuss me but you cant accomodate either but im not acusing you of cheating

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over a year ago

"I am yes and never lie. I wear a wedding ring and wont remove it. Just asking thats all.

Yes people want to know the situation ,then its their choice to meet you or not.

Miss I will always tell them in our first messages. No point lying. I wear a ring. If they not up for married men then ok we say our goodbyes

Im confuzzled ,does your other half know then?

Possibly but not the point of this post. Im still married.

Yes it is as the responses show, ie do you swing with wife's knowledge or cheat?

Excuss me but you cant accomodate either but im not acusing you of cheating"

Where have i accused you of cheating?

You can assume I'm cheating if you want as i couldn't care less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single I had a huge thing for a married man, it was the ring I think, I met with a few knowing they were married but it was no more than a social, something stopped me from going further, I have no idea if their other halves knew or not.

I met up and had sex with a fair few others but they never have any information if the were attached or not, as far as I was concerned it was up to them to tell me. I didn’t have a checklist! Geeky x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Will if they are a couple

Won’t if it’s just one of them playing away.

Just our preference

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think"

Majority of who? It’s estimated only 1-2% of Fab members post on here and if all the other threads are anything to take notice of, most people who post don’t knowingly meet attached folk who cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think on an NSA sex site that morality and judgement should be suspended.

It's the old thing.....walk a mile in someone's shoes before you judge them.

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over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

"OP, it's a contentious and, in my opinion, an hypocritical issue!

When what I've seen and witnessed on the Forum there's an hierarchy of being married and the tolerance that's accepted while on here cheating:-

Women: no problem whatsoever, doyennes of the Forum,must be married to an arsehole who deserves all he gets, should've paid her more attention.

Men: seeking men generally no problems, probably accepted by all other bi/gay men and okay with Fab women.

Men: seeking women, absolute bastards, should be strung up, scum of the earth, no excuse whatsoever.

As I said, just my humble opinion!

Now, pushes chair back and tucks into popcorn awaiting the tsunami of vitriol.

There does seem to be a bizarre set of morals on here for people who basically want to fuck or be fucked by others whilst in a relationship. Partners permission or not most people on the outside of this site would still consider that cheating. I'm not judging, it's up to the individuals what they do and if they can justify it to themselves or get away with it without being caught then it's between them and their conscience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

Ok. The ops not cheating. Now you have it. But not what the post was about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet married men as long as they're of a similar ilk to me, that actually applies to all men.

I haven't met just the male half of a swinging couple though.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Would never meet anyone who is married unless their partner knows and is fully supportive. To be honest I always read Profiles of anyone who messages me and I never contact someone in a relationship. I have been cheated on in my marriage would never inflict that kind of upset to another person, Male or Female. Been getting several messages off one guy who openly admits going behind his Wife’s back so blocked his cheating ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet a married person or someone in a relationship no.

But I would meet a woman on a couples profile on her own.

If that makes any sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would meet a married person or someone in a relationship no.

But I would meet a woman on a couples profile on her own.

If that makes any sense"

***wouldn't Meet a married person!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. I will meet married people on fab. Only fab mind you. Whats everbody elses thoughts."

Its a shame some on the thread have tried to personalise it instead of answering the question.

I meet married women for nsa sex, I don't particularly want to know their story, they're the best judge of their individual circumstances.

In fact, most of the women who approach me are married or in some kind of a relationship whether on Fab or in a bar on a night out. Infidelity has been here a lot longer than swinging!

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over a year ago

For all those saying why don't people put it on their profile probably because it can attract a right load of abuse.

When I 1st joined I received some right shitty messages so I removed it & told people via a pm instead.

Nowadays I don't give a flying fuck what a bunch of random people think so I stuck it back on.

And tell you what, what people say on a public forum on threads like this and what they message me can be poles apart, it's laughable at times

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over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

Ok. The ops not cheating. Now you have it. But not what the post was about"

it is relevant though...you keep just ignoring the answers to your question that you don't like. You seem to be saying its none of anyone's business and shouldn't matter as people are here for NSA, but,while the why & wherefores are no one's business, if they have specified a preference not to meet attached people, then , yes it their business to be told and not lied to.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

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"For all those saying why don't people put it on their profile probably because it can attract a right load of abuse.

When I 1st joined I received some right shitty messages so I removed it & told people via a pm instead.

Nowadays I don't give a flying fuck what a bunch of random people think so I stuck it back on.

And tell you what, what people say on a public forum on threads like this and what they message me can be poles apart, it's laughable at times

Agreed

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over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

Ok. The ops not cheating. Now you have it. But not what the post was about

No it isnt relevant. Your answer is that you wont knowingly meet cheats. Simple. The Ops personal situation is non of your business unless he's trying to meet you.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Will not meet cheating wives but if the husband is happy for me too then i certainly am

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over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

Ok. The ops not cheating. Now you have it. But not what the post was about"

The responses have made it about that. You cannot rule how people respond.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

Ok. The ops not cheating. Now you have it. But not what the post was about

No it isnt relevant. Your answer is that you wont knowingly meet cheats. Simple. The Ops personal situation is non of your business unless he's trying to meet you. "

yes, that's what i've just said! but by removing it from his profile he is already taking the choice away from people to make up their own minds from the minute they are messaged.

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over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

Ok. The ops not cheating. Now you have it. But not what the post was about

No it isnt relevant. Your answer is that you wont knowingly meet cheats. Simple. The Ops personal situation is non of your business unless he's trying to meet you.

yes, that's what i've just said! but by removing it from his profile he is already taking the choice away from people to make up their own minds from the minute they are messaged."

His profile has nothing to do with your preferences. He's not trying to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is lots of women and men meeting behind their partners backs,me included but I dont judge nor expect to be judge but I am up front with others about my relationship with my partner ( and no she doesn't know) I think it's a case of either you will or won't meet, it's how you feel at the time, as for me Im happy to meet someone in a relationship

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Will not meet cheating wives but if the husband is happy for me too then i certainly am

That's refreshing to hear from a man actually,most seem not to bother.

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over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

Ok. The ops not cheating. Now you have it. But not what the post was about

No it isnt relevant. Your answer is that you wont knowingly meet cheats. Simple. The Ops personal situation is non of your business unless he's trying to meet you.

yes, that's what i've just said! but by removing it from his profile he is already taking the choice away from people to make up their own minds from the minute they are messaged.

His profile has nothing to do with your preferences. He's not trying to meet you. "

i havent mentioned my preferences or profile anywhere. I was talking in general, as is obvious.

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over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

Ok. The ops not cheating. Now you have it. But not what the post was about

No it isnt relevant. Your answer is that you wont knowingly meet cheats. Simple. The Ops personal situation is non of your business unless he's trying to meet you.

yes, that's what i've just said! but by removing it from his profile he is already taking the choice away from people to make up their own minds from the minute they are messaged.

His profile has nothing to do with your preferences. He's not trying to meet you. "

The OP's profile and/ or situation is irrelevant and shouldn't be commented on. He's asking a general question, not a question about his personal situation.

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over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

Ok. The ops not cheating. Now you have it. But not what the post was about

No it isnt relevant. Your answer is that you wont knowingly meet cheats. Simple. The Ops personal situation is non of your business unless he's trying to meet you.

yes, that's what i've just said! but by removing it from his profile he is already taking the choice away from people to make up their own minds from the minute they are messaged.

His profile has nothing to do with your preferences. He's not trying to meet you.

The OP's profile and/ or situation is irrelevant and shouldn't be commented on. He's asking a general question, not a question about his personal situation. "

He stated to ask in the thread.

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over a year ago

"Always a trick subject, OP... very tricky. But thats why im asking it. To see what the majority think

And the fact that the OP admits he's married but won't reveal whether his wife knows or not, leads me to suspect he is cheating. Oh wow we have cheaters on the site - who'd have thunked it

Ok. The ops not cheating. Now you have it. But not what the post was about

No it isnt relevant. Your answer is that you wont knowingly meet cheats. Simple. The Ops personal situation is non of your business unless he's trying to meet you.

yes, that's what i've just said! but by removing it from his profile he is already taking the choice away from people to make up their own minds from the minute they are messaged.

His profile has nothing to do with your preferences. He's not trying to meet you.

The OP's profile and/ or situation is irrelevant and shouldn't be commented on. He's asking a general question, not a question about his personal situation. "

Since when did people refrain from doing that on this type of thread. Pitchfork at the ready to out the 'cheating b*stard'....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well people. Im off to work now. On nights. This has def been interesting on a cold dull monday and no offence was meant or taken. All enjoy fab and yes you all make your own decisions.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Op I meet..... whoever I fancy

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Am one of those horrible cheats. I do admit that.

Has it stopped me having fun on Fab? Not at all.

Admittedly I do not think I'm having as much as if I was single and could accommodate but I knew that when I joined.