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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So for the first time ever on here I've had a guy make nasty comments about the other guys I've met just because I don't want to meet him.

Do Guys(and girls) probably not realise it makes them look like children and is extremely unattractive

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Welcome to Fab where men are men..

Sorry, scrub that..

Where men are twats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for the first time ever on here I've had a guy make nasty comments about the other guys I've met just because I don't want to meet him.

Do Guys(and girls) probably not realise it makes them look like children and is extremely unattractive "

Jealousy is such an unattractive trait and this guy has just proved it.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

It's not imo. What is unattractive is the way the go about making it known that they're jealous . Jealously itself can be flattering at times

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

lucky you found what he was like of you'd of meet him. ..

Lucky escape. .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The strangest ones are the ones that give you nasty comments before you even knock them back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid is as stupid does..

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


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Do Guys(and girls) probably not realise it makes them look like children and is extremely unattractive "

Obviously not, or then again maybe they do, and expect others to feel sorry for them, playing the victim, guilt trip, sympathy even.

Either way, it's a ridiculous way for a supposedly grown adult to behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to get your priorities sorted! How very dare you say no to someone you don't like/fancy. Get back on to him and message him saying sorry and you will be round to his to make up for your mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fab where men are men..

Sorry, scrub that..

Where men are twats! "

I don't consider myself a twat and everyone I've spoken to here have all said I'm decent. There are many decent men here so it's probably best not to generalize because that would make you a twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for the first time ever on here I've had a guy make nasty comments about the other guys I've met just because I don't want to meet him.

Do Guys(and girls) probably not realise it makes them look like children and is extremely unattractive "

its quite common in this lifestyle best to keep much of what you do to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't make a nasty comment and if I received one it's very easy to delete and block and move on, it can be reported if needed.

Keyboards give some people the licence to behave in ways they wouldn't personally.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Welcome to Fab where men are men..

Sorry, scrub that..

Where men are twats! "

...only some men x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fab where men are men..

Sorry, scrub that..

Where men are twats!

...only some men x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fab where men are men..

Sorry, scrub that..

Where men are twats!

...only some men x "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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There’s always going to be the odd one to spoil it but overall I think the guys are great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s always going to be the odd one to spoil it but overall I think the guys are great "
let's hear it for the boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to put a different view on this ... there are some very immature bully type women on here too ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And to put a different view on this ... there are some very immature bully type women on here too ... "
yes the green eyed monster goes both ways

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By *empted123Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Its sad to say there are a lot of men women and couples on fab that are not really swingers.They don't know what swinging is all about and cant handle rejection or the fact you have met others.Just block move on and have fun with all the good genuine people on here the majority are fantastic.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"Welcome to Fab where men are men..

Sorry, scrub that..

Where men are twats! I don't consider myself a twat and everyone I've spoken to here have all said I'm decent. There are many decent men here so it's probably best not to generalize because that would make you a twat"

There are many decent people here, it's unfortunate that there is a very high percentage of men who cannot handle rejection of any form and instantly turn nasty.

It's easy to tar everyone with that same brush and so we get the inevitable threads like this where all the decent guys will post defending themselves; they are nothing like those nasty cads.

Face facts, it has already been ruined for the decent guys, there have been threads on that very subject in the last few days.

So it would seem all guys are guilty until they can prove themselves innocent..Why?

Because nastiness is so prolific that we are all being tarred and generalised into one group... "men"

Apologies if you took my tongue in cheek comment as an aspersion of your good character, it was not aimed at you personally, it was aimed at the large and prolific group who feel abuse and bullying is acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And to put a different view on this ... there are some very immature bully type women on here too ... "

I know that's why I said girls in brackets.

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