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"Never had a knock back" For arguments sake let’s say you did, how would you respond? Do you think men have the right to say no without getting abuse? | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
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"Fancy a fuck   "Yes please 
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"There are women on fab ??? "Yes there are, hello | |||
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"Fancy a fuck
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(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )"Hang on this isn’t that type of thread  | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
What is FAF?
Fancy a fuck "oh I get plenty of those messages lol | |||
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"Nobody enjoys rejection. Some people handle it better than others, regardless of their sex. In my experience there are many hypocrites on this site." There certainly are  | |||
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"Fancy a fuck
Yes please
(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )
Hang on this isn’t that type of thread "I know ... sorry
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"Men are well within their rights to refuse women.... I've been knocked back both on here and off. I don't presume that every man I take a liking to feels the same, however much I might wish they did. Have I always handled it well? Probably not but I wouldn't abuse said person. I'd get d*unk and moan to my friends "Yes you seem to have a liking for wine | |||
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"Fancy a fuck
Yes please
(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )
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I know ... sorry
Sometimes you have to just try! "You need to be first in line on the confessional thread tomorrow | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often "Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here | |||
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"Fancy a fuck
Yes please
(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )
Hang on this isn’t that type of thread
I know ... sorry
Sometimes you have to just try!
You need to be first in line on the confessional thread tomorrow "Yes ma'am | |||
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"Men are well within their rights to refuse women.... I've been knocked back both on here and off. I don't presume that every man I take a liking to feels the same, however much I might wish they did. Have I always handled it well? Probably not but I wouldn't abuse said person. I'd get d*unk and moan to my friends
Yes you seem to have a liking for wine " | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here "That should have been cave | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here "How's that fire coming along? | |||
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"On a more intelligent note... I hope. Men have choices too. And while no one enjoys being turned down I don't think men or women are that different and maybe our reactions are not thst different, even if they may be expressed differently. If there's no connection no attraction none of the triggers that make people relate to each other then both men and women are likely to make judgements about others on what they read see or even feel about a girl. Those intangibles may be different between men and women the triggers may be different but they do drive our connections. If you don't get inside my mind make my tackle tremble my brain race and my imagination run wild then where is the incentive to meet? If you do... " Nope, a lot of men have no choices at all. I'm one of them. I'be been here 6 months now and never received a message from a woman. Go to my profile to find out why there are so many men like this. One of the reasons men can't take no for an answer is because they are turned down by women who are actually lower in sexual market value than they are. Most women are easily able to punch well above their weight. If your'e interested in why this is just have a a read. | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here "What is? | |||
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"Fancy a fuck
Yes please
(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )"I would alas your to far | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here
How's that fire coming along? "Logs are burning. Dinosaurs roasting and I've just managed to wreck a ship on the rocks so I'll be ok for a drink or three. | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here
What is? "Ohh err mumble shuffle... Sister Lisa will be busy in the morning | |||
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"Fancy a fuck
Yes please
(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )
I would alas your to far"Story of my fab life | |||
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"On a more intelligent note... I hope. Men have choices too. And while no one enjoys being turned down I don't think men or women are that different and maybe our reactions are not thst different, even if they may be expressed differently. If there's no connection no attraction none of the triggers that make people relate to each other then both men and women are likely to make judgements about others on what they read see or even feel about a girl. Those intangibles may be different between men and women the triggers may be different but they do drive our connections. If you don't get inside my mind make my tackle tremble my brain race and my imagination run wild then where is the incentive to meet? If you do... Nope, a lot of men have no choices at all. I'm one of them. I'be been here 6 months now and never received a message from a woman. Go to my profile to find out why there are so many men like this. One of the reasons men can't take no for an answer is because they are turned down by women who are actually lower in sexual market value than they are. Most women are easily able to punch well above their weight. If your'e interested in why this is just have a a read. " Sexual market value???
*checks self for price tag....* | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here
How's that fire coming along?
Logs are burning. Dinosaurs roasting and I've just managed to wreck a ship on the rocks so I'll be ok for a drink or three. "Keep me a leg!  | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here
What is?
Ohh err mumble shuffle...
Sister Lisa will be busy in the morning "Really I have nothing to confess ... I'm just being me | |||
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"Fancy a fuck
Yes please
(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )
I would alas your to far
Story of my fab life "I may get down that way I'll look you up | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here
How's that fire coming along?
Logs are burning. Dinosaurs roasting and I've just managed to wreck a ship on the rocks so I'll be ok for a drink or three.
Keep me a leg! "Just the one | |||
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"Fancy a fuck
Yes please
(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )
I would alas your to far
Story of my fab life
I may get down that way I'll look you up " | |||
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He said no I was going to send another message that could be unwanted | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here
How's that fire coming along?
Logs are burning. Dinosaurs roasting and I've just managed to wreck a ship on the rocks so I'll be ok for a drink or three.
Keep me a leg!
Just the one "How big is the Dinosaur?? If its a t-rex deffo just the one... | |||
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"On a more intelligent note... I hope. Men have choices too. And while no one enjoys being turned down I don't think men or women are that different and maybe our reactions are not thst different, even if they may be expressed differently. If there's no connection no attraction none of the triggers that make people relate to each other then both men and women are likely to make judgements about others on what they read see or even feel about a girl. Those intangibles may be different between men and women the triggers may be different but they do drive our connections. If you don't get inside my mind make my tackle tremble my brain race and my imagination run wild then where is the incentive to meet? If you do... Nope, a lot of men have no choices at all. I'm one of them. I'be been here 6 months now and never received a message from a woman. Go to my profile to find out why there are so many men like this. One of the reasons men can't take no for an answer is because they are turned down by women who are actually lower in sexual market value than they are. Most women are easily able to punch well above their weight. If your'e interested in why this is just have a a read. Sexual market value???
*checks self for price tag....*"Yeah I read it too
I'm struggling a bit with the idea of people as commodities.
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"Fancy a fuck
Yes please
(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )
I would alas your to far
Story of my fab life
I may get down that way I'll look you up
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here
How's that fire coming along?
Logs are burning. Dinosaurs roasting and I've just managed to wreck a ship on the rocks so I'll be ok for a drink or three.
Keep me a leg!
Just the one
How big is the Dinosaur?? If its a t-rex deffo just the one... "Oh! A dinosaur leg  | |||
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"Women send the first message?? That's blown my mind "And people on here tell me to get out more! | |||
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"Fancy a fuck
Yes please
(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )
I would alas your to far
Story of my fab life
I may get down that way I'll look you up
Why you blushing x"*whispers* cos I know I'm not that hot | |||
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"Men get FAF messages
Some do yes, you need to leave your cage more often
Waves from the beach. Ohh it's big out here
How's that fire coming along?
Logs are burning. Dinosaurs roasting and I've just managed to wreck a ship on the rocks so I'll be ok for a drink or three.
Keep me a leg!
Just the one
How big is the Dinosaur?? If its a t-rex deffo just the one...
Oh! A dinosaur leg "Was there something else on offer? | |||
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"Sexual market value???
*checks self for price tag....*"I’m in the bargain bin | |||
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"How is it received? Do you feel like you’re supposed to say yes regardless? Any other thoughts on the subject or negative things you’ve experienced after saying no? I've had a few conversations on this topic in the past couple of days. I was quite shocked to discover that ‘no’ really isn’t acceptable when a guy receives a FAF from a female. There are many threads with women complaining about men not accepting no gracefully and it appears women are just as guilty. I don’t just mean via messages but at group socials too. " I think it's just people rather than gender. I've turned people down politely and they've got shirty or tried to change my mind as well as accepting it gracefully. I've also been turned down, always politely, and would like to think I fall into the graceful category. There is no point in doing otherwise in my opinion; I've been on the receiving end of those who forget that there is a person on the other end of a profile with a real life and choices so I don't understand why anyone else wouldn't at least try and do the same. | |||
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"Sexual market value???
*checks self for price tag....*
I’m in the bargain bin "That’s nothing... we’re bogof ! | |||
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"Women send the first message?? That's blown my mind
And people on here tell me to get out more! "What is this out that you speak of? | |||
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"Sexual market value???
*checks self for price tag....*
I’m in the bargain bin
That’s nothing... we’re bogof !"Maybe someone will get us with club card points or something, then it’s like free | |||
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"Women send the first message?? That's blown my mind "I would but distance shows it would be fruitless  | |||
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"Fancy a fuck
Yes please
(Didn't want to waste that opportunity )
I would alas your to far
Story of my fab life
I may get down that way I'll look you up
Why you blushing x
*whispers* cos I know I'm not that hot "Can't message you just out of age range | |||
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"i have made contact first and got the silence treatment after sending a cock I mean I face pic. I prefer that to them saying let's meet just because I have a vagina. " Very true | |||
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"Women send the first message?? That's blown my mind
I would but distance shows it would be fruitless "Damn | |||
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"Women send the first message?? That's blown my mind
And people on here tell me to get out more!
What is this out that you speak of? "It's when pink panther let's you out of the cage | |||
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"Women send the first message?? That's blown my mind
I would but distance shows it would be fruitless
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"Men get FAF messages
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Fancy a fuck oh I get plenty of those messages lol "I always thought that meant fit as f*ck x | |||
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"On a more intelligent note... I hope. Men have choices too. And while no one enjoys being turned down I don't think men or women are that different and maybe our reactions are not thst different, even if they may be expressed differently. If there's no connection no attraction none of the triggers that make people relate to each other then both men and women are likely to make judgements about others on what they read see or even feel about a girl. Those intangibles may be different between men and women the triggers may be different but they do drive our connections. If you don't get inside my mind make my tackle tremble my brain race and my imagination run wild then where is the incentive to meet? If you do... Nope, a lot of men have no choices at all. I'm one of them. I'be been here 6 months now and never received a message from a woman. Go to my profile to find out why there are so many men like this. One of the reasons men can't take no for an answer is because they are turned down by women who are actually lower in sexual market value than they are. Most women are easily able to punch well above their weight. If your'e interested in why this is just have a a read. " I read it all. What violent revolution do you imagine will happen from the menfolk? | |||
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"Women send the first message?? That's blown my mind
I would but distance shows it would be fruitless
Damn
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"I think men have every right to refuse a woman if she’s not what they’re interested in, for whatever reason. Nobody likes rejection but if we’re adult enough to be on here we should be able to deal with rejection "It shouldn't even be someone's opinion. IT IS ACCEPTABLE for a man to reject a woman. | |||
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"How is it received? Do you feel like you’re supposed to say yes regardless? Any other thoughts on the subject or negative things you’ve experienced after saying no? I've had a few conversations on this topic in the past couple of days. I was quite shocked to discover that ‘no’ really isn’t acceptable when a guy receives a FAF from a female. There are many threads with women complaining about men not accepting no gracefully and it appears women are just as guilty. I don’t just mean via messages but at group socials too. I think it's just people rather than gender. I've turned people down politely and they've got shirty or tried to change my mind as well as accepting it gracefully. I've also been turned down, always politely, and would like to think I fall into the graceful category. There is no point in doing otherwise in my opinion; I've been on the receiving end of those who forget that there is a person on the other end of a profile with a real life and choices so I don't understand why anyone else wouldn't at least try and do the same." It's scary how many people forget there's a real person behind every profile. Or maybe they just don't care as long as they get laid. 
To answer the OP- I think many women get an unrealistic view of their attractiveness due to the attention they get on here. Ego trips etc. Hypocrisy indeed when they slag off men for treating them like sex objects but do the same in return. | |||
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"Women normally take a knock back hard, but try not to show it and try act as normal as possible. They are not like men they wont message you back saying "ya fat ugly cunt, didnt want you anyway". They might message a friend saying they got rejected though." Only an insecure woman will take a knock back like that th rest of us think “ok onto the next” as we know we can be for everyone | |||
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"Why would a man feel like he has to say yes regardless? It's a vag, they're common as fuck, loads of them, they're not rare or special particularly Sit up, beg, roll over, heel? No thanks, I prefer not to climb any pedestals for the sake of sex that won't be any better than with anyone down here "Good for you sweetie! TBH I think the women on here would be far better off if all guys were the same! Xx | |||
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"I think men have every right to refuse a woman if she’s not what they’re interested in, for whatever reason. Nobody likes rejection but if we’re adult enough to be on here we should be able to deal with rejection
It shouldn't even be someone's opinion. IT IS ACCEPTABLE for a man to reject a woman. "Of course it is ... both ways around ... so long as whoever is rejecting is not abusive | |||
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"On a more intelligent note... I hope. Men have choices too. And while no one enjoys being turned down I don't think men or women are that different and maybe our reactions are not thst different, even if they may be expressed differently. If there's no connection no attraction none of the triggers that make people relate to each other then both men and women are likely to make judgements about others on what they read see or even feel about a girl. Those intangibles may be different between men and women the triggers may be different but they do drive our connections. If you don't get inside my mind make my tackle tremble my brain race and my imagination run wild then where is the incentive to meet? If you do... Nope, a lot of men have no choices at all. I'm one of them. I'be been here 6 months now and never received a message from a woman. Go to my profile to find out why there are so many men like this. One of the reasons men can't take no for an answer is because they are turned down by women who are actually lower in sexual market value than they are. Most women are easily able to punch well above their weight. If your'e interested in why this is just have a a read. I read it all. What violent revolution do you imagine will happen from the menfolk?" I don't think it will be an organised revolution, rather an increase in violent crime. TImothy Mcveigh and Elliot Rodger are two such (extreme) examples of what happens to some men when their desires aren't fulfilled. (Let me just say that in no way are women to blame for any of this - in fact it is entirely mens fault). Most guys will just suffer silently and continue commiting suicide, but I think society will descend into chaos in a number of ways, one of them being violent crime. When your value as a male is continually devalued, your rights are taken from you, your opportunities stripped and the legal system is against you, there's only so much the population can take before it decides enough is enough. | |||
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"On a more intelligent note... I hope. Men have choices too. And while no one enjoys being turned down I don't think men or women are that different and maybe our reactions are not thst different, even if they may be expressed differently. If there's no connection no attraction none of the triggers that make people relate to each other then both men and women are likely to make judgements about others on what they read see or even feel about a girl. Those intangibles may be different between men and women the triggers may be different but they do drive our connections. If you don't get inside my mind make my tackle tremble my brain race and my imagination run wild then where is the incentive to meet? If you do... Nope, a lot of men have no choices at all. I'm one of them. I'be been here 6 months now and never received a message from a woman. Go to my profile to find out why there are so many men like this. One of the reasons men can't take no for an answer is because they are turned down by women who are actually lower in sexual market value than they are. Most women are easily able to punch well above their weight. If your'e interested in why this is just have a a read. I read it all. What violent revolution do you imagine will happen from the menfolk? I don't think it will be an organised revolution, rather an increase in violent crime. TImothy Mcveigh and Elliot Rodger are two such (extreme) examples of what happens to some men when their desires aren't fulfilled. (Let me just say that in no way are women to blame for any of this - in fact it is entirely mens fault). Most guys will just suffer silently and continue commiting suicide, but I think society will descend into chaos in a number of ways, one of them being violent crime. When your value as a male is continually devalued, your rights are taken from you, your opportunities stripped and the legal system is against you, there's only so much the population can take before it decides enough is enough. " But society hasn't descended into chaos before now? Not sure why it'd be different for men than women. | |||
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"How is it received? Do you feel like you’re supposed to say yes regardless? Any other thoughts on the subject or negative things you’ve experienced after saying no? I've had a few conversations on this topic in the past couple of days. I was quite shocked to discover that ‘no’ really isn’t acceptable when a guy receives a FAF from a female. There are many threads with women complaining about men not accepting no gracefully and it appears women are just as guilty. I don’t just mean via messages but at group socials too. I think it's just people rather than gender. I've turned people down politely and they've got shirty or tried to change my mind as well as accepting it gracefully. I've also been turned down, always politely, and would like to think I fall into the graceful category. There is no point in doing otherwise in my opinion; I've been on the receiving end of those who forget that there is a person on the other end of a profile with a real life and choices so I don't understand why anyone else wouldn't at least try and do the same. It's scary how many people forget there's a real person behind every profile. Or maybe they just don't care as long as they get laid.
To answer the OP- I think many women get an unrealistic view of their attractiveness due to the attention they get on here. Ego trips etc. Hypocrisy indeed when they slag off men for treating them like sex objects but do the same in return. "Nail on the head there! And the most ironic part of all this? The women complaining about being objectified and used are objectifying themselves. Just go to fuckbook/snapfuck/instafuck etc. Tits and asses everywhere with no context. | |||
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"Only an insecure woman will take a knock back like that th rest of us think “ok onto the next” as we know we can be for everyone " Most women on here are insecure. | |||
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"On a more intelligent note... I hope. Men have choices too. And while no one enjoys being turned down I don't think men or women are that different and maybe our reactions are not thst different, even if they may be expressed differently. If there's no connection no attraction none of the triggers that make people relate to each other then both men and women are likely to make judgements about others on what they read see or even feel about a girl. Those intangibles may be different between men and women the triggers may be different but they do drive our connections. If you don't get inside my mind make my tackle tremble my brain race and my imagination run wild then where is the incentive to meet? If you do... Nope, a lot of men have no choices at all. I'm one of them. I'be been here 6 months now and never received a message from a woman. Go to my profile to find out why there are so many men like this. One of the reasons men can't take no for an answer is because they are turned down by women who are actually lower in sexual market value than they are. Most women are easily able to punch well above their weight. If your'e interested in why this is just have a a read. I read it all. What violent revolution do you imagine will happen from the menfolk? I don't think it will be an organised revolution, rather an increase in violent crime. TImothy Mcveigh and Elliot Rodger are two such (extreme) examples of what happens to some men when their desires aren't fulfilled. (Let me just say that in no way are women to blame for any of this - in fact it is entirely mens fault). Most guys will just suffer silently and continue commiting suicide, but I think society will descend into chaos in a number of ways, one of them being violent crime. When your value as a male is continually devalued, your rights are taken from you, your opportunities stripped and the legal system is against you, there's only so much the population can take before it decides enough is enough. But society hasn't descended into chaos before now? Not sure why it'd be different for men than women." Never before in history have men been the subject of regulation when it comes to their sexuality. Womens choices are subsidized while mens are regulated. | |||
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"On a more intelligent note... I hope. Men have choices too. And while no one enjoys being turned down I don't think men or women are that different and maybe our reactions are not thst different, even if they may be expressed differently. If there's no connection no attraction none of the triggers that make people relate to each other then both men and women are likely to make judgements about others on what they read see or even feel about a girl. Those intangibles may be different between men and women the triggers may be different but they do drive our connections. If you don't get inside my mind make my tackle tremble my brain race and my imagination run wild then where is the incentive to meet? If you do... Nope, a lot of men have no choices at all. I'm one of them. I'be been here 6 months now and never received a message from a woman. Go to my profile to find out why there are so many men like this. One of the reasons men can't take no for an answer is because they are turned down by women who are actually lower in sexual market value than they are. Most women are easily able to punch well above their weight. If your'e interested in why this is just have a a read. I read it all. What violent revolution do you imagine will happen from the menfolk? I don't think it will be an organised revolution, rather an increase in violent crime. TImothy Mcveigh and Elliot Rodger are two such (extreme) examples of what happens to some men when their desires aren't fulfilled. (Let me just say that in no way are women to blame for any of this - in fact it is entirely mens fault). Most guys will just suffer silently and continue commiting suicide, but I think society will descend into chaos in a number of ways, one of them being violent crime. When your value as a male is continually devalued, your rights are taken from you, your opportunities stripped and the legal system is against you, there's only so much the population can take before it decides enough is enough. " It's a strange world already. Lots of frustrated people. I think you're right and it's already been happening. | |||
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"Only an insecure woman will take a knock back like that th rest of us think “ok onto the next” as we know we can be for everyone Most women on here are insecure." That's the reason social media has become so prolific. Snapchat/insta/twitter/facebook, all platforms used by women for instant validation and attention. They use likes/comments/subscribes as a currency in a fucked up ponzi scheme to magically inflate their value in the sexual marketplace. And the weak willed desperate men feeding them are to blame. | |||
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"On a more intelligent note... I hope. Men have choices too. And while no one enjoys being turned down I don't think men or women are that different and maybe our reactions are not thst different, even if they may be expressed differently. If there's no connection no attraction none of the triggers that make people relate to each other then both men and women are likely to make judgements about others on what they read see or even feel about a girl. Those intangibles may be different between men and women the triggers may be different but they do drive our connections. If you don't get inside my mind make my tackle tremble my brain race and my imagination run wild then where is the incentive to meet? If you do... Nope, a lot of men have no choices at all. I'm one of them. I'be been here 6 months now and never received a message from a woman. Go to my profile to find out why there are so many men like this. One of the reasons men can't take no for an answer is because they are turned down by women who are actually lower in sexual market value than they are. Most women are easily able to punch well above their weight. If your'e interested in why this is just have a a read. I read it all. What violent revolution do you imagine will happen from the menfolk? I don't think it will be an organised revolution, rather an increase in violent crime. TImothy Mcveigh and Elliot Rodger are two such (extreme) examples of what happens to some men when their desires aren't fulfilled. (Let me just say that in no way are women to blame for any of this - in fact it is entirely mens fault). Most guys will just suffer silently and continue commiting suicide, but I think society will descend into chaos in a number of ways, one of them being violent crime. When your value as a male is continually devalued, your rights are taken from you, your opportunities stripped and the legal system is against you, there's only so much the population can take before it decides enough is enough. But society hasn't descended into chaos before now? Not sure why it'd be different for men than women. Never before in history have men been the subject of regulation when it comes to their sexuality. Womens choices are subsidized while mens are regulated. " And sadly a few people still believe this. | |||
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"Only an insecure woman will take a knock back like that th rest of us think “ok onto the next” as we know we can be for everyone Most women on here are insecure." Or insane | |||
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"Only an insecure woman will take a knock back like that th rest of us think “ok onto the next” as we know we can be for everyone Most women on here are insecure." No most msygonistic men just like to believe that’s the case | |||
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"How is it received? Do you feel like you’re supposed to say yes regardless? Any other thoughts on the subject or negative things you’ve experienced after saying no? I've had a few conversations on this topic in the past couple of days. I was quite shocked to discover that ‘no’ really isn’t acceptable when a guy receives a FAF from a female. There are many threads with women complaining about men not accepting no gracefully and it appears women are just as guilty. I don’t just mean via messages but at group socials too. I think it's just people rather than gender. I've turned people down politely and they've got shirty or tried to change my mind as well as accepting it gracefully. I've also been turned down, always politely, and would like to think I fall into the graceful category. There is no point in doing otherwise in my opinion; I've been on the receiving end of those who forget that there is a person on the other end of a profile with a real life and choices so I don't understand why anyone else wouldn't at least try and do the same. It's scary how many people forget there's a real person behind every profile. Or maybe they just don't care as long as they get laid.
To answer the OP- I think many women get an unrealistic view of their attractiveness due to the attention they get on here. Ego trips etc. Hypocrisy indeed when they slag off men for treating them like sex objects but do the same in return.
Nail on the head there! And the most ironic part of all this? The women complaining about being objectified and used are objectifying themselves. Just go to fuckbook/snapfuck/instafuck etc. Tits and asses everywhere with no context." Naked/ semi naked pics and sex chat on profiles but then demanding a chat about something original and non sexual with a minimum of 180 words. | |||
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"On a more intelligent note... I hope. Men have choices too. And while no one enjoys being turned down I don't think men or women are that different and maybe our reactions are not thst different, even if they may be expressed differently. If there's no connection no attraction none of the triggers that make people relate to each other then both men and women are likely to make judgements about others on what they read see or even feel about a girl. Those intangibles may be different between men and women the triggers may be different but they do drive our connections. If you don't get inside my mind make my tackle tremble my brain race and my imagination run wild then where is the incentive to meet? If you do... Nope, a lot of men have no choices at all. I'm one of them. I'be been here 6 months now and never received a message from a woman. Go to my profile to find out why there are so many men like this. One of the reasons men can't take no for an answer is because they are turned down by women who are actually lower in sexual market value than they are. Most women are easily able to punch well above their weight. If your'e interested in why this is just have a a read. " Blimey. Some must be very strong then | |||
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"Only an insecure woman will take a knock back like that th rest of us think “ok onto the next” as we know we can be for everyone Most women on here are insecure. Or insane
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"Only an insecure woman will take a knock back like that th rest of us think “ok onto the next” as we know we can be for everyone Most women on here are insecure." Most? Of course you have no evidence to back that up. | |||
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"I think men have every right to refuse a woman if she’s not what they’re interested in, for whatever reason. Nobody likes rejection but if we’re adult enough to be on here we should be able to deal with rejection
It shouldn't even be someone's opinion. IT IS ACCEPTABLE for a man to reject a woman. "My opinion doesn’t make it right or wrong, I was merely giving my opinion. Obviously men can reject whoever they want. That would be what’s known as common sense and therefore a given. | |||
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"Only an insecure woman will take a knock back like that th rest of us think “ok onto the next” as we know we can be for everyone Most women on here are insecure. Most? Of course you have no evidence to back that up. " Perhaps he would like to share that evidence? | |||
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"Only an insecure woman will take a knock back like that th rest of us think “ok onto the next” as we know we can be for everyone Most women on here are insecure. Most? Of course you have no evidence to back that up. Perhaps he would like to share that evidence?" I doubt it. Sweeping generalisations are the way we like to work on the forums. If it’s on here it must be true | |||
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Cuckoo cuckoo
I rest my case
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"Never had a knock back For arguments sake let’s say you did, how would you respond? Do you think men have the right to say no without getting abuse? " Of course they do. | |||
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"How is it received? Do you feel like you’re supposed to say yes regardless? Any other thoughts on the subject or negative things you’ve experienced after saying no? I've had a few conversations on this topic in the past couple of days. I was quite shocked to discover that ‘no’ really isn’t acceptable when a guy receives a FAF from a female. There are many threads with women complaining about men not accepting no gracefully and it appears women are just as guilty. I don’t just mean via messages but at group socials too. I think it's just people rather than gender. I've turned people down politely and they've got shirty or tried to change my mind as well as accepting it gracefully. I've also been turned down, always politely, and would like to think I fall into the graceful category. There is no point in doing otherwise in my opinion; I've been on the receiving end of those who forget that there is a person on the other end of a profile with a real life and choices so I don't understand why anyone else wouldn't at least try and do the same. It's scary how many people forget there's a real person behind every profile. Or maybe they just don't care as long as they get laid.
To answer the OP- I think many women get an unrealistic view of their attractiveness due to the attention they get on here. Ego trips etc. Hypocrisy indeed when they slag off men for treating them like sex objects but do the same in return.
Nail on the head there! And the most ironic part of all this? The women complaining about being objectified and used are objectifying themselves. Just go to fuckbook/snapfuck/instafuck etc. Tits and asses everywhere with no context.
Naked/ semi naked pics and sex chat on profiles but then demanding a chat about something original and non sexual with a minimum of 180 words."Indeed, doesn't make much sense! | |||
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"I've been told by a few male friends on here that they've received a torrent of verbal abuse back from some women when they've replied with a 'thanks but no thanks'." It's true | |||
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"Only an insecure woman will take a knock back like that th rest of us think “ok onto the next” as we know we can be for everyone Most women on here are insecure. Or insane
Cuckoo cuckoo
I rest my case
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Cuckoo cuckoo
I rest my case
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"How is it received? Do you feel like you’re supposed to say yes regardless? Any other thoughts on the subject or negative things you’ve experienced after saying no? I've had a few conversations on this topic in the past couple of days. I was quite shocked to discover that ‘no’ really isn’t acceptable when a guy receives a FAF from a female. There are many threads with women complaining about men not accepting no gracefully and it appears women are just as guilty. I don’t just mean via messages but at group socials too. I think it's just people rather than gender. I've turned people down politely and they've got shirty or tried to change my mind as well as accepting it gracefully. I've also been turned down, always politely, and would like to think I fall into the graceful category. There is no point in doing otherwise in my opinion; I've been on the receiving end of those who forget that there is a person on the other end of a profile with a real life and choices so I don't understand why anyone else wouldn't at least try and do the same. It's scary how many people forget there's a real person behind every profile. Or maybe they just don't care as long as they get laid.
To answer the OP- I think many women get an unrealistic view of their attractiveness due to the attention they get on here. Ego trips etc. Hypocrisy indeed when they slag off men for treating them like sex objects but do the same in return.
Nail on the head there! And the most ironic part of all this? The women complaining about being objectified and used are objectifying themselves. Just go to fuckbook/snapfuck/instafuck etc. Tits and asses everywhere with no context.
Naked/ semi naked pics and sex chat on profiles but then demanding a chat about something original and non sexual with a minimum of 180 words.
Indeed, doesn't make much sense!"Wrong. just because a woman posts a naked pic doesn’t mean she’s entitled to be spoken to like a slapper, heaven forbid she’s posts it’s because despite the flaws she’s knows she has she accepts herself and is proud to show that hey. The attention she gets from such a pic could be considered merely a bonus not a necessity | |||
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"How is it received? Do you feel like you’re supposed to say yes regardless? Any other thoughts on the subject or negative things you’ve experienced after saying no? I've had a few conversations on this topic in the past couple of days. I was quite shocked to discover that ‘no’ really isn’t acceptable when a guy receives a FAF from a female. There are many threads with women complaining about men not accepting no gracefully and it appears women are just as guilty. I don’t just mean via messages but at group socials too. I think it's just people rather than gender. I've turned people down politely and they've got shirty or tried to change my mind as well as accepting it gracefully. I've also been turned down, always politely, and would like to think I fall into the graceful category. There is no point in doing otherwise in my opinion; I've been on the receiving end of those who forget that there is a person on the other end of a profile with a real life and choices so I don't understand why anyone else wouldn't at least try and do the same. It's scary how many people forget there's a real person behind every profile. Or maybe they just don't care as long as they get laid.
To answer the OP- I think many women get an unrealistic view of their attractiveness due to the attention they get on here. Ego trips etc. Hypocrisy indeed when they slag off men for treating them like sex objects but do the same in return.
Nail on the head there! And the most ironic part of all this? The women complaining about being objectified and used are objectifying themselves. Just go to fuckbook/snapfuck/instafuck etc. Tits and asses everywhere with no context.
Naked/ semi naked pics and sex chat on profiles but then demanding a chat about something original and non sexual with a minimum of 180 words.
Indeed, doesn't make much sense!
Wrong. just because a woman posts a naked pic doesn’t mean she’s entitled to be spoken to like a slapper, heaven forbid she’s posts it’s because despite the flaws she’s knows she has she accepts herself and is proud to show that hey. The attention she gets from such a pic could be considered merely a bonus not a necessity "I think we all know it's never acceptable to speak to someone like a slapper. Even on fab..... | |||
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Cuckoo cuckoo
I rest my case
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"How is it received? Do you feel like you’re supposed to say yes regardless? Any other thoughts on the subject or negative things you’ve experienced after saying no? I've had a few conversations on this topic in the past couple of days. I was quite shocked to discover that ‘no’ really isn’t acceptable when a guy receives a FAF from a female. There are many threads with women complaining about men not accepting no gracefully and it appears women are just as guilty. I don’t just mean via messages but at group socials too. I think it's just people rather than gender. I've turned people down politely and they've got shirty or tried to change my mind as well as accepting it gracefully. I've also been turned down, always politely, and would like to think I fall into the graceful category. There is no point in doing otherwise in my opinion; I've been on the receiving end of those who forget that there is a person on the other end of a profile with a real life and choices so I don't understand why anyone else wouldn't at least try and do the same. It's scary how many people forget there's a real person behind every profile. Or maybe they just don't care as long as they get laid.
To answer the OP- I think many women get an unrealistic view of their attractiveness due to the attention they get on here. Ego trips etc. Hypocrisy indeed when they slag off men for treating them like sex objects but do the same in return.
Nail on the head there! And the most ironic part of all this? The women complaining about being objectified and used are objectifying themselves. Just go to fuckbook/snapfuck/instafuck etc. Tits and asses everywhere with no context.
Naked/ semi naked pics and sex chat on profiles but then demanding a chat about something original and non sexual with a minimum of 180 words.
Indeed, doesn't make much sense!
Wrong. just because a woman posts a naked pic doesn’t mean she’s entitled to be spoken to like a slapper, heaven forbid she’s posts it’s because despite the flaws she’s knows she has she accepts herself and is proud to show that hey. The attention she gets from such a pic could be considered merely a bonus not a necessity
I think we all know it's never acceptable to speak to someone like a slapper. Even on fab....."Unfortunately it would seem a good proportion don’t - trust me | |||
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When its up like that 'a demand, like im some sort of performing monkey' ive no problem saying piss off no matter who it is
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Cuckoo cuckoo
I rest my case
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"How is it received? Do you feel like you’re supposed to say yes regardless? Any other thoughts on the subject or negative things you’ve experienced after saying no? I've had a few conversations on this topic in the past couple of days. I was quite shocked to discover that ‘no’ really isn’t acceptable when a guy receives a FAF from a female. There are many threads with women complaining about men not accepting no gracefully and it appears women are just as guilty. I don’t just mean via messages but at group socials too. I think it's just people rather than gender. I've turned people down politely and they've got shirty or tried to change my mind as well as accepting it gracefully. I've also been turned down, always politely, and would like to think I fall into the graceful category. There is no point in doing otherwise in my opinion; I've been on the receiving end of those who forget that there is a person on the other end of a profile with a real life and choices so I don't understand why anyone else wouldn't at least try and do the same. It's scary how many people forget there's a real person behind every profile. Or maybe they just don't care as long as they get laid.
To answer the OP- I think many women get an unrealistic view of their attractiveness due to the attention they get on here. Ego trips etc. Hypocrisy indeed when they slag off men for treating them like sex objects but do the same in return.
Nail on the head there! And the most ironic part of all this? The women complaining about being objectified and used are objectifying themselves. Just go to fuckbook/snapfuck/instafuck etc. Tits and asses everywhere with no context.
Naked/ semi naked pics and sex chat on profiles but then demanding a chat about something original and non sexual with a minimum of 180 words.
Indeed, doesn't make much sense!
Wrong. just because a woman posts a naked pic doesn’t mean she’s entitled to be spoken to like a slapper, heaven forbid she’s posts it’s because despite the flaws she’s knows she has she accepts herself and is proud to show that hey. The attention she gets from such a pic could be considered merely a bonus not a necessity "Who said that women should be spoken to like a slapper? | |||
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They most certainly do "Usually from other guys, until you work out the privacy settings for your mailbox. The last one I received was; “Wank/suck fun?” I sorted my message filters after that | |||
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"How is it received? Do you feel like you’re supposed to say yes regardless? Any other thoughts on the subject or negative things you’ve experienced after saying no? I've had a few conversations on this topic in the past couple of days. I was quite shocked to discover that ‘no’ really isn’t acceptable when a guy receives a FAF from a female. There are many threads with women complaining about men not accepting no gracefully and it appears women are just as guilty. I don’t just mean via messages but at group socials too. " I say no thanks on a regular. Ain't arsed what they believe how I should respond. Life's too set for dat s@#t | |||
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