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By *iversong321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

So the horrific meet thread has been removed. Which is a shame because there were some good points raised about safety and raising awareness.

So what do you do to make sure that you play safe on here?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

never be stupid enough to go into strangers house, we've been getting this drummed into us since we were children!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Send a message to a trusted friend on here saying who you’re going to meet, where and when.

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By *hinypants77Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Why’d the other thread get removed?

If someone’s not the same person as their pics then fuck being polite. Make an excuse and get the hell out of there ASAP.

Scary situation to be in someone’s house and they won’t let you leave. Wonder how many other girls he’s done it to? Defo report him to the police. Could be dangerous.

If you’re meeting someone. Talk on the phone, FaceTime then meet somewhere public first.

Stay safe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Common sense

*Gut feeling

These are normally right.

I've left a meet before.

The man had been drinking and was really d*unk

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By *iversong321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Why’d the other thread get removed?

If someone’s not the same person as their pics then fuck being polite. Make an excuse and get the hell out of there ASAP.

Scary situation to be in someone’s house and they won’t let you leave. Wonder how many other girls he’s done it to? Defo report him to the police. Could be dangerous.

If you’re meeting someone. Talk on the phone, FaceTime then meet somewhere public first.

Stay safe! "

No idea why it was removed. Best to not ask or this thread will be removed too. Can we keep the thread to - your top tips for keeping safe please.

Mine would be club meets only or tell a trusted friend where you are going.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Sadly we live in a scary world. While most people do meet somewhere public for an initial social, it doesn't guarantee to be any safer really. (It may make you feel more comfortable) a lot of the time people are attacked by people they know.

Telling someone who you're with, where you are and having a check in helps.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Send a message to a trusted friend on here saying who you’re going to meet, where and when."

Not necessarily of this site but yes, give the meet details to a friend and tell the person you are meeting that you have done it. They will understand if they are "genuine".

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Never do instant meets.

Always a public place for a social first.

My best friend knows exactly where I'm going, who I'm meeting.

Text her on arrival, some point during social, when I'm leaving & once I'm home.

Tracker app on my phone.

Emergency call function on my smart watch.

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