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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What was your quickest ever meet on fab. From first message to playing in person. Mine was 70 mins a few years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one, so quickest and longest are one and the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 minutes. I turned up at her place, she opened the door, and the smell hit me. You know, the dirty, unwashed, skanky smell. I made my excuses and left

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I answered a ‘meet now’ on a Friday night a couple of years ago, message in here to knocking on the door in under an hour. Was a crap meet, and the last time I did a spontaneous hookup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummmm it wasn’t from here but from a dating website, he literally came in, did his thing and then left, was with me for all of ten mins and then only said hello to me. That was a huge turning point for me to be honest!

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 mins ish...

But I already knew him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 minutes. I turned up at her place, she opened the door, and the smell hit me. You know, the dirty, unwashed, skanky smell. I made my excuses and left"
4 minutes from first message to playing in person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should add....from first message to her opening the door was about a week. 4 mins was thr length of time I was polite after I got there

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Probably around an hour or two between making first contact and meeting..

It was by chance we were only a few miles apart and finished work around the same time..

Never went further than that social and the pub we met at served overpriced shitty coffee... could have saved myself a fiver and my taste buds if we had chatted by email for a little longer...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

A week talking. Meet in person I didn't even sit down. Had the cheek to phone and ask what he'd done wrong.

Didn't hold the door for me as we entered the pub. Rushed ahead to get himself a drink and when I enquired if he was going to get me one he replied "This ain't a date love!"

Left him to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

423 days, 12 hours, 47 minutes and 14 seconds...very proud of that record

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"423 days, 12 hours, 47 minutes and 14 seconds...very proud of that record "

That's a rather vague response, try to be slightly more precise next time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was 2 days. When I first joined I got chatting to a young Marine who had been moved near me to do security for the Olympics. We chatted one day, booked the hotel the next evening.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

A couple of days on here.

Beaten by the site that might be referring to a lot of animals not on land . 20 mins on there

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Probably just over an hour. Normally I'm several weeks but am getting a glut of people expecting same day instant meets atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my long term partner an hour or two after our initial message on a Facebook app. I'm still surprised he's still interested after 7 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"423 days, 12 hours, 47 minutes and 14 seconds...very proud of that record

That's a rather vague response, try to be slightly more precise next time... "

It was a Tuesday.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"A week talking. Meet in person I didn't even sit down. Had the cheek to phone and ask what he'd done wrong.

Didn't hold the door for me as we entered the pub. Rushed ahead to get himself a drink and when I enquired if he was going to get me one he replied "This ain't a date love!"

Left him to it."

Omg seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5.6 seconds - with my favourite sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spent months messaging a woman looking for a meet. When we actually met i was there about half n hour. Didn’t go well. Left. Never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was aroused beforehand, I might add ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About twenty five mins from sitting in a bar after an afternoon of fun in a club...

I went on fab feeling I needed finishing off. Twenty five mins later I had a gorgeous man in my hotel room and when he left........

finished off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some incredibly quick meets

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"A week talking. Meet in person I didn't even sit down. Had the cheek to phone and ask what he'd done wrong.

Didn't hold the door for me as we entered the pub. Rushed ahead to get himself a drink and when I enquired if he was going to get me one he replied "This ain't a date love!"

Left him to it."

Haha what a charmer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A week talking. Meet in person I didn't even sit down. Had the cheek to phone and ask what he'd done wrong.

Didn't hold the door for me as we entered the pub. Rushed ahead to get himself a drink and when I enquired if he was going to get me one he replied "This ain't a date love!"

Left him to it.

Haha what a charmer! "

Totally appreciate that it wasn’t “ a date” but his social skills were seriously lacking by what you have written here. Thank the lord I’m not in your area. Hopefully other guys have read this and have taken note that despite this being a swinging site manners and respect cost nothing .....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"A week talking. Meet in person I didn't even sit down. Had the cheek to phone and ask what he'd done wrong.

Didn't hold the door for me as we entered the pub. Rushed ahead to get himself a drink and when I enquired if he was going to get me one he replied "This ain't a date love!"

Left him to it.

Omg seriously "

Oh yes.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"A week talking. Meet in person I didn't even sit down. Had the cheek to phone and ask what he'd done wrong.

Didn't hold the door for me as we entered the pub. Rushed ahead to get himself a drink and when I enquired if he was going to get me one he replied "This ain't a date love!"

Left him to it.

Haha what a charmer!

Totally appreciate that it wasn’t “ a date” but his social skills were seriously lacking by what you have written here. Thank the lord I’m not in your area. Hopefully other guys have read this and have taken note that despite this being a swinging site manners and respect cost nothing ..... "

In ten years, seven on Fab, he's one of four men I've met "quickly" I've regretted.

The last one I met quickly, within a week of exchanging messages was four years ago...He's snoring beside me.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've never met quickly off Fab.. Always a couple of weeks of chatting at least. But I met someone for coffee off another site after 4 days and things escalated quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 mins. Was on a night in town and just so happened to fancy who was nearby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A week talking. Meet in person I didn't even sit down. Had the cheek to phone and ask what he'd done wrong.

Didn't hold the door for me as we entered the pub. Rushed ahead to get himself a drink and when I enquired if he was going to get me one he replied "This ain't a date love!"

Left him to it."

The holding the door open part isn't so straight forward these days, - some feminazis loath it ...... but maybe not so much the freebie

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By *icepair2012Couple
over a year ago

Crewe

We had a 21 yo guy round, he saw the stockings, got his cock out and before you could know it, he was finished!!! Must have been about 30 seconds?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 minutes. I turned up at her place, she opened the door, and the smell hit me. You know, the dirty, unwashed, skanky smell. I made my excuses and left"
lol that made me laugh and ewwwwww

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"A week talking. Meet in person I didn't even sit down. Had the cheek to phone and ask what he'd done wrong.

Didn't hold the door for me as we entered the pub. Rushed ahead to get himself a drink and when I enquired if he was going to get me one he replied "This ain't a date love!"

Left him to it.

The holding the door open part isn't so straight forward these days, - some feminazis loath it ...... but maybe not so much the freebie "

If a women gets uppity about you holding the door for her, it just means she'd be happier pegging you at the end of the night

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I should add....from first message to her opening the door was about a week. 4 mins was thr length of time I was polite after I got there "

*mumbles* "i left condoms in the car, car is parked around the corner, best run there, wait here"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My most recent one, he messaged around 9pm Sunday night and met him at 7pm the following evening.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"We had a 21 yo guy round, he saw the stockings, got his cock out and before you could know it, he was finished!!! Must have been about 30 seconds?!"

Had a similar experience once... Met a guy I'd been chatting to a while, things were going great until my dress came off and I was stood there in stockings, suspender belt and corset... He never even managed to get his cock out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was actually a couple on here not sure they are on here now was chatting to woman they had been let down by a guy who they had been chatting to for ages she was annoyed ,I said I will meet you for a social oh my she wore a dress that zipe up the front one pull and I was in ,she alway featured in most fabbed pics fantastic bazoooookas ,so she said I'll have a word with hubby they meet as a couple ,I guessed the answer would be yes so I got on the road straight away and answer came back positive very sexy experience

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull


"A week talking. Meet in person I didn't even sit down. Had the cheek to phone and ask what he'd done wrong.

Didn't hold the door for me as we entered the pub. Rushed ahead to get himself a drink and when I enquired if he was going to get me one he replied "This ain't a date love!"

Left him to it.

The holding the door open part isn't so straight forward these days, - some feminazis loath it ...... but maybe not so much the freebie

If a women gets uppity about you holding the door for her, it just means she'd be happier pegging you at the end of the night"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good stuff !

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

From 1st message about meeting to meet for a social.

About 2 weeks

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Only had one, so quickest and longest are one and the same. "

Same hear

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

ive had lots of spur of the moment meets like that ..it works best for me as u dont have to waste so much time chatting with people that dont show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quickest ever meet...

Well shortest was 6 seconds...

Took me longer to type this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

70 minutes was my quickest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message to sex. Has to be about 2/3 month.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

10 minutes, burnt my tongue to get away!! He was a weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About three hours with a new person, worked out pretty well.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Quickest actual meet.... After chatting with someone for a couple of weeks, finally met for a social

It lasted all of 30seconds - The time it took me to spot his wedding ring!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"10 minutes, burnt my tongue to get away!! He was a weirdo "

How did you manage to burn tongue ?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

90 mins .... I walked in the hotel room and promptly made an excuse and left never again

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"A week talking. Meet in person I didn't even sit down. Had the cheek to phone and ask what he'd done wrong.

Didn't hold the door for me as we entered the pub. Rushed ahead to get himself a drink and when I enquired if he was going to get me one he replied "This ain't a date love!"

Left him to it.

The holding the door open part isn't so straight forward these days, - some feminazis loath it ...... but maybe not so much the freebie "

I hold the door open for whoever is behind me regardless of age or gender.

Sad state of affairs we find ourselves in really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eight hours

When I first came back to fabs. From first message to my bed

It was awesome x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"10 minutes, burnt my tongue to get away!! He was a weirdo

How did you manage to burn tongue ?"

I met him for a coffee. The coffee was hot.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think I must of misread the OP

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

A hotel meet. The guy we were supposed to meet cancelled last minute, we put up a meet today, guy answered within 15-20 mins, was at our hotel within the hour. And it was, surprisingly, a very good meet indeed. He was game for almost everything, not shy in any way so the pics and vids were good and he loved dp too.

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton

30 mins roughly.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford


"I think I must of misread the OP "

yes i think most people have

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Was 3 or 4 days from first contact (think I messaged him complimenting his profile, then we caught up in fab chat) when he said he was in town in a hotel in a few days, and we hooked up there.

I turned up in sub mode, and he had all the toys and restraints.

Good meet.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

From first message to meeting, I think about 20 hours is the shortest. Turned out great, met him more than once and will again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From first message to meeting, I think about 20 hours is the shortest. Turned out great, met him more than once and will again "
. 30 hours. Not bad

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