FabSwingers.com forum: Diseases = no rubber?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi yall. I like many other men like bareback. I’ve met a couple of girls on here and did it but then regretted it and had to go get checked out. What are your experiences? Is it rubber all the way or can bareback work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, personally, I only have sex without a condom with my partner...ALL meets are safe sex only. Its just not worth the risk to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A similar thread cane up on the Irish forums about a week ago and alot of people didn't realise that unprotected oral sex is basically the same as not having protective penetrative sex. If you're sucking dick or licking clit you're not really having safe sex. Condoms do cut the risk of getting disease through penetrative sex but you can still get chlamydia in the throat if you give oral to someone that has it.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"A similar thread cane up on the Irish forums about a week ago and alot of people didn't realise that unprotected oral sex is basically the same as not having protective penetrative sex. "

They probably didn't realise it because it's not true. The probabilities are totally different, especially in the case of HIV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A similar thread cane up on the Irish forums about a week ago and alot of people didn't realise that unprotected oral sex is basically the same as not having protective penetrative sex.

They probably didn't realise it because it's not true. The probabilities are totally different, especially in the case of HIV. "

Saved me saying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia (less likely) and hiv (rare) can all be passed on orally. When I said basically the same I slightly exaggerated to be fair but just cause the risk is lower (for some diseases) doesn't mean you're having safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia (less likely) and hiv (rare) can all be passed on orally. When I said basically the same I slightly exaggerated to be fair but just cause the risk is lower (for some diseases) doesn't mean you're having safe sex. "

No sex is 100% safe.

We all have our individual levels of risk we're willing to take.

For me bareback sex with casual partners is too much of a risk. I don't judge those who do play bare, that's their bodies, their risk, their choice and none of my business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A similar thread cane up on the Irish forums about a week ago and alot of people didn't realise that unprotected oral sex is basically the same as not having protective penetrative sex.

They probably didn't realise it because it's not true. The probabilities are totally different, especially in the case of HIV.

Saved me saying it

Saved me saying it too

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

thread number gazillion

yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the women regret it too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can bareback work how?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

And condoms offer no protection against HPV and herpes...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!

But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!

But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting"

Gotta catch 'em all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!

But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting

Gotta catch 'em all!"

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Seriously though if you're worried about sti's, stop swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Seriously though if you're worried about sti's, stop swinging ."

Especially if you're at the scrubbing your dick with Dettol after a fuck stage.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

" Seriously though if you're worried about sti's, stop swinging ."

Because we're all riddled?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

" Seriously though if you're worried about sti's, stop swinging .

Because we're all riddled? "

Because you won't relax and enjoy it.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

" Seriously though if you're worried about sti's, stop swinging .

Especially if you're at the scrubbing your dick with Dettol after a fuck stage. "

Using savlon as lube might help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi yall. I like many other men like bareback. I’ve met a couple of girls on here and did it but then regretted it and had to go get checked out. What are your experiences? Is it rubber all the way or can bareback work?"

I live on a fairly quiet street, if I open my front door, close my eyes, and run in a straight line. Chances are pretty good I could get across the road alive. But if a car is driving down the road.... I might not live through it.

Unprotected sex is a bit like that, except sometimes there is a lot more traffic than outside my house!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!

But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting

Gotta catch 'em all!"

brilliant !

Poke man , or woman bare and carch em all !

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

" Seriously though if you're worried about sti's, stop swinging ."

Best advice ever given .

There is no such thing as safe sex , so if you’re gonna spend half your life worrying about what you may catch from swinging them it’s best not to bother .

Or just go to socials , either way you’ll be a whole lot happier without having to worry about who may have this that or the other , and whether a condom stops you getting it .

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Random people of the internet, condom. Random people in a club, condom. Committed relationship after a while, BB.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

"Random people of the internet, condom. Random people in a club, condom. Committed relationship after a while, BB. "

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" Seriously though if you're worried about sti's, stop swinging ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does "can it work" mean? Why is this even a topic of conversation didn't we all learn about safe sex at the age of about 14/15? Common sense should tell you to wear a condom so don't be surprised when your dick rots off because you've been fucking about bareback.

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

We will only have unprotected sex with a guy we both use regular

And we all go for a check up at same time...others we will always use protection as are safety and health comes before any sort of sexual pleasure...even on Meets Durex must be worn for blow jobs

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Swinging is a risk. Typical year of swinging for us will incorporate all of the following events....

Oral sex (without)

Condoms put on the wrong way and then turned around (happens all the time).

Spit being used as lube for cock, fingers, etc. (Gross but it happens).

Condoms rolling off during and after play.

Jizz in eyes.

The odd regular we play with bareback who we trust (stupidly?).

So we get tested regularly and we try our best to be safe in a risky world.

S and C

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Forgot to mention guys fingering one girl and then another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex = Celibacy

Safer sex = do your risk assessment, and apply precaution as you deem fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does "can it work" mean? Why is this even a topic of conversation didn't we all learn about safe sex at the age of about 14/15? Common sense should tell you to wear a condom so don't be surprised when your dick rots off because you've been fucking about bareback."

Lots of people had utterly useless sex education. They don't realise there's any risks involved.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Random people of the internet, condom. Random people in a club, condom. Committed relationship after a while, BB. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!

But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting

Gotta catch 'em all!"

Yessss clem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!

But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting

Gotta catch 'em all!"

Can ya get a sticker book? With foils for the best ones to get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the pill, use condoms and get checked every 3 months, no different from having sex with anyone else! I know people who aren't swingers and have more sex than most, everything's a risk, if your that worried, stop having sex

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!

But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting

Gotta catch 'em all!

Can ya get a sticker book? With foils for the best ones to get?

Got got got NEED!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent from the age of about 17 to about 30 going out every week and sleeping with so many folk I lost count years and years ago all without a condom. Never caught a single solitary thing that way..std's ain't all that easy to catch apparently! And if you do, for the most part, you can just have it seen to like anything else, no worse than getting a cold or whatever really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Russian Roulette.

Do I win?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!

But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting

Gotta catch 'em all!

Can ya get a sticker book? With foils for the best ones to get?

Got got got NEED!

Swapsies!

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Ah fuck it, you can only catch them once!

But there are different strands you can get to keep things interesting

Gotta catch 'em all!

Can ya get a sticker book? With foils for the best ones to get?

Got got got NEED!

Got got got NEED! Swaps?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Surely this thread should be "No rubber = diseases"?

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