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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!! "

I dread to think why you're now so understanding

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!! "

Maybe they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!!

I dread to think why you're now so understanding "

Not sure I'm prepared to share!!!

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Blackrock


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!!

I dread to think why you're now so understanding

Not sure I'm prepared to share!!! "

What do you mean I’m not demanding. Then again I’m not a woman but i still want things my way after all if everything was your way thier would be no fun had. What the hell am I talking about. Must be the cold affecting my fingers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!!

I dread to think why you're now so understanding

Not sure I'm prepared to share!!!

What do you mean I’m not demanding. Then again I’m not a woman but i still want things my way after all if everything was your way thier would be no fun had. What the hell am I talking about. Must be the cold affecting my fingers "

Haha that made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!!

Maybe they are "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm off to the quacks later I'm thinking of asking them to chemically castrate me (if they can do that). No need for sex then

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Wrong time of the month perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!! "
is it the frustration of being here and in demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!! "

Took me months to figure it out..now I totally get it and I understand more each day lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!!

Took me months to figure it out..now I totally get it and I understand more each day lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!!

I dread to think why you're now so understanding

Not sure I'm prepared to share!!! "

Can I prepare you?

Is it this type of thing? ^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!!

I dread to think why you're now so understanding

Not sure I'm prepared to share!!!

Can I prepare you?

Is it this type of thing? ^"

Only if you aren't prepared or capable of carry through your promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!! is it the frustration of being here and in demand "

The door is always open for people to leave, it's not compulsory to stay if it's that overwhelming....

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

I’m told mine is too long and very negative, mines grown an been added to over time, if anyone wants a go at re writing it please feel free, I just get fed up of having the same conversations with guys so put everything on my profile and refer them to it when they ask the same questions over and over, I know I come across in a way that’s definitely not who I am (I actually a nice person, honest ) but ended up with this horrible profile full of warnings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m told mine is too long and very negative, mines grown an been added to over time, if anyone wants a go at re writing it please feel free, I just get fed up of having the same conversations with guys so put everything on my profile and refer them to it when they ask the same questions over and over, I know I come across in a way that’s definitely not who I am (I actually a nice person, honest ) but ended up with this horrible profile full of warnings "

Haha I know the feeling.

I'll just refer you to the post above ^^ hey after all we're not allowed to make a tongue in cheek thread without it!!

I swear some should have that as copy and paste.... Wait maybe they do?

Now where is that cliché thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!! "

I've never come across one that i'd describe in that way, must not be trying hard enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!!

I've never come across one that i'd describe in that way, must not be trying hard enough. "

Keep looking. They're out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told my profile is far too long and boring

And I have far too many pics

And I'm totally up my own ass with what I want from this site

That may be the case

But if someone is genuinely interested in wanting to get to know me then they will take the time out to read my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been told my profile is far too long and boring

And I have far too many pics

And I'm totally up my own ass with what I want from this site

That may be the case

But if someone is genuinely interested in wanting to get to know me then they will take the time out to read my profile "

That's so true. Sadly some just don't read them. Shouldn't be able to message without reading. Like terms and conditions on web sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when reading through some women's profiles they come across as narky, slightly aggressive and demanding!!

I dread to think why you're now so understanding

Not sure I'm prepared to share!!!

Can I prepare you?

Is it this type of thing? ^

Only if you aren't prepared or capable of carry through your promise "

Oh. That type of thing. That was going to be my second guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told my profile is far too long and boring

And I have far too many pics

And I'm totally up my own ass with what I want from this site

That may be the case

But if someone is genuinely interested in wanting to get to know me then they will take the time out to read my profile "

Your profile is a little on the long side but i'd describe it as exacting, there's nothing wrong with that, it's certainly not narky or aggressive. Plus you're right; if people are genuinely interested they'll take time to read it.

I think you have a gorgeous collection of photographs but i'd like to see more - roof that you can't please everyone. It's all horses for courses really.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't get it.

Yes most (not all) men are visually driven and don't read profiles but don't see the point in long winded, ranty, aggressive profiles. Makes folk look mad.

It's clear by the opening message if they've read your profile or not. When not, I simply delete and go about my day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it.

Yes most (not all) men are visually driven and don't read profiles but don't see the point in long winded, ranty, aggressive profiles. Makes folk look mad.

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Long winded , ranty profiles make me move on and get on with my day

It's a shame some women don't ask profile advice,...it's always the men for some reason, yet women don't tend to have the need to search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it.

Yes most (not all) men are visually driven and don't read profiles but don't see the point in long winded, ranty, aggressive profiles. Makes folk look mad.

It's clear by the opening message if they've read your profile or not. When not, I simply delete and go about my day "

I don't see the point either. They moan about men not reading their profiles, yet expect them to read the rant in their profile about them not reading it. I find the irony a little funny

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I do believe that guys should be made to look after a female profile on here for one week before being allowed their own male profile.. a bit like those electronic babies they make teenagers look after as a form of contraception..

It would really open their eyes to the crap that women endure..

I know this through bitter experience of being a lady for a few weeks on another site (was done as a non-malicious joke by a small group of users who frequented the chat and blogs)

As an insight to her profile, she was 3'6" tall (the smallest height the profile would allow), morbidly obese, had every sexually transmitted disease known to man and a few made up ones for good measure and her profile picture was a merged face picture of one of the ladies from our group and a pug dog....she was fugly!

And still she was inundated with messages from guys wanting to do things with her that, well, still give me nightmares a few years later!

It doesn't seem to matter what a lady writes in her profile, guys just don't read it, don't care or are oblivious that a profile even exists.

And the poor manners of some, it's like they have been to the Donald Trump charm school and come out with distinctions.. just utterly rude.

So pissed off, rude or just plain narkey, I can understand why the ladies of fab can be like that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it.

Yes most (not all) men are visually driven and don't read profiles but don't see the point in long winded, ranty, aggressive profiles. Makes folk look mad.

It's clear by the opening message if they've read your profile or not. When not, I simply delete and go about my day

I don't see the point either. They moan about men not reading their profiles, yet expect them to read the rant in their profile about them not reading it. I find the irony a little funny "

I always take time to read profiles (maybe i have too much time on my hands?), after all they're there for a reason and it's only polite. They also provide the info that helps me to decide whether to message or or not or to compose that difficult first message. One line profiles don't give a lot for us poor buggers to go on.

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