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Cuckolded, without the icky bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've developed a taste for fucking women in front of their husbands, the only problem is most couples that I have spoken to want to include an element of race play, that I'm just not comfortable with.

Should I just resign myself to this being the way things are? Am I chasing something that's not there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Race play??

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Inverness


"Race play??"

Twice round the block, loser makes the tea x

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"Race play??

Twice round the block, loser makes the tea x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I’ve ever come across as associated with cuckoldry... are you reading too much into things OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Race play??"

Where the fact that I'm black is a part of the dynamic, ie BBC, and the like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not something I’ve ever come across as associated with cuckoldry... are you reading too much into things OP?"

No not really, when I'm getting messages talking about "big black cock" this and "black bull" that, I think it's loud and clear what is going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not something I’ve ever come across as associated with cuckoldry... are you reading too much into things OP?"

Really? that amount of posts/talk on here around BBC, queen of spades tattoos, black bulls etc etc. Makes your comment sound really naive

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens


"Not something I’ve ever come across as associated with cuckoldry... are you reading too much into things OP?

No not really, when I'm getting messages talking about "big black cock" this and "black bull" that, I think it's loud and clear what is going on"

There will be people who are looking for bbc and black bull don't think it's a racist thing it's just people's preference. I for one love the fuller lady just my taste. You will get race profiling from Some people you just have to by pass these people and let them know your not comfortable with race play i guess majority of people just want fun with you..have fun mate. .

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Doesn’t sound naive to me but I have noticed a general interest in taboo aspects when it comes to cuckolding. The interracial thing being all part of the humiliation of the cuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not something I’ve ever come across as associated with cuckoldry... are you reading too much into things OP?

No not really, when I'm getting messages talking about "big black cock" this and "black bull" that, I think it's loud and clear what is going on

There will be people who are looking for bbc and black bull don't think it's a racist thing it's just people's preference. I for one love the fuller lady just my taste. You will get race profiling from Some people you just have to by pass these people and let them know your not comfortable with race play i guess majority of people just want fun with you..have fun mate. ."

Don't get me wrong, I don't think it's racist at all, people have their preferences, but I have mine

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

It's part of the kink for a lot of people, what makes you 'superior' to the cuck. How they demonstrate that shouldn't be in a manner that is derogatory to yourself.

If you are uncomfortable with it (and I am not suggesting you have to be) then don't play with them.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's part of the kink for a lot of people, what makes you 'superior' to the cuck. How they demonstrate that shouldn't be in a manner that is derogatory to yourself.

If you are uncomfortable with it (and I am not suggesting you have to be) then don't play with them.

C"

I don't see the intent being derogatory to the OP.

OP - it's your decision. If you're not sure, perhaps try it. If it's not for you then you'll find out, but it may surprise you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's part of the kink for a lot of people, what makes you 'superior' to the cuck. How they demonstrate that shouldn't be in a manner that is derogatory to yourself.

If you are uncomfortable with it (and I am not suggesting you have to be) then don't play with them.

C

I don't see the intent being derogatory to the OP.

OP - it's your decision. If you're not sure, perhaps try it. If it's not for you then you'll find out, but it may surprise you."

No I know I don't like it. I've said it before,I'm way more interesting than just what shade my skin is, most of what makes me me, is way deeper down than the layer of pigment I'm surrounded by, if it's justly skin they are interested in, I'm no better than a sex toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've developed a taste for fucking women in front of their husbands, the only problem is most couples that I have spoken to want to include an element of race play, that I'm just not comfortable with.

Should I just resign myself to this being the way things are? Am I chasing something that's not there?"

Unfortunately as a black person in this world this is something you'll get on a regular basis, as if were magical mythical creatures just because our skin is brown

As soon as someone says something about race usually I just delete the message and keep it moving.

It's a shame because they're are ALOT of white folks who genuinely find black people attractive without all the racial connotations that come with IR but the afore mentioned types ruin it for them and get our backs up. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not something I’ve ever come across as associated with cuckoldry... are you reading too much into things OP?"

Lol?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've developed a taste for fucking women in front of their husbands, the only problem is most couples that I have spoken to want to include an element of race play, that I'm just not comfortable with.

Should I just resign myself to this being the way things are? Am I chasing something that's not there?

Unfortunately as a black person in this world this is something you'll get on a regular basis, as if were magical mythical creatures just because our skin is brown

As soon as someone says something about race usually I just delete the message and keep it moving.

It's a shame because they're are ALOT of white folks who genuinely find black people attractive without all the racial connotations that come with IR but the afore mentioned types ruin it for them and get our backs up. X"

I couldn't put it better my self

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Have fun and only do what everyone is comfortable with we are all different we are all the same. .xxx

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

I wouldn't participate in anything like that, and if I hear it in a club I move away because it turns me off.

Don't participate in something you don't enjoy. This kind of racial play is grim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's part of the kink for a lot of people, what makes you 'superior' to the cuck. How they demonstrate that shouldn't be in a manner that is derogatory to yourself.

If you are uncomfortable with it (and I am not suggesting you have to be) then don't play with them.

C

I don't see the intent being derogatory to the OP.

OP - it's your decision. If you're not sure, perhaps try it. If it's not for you then you'll find out, but it may surprise you.

No I know I don't like it. I've said it before,I'm way more interesting than just what shade my skin is, most of what makes me me, is way deeper down than the layer of pigment I'm surrounded by, if it's justly skin they are interested in, I'm no better than a sex toy"

Yep a sex toy . That's how i view extras anyway .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've developed a taste for fucking women in front of their husbands, the only problem is most couples that I have spoken to want to include an element of race play, that I'm just not comfortable with.

Should I just resign myself to this being the way things are? Am I chasing something that's not there?

Unfortunately as a black person in this world this is something you'll get on a regular basis, as if were magical mythical creatures just because our skin is brown

As soon as someone says something about race usually I just delete the message and keep it moving.

It's a shame because they're are ALOT of white folks who genuinely find black people attractive without all the racial connotations that come with IR but the afore mentioned types ruin it for them and get our backs up. X"

Skin colour will come into it for some, the same way that hair colour, build etc will for others. Often they won't see any harm in drawing attention to the demograph that they like, they think it's 'complimentary' after all. However one person's viewpoint won't necessarily be that of the person they're meeting. It's quite understandable that their meet wants to be seen as more than just a certain demograph and if that's their only reason for meeting then it can cheapen the act and the desire for them enormously. To the OP I'd say his preferences for the way he wants to be treated are as valid as anyone else's and he shouldn't meet with those he feels uncomfortable with.

The way I look at it is that I find some ladies of all races attractive and some ladies of all races not. And you I find exceedingly so...

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