FabSwingers.com forum: Do women actually browse looking for men or just respond to messages?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do occasionally. Usually find the ones I like live miles away lol!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Don't think I've ever gone looking, initially out of shyness, but yea get enough messages to go through to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never looked. I just respond to people or talk to people from forums or chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been messaged a few times out of the blue except I then open my big mouth and scare everyone away

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Hence us guys have to stand out.. or up

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

I’ll look because I don’t get many I’m attracted to sending me messages, I’ll also send a first message or wink too

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

You did message me first though

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

This too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?

Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?

Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message. "

I find Naughthycal prose works

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

You did message me first though

But if I did it was only for a forum chat - you're outside my preferences for shagging lol!

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I mostly respond to messages- but I might have hotlisted them and then initiate contact myself may be months later...

have actively done some hunting when I am looking for something very particular.

and have been known to message first when someone is really interesting, mostly through forum posts etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The killer question is definitely what is the winning “Subject” title that makes women go wow he’s different. I bet 1 million are just “hey” and not gonna lie I’m bad for that sometimes haha.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?

Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message. "

Wit is the one thing that can overcome preferences, lol! I usually check the pics first, then the facts - height, accomm etc., and only if I like them do I read the copy and THEN open the message if all is good!

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By *JuicyLucyXWoman
over a year ago

notth west

I browse for nice big & thick cocks

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?

Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message.

This, I also check in the same order oddly

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?

Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message.

This, I also check in the same order oddly

Wow so many hoops...

Knew I should have learned to roll my hips

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

So what makes you open the one email. Does wit win over words?

Wonder what the killer strap line is to open the email message.

This, I also check in the same order oddly

Wow so many hoops...

Knew I should have learned to roll my hips

It's not really hoops, it's checking if they have taken any notice of preferences really - just no point wasting their time of mine if it won't work for either one of us I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I mostly respond to messages- but I might have hotlisted them and then initiate contact myself may be months later...

have actively done some hunting when I am looking for something very particular.

and have been known to message first when someone is really interesting, mostly through forum posts etc"

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Errr I think I mean gaze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.

I do indeed

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Me? Tease? Well if you insist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.

I do indeed

Oh hello indeed. So sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one or two ladies message me first so it does happen

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.

I do indeed

Rydych chi'n wraig hardd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.

I do indeed

Rydych chi'n wraig hardd

.... I'm just not funny, apparently

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.

I do indeed

Rydych chi'n wraig hardd

.... I'm just not funny, apparently

You always make me smile

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.

I do indeed

Rydych chi'n wraig hardd

.... I'm just not funny, apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.

I do indeed

Rydych chi'n wraig hardd

.... I'm just not funny, apparently

Save that tongue. It has a year's worth of work ahead of it

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.

I do indeed

Rydych chi'n wraig hardd

.... I'm just not funny, apparently

Save that tongue. It has a year's worth of work ahead of it

O it's got staying power. In more ways than one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to browse and send the odd first message if I like the look and sound of someone. On my old profile, I blocked single men for a while and did my own searching

Browse?...

I was thinking more graze

Are you calling me a cow?

Certainly not

I was just thinking of a wee nibble

You know I'm only teasing lovely

I remember your teasing

Pure filth with no vowels

Who me?

Ohhh it must be Christmas

I like my angels with dirty...everything cariad

Even speaking in my native tongue. You tease

Ooh have you got a gorgeous welsh accent? So sexy on a female.

I do indeed

Rydych chi'n wraig hardd

.... I'm just not funny, apparently

Save that tongue. It has a year's worth of work ahead of it

O it's got staying power. In more ways than one

Is that capital 'O' what I have to look forward to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save that tongue. It has a year's worth of work ahead of it

O it's got staying power. In more ways than one

Is that capital 'O' what I have to look forward to?

My tongue is my most experienced muscle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the quality of messages I am receiving. I do occasionally browse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the forums for hunting guys

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

I search for specific things sometimes. But I read the search results in the same way I read my inbox, profile first.

For me, the profile needs to have photos including a profile pic (the fewer cock pics the better), text (great if it’s funny or eye-catching but, to be honest, lots of profiles don’t have any) and no pointless Sydney University warning. Then I look at verifications as one way of judging safety.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Yes some look. It takes seconds to delete 100 messages. Not exactly quality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get 100s of messages.

If someone asks me to meet i always respond even to say sorry im not free.

I would say guys who have read my profile and reference it are more likely to get a reply.

Likewise if they have sent me a face pic where they are smiling.

Cock pics are OK just not too many

If they have taken effort to compose a witty message then yes i will reply too.

Occassionally browse men in my area but not often.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I went on the hunt once and I found what I was looking for

Generally though I just respond to messages. It’s a bit scary making the first approach but I suppose if someone really caught my eye then I might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do occasionally. Usually find the ones I like live miles away lol!"

Same here and gets annoying, but don't look that often as usually too many messages, do like to scan the hot pics tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on the hunt once and I found what I was looking for

Generally though I just respond to messages. It’s a bit scary making the first approach but I suppose if someone really caught my eye then I might. "

It is scary making the first move. Your right, and it's no different for men. Maybe this could explain why we rarely approach it in the correct way.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I occasionally look who is near but that’s as far as my searching goes.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I went on the hunt once and I found what I was looking for

Generally though I just respond to messages. It’s a bit scary making the first approach but I suppose if someone really caught my eye then I might.

It is scary making the first move. Your right, and it's no different for men. Maybe this could explain why we rarely approach it in the correct way.

When a guy sends me a pic of his apparently 10inch pride and joy, I’m not sure he’s scared

however I take your point.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Browse for and women don't get hundreds of messages a day. That's a myth

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading

Did happen. Once. She hadn't read my profile either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mainly respond but I do look at profiles when chatting in the Forums. However, I have never sent a message to a guy asking to meet, ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all women are inundated. That's a myth.

Not all women sit back waiting and wondering why there are no decent guys.

If I'm in meeting mode I go find them.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves? "

Every? I'm the exception then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?

Every? I'm the exception then."

“This member has hidden their profile”

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Not all women are inundated. That's a myth."

Ah but like to make the guys think that they do for their own self importance

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I went on the hunt once and I found what I was looking for

Generally though I just respond to messages. It’s a bit scary making the first approach but I suppose if someone really caught my eye then I might. "

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Never went looking. I either respond to an interesting message or engage someone I've been intrigued by on the forums/in the chatroom.

Its not vanity, but I kinda figure that if a guy likes the look of my profile, he'll contact me... If he hasn't, he's not interested and there's no point in me contacting him...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves? "

Yep, we are s hive and we all do exactly the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put all filters on and I browse and message who i like .But mostly only chat too friends .Too many profiles with no pics on or not verified that I avoid .

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Thankfully some ladies do indeed message first

and some will not

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?

Every? I'm the exception then.

“This member has hidden their profile” "

Yeah and?

When it's not hidden I don’t get hundreds,men just like to think that because it explains why they don't receive replies all the time.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?

Every? I'm the exception then.

“This member has hidden their profile” "

And??? Her choice what she does with her profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves? "
I can only hope ,will believe it when it happens

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

I do sometimes if I'm going to a club in another area and I'm staying in a hotel. I browse who's near and check out profiles in case I fancy a meet and I also send first messages sometimes.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Just posted on another thread, if this is the case ill never meet again!!!...no longer mail girls as they get too much mail and i assume, as its very easy, that if theyre interested they will wink or send a quick 'hi'...

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?

Every? I'm the exception then.

“This member has hidden their profile”

Yeah and?

When it's not hidden I don’t get hundreds,men just like to think that because it explains why they don't receive replies all the time. "

I don't go along with that. When you get it constantly rammed down your throat that women haven't enough seconds in the day to reply to all the 100s they get then you have to think there must be some truth to it. Obviously there will be some more than others. Personally I avoid the ones who get to page 1 of hotpics as It stands to reason they will get spammed to hell lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?

Every? I'm the exception then.

“This member has hidden their profile”

Yeah and?

When it's not hidden I don’t get hundreds,men just like to think that because it explains why they don't receive replies all the time. "

I've never had hundreds of messages a day, even the several times I've made it to top of hot pics and before I was seeing someone.

If I really want to, I'll come up with some crap excuse to message them (providing they haven't done so already!). When I'm actively looking for sex, yes, I message men first. I don't have to but I don't see why I wouldn't.

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over a year ago

"I prefer to respond - trawling through ghastly profiles is soul destroying, so many are so bad!

Maybe, but these are the same guys that are messaging you!

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over a year ago

"Really curious as I think every female on here gets about Atleast 100 messages a day and not have any time to look for themselves?

Every? I'm the exception then.

“This member has hidden their profile”

Yeah and?

When it's not hidden I don’t get hundreds,men just like to think that because it explains why they don't receive replies all the time.

I've never had hundreds of messages a day, even the several times I've made it to top of hot pics and before I was seeing someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men in my area are all 'fill in later' profile types after a fuck n go. I'm not mailing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kitty loves browsing and replying to msgs from guys.her preference is bwc's and cut.

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over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 08/12/17 11:01:19]"

Deleted by accident.

I've messaged guys first a couple of times before because I've liked the look of their profile but then didn't end up fancying them once I seen a face pic. I just reply to messages now.

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

"I’ll look because I don’t get many I’m attracted to sending me messages, I’ll also send a first message or wink too

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This!

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