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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When people ask for long detailed biography style messages, what do you write?, I am just curious because some people ask for long messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fancy a fuck?" usually does it

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


""Fancy a fuck?" usually does it "
why bother with actual words.. FAF?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Don't listen to Cougar Prey!!! His advice will get you on many people's block lists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Fancy a fuck?" usually does it why bother with actual words.. FAF? "

Why bother with words when a cock pic will do

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"When people ask for long detailed biography style messages, what do you write?, I am just curious because some people ask for long messages."

A 2000 word essay on why I'd be the best option for a great meet of course

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


""Fancy a fuck?" usually does it why bother with actual words.. FAF? "

To much effort it's about time there was a curly finger emoji

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


""Fancy a fuck?" usually does it why bother with actual words.. FAF?

Why bother with words when a cock pic will do"

Say it with cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya "

A phonecall always sorts the 'women' from the men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya

A phonecall always sorts the 'women' from the men lol "

doesnt it just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people ask for long detailed biography style messages, what do you write?, I am just curious because some people ask for long messages."

Its my opinion that people who want long drawn out messages rarely meet. I avoid them.

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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago

Near the River


"When people ask for long detailed biography style messages, what do you write?, I am just curious because some people ask for long messages."

Write something that honestly reflects you, irrespective of length and if it works then great and if not...move on, be glad that you screened out another weirdo timewaster.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I hate receiving those lengthy messages. I don't have time to read them. After the first sentence if it's boring I won't read the rest. Polite message back "thanks for the essay, not sure if made a good read as didn't read it all, sorry".

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya "

Maybe they are not alone!! Who would have thought it possible, I know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people ask for long detailed biography style messages, what do you write?, I am just curious because some people ask for long messages."

Nothing whatsoever, I don't jump through dick head hoops for people just in the hope they might talk to me

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

Long first messages do not read well. It looks either desperate, weird or copy and paste.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Long first messages do not read well. It looks either desperate, weird or copy and paste."

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Long first messages do not read well. It looks either desperate, weird or copy and paste."

I always think they are copy and paste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya "

I can't stand talking on the phone and would gladly forgo a meet if it meant no yapping on the blower personally..it's such an un comfortable experience on the phone with anyone, even friends. Chatting on the phone is not a nice experience for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I write in haiku

but it doesn't always make sense.

Refrigerator

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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago

Near the River


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya

I can't stand talking on the phone and would gladly forgo a meet if it meant no yapping on the blower personally..it's such an un comfortable experience on the phone with anyone, even friends. Chatting on the phone is not a nice experience for me "

Really??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya

I can't stand talking on the phone and would gladly forgo a meet if it meant no yapping on the blower personally..it's such an un comfortable experience on the phone with anyone, even friends. Chatting on the phone is not a nice experience for me

Really?? "

No I just thought I'd make it up

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I write in haiku

but it doesn't always make sense.

Refrigerator "

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Long first messages do not read well. It looks either desperate, weird or copy and paste.

I always think they are copy and paste"

That's because they usually are!

I like getting long messages from friends because I appreciate the effort but agree it's a bit odd when someone concocts an overly long first message for someone they don't yet know.

Personally, I like a first message which refers to me individually (in a respectful way!) and where a little effort's been made by the sender to introduce themselves. Something you can work with if you want to reply rather than four of five words (if you're lucky).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya

I can't stand talking on the phone and would gladly forgo a meet if it meant no yapping on the blower personally..it's such an un comfortable experience on the phone with anyone, even friends. Chatting on the phone is not a nice experience for me "

Im not keen on phone calls either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya

I can't stand talking on the phone and would gladly forgo a meet if it meant no yapping on the blower personally..it's such an un comfortable experience on the phone with anyone, even friends. Chatting on the phone is not a nice experience for me

Im not keen on phone calls either "

I sound terrible on the phone as I have a very deep voice

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Don't need super long messages but do need something I can work with.

Definitely more than "hi"

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"When people ask for long detailed biography style messages, what do you write?, I am just curious because some people ask for long messages."

Back in the distant past when I used to message people I would never even think of wasting my time on someone who demands these kinds of first messages. Also, why waste time concocting a long detailed first message for someone who you don't know from Adam. Just what would you write anyway? Pointless.

I save my long messages for friends, which I actually enjoy writing (and receiving) and actually mean something because I know that person. Writing a long message to someone who you don't know is bizarre.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

If they want that, and you don't know what to write, you should move on, you aren't going to be right for each other.

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya

I can't stand talking on the phone and would gladly forgo a meet if it meant no yapping on the blower personally..it's such an un comfortable experience on the phone with anyone, even friends. Chatting on the phone is not a nice experience for me

Really??

No I just thought I'd make it up"

Totally understand people not liking the idea of a phonecall. The female half of us hates it with a passion but me personally i don't mind a quick 2 minute conversation. I find it quite easy to converse and it definitely instantly closes the gap between stranger and friend. Nothing drawn out. Just a "hi, nice to put a voice the face. Thought I'd give you a quick call just to confirm we're real. Really looking forward to meeting you in person.(insert chat about meeting, where and when) Can't stop on but you've got my number now. Any problems, you call me any time."

Having said all that i don't think we've had to ring more than a couple of people to verify. Some prefer it, some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say they're pointless for a first message and a waste of time.

I mean be polite and not blunt but they're gonna decide whether to reply by looking at your profile and pics rather than the opening message in most cases

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it's a question of finding the right balance between an overly long message and a far too short one that tells the recipient nothing.

I don't often send unsolicited messages to people I've not chatted with previously or got to know through the forums, but when I have done I've always tried to include a little about me by way of introduction, something that's piqued my interest from their profile and maybe some questions so as not to leave it as a "closed" message. Of the handful of messages of that type I've sent I've only had one that didn't get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Fancy a fuck?" usually does it why bother with actual words.. FAF?

Why bother with words when a cock pic will do

Say it with cocks "

Many of them do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages that are overly long we just assume are copy and paste, then we get sent it again and know they are copy and paste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya

I can't stand talking on the phone and would gladly forgo a meet if it meant no yapping on the blower personally..it's such an un comfortable experience on the phone with anyone, even friends. Chatting on the phone is not a nice experience for me

Really??

No I just thought I'd make it up

Totally understand people not liking the idea of a phonecall. The female half of us hates it with a passion but me personally i don't mind a quick 2 minute conversation. I find it quite easy to converse and it definitely instantly closes the gap between stranger and friend. Nothing drawn out. Just a "hi, nice to put a voice the face. Thought I'd give you a quick call just to confirm we're real. Really looking forward to meeting you in person.(insert chat about meeting, where and when) Can't stop on but you've got my number now. Any problems, you call me any time."

Having said all that i don't think we've had to ring more than a couple of people to verify. Some prefer it, some don't."

I have done it before, the first lass i ever met off here i called but had been getting on for ages and to be honest, I was more prepa_ed to go out of my comfort zone to get laid back then

I dunno, I'm not naturally a great talker on the phone, I get all stammery and dunno what to say half the time. In real life I'll talk your ears off and laugh till sundown and beyond but on the phone I'm just a speechless pleb so i just don't do it now I get why people want that confirmation on the phone and I get that it works for some people but it's just not really for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya

I can't stand talking on the phone and would gladly forgo a meet if it meant no yapping on the blower personally..it's such an un comfortable experience on the phone with anyone, even friends. Chatting on the phone is not a nice experience for me

Im not keen on phone calls either "

Can we agree never to call one another then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to chat lots i prefer to have a phone conversation - amazing how many wont say hi on the phone but want to get down and dirty with ya

I can't stand talking on the phone and would gladly forgo a meet if it meant no yapping on the blower personally..it's such an un comfortable experience on the phone with anyone, even friends. Chatting on the phone is not a nice experience for me

Im not keen on phone calls either

Can we agree never to call one another then? "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people ask for long detailed biography style messages, what do you write?, I am just curious because some people ask for long messages."

Do they honestly ask for long messages? Where?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to say i have never had anybody ask for a long message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to say i have never had anybody ask for a long message"

Would you like a long one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to say i have never had anybody ask for a long message

Would you like a long one? "

dont do stumpy ones put it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to say i have never had anybody ask for a long message

Would you like a long one?

dont do stumpy ones put it that way "

I'm stumpy? I promise you,...I was sat down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to say i have never had anybody ask for a long message

Would you like a long one?

dont do stumpy ones put it that way

I'm stumpy? I promise you,...I was sat down. "

i never said you were stumpy i was generalising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to say i have never had anybody ask for a long message

Would you like a long one?

dont do stumpy ones put it that way

I'm stumpy? I promise you,...I was sat down.

i never said you were stumpy i was generalising"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually write out the entire plot to Chain Reaction starring Keanu Reeves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a few but I they always seem copy paste as don't seem personal to me , in that case I just reply thanks for your message

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I want more than a line, I don’t need a long message but something relevant and individual is what I’m after. Something with reference to your man bits in any way, including pics, is definitely not wanted

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