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"I've just read a veri describing everything this lad did to his meet (literally everything - it was like reading War & Peace). I thought thats a bit too much. What do you lot think of over detailed veri's" Like you said really. Too much information. I'll happily post on threads talking about past exploits to a certain level of detail given the thread subject matter. I don't name anyone and I believe I have never refered to anyone off fab. You are doing exactly that with a veri. Anybody reading it knows who you are talking about and what you did. Personally I don't like that. A bit of suggestion is fine. | |||
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"I've just read a veri describing everything this lad did to his meet (literally everything - it was like reading War & Peace). I thought thats a bit too much. What do you lot think of over detailed veri's Like you said really. Too much information. I'll happily post on threads talking about past exploits to a certain level of detail given the thread subject matter. I don't name anyone and I believe I have never refered to anyone off fab. You are doing exactly that with a veri. Anybody reading it knows who you are talking about and what you did. Personally I don't like that. A bit of suggestion is fine." When I talk about meets (that normally end up going wrong), I never name anyone but if I was writing a veri I would make it as polite as possible without it going on too long. | |||
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"I've just read a veri describing everything this lad did to his meet (literally everything - it was like reading War & Peace). I thought thats a bit too much. What do you lot think of over detailed veri's Like you said really. Too much information. I'll happily post on threads talking about past exploits to a certain level of detail given the thread subject matter. I don't name anyone and I believe I have never refered to anyone off fab. You are doing exactly that with a veri. Anybody reading it knows who you are talking about and what you did. Personally I don't like that. A bit of suggestion is fine. When I talk about meets (that normally end up going wrong), I never name anyone but if I was writing a veri I would make it as polite as possible without it going on too long." Yeah. I mean tongue in cheek and funny ones i like. It's the ones that say she was dripping my cum out of her for weeks after or sucks like a dyson type that I just think come on we are not meant to be reading bullshit porn stories. Some people like them no doubt. | |||
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"Haha. I just read your veri from sunderland man. That is borderline dodgy. But it made me laugh." I thought thats brilliant, i'll show that lol | |||
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"The person the veri was about put it up so they’re happy with it so it really doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks about it except the two involved in the meet. Concentrate on yourself and how you come across on here, not how others do." I agree with these 2 paragraphs. Asking what others think whilst going about your business is also acceptable behaviour on an open forum. | |||
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"Haha. I just read your veri from sunderland man. That is borderline dodgy. But it made me laugh. I thought thats brilliant, i'll show that lol" ![]() | |||
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"I've just read a veri describing everything this lad did to his meet (literally everything - it was like reading War & Peace). I thought thats a bit too much. What do you lot think of over detailed veri's" I hate them huge turn off | |||
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"Haha. I just read your veri from sunderland man. That is borderline dodgy. But it made me laugh. I thought thats brilliant, i'll show that lol ![]() You made me read a profile. Bad bad woman. ![]() | |||
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"Haha. I just read your veri from sunderland man. That is borderline dodgy. But it made me laugh. I thought thats brilliant, i'll show that lol ![]() ![]() Men don't read. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Haha. I just read your veri from sunderland man. That is borderline dodgy. But it made me laugh. I thought thats brilliant, i'll show that lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Would you have preferred just one big one? | |||
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"Haha. I just read your veri from sunderland man. That is borderline dodgy. But it made me laugh. I thought thats brilliant, i'll show that lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm sure there's an ice cream that looks like your snowdick ![]() | |||
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"I won't dictate how someone writes their veris for me/us, if I find it too graphic then I can choose to hide it, so no issues there. I don't see the point in multiple veris from the same person, two or three maximum, it's great that it shows they are nice enough people to meet again but veris are to show they're real right? After three veris I'm sure that's proved it! ![]() If you enjoy reading the veri and it makes you smile why not let them write it? Its up to you if you want to display it or not. If someone wants to take the time to show that they appreciate the time spent together I say let them ![]() | |||
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"Got to love an amusing verification. The overly polite ones make me a bit "did I do something wrong" Detailed ones are a bit cringey. Even though I have displayed one or 2 if they've not disappeared. " I love the funny ones too... Sometimes they won't even make sense to anyone else but me, but that makes them even more special ![]() | |||
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"I won't dictate how someone writes their veris for me/us, if I find it too graphic then I can choose to hide it, so no issues there. I don't see the point in multiple veris from the same person, two or three maximum, it's great that it shows they are nice enough people to meet again but veris are to show they're real right? After three veris I'm sure that's proved it! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don’t show mine anymore nor do I show my veri summary. However I got some funny ones from the Manchester Social ![]() We want to read your funny ones | |||
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"I only ever leave 1 or 2 words ask anyone ![]() ![]() You'd know if you wasn't such a stuck up deva ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Haha. I just read your veri from sunderland man. That is borderline dodgy. But it made me laugh. I thought thats brilliant, i'll show that lol" 4 hours... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Haha. I just read your veri from sunderland man. That is borderline dodgy. But it made me laugh. I thought thats brilliant, i'll show that lol4 hours... ![]() ![]() I did brilliant that day ![]() | |||
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"I only ever leave 1 or 2 words ask anyone ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() oi - that is so not me ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Personally I think Veris should be simple tick in the box: did they turn up - yes, is their profile genuine are they like their pics - yes, do you have a good time - yes. I prefer the intimacies to be kept between myself and the whoever was involved....." This is exactly what I was talking to Peach this morning about....more than just style in common, my man ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I only ever leave 1 or 2 words ask anyone ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know guess you'd better tell me off at the next 1 ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I only ever leave 1 or 2 words ask anyone ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() good job i hope youre jesting - and i will | |||
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"You read the whole verification?" Yeah it was full on blow by blow account with all the gory details | |||
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"You read the whole verification? Yeah it was full on blow by blow account with all the gory details" Did you not enjoy reading it? | |||
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"You read the whole verification? Yeah it was full on blow by blow account with all the gory details Did you not enjoy reading it?" Wasnt bad but it was strange as in why all the gory details | |||
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"I usually don't go into much detail" I left a veri about 2 yrs ago saying met this lady on a night out and she was lovely. Something like that I'd write on others | |||
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"I only ever leave 1 or 2 words ask anyone ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oops missed this ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() I like reading other peoples veris too ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() I like having a reason to get one... ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh I do too, I haven’t had one of those ones in ages though ![]() | |||
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"Personally I think Veris should be simple tick in the box: did they turn up - yes, is their profile genuine are they like their pics - yes, do you have a good time - yes. I prefer the intimacies to be kept between myself and the whoever was involved..... This is exactly what I was talking to Peach this morning about....more than just style in common, my man ![]() ![]() Great minds think alike ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Welcome to a lonely bladey world sniff sniff. I do like writing a good veri though and if I do say so myself when I'm on my game I can give some crackers. The recipients may not always feel quite that way about them but fuck it you can't please everyone ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() The one you wrote me made me laugh ![]() | |||
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"One of the sad things about this forum is that people are so often quick to put others down about anything ... keyboard warriors ruin the experience for everyone and I think it's a big shame Jus' sayin' ![]() ![]() Fuck em not worth the energy never mind the wasted fonts ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Good that's always my intention but it can't of been that good the fuckers not there ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() hahah i know - i went to read it ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I didn't even realise it was still hidden... I only unleashed them recently lol. Its out and proud now Bladey xx ![]() | |||
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"One of the sad things about this forum is that people are so often quick to put others down about anything ... keyboard warriors ruin the experience for everyone and I think it's a big shame Jus' sayin' ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Wow that from the 1st social haven't I done you 1 from last weekend where are my manners. Bad bladey ![]() | |||
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"One of the sad things about this forum is that people are so often quick to put others down about anything ... keyboard warriors ruin the experience for everyone and I think it's a big shame Jus' sayin' ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It's not about putting others down minxy. People are different. Some love full detailed veris, others prefer pricacy. | |||
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"What others want to say about their meets is up to themselves... But personally I don't write explicit veris and prefer not to receive them." Totally ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Pfffftttt.... What are you going to say? She remembered to bring a change of shoes and she didn't dribble her Korma at dinner? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I've a very vivid imagination who knows what little gems could pop out.... ok I'm good at taking the piss is probably more the truth ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Do your worst ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() How bad could it be? 'She followed me everywhere... Couldn't shake her off... I'm considering a restraining order next time she's over...' ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like reading other peoples ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() My report will be on your desk by morning ![]() | |||
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"One of the sad things about this forum is that people are so often quick to put others down about anything ... keyboard warriors ruin the experience for everyone and I think it's a big shame Jus' sayin' ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know BUT why pull some one down for liking either one?? Each to their own surely? X | |||
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"its none of our business really " Kind of is. Thats the whole point of a verification. You display them so the rest of fab know you're genuine? ![]() | |||
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"its none of our business really Kind of is. Thats the whole point of a verification. You display them so the rest of fab know you're genuine? ![]() Or hide them. And then it's no-Ines business | |||
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"I've just read a veri describing everything this lad did to his meet (literally everything - it was like reading War & Peace). I thought thats a bit too much. What do you lot think of over detailed veri's" Agree, there's just no need. Puts us straight off if its graphic ![]() | |||
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"its none of our business really Kind of is. Thats the whole point of a verification. You display them so the rest of fab know you're genuine? ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"its none of our business really Kind of is. Thats the whole point of a verification. You display them so the rest of fab know you're genuine? ![]() ![]() ![]() Yep. But also yes i agree this forum can drag you into taking shots at people. You need thick skin sometimes. We've been the brunt of it more than once and it was direct. No one has been pointed out here. | |||
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"its none of our business really Kind of is. Thats the whole point of a verification. You display them so the rest of fab know you're genuine? ![]() ![]() ![]() Veris... You're damned if you do... You're damned if you don't... I don't care anymore. My veris are mine and I like them, whether they're social ones, play ones, one-off ones or repeat ones. I know the story behind each one and they make me smile, that's all that matters ![]() | |||
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"its none of our business really Kind of is. Thats the whole point of a verification. You display them so the rest of fab know you're genuine? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"its none of our business really Kind of is. Thats the whole point of a verification. You display them so the rest of fab know you're genuine? ![]() Really?? You require an endorsement from others to prove people are "genuine". Veries like everything on fab are optional and if anyone is unable to make their own decisions here about people without demanding references from others then do they do the same away from this site. All they indicate is 2 or more people have met...those people will always have a different dynamic to our own meeting with them. Wanders back into man cave shaking head.... | |||
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"its none of our business really Kind of is. Thats the whole point of a verification. You display them so the rest of fab know you're genuine? ![]() Yes. Really. Whether you like it or not. Or whether you take heed of veris or not the fact remains as you quite rightly pointed out, it proves that 2 people did infact meet. Therefore you can be quite confident that someone with a number of veris is not a fake profile. Quite an important tool on a site that is free to join and no doubt attracts lots of fakes and timewasters. Do people demand references away from this site? Yes of course, in certain areas of life. We use references in all walks of life including Jobs and eBay but to name 2. And we don't demand a verification on here but the site offers it as a filter which we do use. Optional ![]() | |||
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"I find detailed explicit veris to be quite tacky and crass . I prefer just simple short ones. Thiugh each to their own Least we can hide veris ![]() ![]() | |||
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"its none of our business really Kind of is. Thats the whole point of a verification. You display them so the rest of fab know you're genuine? ![]() The voice of sensible as usual ![]() ![]() | |||
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