FabSwingers.com forum: Well dressed men

By *leasing_to_the_thighs OP Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

As a young guy i find myself in the routine of paying ridiculous amounts of money for clothing just wondered do you ladys take any notice, or could i just wear any old tat and get away with it? i do find it gives me a little more confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes most women do and if you smell nice its also a bigger bonus

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nice clothes shows you have made an effort and it goes down well with me and I'm sure most other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I buy mine from matalan xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer 'em 'Sharp- Dressed', myself but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prefer 'em 'Sharp- Dressed', myself but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like a guy to look nice and smell nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice classic clothes, good grooming and decent aftershave ..... all work in a guys favour. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really fussed about expensive clothing on anyone so long as they look smart and comfortable what they are wearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends. If you're coming to clean my drains, mow my lawn etc, wear any old tat you like.

However, if you turned up for a meet looking like you have just cleaned drains I would ignore you.

Doesn't take much effort to make a good impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not really fussed about expensive clothing on anyone so long as they look smart and comfortable what they are wearing."

Ya thinks I looks snazzy in me costumes anyway xx

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Usually keep an eye out, and if I see something I like, wait until the sales now. Loads on online clothes firms do some good bargains.

Mind you my taste in shirts can be a bit James May sometimes.

The grooming, need more space in bathroom cupboard now than I ever have before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a turn off when a guy doesn't make an effort, that said you don't have to spend a fortune...I find it really sexy when a guy wears jeans that show off his bum and nice shirt

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Clothes don't have to be expensive but a man must be well dressed to make an impression.

Suited or casual in T shirt and jeans - they have to be classy to a degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just no footy shirts unless you are on the pitch. Definite turn off for me.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Early days, a ouple on cam asked for a pic. I sent one and shortly after asked the obvious "What do you think?"

"Take the fucking tie off" was the actual reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at the shoes- if they are well cared for and clean, I am impressed.

Not a fan of trainers when turning up for meets, on men.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Prefer 'em 'Sharp- Dressed', myself but each to their own

Just wondering, do "Sharp Dressed" like "legs" and provide "pear Necklace"'s?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Legs and Pearl **

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By *ayne n JockCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Maybe not right .. judging book by cover sort of thing BUT

..It's a first impressions thing .. if someone has not put much thought & effort into their appearance .. have they for their grooming???

If the clothes are creased or chin unshaven .. is the body clean / smelling fresh & pubic hair shaven / trimmed?

Just a thought that crosses my mind [as a woman] when I meet someone

We all only get once chance to make a 1st impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes hun we do notice i like a guy to look nice and smell great

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By *leasing_to_the_thighs OP Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

ha ha thats a bit harsh init,

cheers for the feedback atleast i no im not wasting my time

i always like to think im well dressed and smell fresh

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

First impressions do count, are the requirements relaxed a little on repeat occasions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just no footy shirts unless you are on the pitch. Definite turn off for me. "

What about Footy Shorts !!

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By *ayne n JockCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"ha ha thats a bit harsh init,

cheers for the feedback atleast i no im not wasting my time

i always like to think im well dressed and smell fresh "

HARSH?? sorry if you think so but you did ask .. so thought you wanted the truth LOL Keep putting in the effort and someone will notice & appreciate you for it

Just like us females that make the effort to buy & wear sexy outfits / lingerie to feel attractive and please our 'partners'

I am sure you guys appreciate that!! hahaha x

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By *leasing_to_the_thighs OP Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

"ha ha thats a bit harsh init,

cheers for the feedback atleast i no im not wasting my time

i always like to think im well dressed and smell fresh

HARSH?? sorry if you think so but you did ask .. so thought you wanted the truth LOL Keep putting in the effort and someone will notice & appreciate you for it

Just like us females that make the effort to buy & wear sexy outfits / lingerie to feel attractive and please our 'partners'

I am sure you guys appreciate that!! hahaha x"

no not harsh to you i was talking to the guy who sad somethin about them saying lose the fucking tie lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Just no footy shirts unless you are on the pitch. Definite turn off for me.

What about Footy Shorts !!

only if they don't have green on them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just no footy shirts unless you are on the pitch. Definite turn off for me.

What about Footy Shorts !!

only if they don't have green on them!!

or - faded - er - pink x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Jeans and a t-shirt does it for me. I don't need a guy to wear a 3 piece suit (unless they're Al Pacino!), but please don't wear polo shirts. They are such a turn off for me.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Just no footy shirts unless you are on the pitch. Definite turn off for me.

What about Footy Shorts !!

only if they don't have green on them!!

or - faded - er - pink x

oh, you're in trouble now!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just no footy shirts unless you are on the pitch. Definite turn off for me.

What about Footy Shorts !!

only if they don't have green on them!!

or - faded - er - pink x

oh, you're in trouble now!!! x"

ooops - its not me who has a nice bum in the pink undies !!! - but were the pink to begin with tho ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a guy who dresses nicely and takes pride in his appearance both fully clothed and naked.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I like a guy who dresses nicely and takes pride in his appearance both fully clothed and naked.

+1 I dont go round looking at the labels in the clothing to see if its designer. As long as they have made an effort, are clean and tidy thats what counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a guy to be dressed nice but it has to be in something he himself in comfortable in. Some guys cant carry off a suit and they just look scruffy.

Im all for people being individual so as long as they have made an effort, whatever that may be, then its all ok eg; if I was meeting Marilyn Manson, I wouldnt expect him to turn up wearing a jumper and trousers.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

This thread reminds me of a lady I use to stay in touch with when I first joined, she arranged to meet two blokes at a Hotel, both turned up scruffy with jeans and trainers on, and neither of them offered to buy her a drink, and yet they expected free sex.

No surprise she left in disgust, and jacked in on here as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at the shoes- if they are well cared for and clean, I am impressed.

Not a fan of trainers when turning up for meets, on men."

What if they are trainers that have come from a sports car?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend a lot on clothes and tend to buy what I find comfortable, although I try and wear what is appropriate to the situation I am in.

I spend all week in a suit, so at weekend the casual stuff comes out.

I live in trainers, t-shirts and jeans of a weekend.

Shoes wise, I have 2 pairs for work, 3 pairs of boots and in the region of 15 pairs of trainers.

I am a bit of an aftershave fan too - think there are 8 bottles on my bedroom drawers at the mo

I tend to buy light fragrances, but the 1 that gets the the most comments is Chanel Bleu - which was a prezzie !

Whether people notice or not doesn't really bother me greatly. What is more important is that I feel comfy and confident in whatever I wear.

In answer to the OP, yes people do take notice but they will notice YOU more than the clothes - the clothes merely set off how you look and feel - so if dressing nice makes you feel good it will shine through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at the shoes- if they are well cared for and clean, I am impressed.

Not a fan of trainers when turning up for meets, on men.

What if they are trainers that have come from a sports car?

I couldn't care less! Am not a snob, its just a preference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Costs me a fortune in gold paint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care how much people spend on their clothes, i just dont like old clothes. Trainers are ok if there new. I like bright colors and stripey shirts.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"I look at the shoes- if they are well cared for and clean, I am impressed.

Not a fan of trainers when turning up for meets, on men.

What if they are trainers that have come from a sports car?

I couldn't care less! Am not a snob, its just a preference!

so if I turn up in our sports car I'm in with a chance then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is gonna sound wrong coming from a bloke, but I spend more on grooming products and underwear than I do on clothes they only end up on the floor in a heap anyway

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"This is gonna sound wrong coming from a bloke, but I spend more on grooming products and underwear than I do on clothes they only end up on the floor in a heap anyway

Do you kep yer socks on though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is gonna sound wrong coming from a bloke, but I spend more on grooming products and underwear than I do on clothes they only end up on the floor in a heap anyway

Do you kep yer socks on though?

hell no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is gonna sound wrong coming from a bloke, but I spend more on grooming products and underwear than I do on clothes they only end up on the floor in a heap anyway

Do you kep yer socks on though?

hell no

Not even when you have sandals on...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at the shoes- if they are well cared for and clean, I am impressed.

Not a fan of trainers when turning up for meets, on men.

What if they are trainers that have come from a sports car?

I couldn't care less! Am not a snob, its just a preference!

so if I turn up in our sports car I'm in with a chance then?

Depends on your shoes lol

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

"I look at the shoes- if they are well cared for and clean, I am impressed.

Not a fan of trainers when turning up for meets, on men.

What if they are trainers that have come from a sports car?

I couldn't care less! Am not a snob, its just a preference!

so if I turn up in our sports car I'm in with a chance then?

Depends on your shoes lol

My mate got out of his 1977 Corvette Stingray yesterday, with bloody flip flops on! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at the shoes- if they are well cared for and clean, I am impressed.

Not a fan of trainers when turning up for meets, on men.

What if they are trainers that have come from a sports car?

I couldn't care less! Am not a snob, its just a preference!

so if I turn up in our sports car I'm in with a chance then?

Depends on your shoes lol

My mate got out of his 1977 Corvette Stingray yesterday, with bloody flip flops on! Lol

See....

Turn on... car.... turn off... hobbit feet!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"I look at the shoes- if they are well cared for and clean, I am impressed.

Not a fan of trainers when turning up for meets, on men.

What if they are trainers that have come from a sports car?

I couldn't care less! Am not a snob, its just a preference!

so if I turn up in our sports car I'm in with a chance then?

Depends on your shoes lol

always smart and well polished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a young guy i find myself in the routine of paying ridiculous amounts of money for clothing just wondered do you ladys take any notice, or could i just wear any old tat and get away with it? i do find it gives me a little more confidence "

You dont have to spend a fortune you just have to get things that suit you.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Just no footy shirts unless you are on the pitch. Definite turn off for me.

What about Footy Shorts !!

only if they don't have green on them!!

or - faded - er - pink x

oh, you're in trouble now!!! x

ooops - its not me who has a nice bum in the pink undies !!! - but were the pink to begin with tho ??

yes!! I save the maroon ones for match days...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont have to spend a fortune you just have to get things that suit you.

to true

good dress sense isnt determined by brand and how much uve spent on whatever item of clothing. i learnt that more as i got older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good dress sense isn't as important as style and presence.

Some people could make a hop sack look great.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

As long as the clothes are clean, ironed and not falling apart, then that is good enough for me.

Have never checked someones labels to see if they are designer or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not really fussed about expensive clothing on anyone so long as they look smart and comfortable what they are wearing."

As long as you've made a bit of an effort. I think everyone feels that bit more confidant when they have made an effort & it shows in how you carry yourself.

There's nothing sexier than confidence & knowing someones has made an effort to impress you.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I am always dressed the same for all of my sexual conquests.

Fez

Cravat

Purple velvet smoking jacket with gold piping

Tuxedo trousers with satan side flash

Persian slippers.

These are all easy to remove for when I start my seduction and begin my 'funky's magic naked dance of love' to the theme tune of 'Tales of the Unexpected'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a man in jeans and a nice bright white t-shirt. Not really into designer labels. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always best to look smart and happy in what you are wearing lol not scruffy and clean shaven and clean teeth, dog breath aint good lol.

As for the sock thing its always a no no to keep them on during sex, see loads of pictures of guys with them on on here and its the worst look. have spoke to couples who have to actually ask some guys to take them off before starting which aint good!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always best to look smart and happy in what you are wearing lol not scruffy and clean shaven and clean teeth, dog breath aint good lol.

Agreed but just occasionally the feet underneath ain't that attractive either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always best to look smart and happy in what you are wearing lol not scruffy and clean shaven and clean teeth, dog breath aint good lol.

ach ya see the 'trick' is to do the undressing for them - that way they don't get the option to leave them on !

you just have to hope they have clipped their toenails and the socks don't reveal yellowing talons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks awful when men dont cut their toenails properly.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Have been known to put together an outfit

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I have to wear a sock to keep the Trojan on.

Usual disclaimer applies.

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