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By *ammyharrogate OP   Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Why do men reply with your loss of you don’t want to meet or chat to them ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Because they think it's your loss to miss out on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can?

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Because some guys can't handle rejection with grace..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dented male ego is a thing to behold!! I'm more impressed if they gracefully accept a no thanks and wish you well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a lot of trouble last night trying to explain the meaning of the phrase to someone...i think it's a mixture of dented ego and being just a wee bit thick.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why do men reply with your loss of you don’t want to meet or chat to them ?

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Self entitled wankers covers it I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dented male ego is a thing to behold!! I'm more impressed if they gracefully accept a no thanks and wish you well. "

Exactimundo. If somebody isn't interested in you , then why take it further? Certainly no point in rubbing them up the wrong way!

I'm actually impressed if a lady replies with a no thank you. You ladies get shed loads of messages and if you take time to reply it is appreciated.......Even if it is no. Lol

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa


"Why do men reply with your loss of you don’t want to meet or chat to them ?

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Is that what they refer to as ‘reverse psychology’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men reply with your loss of you don’t want to meet or chat to them ?

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Dunno. Ask them.

I'm taking your word for it that you had a message or you turned them down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dented male ego is a thing to behold!! I'm more impressed if they gracefully accept a no thanks and wish you well. "

My usual reply to the “you’re not my type” message is - no worries, good luck and be safe

Unless they’ve been insulting... then a reply kind might be given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest that it is mostly the "hotter" guys that have this reaction as they are less used to rejection. Us guys who sit about a steady 5-7 / 10 are generaly nicer guys, having to actualy have humility/personality to even get a foot in the door in most cases. I know this is a sweeping generaliseation, and there are ass hats at all levels of the scale and to those this does not apply to i appologise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a sign of someone who lacks self confidence and cannot respecfully accept not everyone will want to meet them. By saying that, they are trying to make the negative more bearable, having the last word so to speak. If it makes them feel better then so be it but I think its quite immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men reply with your loss of you don’t want to meet or chat to them ?

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I think they see themselves as something special and that you’d be a lucky girl to be graced by their company, like you’re turning down a lottery win or something big.

Don’t saying ‘your loss’ would ever change anyone’s mind ever... all a bit petty and childish if you ask me

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"The dented male ego is a thing to behold!! I'm more impressed if they gracefully accept a no thanks and wish you well. "
Says more about them than you, with that I'll eff orf

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

I send out a brave few messages every day I might get the odd reply we chat swap pic and that's as far as it goes the women might block or say not my type I will reply thanks for getting back to me and good luck on fab simple

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